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So, what do you like in a person?

Many of us would initially respond with things like, someone tall, or I like green eyes.

Well, what about those times you look at people you've liked in the past and thought to yourself, but they don't all look alike.

Or you've encountered someone who seems to be your ideal in every single way on paper, but you meet them and wonder, who are you?

The answer to that mystery is that attraction is based on three things.

You consider them approachable, believe in positive factoids about them, and if they make you feel good.

If the trifecta is incomplete, this could lead to not being attracted to the person, no matter how

Hollywood -asked that smile is.

Here are six psychological things that make you less attractive.

Number one, being sleep -deprived.

No matter how much caffeine you swill, sleep deprivation takes a toll on everything.

This could ruin the first impression meeting with someone.

When you first meet someone, you have a limited amount of information to decide your next steps.

Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?

As humans, we rely on sight initially to give us that quick initial assessment.

So if you show up looking like a haggard potato, your selfie or Instagram buddy potential isn't the only thing that's less than stellar.

Other attraction factors like the appearance of health and trustworthiness also take a hit.

Number two, body smell.

That bio is one thing, and there are plenty of products and methods to avoid it.

But ever think about a similar body odor?

This goes deep and comes from your DNA.

We have something called a major histocompatibility complex, or MHC.

They're a group of genes that do coating to help out the immune system, and they influence body odor.

So bathing yourself in cologne doesn't change anything studies have found

that women were more attracted to men with dissimilar MHCs to their own

this is hypothesized to encourage gene variability thus a stronger immune system number three excessive focus on appearance hey

we're all into looking good and feeling good you do you

and love yourself for it just don't let it go overboard sure initial encounters are are strongly influenced by physical attractiveness, but that's fleeting.

No matter how much of a hottie they appear to be, if all they care about is their self -image, that becomes a repulsing factor.

It's true that in the end, we need substance.

And if all we're getting is air, we're outie.

Number four, not being humble.

When you get a win, do you crow that it was all you, that you're just legendary and single -handedly did it all?

or do you credit those who helped you like friends teachers family

and maybe even

that one cashier who would stay five minutes late every shift just to make sure

you could get some food at the end of the night

humility also known as a modest view of oneself was found to help not only start

but maintain romantic relationships with humble partners being scored as more attractive than and arrogant ones.

So although we like to contribute for the good of the cause, we still wanna be acknowledged for our part,

whether it be a project or a partnership.

If that recognition is usurped, where it's only their name on the credit reel, we tend to feel cheated, betrayed, or used.

Number five, overly smiley or too proud.

Related to the previous point, this is all about how you hold yourself or appear in pictures.

If you look pompous, puffed out, and arrogant, or over -smiley, it gives the same vibe as not being humble.

This type of nonverbal expression implies that perhaps that smile can't be trusted, and that pride may override the well -being of anyone other than themselves.

And number six, contractive body language.

Turtles are cute, but it's because they're turtles.

You're a human.

Don't try to turtle yourself.

It was found in a study between several universities

that people become more attractive when their posture and bodily display are more expansive.

Like open arms and a non -hunched back.

It singles welcome.

The opposite of that, contractual body language, like crossing your arms and legs and hunching over, decreases desirability.

This is conveying a message of, don't come close, I'm closing myself off from you.

So if you want to welcome people in, go ahead and put your body into it.

We used to think attraction equals physical beauty, but we know now that attraction is a complex thing involving the whole person,

inside and out, flaws and all.

Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?

Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?

We'd love to see you get into some good conversation below.

And if we could humbly ask for a like, that would be super appreciated it.

Thanks for watching, and catch you next time!

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영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어	발음	뜻
humble 형용사	/ˈhʌmbəl/	겸손한, 경멸한
turtle 명사	/ˈtɝtl̩/	거북, 바다거북
gene 명사	/d͡ʒiːn/	유전자
encounter 동사	/ɪnˈkaʊntɚ/	만나다, 부닥치다
attract 동사	/əˈtɹækt/	끌다, 끌어들이다
arrogant 형용사	/ˈæɹəɡənt/	오만하다, 거만하다
partnership 명사	/ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/	파트너십
recognition 명사	/ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/	인식
assessment 명사	/əˈsɛsmənt/	평가
encourage 동사	/ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/	격려하다
mystery 명사	/ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/	신비, 미스터리
bath 명사	/bɑːθ/	욕조
ideal 형용사	/aɪˈdi(ə)l/	이상적, 리상적
romantic 형용사	/ɹoʊˈmæn(t)ɪk/	로맨틱하다
coat 명사	/ˈkoʊ̯t/	코트, 외투

따라 말해 볼 만한 문장

영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:

Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?
It's true that in the end, we need substance.
Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?
Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?

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화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.

문형	영상 속 표현
수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점	is based · being attracted · is hypothesized
현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때	you've liked · you've encountered · have found
관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보	someone who seems · those who helped
현재진행 am/is/are + -ing — 지금 또는 요즘 일어나고 있는 일	we're getting · is conveying

주의할 발음

화자는 don't, we're, they're 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 19번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

“th” 소리: bath /bɑːθ/, hypothesize /haɪˈpɑ.θəˌsaɪz/, trustworthiness /ˈtɹʌst.wɜɹ.ði.nɛs/
“sh”와 “zh” 소리: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, partnership /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, impression /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/, cashier /kaˈʃɪə/
긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, legendary /ˈlɛd͡ʒ.ənˌdɛɹ.i/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

/f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: fleet /ˈfliːt/, selfie /ˈsɛlfi/, caffeine /ˈkæfiːn/, flaw /flɔ/, puff /pʌf/
/v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: involve /ɪnˈvɑlv/, excessive /ɪkˈsɛsɪv/, vibe /vaɪb/, convey /kənˈveɪ/, deprivation /ˌdɛp.ɹɪˈveɪʃən/
/r/과 /l/ 구별하기: strongly /ˈstɹɔŋli/, rely /ɹɪˈlaɪ/, legendary /ˈlɛd͡ʒ.ənˌdɛɹ.i/, stellar /ˈstɛl.əɹ/, reel /ˈɹiːl/

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