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Hey Psych2go family, welcome back to another video.
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Do you have an overwhelming fear of losing your loved ones? You distrust other people or have anxiety about being abandoned?
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Abandonment issues typically arise in childhood, but can develop later on in life as well.
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The fear of abandonment is a serious type of anxiety that often stems from a traumatic experience.
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Some aren't even aware of their own repressed emotional trauma.
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But it can manifest into unhealthy behaviours over time. So, here are 7 Signs You may Have Abandonment Issues.
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One: you're a people pleaser.
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Do you want to impress everyone you meet? Whether it's your friends, acquaintances, or family members, you try to meet their expectations to get on their good side.
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You're the one who tries harder in your relationship, and you're willing to put everyone else's needs ahead of yours, as long as it gets them to stay. If you have a strong need to please people and gain their approval, you may still have some unresolved abandonment issues.
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Two: you struggle with insecurity.
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Do you sometimes think that someday, the people closest to you will get sick of you and leave? People who are afraid of being abandoned often struggle with feelings of insecurity and inadequacy because someone you loved has walked out on you in the past.
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You've internalized the emotional trauma. You may have wrongly believed that it was YOUR fault that they left.
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This can result in low self-esteem and a need for constant re-assurance.
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Three: you find it hard to trust people Do you find it hard to trust others to keep their promises or to be there for you? You want to be in control of your relationships and know everything that's going on with your loved ones?
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Because you've been hurt in the past, you have a strong fear of being left alone. In certain cases, it can lead to feelings of unreasonable jealously, suspicion, and possessiveness over your friends and romantic partners.
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Four: you're afraid to be vulnerable Do you feel uncomfortable during moments of emotional intimacy and honesty?
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Are you scared of getting close to someone or needing them too much?
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Your deep-seeded fear of abandonment may manifest into a fear of intimacy and emotional vulnerability. You may unconsciously sabotage your relationships by pushing people away just as you start to care for them.
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You may struggle with commitment, and act detached and indifferent when you really do care.
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Five: you look for reasons to leave.
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Do you always look for reasons to leave in fear of getting too attached to someone?
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You hold your loved ones to unrealistically high standards and you only focus on their flaws. You don't give them any room for mistakes. You do this knowing that they're bound to disappoint you. And when they fail to meet your expectations, you use it as an excuse to give up and leave.
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Six: you move on too quickly Do you have difficulty forming meaningful relationships that last because of deep-seeded fear of abandonment?
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When you cycle through relationships one after another and move on too quickly, you're not allowing yourself the time and space to deal with the emotional fallout.
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Instead, you dive into something new and exciting to distract yourself.
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You never want to be alone, because it would force you to confront the personal issues you've been repressing for so long.
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And number 7...
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you cling to unhealthy relationships Do you find yourself gravitating towards all the wrong people?
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Have you stayed with someone knowing they're bad for you?
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The trauma of being abandoned, especially at a young age, can stay with you for a long time.
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And since we're all hard-wired to recreate our early childhood experiences for the comfort and familiarity, your childhood taught you the wrong things about love.
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It's not uncommon for you to be drawn to people who treat you poorly.
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Do you relate to any of the signs mentioned here?
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I know I did...
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Is a fear of abandonment harming your relationships and keeping you from being happy? Let us know in the comments below.
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为什么要通过这个视频练习口语?
观看这个视频不仅可以让你了解与被遗弃相关的心理健康问题,还能帮助你提高英语口语能力。通过模仿视频中的对话,你可以掌握如何表达个人情感和关系中的复杂性。看YouTube学英语是增强你听说能力的一种有效方式。此外,随着对情感细节的理解,你也能更好地用英语表达出自己的情感,增加与他人交流的自信心。
语法与表达在语境中的分析
在这个视频中,演讲者运用了几种关键的语法结构和表达方式:
- Do you find it hard to trust people? 这个问题使用了简单现在时,帮助听众理解信任的重要性。
- You're the one who tries harder in your relationship。这个句子运用了强调结构,突显了在关系中努力的一方。
- Have you stayed with someone knowing they're bad for you? 这个例子展示了现在完成时的使用,强调了过去的选择对现在的影响。
- 可通过fear of abandonment这样的表达,增强你对这一主题的理解,并丰富你的语言表达。
在学习过程中,英语口语练习和英语影子跟读的结合能让你更深入地理解这些句子在实际对话中的使用。
常见的发音陷阱
在观看视频时,你可能会遇到一些发音的挑战。比如:
- abandonment(被遗弃)这个词的发音可能会让很多学习者困惑,注意重音的位置和音节划分。
- vulnerable(脆弱的)的发音也很容易出错,特别是在快速对话中。要认真练习。
- 在听演讲者的语调和重音时,学习如何用不同的语调表达情感,可以帮助你在提高英语发音时更加自信。
无论是做shadow speech还是简单的跟读,尝试模仿这些词汇的发音能显著提高你的说话技巧。
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构,并附上视频中的原话:
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
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| 被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么,而不是谁做的 | being abandoned · you've been hurt · be drawn |
| 现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事 | has walked · You've internalized · you've been hurt |
| 定语从句 who / which + 从句 — 补充说明人或事物 | one who tries · People who are · people who treat |
什么是跟读法?
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧,最初开发用于专业口译员的培训,并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大:您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同,跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性,语调,节奏,连读,听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。































