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So, what do you like in a person?

Many of us would initially respond with things like, someone tall, or I like green eyes.

Well, what about those times you look at people you've liked in the past and thought to yourself, but they don't all look alike.

Or you've encountered someone who seems to be your ideal in every single way on paper, but you meet them and wonder, who are you?

The answer to that mystery is that attraction is based on three things.

You consider them approachable, believe in positive factoids about them, and if they make you feel good.

If the trifecta is incomplete, this could lead to not being attracted to the person, no matter how

Hollywood -asked that smile is.

Here are six psychological things that make you less attractive.

Number one, being sleep -deprived.

No matter how much caffeine you swill, sleep deprivation takes a toll on everything.

This could ruin the first impression meeting with someone.

When you first meet someone, you have a limited amount of information to decide your next steps.

Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?

As humans, we rely on sight initially to give us that quick initial assessment.

So if you show up looking like a haggard potato, your selfie or Instagram buddy potential isn't the only thing that's less than stellar.

Other attraction factors like the appearance of health and trustworthiness also take a hit.

Number two, body smell.

That bio is one thing, and there are plenty of products and methods to avoid it.

But ever think about a similar body odor?

This goes deep and comes from your DNA.

We have something called a major histocompatibility complex, or MHC.

They're a group of genes that do coating to help out the immune system, and they influence body odor.

So bathing yourself in cologne doesn't change anything studies have found

that women were more attracted to men with dissimilar MHCs to their own

this is hypothesized to encourage gene variability thus a stronger immune system number three excessive focus on appearance hey

we're all into looking good and feeling good you do you

and love yourself for it just don't let it go overboard sure initial encounters are are strongly influenced by physical attractiveness, but that's fleeting.

No matter how much of a hottie they appear to be, if all they care about is their self -image, that becomes a repulsing factor.

It's true that in the end, we need substance.

And if all we're getting is air, we're outie.

Number four, not being humble.

When you get a win, do you crow that it was all you, that you're just legendary and single -handedly did it all?

or do you credit those who helped you like friends teachers family

and maybe even

that one cashier who would stay five minutes late every shift just to make sure

you could get some food at the end of the night

humility also known as a modest view of oneself was found to help not only start

but maintain romantic relationships with humble partners being scored as more attractive than and arrogant ones.

So although we like to contribute for the good of the cause, we still wanna be acknowledged for our part,

whether it be a project or a partnership.

If that recognition is usurped, where it's only their name on the credit reel, we tend to feel cheated, betrayed, or used.

Number five, overly smiley or too proud.

Related to the previous point, this is all about how you hold yourself or appear in pictures.

If you look pompous, puffed out, and arrogant, or over -smiley, it gives the same vibe as not being humble.

This type of nonverbal expression implies that perhaps that smile can't be trusted, and that pride may override the well -being of anyone other than themselves.

And number six, contractive body language.

Turtles are cute, but it's because they're turtles.

You're a human.

Don't try to turtle yourself.

It was found in a study between several universities

that people become more attractive when their posture and bodily display are more expansive.

Like open arms and a non -hunched back.

It singles welcome.

The opposite of that, contractual body language, like crossing your arms and legs and hunching over, decreases desirability.

This is conveying a message of, don't come close, I'm closing myself off from you.

So if you want to welcome people in, go ahead and put your body into it.

We used to think attraction equals physical beauty, but we know now that attraction is a complex thing involving the whole person,

inside and out, flaws and all.

Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?

Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?

We'd love to see you get into some good conversation below.

And if we could humbly ask for a like, that would be super appreciated it.

Thanks for watching, and catch you next time!

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本课的词汇与口语要点

这节口语课以视频“6 Psychological Things That make You Less Attractive”为素材。视频中反复出现的词有：attraction, turtle, humble, attractive。这段视频共有 64 个句子、839 个单词可供跟读。讲话部分时长为 5:00。说话人语速自然，每分钟约 168 个词，接近日常对话。 84% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，其余的词建议在练习前先学一下。

视频中的重点词汇

视频中 15 个值得学习的单词，附发音和释义：

单词	发音	释义
attraction 名词	/əˈtɹækʃn̩/	吸引力
humble 形容词	/ˈhʌmbəl/	謙卑 /谦卑, 謙遜 /谦逊
turtle 名词	/ˈtɝtl̩/	龜 /龟, 烏龜 /乌龟
gene 名词	/d͡ʒiːn/	基因
encounter 动词	/ɪnˈkaʊntɚ/	遇到, 遇見 /遇见
attract 动词	/əˈtɹækt/	吸引
arrogant 形容词	/ˈæɹəɡənt/	傲慢, 高傲
partnership 名词	/ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/	合夥關係 /合伙关系, 合作關係 /合作关系
recognition 名词	/ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/	認出 /认出
assessment 名词	/əˈsɛsmənt/	評價 /评价, 評估 /评估
encourage 动词	/ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/	鼓勵 /鼓励, 激勵 /激励
mystery 名词	/ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/	謎 /谜, 謎團 /谜团
bath 名词	/bɑːθ/	浴缸, 浴盆
ideal 形容词	/aɪˈdi(ə)l/	理想的
romantic 形容词	/ɹoʊˈmæn(t)ɪk/	浪漫

视频中出现的短语动词

单词	发音	释义
go ahead 动词	/ˌɡoʊ əˈhɛd/	請便 /请便
show up 动词		露面
work out 动词	/ˌwɝk ˈaʊt/	計算 /计算, 算出

值得反复跟读的句子

视频中简短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常对话里：

Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?
It's true that in the end, we need substance.
Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?
Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?

视频中的语法

说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：

结构	视频中的用法
被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的	is based · being attracted · is hypothesized
现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事	you've liked · you've encountered · have found
定语从句 who / which + 从句 — 补充说明人或事物	someone who seems · those who helped
现在进行时 am/is/are + -ing — 此刻或近期正在发生的事	we're getting · is conveying

需要注意的发音

说话人用了 19 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 don't, we're, they're。请按听到的简短形式来说。

“th” 音: bath /bɑːθ/, hypothesize /haɪˈpɑ.θəˌsaɪz/, trustworthiness /ˈtɹʌst.wɜɹ.ði.nɛs/
“sh” 和 “zh” 音: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, partnership /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, impression /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/, cashier /kaˈʃɪə/
长单词——注意重音位置: recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, legendary /ˈlɛd͡ʒ.ənˌdɛɹ.i/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/

中文母语者容易读错的音：

/v/ — 不要读成 /w/，上齿轻触下唇: involve /ɪnˈvɑlv/, excessive /ɪkˈsɛsɪv/, vibe /vaɪb/, convey /kənˈveɪ/, deprivation /ˌdɛp.ɹɪˈveɪʃən/
词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: attract /əˈtɹækt/, arrogant /ˈæɹəɡənt/, partnership /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/, assessment /əˈsɛsmənt/, encourage /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/
/r/ 和 /l/ 的区别: strongly /ˈstɹɔŋli/, rely /ɹɪˈlaɪ/, legendary /ˈlɛd͡ʒ.ənˌdɛɹ.i/, stellar /ˈstɛl.əɹ/, reel /ˈɹiːl/

如何用这段视频练习

先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 attraction, humble, turtle 这类单词。

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跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。

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