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Attachment theory describes the different ways people can act in relationships.
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When someone has an avoidant attachment style, they're uncomfortable with growing emotionally bonded or close to someone else.
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It can actually be broken down into two subcategories: "Dismissive avoidant" and "Fearful avoidant".
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This kind of attachment theory usually carries on through adulthood and can affect relationships of all types.
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Wondering if avoidant attachment applies to you or a loved one?
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Here are eight signs of an avoidant attachment style.
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1. You were emotionally neglected in your childhood.
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Do you feel safer keeping your intense emotions to yourself?
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Childhood neglect can be traumatic and often develops into an avoidant attachment style.
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According to Healthline, some parents might discourage their child from outwardly expressing both positive and negative emotions.
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These parents may have ignored the needs of their child when they were emotionally vulnerable.
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This is a sign of avoidant attachment because it conditions children to not only fend for themselves, but also to hide their emotions and vulnerabilities from others.
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Two, you tend to suppress your emotions.
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Were you taught to view emotional expressions as a weakness?
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Do you find that you're better off dealing with things internally?
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Do you tend to bottle your emotions and internally punish yourself for being vulnerable?
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People with avoidant attachment are uncomfortable disclosing their vulnerabilities
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and they may look down on people who are more emotionally vulnerable than themselves.
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3. You have trouble dealing with emotional intimacy.
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Do you have difficulty with emotional expression in relationships?
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Do you keep conversations on a comfortable surface level?
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or take extended periods of "me time." When you have an avoidant attachment style, You shy away from emotional closeness.
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"afraid to reveal too much about yourself.
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"You struggle with not wanting to need others for anything.
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In relationships, this emotional distance can make other people confused, angry, and they might even take it personally.
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But the truth is, it's actually a defense mechanism for you.
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Four, you have extreme boundaries.
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Do you have very specific, firm, and strict boundaries?
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This can go as far as restricting the amount of time you spend with others
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or refusing to share about certain parts of your life.
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We do want to emphasize that there's absolutely nothing wrong with boundaries.
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Having healthy boundaries is essential in maintaining healthy relationships.
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However, people who have excessive boundaries may appear distant or closed off.
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Five, you have shallow relationships.
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You like to keep relationships at a shallow level whether it be romantic or platonic.
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In a romantic relationship, you may refuse to meet your partner's family
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or avoid topics and situations that would turn the relationship into a more serious one.
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In a platonic relationship, you may refuse to go into emotional depth about yourself, or have long conversations, or see others that often.
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6. Strong independence.
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Are you extremely independent and self -focused?
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Did you have to fend for yourself at an early age?
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Do you secretly look down on people who depend on others?
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Independence by itself isn't a bad thing.
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As children grow, they should be increasingly more comfortable with making decisions on their own.
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However, when children are forced to become independent too early, Due to neglect?
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they may develop a strong need to always solve problems on their own.
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rather than having developed a healthy level of self -sufficiency.
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7. You have trust issues.
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Did you get the proper attention and care you deserved as a child?
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If not, it's logical that you'd have a hard time trusting others throughout your life.
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Even in adulthood, you struggle to trust even in those closest to you, and will try to distance yourself from wanting or receiving affection from others.
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. and eight.
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You're critical on yourself and others.
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When you have the avoidant attachment style, you may often find fault in those around you.
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This is more associated with a dismissive, avoidant detachment style.
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According to Joyce Catlett, MA from PsychAlive, The trauma that most commonly associated with this attachment style
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empowers the mind's inner critical voice so much that it actually overshadows their inner positive voice.
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As a result, it's easier for you to identify faults within yourself and others compared to the positive qualities.
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We hope you enjoyed learning about the signs of avoidant detachment style.
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Did you recognize any of these signs in yourself or any of your loved ones?
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