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Confidence.
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Some people are born with an innate streak of confidence, whilst it takes a little time for others to develop confidence as they develop from children into adults.
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But there will be times when your confidence takes a knock, right?
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It's common to feel like you wish your confidence was better, While other things that are out of control may impact your confidence,
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such as other people, it's important to know which things you are in control of, and how you can prevent yourself from destroying your own confidence.
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So, here are nine habits that are destroying your confidence.
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Number one, you care too much about what other people think.
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How many times have you said to yourself, I don't care what other people think about me.
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Honestly, the tally isn't quite encouraging, is it?
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No. That's okay.
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It's common to care about what other people think, especially if we're trying to impress them.
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As human beings, you want to be liked and respected by others.
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However, when you value other people's thinking and opinion above your own, and change your behavior to reflect what you think others want to see, you're doing more harm than good for yourself.
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Number two, negative thinking.
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I'm not good enough.
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I can't do this.
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You've had one too many of those days, haven't you?
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Uh-huh.
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You become what you think.
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If you always think you're not good enough, then you'll never be confident.
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Do you have thoughts that you can never get that promotion even though you are qualified?
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That's negative thinking.
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Indulging in pessimism creates a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Oh boy yeah you're gradually destroying your self-confidence with all of
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these thoughts reframing those negative thoughts to say i am good enough to get this job
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and i need to show my skills can reinforce a more
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positive mindset it's crucial to focus on what you can do instead of worrying about the outcomes
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that you can't control number three social media living do you compare your lifestyle with your friends on social media?
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Or how many times have you thought that your social media life is better than your own life?
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The pretty pictures people paint on social media, as we know, are not always as they appear to be.
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If you consistently find yourself comparing yourself to others
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and living in your own version of reality and only putting out what you want the world to see, then you may notice that this has an impact on your confidence in the real world.
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Once you start to understand
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that this is not what everyday lives are like then you
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should start to feel more grounded number four self-deprecating talk
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when you diminish what you do you're taking shots at your self-confidence
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if every time you speak in a personal or professional setting
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and you say that you're not that great you're diminishing your worth
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and value when you're constantly communicating that you're not
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that great it's bound to make you feel less than confident writer Senator C.S.
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Lewis once said, humility is not thinking less of yourself, but it's thinking of yourself less.
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So remember that and try not to confuse humility with self-deprecation.
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Number five, the blame game is your favorite sport.
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When you find yourself in a situation that you are not happy with, such as the job that you hate,
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do you tend to find excuses and blame everybody else or everything else for what is happening?
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This destroys your self-esteem and you feel less confident about being able to manage your situation.
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You'll need to develop an exit plan for your self-esteem.
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In his video, How to Beast explains this idea of blaming acts as a defense mechanism.
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So rather than pass the blame, taking ownership of your situation should jumpstart your confidence, fingers crossed.
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Number six, you set the bar low for yourself.
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When you disclaim, I'm not very good at this, so don't have any expectations, it immediately makes others question your ability.
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Disqualifying yourself verbally reassures you that others don't have high expectations from you and won't be disappointed.
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But by setting yourself at this level, naturally your confidence is going to be low, as is your sense of value.
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So when you put confidence on it, it instills confidence in others about you as well.
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Number seven, thinking that you don't have anything to say or contribute to a discussion.
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Why don't you tend to get involved in conversations at work or at social events?
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Is it because you don't believe that you have anything meaningful to add?
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Maybe.
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Well, this too is destroying your confidence, as you may feel like people will be bored of what you have to say
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or that they'll think that you're not smart.
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Yeah, or they'll make fun of me.
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This is a story that you've told yourself and you've started to believe that it's true.
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It may be that the topic of conversation is not something
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that you're particularly interested in or know a lot about
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but it should not be allowed to cost you your confidence
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okay number eight you dismiss compliments guilty as charged right yeah me too we often receive compliments by deflecting
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or shying away from accepting them because we're embarrassed or we don't believe the comment.
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By deflecting, we're not only selling ourselves short, but challenging the judgment of the person complimenting us.
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Accepting compliments graciously doesn't make you an egomaniac.
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We can accept compliments graciously and take them on board when developing our confidence.
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And number nine, ruminating.
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Ever find yourself repeatedly going over what you get right
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or situations you didn't like an example of this may be
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that you continuously think about something you said during a presentation to your work colleagues
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rumination is taking thinking to another dimension altogether even though thinking
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is considered necessary for problem solving ruminating is focused on the problem
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and not on finding the solution in her article for forbes jamie kaluga wrote
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that when you ruminate on your poor decisions
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or setbacks consistently even the most confident people can struggle at times
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and it's perfectly normal you are unique individuals with different skills
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so use them to your advantage using positive affirmations every day
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where possible can help to remind you of your strengths
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and what you want to develop do any of these describe your experience or did any of these points describe you
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if you have any comments or feedback regarding this video please leave them in the comment box below
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在本节课中,你将通过分析视频中关于“摧毁自信的9个习惯”的内容,练习英语听力理解与口语表达。你会学习如何提炼关键信息,同时通过影子跟读法(shadow speech)模仿视频中的语音语调,提升英语发音和口语流畅度。课程还会帮助你理解自信相关的表达,并用简单的英语阐述自己的观点。
核心词汇与短语
- innate streak:天生的特质。例:有些人拥有天生的自信特质(Some people have an innate streak of confidence)。
- self-fulfilling prophecy:自我实现的预言。例:消极想法会造成自我实现的预言(Indulging in pessimism creates a self-fulfilling prophecy)。
- self-deprecating talk:自我贬低的言论。例:避免自我贬低的言论能提升自信(Avoiding self-deprecating talk can boost confidence)。
- defense mechanism:防御机制。例:指责他人是一种防御机制(Blaming others is a defense mechanism)。
- reframe:重构(想法)。例:重构消极想法有助于建立积极心态(Reframing negative thoughts helps build a positive mindset)。
影子跟读法练习技巧
视频的语速适中,语调自然,非常适合影子跟读法(shadow speak)练习。以下是具体建议:
- 先完整听一遍视频,熟悉内容和节奏。重点关注“care too much about what other people think”、“negative thinking”等关键表达的发音。
- 逐句跟读,模仿说话人的语气。比如读到“你是否总把责任推给别人?”时,注意疑问语气的上扬;读到“重构消极想法”时,加重“重构”的发音以强调重点。
- 练习时可暂停视频,重复跟读较难的句子,如“ humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less”,注意连读和弱读现象。
- 每天坚持10-15分钟,重点提升英语发音(提高英语发音)和流畅度。通过影子跟读法,你能逐渐掌握自然的口语表达节奏,同时加深对自信相关话题的理解。
记住,影子跟读法的关键是“同步”和“模仿”,不要害怕出错,多练习就能看到进步!
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构,并附上视频中的原话:
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
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| 被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么,而不是谁做的 | are born · be liked · should not be allowed |
| 现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事 | You've had · you've told |
什么是跟读法?
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧,最初开发用于专业口译员的培训,并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大:您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同,跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性,语调,节奏,连读,听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。




















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