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How attractive do you think you seem to other people?

Are you insecure about certain parts of yourself?

Everyone has their own insecurities about themselves, and may fear how it may come off for other people.

But you never know.

Those very same qualities in yourself that you're insecure about are traits that some people may actually appreciate and find attractive

While there's certainly some truth in the saying no one can know you better than you know yourself

When it comes to attractiveness, sometimes we just can't tell because we're

so hard on ourselves To help you with that here are eight flaws that actually make you more attractive Number one,

you're shy Do you speak in a soft voice but prefer to keep quiet most of the time?

Are you the type to duck your head or fidget when people look at you?

While you may have a hard time believing this, there are actually a lot of people out there who find shyness an attractive trait to have.

In a world where sociable, talkative, take-charge types of people are all clamoring to be the center of attention,

there may be something refreshing about being with someone who likes to listen more than they like to talk.

After all, shy people are often seen as more mysterious, intriguing, and down to earth compared to others.

Number 2.

You're clumsy.

Another trait that some find surprisingly attractive is clumsiness.

In fact, psychology says that men, in particular, tend to find clumsiness in women to be attractive, not only because it makes them seem more genuine,

youthful, and excitable, but also because it makes them feel needed.

Clumsiness also makes people feel compelled to approach you

and to help you out

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being here number three you're easily embarrassed do you often get flustered

when people tease you or get embarrassed when your friends poke fun at you for something Do you tend to blush, squeal, or cover your face when this happens?

While this may seem like a flaw to some people, being easily embarrassed is quite an attractive trait to others, especially to men.

Similar to the previous point, people who are easily embarrassed seem more genuine because they don't try to hide their true feelings.

Number four, you're nerdy.

Those who get called nerds or geeks often get a bad reputation for or loving something deeply.

But what's so wrong with that?

Whether it's comic books, anime, video games, Broadway musicals, or some other obscure interest not a lot of people can relate to.

Being a nerd isn't something you should be ashamed of In fact, there are some who find nerds attractive for the very same reasons they're criticized for

They're driven excited and most of all passionate about the things they enjoy Number five,

you're too honest Do you always say what you mean?

To those who are tired of listening to everyone telling them

what they want to hear It can be nice to have someone who always tells the truth no matter what

Being honest can be a very attractive trait

Because it means that you're not going to waste their time by beating around the bush

or by playing mind games with them

Despite how difficult it may be you are able to just come out and say what they need to hear

number six you're an oversharer oh I shouldn't have said that sorry.

I've been talking and sharing so much Does this sound like you?

Well, the good news is one of the silver linings to being an overshare is

that it makes you seem more sincere and approachable

While some may prefer a mystery there are those who like it when someone is an open book

This may be because your openness creates a comfortable environment for them to open up

and to share things about themselves They don't usually share it makes it easier for them to develop closeness

and intimacy in a relationship Number seven, you take things slow.

Do you always take a long time making decisions because you tend to overthink things and focus on all the details?

Do you always have a lot going on in your mind?

You're probably a deep thinker and the type who likes to observe the situation before forming an opinion.

Unlike those who are always craving excitement or chasing one thrill after the other in their lives,

you appreciate and savor the peace and quiet in your life and prefer to take your time with things.

And to people who feel the same way, this can be a very appealing quality to have.

And number eight, you crave support.

As humans, it's normal to crave affection from others.

Though it's true that sometimes people who openly desire warmth, sympathy, and encouragement from others can be a bit off-putting at times,

especially when they seem too needy or desperate.

There is something nice about being with someone who makes you feel needed.

Whether it's kind words, sweet gestures, thoughtful gifts, or simply time and attention.

Having a partner who wants and asks for support can be a very attractive quality.

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"come off": "어떻게 보이다"는 뜻으로, "How does this come off?" (이게 어떻게 보이나요?)처럼 사용해요. 영상에서 "may fear how it may come off for other people" (다른 사람에게 어떻게 보일지 두려워할 수 있다)라고 나왔어요.
"clamor to be the center of attention": "관심의 중심이 되려고 떠들썩하게 하다"는 뜻이에요. 사교적인 사람들을 설명할 때 유용해요.
"beat around the bush": "둘러대다"는 뜻으로, "Don't beat around the bush" (둘러대지 마세요)처럼 자주 사용해요. 영상에서 "not going to waste their time by beating around the bush" (둘러대며 시간을 낭비하지 않을 거다)라고 나왔어요.
"silver lining": "희망의 흔적" 또는 "좋은 면"이라는 뜻으로, "There's a silver lining" (좋은 면이 있죠)처럼 사용해요. 영상에서 "one of the silver linings to being an oversharer" (과도하게 이야기하는 것의 좋은 면 중 하나)라고 나왔어요.

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영어 쉐도잉은 발음 교정과 스피킹 실력을 키우는 좋은 방법이에요. 특히 IELTS 스피킹 준비에 도움이 많이 되죠. 이제 영상의 대화를 1분 정도 선택해보세요. 그 부분을 반복해서 듣고, 바로 따라 말해보세요. "shadow speak" 방식으로, 발음, 억양, 속도까지 똑같이 따라하려고 노력해요. 처음에는 어려울 수 있지만, 5번 이상 반복하면 점점 자연스러워질 거예요. 쉐도잉을 자주 하면 영어 실력이 빠르게 향상될 뿐만 아니라, 자신감도 생겨요. 지금 바로 시작해보세요! 필요하다면 shadowing site를 찾아서 더 많은 자료를 활용해도 좋아요.

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관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보	someone who likes · people who are · Those who get
수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점	are often seen · are actually subscribed · are added

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