शैडोइंग अभ्यास: If You Want To Become Magnetic, Watch This! - वीडियो के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें

I know people would click podcasts like this because they want the tips, the tricks.

They want to get from A to Z in three seconds.

No. They want to get from low confidence, low self-esteem, all that, to at the altar with a king.

Then they want to do it.

They want to know how to do it in the space of this conversation

so that they can end this conversation and walk down the aisle tomorrow with their Prince Charming.

That's what people want.

They want to solve complex things with short, simple solutions.

doesn't exist.

It is all the little things we do that help us get there.

There's no magic thing.

That's why you're like, it took me time.

And what it was, it was all the little things along the lines that came.

There's no magic thing.

People sometimes come to me and they're like, I mean, what's the secret?

And I tell them, there's no secret.

The change that you want in your life, it's all the little things that you do.

It's like, think of it like compound interest, right?

I do this, and then I add this layer, and then this layer, and then this layer, and then this layer.

It's like the sheets of paper.

You put one sheet, it's light.

Two sheets are light.

Three sheets.

You put a thousand sheets.

Now you've got weight.

That's how we are.

We're layers and we have to add to those layers.

There's no quick thing.

You know when you know you're going to get there?

When you're sovereign.

When you feel like I don't need anybody.

It's wonderful to have human beings around me and I think connection, it's wonderful.

But if your goal is I need someone to complete me, you're done.

And I think also, it's so wild because I'm thinking about my youth as you're talking about yours.

When I became sovereign, like where I'm like I'm good enough.

I'm good as I am.

You become a magnet.

I became a magnet.

People are like, well I wanted that.

I want to be around that.

I want to be around her.

Everywhere.

People are like, how do you, it's like because I believe in me.

But it took time to believe in me.

And when you became sovereign.

Yes, everyone was just like.

But how did your behavior change, those micro behaviors?

I stopped chasing things and chasing people.

Yeah.

I stopped looking for approval.

I stopped trying to people please.

Right?

And I just, I trusted myself.

I also stopped taking inventory from everybody, asking everybody their opinion.

And I also though, but I also had, I dealt with a lot of rejection, a lot of like rejection, a lot of people not agreeing with me.

I gossip growing up.

There was a lot, I took a lot of heavy hits and those things made me resilient.

Those things taught me to like, not, you know, to stay my course like, you know, and I've shared this before, but when I became an agent, I put in front of YPD,

the community of friends and people I had around me, they thought it was ridiculous.

They thought it was silly.

Do you think men struggle with strong women?

I think certain men do.

I think men who are not confident in themselves, if you're steady, you don't care what somebody else is.

You're cheering for them.

I ended up dating an agent and marrying him.

So because my husband's so steady and sovereign in himself, I could do whatever.

And he'd be like, you go.

शैडोइंग तकनीक क्या है?

शैडोइंग (Shadowing) एक विज्ञान-समर्थित भाषा सीखने की तकनीक है जो मूल रूप से पेशेवर दुभाषिया प्रशिक्षण के लिए विकसित की गई थी। विधि सरल लेकिन शक्तिशाली है: आप मूल अंग्रेज़ी ऑडियो सुनते हैं और तुरंत इसे ज़ोर से दोहराते हैं — जैसे वक्ता की छाया 1-2 सेकंड की देरी से। शोध से पता चलता है कि यह उच्चारण सटीकता, स्वर, लय, जुड़ी हुई ध्वनियाँ, सुनने की समझ और बोलने की प्रवाहशीलता में काफ़ी सुधार करता है।

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