Shadowing Practice: Do Brits Really Respect Their Mothers? - Learn English Speaking with Video
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If you want to get to know the British people a little better
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and pick up some proper intermediate to advanced vocabulary while you're at it, then this video is for you.
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Because it's all about the relationship between mothers, and their children, how we show it,
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how we don't, and whether the way British parents disciplined kids a generation ago actually made any difference at all.
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I'd say a spoiler here is I had a firm opinion on this five years ago when I recorded this,
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and I'm not sure I agree with myself anymore.
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There's also some poetry near the end of this one, so yeah, brace yourself for that,
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but to be clear, rerun from earlier in the show's history, but it's a good one and well worth revisiting. So enjoy.
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So Mother's Day, formerly known as Mothering Sunday in the UK, is celebrated four Sundays before Lent.
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And for those of you who aren't in the know of what Lent is, it is the preparation or the build -up to Easter.
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And most people give something up in the UK for Lent.
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Some people give up chocolate, some people give up sweets.
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it would be a clever idea to say I'm giving up school for Lent but that didn't go down too well.
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So Mother's Day usually falls in March.
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I think it always comes in March.
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But yeah, the date changes a lot as it is in relation to when Easter is, which varies depending on the cycle of the moon.
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I could go into more detail, but...
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It's a bite -sized one and I don't want to bore you too much.
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Okay, so it's it's based on a religious event, but The younger generations of the UK,
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we don't really see it as that, and yet we still take part in it.
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Even though, yeah, the younger generations of the UK are becoming far less religious, and at the same time atheism is on the up.
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is on the up something is on the up it's uh rising um
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but yeah we don't really see mother's day as a day to celebrate only
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because you're religious most people take part in it
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and i certainly do um it's it's similar to father's day
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or even um you know valentine's day pancake day
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or even really easter sunday a lot of people nowadays we don't really think too much about the religious
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kind of even similar to Christmas, but we are aware that we're doing that.
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We take part in it through habits mostly, because it's usually a time to acknowledge a person or a relationship in your life,
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Or regarding pancake day, I guess it's just to eat your weight in flour, baking powder and sugar.
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Yeah.
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Either way, it's a good time.
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So yes, it's a day in the religious calendar, but most of the British people I know celebrate Mother's Day just to be a nice child.
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Yeah.
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Now, I'm not a perfect child with this one.
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I've occasionally forgotten it, so I don't stick to it religiously.
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Pardon the pun.
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Let me pause you there quickly.
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I'm using quite a bit of natural, slightly advanced English in this episode.
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And I know from experience, it's very easy as a listener to just nod along
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and not fully take in the vocabulary that I'm saying that could enhance your speaking skills.
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than stopping this video every five seconds and turning this into just a vocabulary lesson, I've made a free PDF for you to grab right now.
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It's got the key phrases,
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So if you want to actually remember what you're hearing right now, then scan the QR code on screen or
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The free worksheet will be waiting for you in your email inbox.
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I do understand it's not magic.
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I get it.
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I think.
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I mean, I don't get it, but I get it.
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Grab that and let's carry on.
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I don't stick to it religiously, pardon the pun.
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And I blame that on my sisters.
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I've noticed that a lot of my friends who have sisters, they rely on them to remind them it's Mother's Day soon.
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It's naughty, I know.
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We need to think for ourselves, and I probably have to now that my sisters have got kids, and they're far too busy to think about their forgetful younger brother.
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And it's probably also because I've turned 30, so they might think, hang on.
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He's a fully grown adult now.
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No need to look after him.
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He's on his own.
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Either way, in my opinion, daughters are generally more thoughtful and better at planning ahead for Mother's Day and for most things.
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And I'd be interested to know your take on this.
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So do write in.
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Is it about the gender differences or is it culturally impacting?
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How I see that mothers and daughters can end up being really close friends as the daughter ages, whereas...
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Sons in a heterosexual relationship, they tend to gravitate towards their female partner's family or what we call the in -laws.
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Probably from how I see it, because the mother and daughter bond is often stronger than,
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you know, a mother, son or a father and son.
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The mother and daughter is something about it that seems to be quite special.
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And I've heard lots of mothers or...
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mothers -to -be saying, "Oh no, I really want a daughter.
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and they're hoping that they'll one day be their best friend.
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If it's different for your culture, let me know.
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I'd love to hear.
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OK, so Mother's Day is seven days away for me as I record this episode.
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And yeah, no sign of a reminder from either of my sisters.
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So I have to use my own initiative and think, what would I like to get my mother to do? to
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symbolise my endless gratitude for her making me for her feeding me and giving me an upbringing worthy of a king, really.
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And I've concluded that a card will probably suffice.
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And so Moonpig .co .uk gets a spike of traffic and orders.
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Moonpig is an online card designing and mailing service that started about 20 years ago in the UK.
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Now it's in America and Australia.
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And it's really user friendly.
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And that's why it's the episode sponsor.
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No, I'm joking.
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Create a little card and send it to my mother It's also good for birthday cards and stuff But yeah,
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Mother's Day They get a lot of business I imagine Um And then they always do this thing.
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When you've designed the card, you've written it, you're sending it, and then they say...
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Is that it?
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Don't you want to give the person that created you like a cuddly toy or...
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you know, at the bare minimum, a bouquet of flowers, which I often succumb to, not out of guilt, But out of feeling good about myself.
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Good about myself for spending more than a couple of pounds on my mother, who is quite honestly the most selfless,
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wonderful mother I've ever been a son to.
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But I do love her endlessly.
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And it makes me laugh that I think I've accomplished my task if I send her flowers and a card.
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It's pathetic, really, in comparison to what she's done for me.
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I don't think she'd prefer me to offer her my nipple for breakfast, lunch and tea for six to 12 months.
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So what can be done? a token.
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A token of love.
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Sent on Mothering Sunday.
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A card and flowers.
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representing so much more.
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Hopefully.
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Now, Being on the opposite side of the world, I'm not expected, or I don't think I'm expected, to make the trip back for her for this day.
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Unlike, um...
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Christmas for example where we do tend to have an assumption
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of all returning to our families to spend you know this deepest,
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darkest, yet jolliest month of the year together in the UK.
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But when I was residing in the UK, I would spend the whole day with my family, being that bit more attentive and loving to the mother hen.
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And we'd go out somewhere for lunch, typically, and maybe have a walk together
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and then go to the grandparents to let my mother wish her mother a happy Mother's Day.
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And I'm sure in the future, when we're all living to 200, this will be a rather humorous day of hopping from one generation of mothers to the next.
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You know, it might even spill over to the next day.
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I have two days of this to allow for travel time between mothers.
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Oh, and I do also remember when I was a child, I remember attempting to prepare breakfast in bed for my mum.
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And bring it through with a smile on my face thinking,
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"I'm an actual legend of a son right now." legend.
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But yeah, coming to think of it, I believe it was just a piece of toast and a glass of orange juice on a tray.
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So yeah, I'm worried how easy it is to get legendary status in my mind.
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Imagine my movie title.
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Legendary tales of a living legend.
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Charlie and his breakfast in bed for his mum.
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Now, if we look beyond what my movie trailer might sound like and think about how us Brits treat our mothers, not just on Mother's Day,
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but in general, I'd say that we don't really have a clear identity or idea on this area.
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I hear of the Italians looking after their grandparents very well
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and Koreans can't even take a sip of water in the direction of their seniors at a dinner table, apparently.
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little towards our mothers.
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I feel comfortable saying that my parents' generation who grew up in the 60s and 70s,
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they feared their parents' wrath a bit more so than my generation who grew up in the 90s and noughties.
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And yeah, we weren't.. hit very often.
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We would get occasional little smacks on the bum if we were out, if we really were naughty.
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But they were, in my opinion at the time, they were, um, Acceptable.
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No, at the time I hated it.
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But now I think they were very acceptable and they were very far and few between.
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But if we look at the youngest generation right now,
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I think it's incredibly uncommon to see a parent hit or even smack a child on the bum if they were naughty. So, I wonder.
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I wonder if it's something to do with that, whether, you know, the fear of physical force leads to respect. But...
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I don't want this to encourage you to go out and smack your children.
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I, um, I think nowadays we've got far more intelligent and psychological approaches to disciplining our children.
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And, you know, installing fear in a child probably does a huge amount more problems than I'm not currently highlighting.
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So, yeah, I definitely am anti -trail.
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I'm definitely anti -smacking.
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I'm anti -hitting kids.
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There we go.
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I've said it.
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I'm anti -hitting kids.
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Can we all agree on that?
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Thank you.
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Anyway, I'd say British people aren't particularly respectful of their mothers in comparison to other cultures.
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I wouldn't be disrespectful of my mother.
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I don't feel like I'm disrespectful.
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But yeah, just again, comparing, I think...
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I...
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as a teenager and as my friends were, we would talk back to our mums occasionally.
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We would challenge their authority, especially as teenagers.
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But then when a son gets stronger, he might start to leave the mother alone
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and instead turn his attention to challenging the father of the family to test his limits.
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But before I start delving into the Oedipus complex, we will leave it there.
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Although this has actually led me to think about how we treat our mother's as we age,
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as we grow up, and how we are with the older generations.
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But I've already run out of time on this Bite Size episode, so I will hold that thought for another mini episode in a couple of weeks.
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And to end on a loving note for all the mothers out there, here are two poems to celebrate Mother's Day.
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Right, time to get soppy.
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Soppy.
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Emotional.
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A bit.
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pathetic in a loving way.
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Putting on the soppy voice now: "For all the times,
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you gently picked me up when I fell down." For all the times you tied my shoes and tucked me into bed.
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or needed something but put me first instead.
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For everything we shared, The dreams, the laughter and the tears.
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I love you with a special love that deepens every year.
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And a slightly less soppy one.
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You taught me to say please and thanks.
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Because politeness is the way. So...
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Please Can I borrow some money?
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Thanks.
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Just kidding.
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Happy Mother's Day.
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And those were both written by...
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unknown, a very well unknown poet in today's society online.
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So yes, happy Mother's Day everyone.
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Right, that's it for today's episode.
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right that's all i have to say for now um i've
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been your host charlie of the british english podcast have a lovely week and i'll see you soon bye .
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