Pratique du Shadowing: Command Your Life: The Neuroscience of Self-Worth & Power - Apprendre l'anglais à l'oral avec la vidéo
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Growing up, no one warns you about the biggest pandemic that you will ever fall victim to.
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Self -doubt.
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Because that silently kills way more dreams than failure ever could.
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And I'm not just talking about second -guessing your outfits or your Instagram captions.
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This is so much bigger than that.
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It is hijacking your potential, keeping you from the life, the career, the relationships that you're more than capable of having, but won't let yourself claim.
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But that ends today.
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No more playing small, no more sleeping on yourself.
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You're about to learn how to rewire yourself for the confidence, for the self -worth, and how to truly step into her once and for all.
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Now, when you were born, a lot of things were decided for you, your eye color, your star sign,
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even the environment that you would grow up in.
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But what is absolutely never decided on was confidence
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because it's not some magical personality trait that some people just lucked out on getting.
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No, confidence is a pattern.
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It is a habit that your brain learned to run over and over again, just like tying your shoelace, just like driving a car.
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The problem is most of us actually learned the opposite pattern.
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We learned to shrink ourselves, to make ourselves smaller so that we'd be liked.
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We learned to wait for permission before we made a move, just in case we got it wrong.
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And we learned that being too loud or being too much wasn't safe because it triggered shame, rejection, and judgment.
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And really when you look into it, it makes absolute sense because your brain's number one job isn't to keep you happy.
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It's to keep you safe, safe from danger, safe from pain, safe from getting hurt again.
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The only problem with that is
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that your brain can't really tell the difference between a lion walking into your living room versus
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you being seen on social media.
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You know, if it's public speaking or posting that video or asking for what you want, you react in the same way.
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You know, your heart is beating, your stomach is tight, your amygdala is screaming, I'm not safe, this is not safe.
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But the lions we face today, they're not predators.
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Their visibility, their judgment, their rejection, their failure, sometimes they're even success.
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And the bottom line truth is we will never be able to change our lives,
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truly change our lives if we keep hiding from these lions that aren't even real.
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Now, by the time you're seven years old, your brain has already written the blueprint for how lovable,
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how capable, how worthy you would go on to believe yourself to be in this world.
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And you're still carrying that blueprint around the one that you did not choose for yourself.
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No, it was downloaded by your environment, by the people who surrounded you the most.
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So if you grew up where love was consistent and safe, if you were seen, if you were supported,
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if you were celebrated, then your brain learned a really powerful thing.
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The world is safe.
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So your prefrontal cortex learned to regulate your amygdala, which meant that you got to spend this life taking risks.
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You bounced back, you trusted yourself.
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But if love was inconsistent, if you were dismissed, if you were shamed, if you were judged, then your brain learned a very different rule.
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Scan for danger, not for opportunities.
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It probably left you being hyper aware of people's moods
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or even outsourcing your self -worth for external approval a lot of the times.
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Basically, every single interaction you've ever had was wiring your brain, building the neural pathways, building those physical connections that tell you,
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okay, this is how the world is.
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This is who I am in this world.
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And let me make this very clear.
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This condition is not just about how you were treated growing up.
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It's also very much about what you went on to witness to how the people closest to you would treat themselves.
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How would they talk about their worth?
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How would they go on to handle opportunities?
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Have you ever noticed that the moment things go quiet is normally when your brain starts talking,
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you know, you're folding laundry or you're driving home or you're scrolling before bed.
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And there is that tiny niggly voice just whispering in the background.
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Hey, you're behind.
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Hey, I don't think you're good enough.
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Hey, you're going to mess this up.
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It's annoying.
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We all have it.
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It's your brain's default mode network.
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It's basically your brain's narrator that chimes in when you're not super focused on a task.
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But here's the thing.
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It's not pulling these thoughts out of thin air.
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It's pulling it from the most well -worn impasse in your brain.
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And I know that sounds really silly.
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Let me explain.
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Think of your brain as a field of tall grass.
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Now, when you have the thought for the first time of I'm not good enough.
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You have to push through that grass, but it barely leaves a mark, let alone a pathway.
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But if you keep thinking that thought and you keep walking that route,
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eventually it's going to make it the most well -worn path within your brain that your brain automatically goes to take.
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So now without trying, that path is so well -worn that your brain just takes it on autopilot.
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Not because these thoughts are true, but because they're so familiar and you've run that thought over and over and over again
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And if that wasn't enough, add on top of that negativity bias.
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Because one harsh comment, that will stay with you for a decade.
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But 10 compliments that barely last 10 minutes.
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That's your survival wiring just doing its job in the brain.
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It is trying to remember what hurt you, what caused you pain, so it can keep you away from danger.
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But again, like I said, in today's world, these dangers are not lions and they're not cliffs.
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They're looks, they're words, they're opinions.
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And if you never retrain your own narrator in your own brain, then it's just gonna keep serving up the same old outdated script.
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And I know I don't know you, but I can absolutely tell for certain you do not wanna keep repeating the same,
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I'm not good enough script for the rest of your life.
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So now we know why your brain defaults into self -doubt, but here's the good news.
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Confident isn't a personality trait.
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It is a state that your brain enters when it predicts reward and safety.
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So you can absolutely train it to become that.
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And I want to give you five steps that you can start today just to do so.
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Next time you walk into a room, instead of shrinking yourself or scanning the room for judgment,
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I want you to clock all four corners in that room.
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Look at all four corners of that space.
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And I want you to pull the energy from each corner into yourself.
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I know this sounds really silly, but I promise try it once because you will notice the shift in your body.
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I want you to soak up the energy of that room
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so much that your body only believes one goddamn something and that is that I belong here.
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Next thing, stop waiting for confidence to show up before you act because confidence is the result of action.
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And I'm not asking you to do something massive and brave today.
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I'm asking you to start small.
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Speak up in the meeting once.
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Film a video of yourself that you never post because each of these tiny little acts goes on to teach the brain,
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hey, see, look, I didn't die.
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I can do this.
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I can be fine.
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And over time, the trails in your brain go on to change.
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Therefore, we're making room for self -belief, for self -worth to be the most default state, the most default warning track within your brain to take.
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Next thing, most of us actually rehearse failure without conscious effort, way more than we think we do.
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So I'm going to ask you to flip it.
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I want you to mentally rehearse everything going well for you
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because neuroscience has actually shown us
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that your brain lights up in almost the exact same way it would as if it was the real event.
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So you're allowing yourself to build up the confidence before it even happens.
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And if it's good enough for the athletes, it's good enough for us.
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Now, self -doubt grows in the dark, whereas confidence actually grows in visibility.
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So I want you to share your wins.
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I want you to tell a friend.
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I want you to post that accomplishment on your social media
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because this is gonna go on and teach your brain that being seen equals reward.
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We're changing the script now.
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Now we're saying, hey, visibility, it's safe and not only safe, it actually feels good.
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Now becoming her isn't that complicated.
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It's literally just about creating neural identity evidence.
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Basically your brain predicts who you are based upon what you do.
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So as always, stop waiting to feel like her and ask yourself, what would I be doing if I was her right now?
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Then act in micro doses.
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She speaks clearly.
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Okay, then you speak up once.
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She carries these, then you reset your posture.
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And over time, if you keep doing that, the evidence stacks.
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Therefore, you're no longer faking it or you're not faking it at all.
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You're becoming it.
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Okay.
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As good as those five steps are for confidence,
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I actually want to give you a true step -by -step plan so that you can rewire yourself for self -love,
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for worth, and for confidence once and for all.
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So whether this is something that you have just been coming up against in more recent times,
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or if this is something you've genuinely struggled with for most of your life, like I know I have for a great chunk of it,
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then this is for you.
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Number one would be regulate first, rewire later.
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Always calm your nervous system before you go on to challenge negative thoughts
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because your body is either primed to receive or it's primed to reject.
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We want it to be open to receiving, of course we do.
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So deep belly breaths, EFT tapping, grounding, journaling, just get it in, make it a priority in your day -to -day life to do so,
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to regulate your nervous system, because it's dictating so much more than you realize on what you go on to manifest.
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Then I would say interrupt the default mode.
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When a self -critical thought shows up, don't fight it.
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Please instead label it.
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Say I'm telling myself this story again that I'm not enough, because that one line is going to activate your prefrontal cortex
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and gives you the control instead of running the same old outdated script.
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Then I would make sure I was stacking dopamine wins.
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So I would begin each day with setting myself at least two believable, manageable tasks for the day.
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You know, making my bed or sending my friend that really nice kind message that I thought of last night.
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Then my day starts with this dopamine loop starting fast and then confidence builds through that.
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Another thing that I would do is build a proof bank.
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So log every compliment, every win, every brave moment that you have onto this list.
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And it's basically your I can list.
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And I want you to review it weekly because every revisit strengthens your brain self -worth circuitry.
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You know, you are logging the evidence of, Hey, I'm worthy.
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Hey, hey, this stuff does happen to me.
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And hey, I can bloody well do it.
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And a lot of people struggle starting this, but I promise you, it goes from the smallest things to the biggest thing.
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Add everything on there.
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Because as I said, you always remember the bad things so much more effortlessly.
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Whereas when you sit back and reflect on all the incredible things that you've achieved, all the brave moments that you have had,
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all those wins, all those compliments from other people, you're really gonna be surprised at how much you forgot about or you let slip.
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But while you're at it, talking about compliments,
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next step would be curate your environment because those mirror neurons in your brain absorb everything you surround yourself with.
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So for the love of God, surround yourself with confidence, supportive people,
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content, and conversations because this is what's gonna go on to shift your neural baseline.
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Then lastly, I want you to create new identity evidence, but I want you to do it through the ladder method.
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Now, I'm gonna be honest.
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You can't leap from, I hate myself to, I am the most confident person in the room overnight.
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Because I'm telling you, your brain's not going to buy it because you have collected zero evidence of this yet.
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Instead, I'm going to ask you to climb one believable step at a time.
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Starting with where you are, I am open to becoming more confident.
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That's a good place to start.
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It's neutral and it's believable.
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Then when that feels real, I want you to move on to, I'm learning to trust myself more and then when
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that feels real I do it even when I'm scared
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and eventually you'll get to the point where you're saying to yourself
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and you're believing about yourself I'm confident
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and to some people this might seem like such a slower route to get there
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but it actually gets you there
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so much more faster most of the time here's the science -backed truth
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when you change the way you fire your neurons you change the way you live your life
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and that's biology but let me leave you with this.
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Transformation does not happen in the future.
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It happens the moment you decide to see yourself differently.
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We're taught to think that confidence takes years or self -worth is something that you gain over time, but your brain doesn't work in calendars.
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It works in moments of awareness.
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Every time you choose to see yourself as capable or worthy or as her, you're literally rewiring your brain in real time.
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And that version of you that you can see in your head
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or that version of you that you have been chasing for so long, that version already exists in awareness, in consciousness.
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And the only thing that's really keeping the distance between you
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and that version is this belief that you need more time or this belief that you need more proof.
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And that is just an illusion that has been fed to you for so long, but it's not true.
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Now, as always, if this video resonated, if you like this kind of content, then let's become friends.
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Like, subscribe, leave a comment, do as you will.
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And as always, I will see you soon.
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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon
Cette leçon d’expression orale s’appuie sur la vidéo « Command Your Life: The Neuroscience of Self-Worth & Power ». Les mots qui reviennent le plus souvent : brain, confidence, safe, self. Cette vidéo contient 198 phrases et 2530 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 13:19. Le locuteur parle vite, environ 190 mots par minute : attendez-vous à des liaisons et à des sons réduits. 86 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais ; le reste mérite d’être vu avant de commencer.
Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo
15 mots de la vidéo à retenir, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| default nom | /dɪˈfɔlt/ | défaut, non-respect |
| script nom | /skɹɪpt/ | écrit |
| lion nom | /ˈlaɪən/ | lion, lionne |
| compliment nom | /ˈkɑmpləmənt/ | compliment |
| belief nom | /bɪˈliːf/ | croyance |
| brave adjectif | /bɹeɪv/ | courageux |
| worthy adjectif | /ˈwɝ.ði/ | digne |
| judgment nom | /ˈd͡ʒʌd͡ʒ.mənt/ | jugement |
| regulate verbe | /ˈɹɛɡ.jə.leɪt/ | régler |
| surround verbe | /səˈɹaʊnd/ | entourer, cerner |
| visibility nom | /ˌvɪz.əˈbɪl.ɪ.ti/ | visibilité |
| neural adjectif | /ˈnʊɹəl/ | neural |
| awareness nom | /əˈwɛɹ.nəs/ | conscience |
| wire nom | /ˈwaɪɚ/ | fil |
| whereas | /(h)wɛɹˈæz/ | tandis que, alors que |
Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez
| Mot | Sens |
|---|---|
| grow up verbe | grandir |
| show up verbe | apparaître, se montrer se pointer |
| build up verbe | s'accumuler, s'entasser |
| run over verbe | renverser |
| sit back verbe | se détendre |
| think over verbe | réfléchir |
Des phrases à répéter
Des phrases courtes et complètes de la vidéo, à réutiliser dans la conversation de tous les jours :
- Hey, I don't think you're good enough.
- Hey, you're going to mess this up.
- It's your brain's default mode network.
- I'm asking you to start small.
- We're changing the script now.
La grammaire de cette vidéo
Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :
| Structure | Dans la vidéo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continu have/has been + -ing — une action commencée avant et toujours en cours | have just been coming · have been chasing |
| Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait | were born · is absolutely never decided · be liked |
| Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenant | has already written · you've ever had · Have you ever noticed |
Prononciation à surveiller
Le locuteur utilise 73 contractions et formes réduites, comme you're, I'm, they're. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.
- Les sons « th »: worthy /ˈwɝ.ði/, pathway /ˈpæθˌweɪ/, thin /ˈθɪn/, athlete /ˈæθ.liːt/, strengthen /ˈstɹɛŋ(k)θən/
- Les sons « sh » et « zh »: rejection /ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, transformation /ˌtɹæns.fɔɹˈmeɪ.ʃən/, conscious /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/, harsh /ˈhɑɹʃ/
- Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: visibility /ˌvɪz.əˈbɪl.ɪ.ti/, complicated /ˈkɑm.plɪˌkeɪ.tɪd/, priority /pɹaɪˈɒɹɪti/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/
Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :
- /h/ — il se souffle, il n’est pas muet: whereas /(h)wɛɹˈæz/, habit /ˈhæb.ɪt/, harsh /ˈhɑɹʃ/, whisper /ˈ(h)wɪspɚ/, rehearse /ɹɪˈhɝs/
- /tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: judgment /ˈd͡ʒʌd͡ʒ.mənt/, rejection /ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, chase /t͡ʃeɪs/, biology /baɪˈɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, magical /ˈmæd͡ʒ.ɪ.kəl/
- /r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: script /skɹɪpt/, brave /bɹeɪv/, regulate /ˈɹɛɡ.jə.leɪt/, surround /səˈɹaʊnd/, neural /ˈnʊɹəl/
Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo
- Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
- Commencez à la vitesse 0,75×, répétez phrase par phrase, puis revenez à la vitesse normale quand cela devient facile.
- Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme default, script, lion.
Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?
Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.