跟读练习: 7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive - 通过视频学习英语口语
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Seven weird reasons why introverts are attractive to others.
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And look, introverts out there, you might be doing these things without even realizing it.
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The first thing that makes introverts attractive to others, this might be an obvious one, so let's get it out of the way first.
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Introverts are mysterious.
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This is simply by virtue of them being quiet.
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When you don't say much, people don't know what's going on in your brain, and that creates mystery, that creates tension, which people are attracted to.
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Number two, introverts are good listeners, or at least they appear to be good listeners,
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because in a conversation, a one-on-one conversation, they prefer to not say as much,
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and so that can come across as being a good listener, whether you are or not.
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Everyone wants to feel like they are being heard, and introverts just naturally make people feel that way.
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The number three thing is that by being quiet, it makes you seem powerful in a sense because in a conversation,
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the person who says less tends to be the one who holds more power in
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that dynamic simply because they're not expressing as much of what they're thinking.
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A lot of these points you'll find go back to that whole thing of creating tension which creates attraction.
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Number four, this is gonna be controversial.
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Introverts give themselves fewer chances to say annoying things or embarrass themselves in front of others,
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which makes them seem less annoying overall.
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The thing is, the human condition is to be annoying to other people.
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As Jean-Paul Sartre said, hell is other people.
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But extroverts, because they like talking, they like being out there, they're just going to say a lot more annoying things and embarrass themselves more often.
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Introverts just naturally are able to protect themselves by not saying as much.
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It makes people think this introvert has it together.
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Number five, introverts are introspective, which means they have a lot of things figured out in life.
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Because introverts like to spend a lot of time alone, what this means is that they have a lot more time to do internal processing,
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to figure things out, whether it's about life, whether it's about themselves, their own emotions,
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whether it's about other people or even simply a subject matter that they are interested in.
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This is very attractive to other people because they perceive the introvert as being deep and thoughtful.
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Number six, this is one you might be doing accidentally, but because introverts like to be alone, because they might not enjoy going out to parties,
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they might turn down invitations to go out, it makes introverts look really cool.
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You might think, oh, they might think I'm a loser because I don't like to hang out as much.
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I like to be by myself.
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But actually, a lot of times, other people project onto that that you have better things to do, that you're just too cool for them,
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or that you are so good in and of yourself, the party is with you.
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You can have a party by yourself.
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People are really attracted to those who can go out on their own apart from the crowd and be okay with it.
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The number seven thing, because introverts are choosy when it comes to social interaction, they're not just out there talking to everybody.
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When an introvert engages with another person, that person feels special.
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You yourself as an introvert might not think it's particularly meaningful, that they don't really care, but they're thinking to themselves,
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this introvert here doesn't talk to many people and now they're talking to me.
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They're listening to me.
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This cool person, this mysterious person, they're engaging with me and people find themselves attracted to those who show interest in them.
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Might I suggest a book to you?
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You might get it on audio book, Quiet by Susan Cain, the power of introverts in a world that can't stop talking.
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AudibleTrial.com slash FJ for a 30-day free trial and free audio book.
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Thanks for watching, stay cool and attractive.
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本课的词汇与口语要点
这节 B2 级别的口语课以视频“7 Reasons Why Introverts Are So Attractive”为素材。 视频中反复出现的词有：introvert, themselves, annoying, attractive, cool。 这段视频共有 47 个句子、736 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 4:14。 说话人语速自然，每分钟约 174 个词，接近日常对话。 85% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，其余的词建议在练习前先学一下。
视频中的重点词汇
视频中最难的 14 个单词，附发音和释义：
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| introverted 形容词 | /ˈɪn.tɹəˌvɜːɹ.təd/ | 內向 /内向 |
| annoy 动词 | /əˈnoɪ̯/ | 攪擾 /搅扰, 煩擾 /烦扰 |
| listener 名词 | /ˈlɪs(ə)nɚ/ | 傾聽者 /倾听者, 聽者 /听者 |
| embarrass 动词 | /ɪmˈbæɹəs/ | 使…尷尬 /使…尴尬, 使…困窘 |
| mysterious 形容词 | /mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/ | 神秘, 來源不明的 /来源不明的 |
| extrovert 名词 | /ˈɛkstɹəˌvəɹt/ | 外向的人 |
| perceive 动词 | /pɚˈsiv/ | 察覺 /察觉, 感知 |
| thoughtful 形容词 | /ˈθɔːtfəl/ | 周到 |
| loser 名词 | /luzɚ/ | 輸家 /输家 |
| sponsor 名词 | /ˈspɒn.səː/ | 保證人 /保证人 |
| attraction 名词 | /əˈtɹækʃn̩/ | 吸引力 |
| meaningful 形容词 | /ˈmiː.nɪŋ.fl̩/ | 有意義 /有意义 |
| invitation 名词 | /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/ | 邀請 /邀请 |
| emotion 名词 | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | 感情, 情感 |
视频中出现的短语动词
| 单词 | 释义 |
|---|---|
| go out 动词 | 出, 出口 |
| turn down 动词 | 拒絕 /拒绝, 回絕 /回绝 |
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的 | is sponsored · are attracted · being heard |
| 定语从句 who / which + 从句 — 补充说明人或事物 | person who says · introspective, which means · those who can |
需要注意的发音
说话人用了 19 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 they're, don't, you're。请按听到的简短形式来说。
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/
- 长单词——注意重音位置: introverted /ˈɪn.tɹəˌvɜːɹ.təd/, mysterious /mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/, introspective /ˌɪntɹəˈspɛktɪv/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/
中文母语者容易读错的音：
- /v/ — 不要读成 /w/，上齿轻触下唇: introvert /ˈɪn.tɹə.vɝt/, introverted /ˈɪn.tɹəˌvɜːɹ.təd/, extrovert /ˈɛkstɹəˌvəɹt/, introspective /ˌɪntɹəˈspɛktɪv/, perceive /pɚˈsiv/
- 词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: introvert /ˈɪn.tɹə.vɝt/, introverted /ˈɪn.tɹəˌvɜːɹ.təd/, embarrass /ɪmˈbæɹəs/, mysterious /mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/, extrovert /ˈɛkstɹəˌvəɹt/
- /æ/ — 嘴张大，不要读成 /e/: embarrass /ɪmˈbæɹəs/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/
如何用这段视频练习
- 先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
- 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
- 录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 introverted, annoy, listener 这类单词。
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。