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Attachment theory describes the different ways people can act in relationships.
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When someone has an avoidant attachment style, they're uncomfortable with growing emotionally bonded or close to someone else.
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It can actually be broken down into two subcategories: "Dismissive avoidant" and "Fearful avoidant".
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This kind of attachment theory usually carries on through adulthood and can affect relationships of all types.
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Wondering if avoidant attachment applies to you or a loved one?
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Here are eight signs of an avoidant attachment style.
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1. You were emotionally neglected in your childhood.
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Do you feel safer keeping your intense emotions to yourself?
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Childhood neglect can be traumatic and often develops into an avoidant attachment style.
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According to Healthline, some parents might discourage their child from outwardly expressing both positive and negative emotions.
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These parents may have ignored the needs of their child when they were emotionally vulnerable.
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This is a sign of avoidant attachment because it conditions children to not only fend for themselves, but also to hide their emotions and vulnerabilities from others.
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Two, you tend to suppress your emotions.
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Were you taught to view emotional expressions as a weakness?
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Do you find that you're better off dealing with things internally?
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Do you tend to bottle your emotions and internally punish yourself for being vulnerable?
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People with avoidant attachment are uncomfortable disclosing their vulnerabilities
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and they may look down on people who are more emotionally vulnerable than themselves.
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3. You have trouble dealing with emotional intimacy.
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Do you have difficulty with emotional expression in relationships?
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Do you keep conversations on a comfortable surface level?
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or take extended periods of "me time." When you have an avoidant attachment style, You shy away from emotional closeness.
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"afraid to reveal too much about yourself.
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"You struggle with not wanting to need others for anything.
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In relationships, this emotional distance can make other people confused, angry, and they might even take it personally.
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But the truth is, it's actually a defense mechanism for you.
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Four, you have extreme boundaries.
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Do you have very specific, firm, and strict boundaries?
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This can go as far as restricting the amount of time you spend with others
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or refusing to share about certain parts of your life.
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We do want to emphasize that there's absolutely nothing wrong with boundaries.
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Having healthy boundaries is essential in maintaining healthy relationships.
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However, people who have excessive boundaries may appear distant or closed off.
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Five, you have shallow relationships.
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You like to keep relationships at a shallow level whether it be romantic or platonic.
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In a romantic relationship, you may refuse to meet your partner's family
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or avoid topics and situations that would turn the relationship into a more serious one.
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In a platonic relationship, you may refuse to go into emotional depth about yourself, or have long conversations, or see others that often.
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6. Strong independence.
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Are you extremely independent and self -focused?
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Did you have to fend for yourself at an early age?
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Do you secretly look down on people who depend on others?
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Independence by itself isn't a bad thing.
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As children grow, they should be increasingly more comfortable with making decisions on their own.
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However, when children are forced to become independent too early, Due to neglect?
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they may develop a strong need to always solve problems on their own.
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rather than having developed a healthy level of self -sufficiency.
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7. You have trust issues.
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Did you get the proper attention and care you deserved as a child?
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If not, it's logical that you'd have a hard time trusting others throughout your life.
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Even in adulthood, you struggle to trust even in those closest to you, and will try to distance yourself from wanting or receiving affection from others.
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. and eight.
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You're critical on yourself and others.
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When you have the avoidant attachment style, you may often find fault in those around you.
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This is more associated with a dismissive, avoidant detachment style.
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According to Joyce Catlett, MA from PsychAlive, The trauma that most commonly associated with this attachment style
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empowers the mind's inner critical voice so much that it actually overshadows their inner positive voice.
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As a result, it's easier for you to identify faults within yourself and others compared to the positive qualities.
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We hope you enjoyed learning about the signs of avoidant detachment style.
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Did you recognize any of these signs in yourself or any of your loved ones?
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Vocabulario y notas de pronunciación para esta lección
Esta lección de conversación de nivel B2 se basa en el vídeo “8 Signs of an Avoidant Attachment Style”. Las palabras que más se repiten: avoidant, attachment, relationship, style, emotional. Este vídeo tiene 69 frases y 832 palabras para practicar shadowing. La parte hablada dura 5:07. El hablante habla a un ritmo natural de unas 162 palabras por minuto, cercano a una conversación cotidiana. El 82 % de las palabras está entre las 3.000 más comunes del inglés; conviene repasar el resto antes de empezar. 14 de sus 69 frases son preguntas, así que sirve para practicar la entonación de las preguntas y las respuestas cortas.
Vocabulario clave de este vídeo
Las 15 palabras más avanzadas del vídeo, con su pronunciación y significado:
| Palabra | Pronunciación | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| avoidant adjetivo | /əˈvɔɪdənt/ | evitante, evitador |
| attachment sustantivo | /əˈtæt͡ʃmənt/ | prensión |
| boundary sustantivo | /ˈbaʊndɹi/ | linde, lindero |
| emotion sustantivo | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | afecto, emoción |
| emotionally adverbio | /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/ | emocionalmente |
| neglect verbo | /nɪˈɡlɛkt/ | descuidar, negligir |
| detachment sustantivo | /dɪˈtæt͡ʃmənt/ | desprendimiento, desafijación |
| dismissive adjetivo | /dəsˈmɪsɪv/ | displicente, dar(le) poca importancia a |
| fend verbo | /ˈfɛnd/ | valerse por sí mismo |
| adulthood sustantivo | edad adulta, adultez | |
| vulnerability sustantivo | /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/ | vulnerabilidad |
| internally adverbio | /ɪnˈtɜːnəli/ | internamente, interiormente |
| shallow adjetivo | /ˈʃæloʊ/ | no/poco/nada hondo/profundo, playo |
| uncomfortable adjetivo | /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/ | incómodo |
| closeness sustantivo | /ˈkloʊs.nəs/ | estrechez, estrechura |
Phrasal verbs que vas a escuchar
| Palabra | Significado |
|---|---|
| look down on verbo | menospreciar, ningunear |
Frases que vale la pena repetir
Frases cortas y completas del vídeo que puedes reutilizar en la conversación diaria:
- Do you find that you're better off dealing with things internally?
- Do you have difficulty with emotional expression in relationships?
- Do you keep conversations on a comfortable surface level?
- Do you have very specific, firm, and strict boundaries?
- Are you extremely independent and self -focused?
Gramática en este vídeo
Las estructuras que más usa el hablante, con las palabras exactas del vídeo:
| Estructura | En el vídeo |
|---|---|
| Voz pasiva be + participio pasado — importa lo que ocurre, no quién lo hace | be broken · are forced · are added |
| Oraciones de relativo who / which + oración — información extra sobre una persona o cosa | people who are · people who have · people who depend |
Pronunciación a tener en cuenta
El hablante usa 9 contracciones y formas reducidas, como you're, don't, isn't. Dilas en su forma corta, tal como las oyes.
- Los sonidos de “sh” y “zh”: emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, shallow /ˈʃæloʊ/, overshadow /ˌoʊ.vɚˈʃæd.oʊ/, affection /əˈfɛk.ʃən/
- Palabras largas — cuida el acento: emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, internally /ɪnˈtɜːnəli/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, overshadow /ˌoʊ.vɚˈʃæd.oʊ/
Sonidos difíciles para hispanohablantes:
- /v/ — no es /b/: los dientes tocan el labio inferior: avoidant /əˈvɔɪdənt/, dismissive /dəsˈmɪsɪv/, vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, overshadow /ˌoʊ.vɚˈʃæd.oʊ/, excessive /ɪkˈsɛsɪv/
- /z/ — sonora, no /s/: emphasize /ˈɛm.fə.saɪz/, disclose /dɪsˈkləʊz/
- /dʒ/ — no es la “y” ni la “ch”: discourage /dɪsˈkɝɪd͡ʒ/, logical /ˈlɑd͡ʒɪkəl/
Cómo practicar con este vídeo
- Escucha el vídeo entero una vez sin hablar y anota las palabras que no conoces.
- Empieza a velocidad 0,75×, haz shadowing frase por frase y vuelve a la velocidad normal cuando te resulte fácil.
- Grábate y compara con el original, prestando atención a palabras como avoidant, attachment, boundary.
¿Qué es la Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing es una técnica de aprendizaje de idiomas respaldada por la ciencia, desarrollada originalmente para la formación de intérpretes profesionales y popularizada por el políglota Dr. Alexander Arguelles. El método es simple pero poderoso: escuchas audio en inglés nativo y lo repites en voz alta de inmediato, como una sombra que sigue al hablante con solo 1-2 segundos de retraso. A diferencia de la escucha pasiva o los ejercicios de gramática, el shadowing obliga a tu cerebro y músculos de la boca a procesar y reproducir simultáneamente patrones de habla reales. Las investigaciones muestran que mejora significativamente la precisión de la pronunciación, la entonación, el ritmo, el habla conectada, la comprensión auditiva y la fluidez al hablar, convirtiéndola en una de las metodologías más efectivas para la preparación del IELTS Speaking y la comunicación en inglés en el mundo real.