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Hey Psych2go family, welcome back to another video.
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Do you have an overwhelming fear of losing your loved ones? You distrust other people or have anxiety about being abandoned?
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Abandonment issues typically arise in childhood, but can develop later on in life as well.
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The fear of abandonment is a serious type of anxiety that often stems from a traumatic experience.
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Some aren't even aware of their own repressed emotional trauma.
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But it can manifest into unhealthy behaviours over time. So, here are 7 Signs You may Have Abandonment Issues.
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One: you're a people pleaser.
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Do you want to impress everyone you meet? Whether it's your friends, acquaintances, or family members, you try to meet their expectations to get on their good side.
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You're the one who tries harder in your relationship, and you're willing to put everyone else's needs ahead of yours, as long as it gets them to stay. If you have a strong need to please people and gain their approval, you may still have some unresolved abandonment issues.
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Two: you struggle with insecurity.
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Do you sometimes think that someday, the people closest to you will get sick of you and leave? People who are afraid of being abandoned often struggle with feelings of insecurity and inadequacy because someone you loved has walked out on you in the past.
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You've internalized the emotional trauma. You may have wrongly believed that it was YOUR fault that they left.
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This can result in low self-esteem and a need for constant re-assurance.
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Three: you find it hard to trust people Do you find it hard to trust others to keep their promises or to be there for you? You want to be in control of your relationships and know everything that's going on with your loved ones?
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Because you've been hurt in the past, you have a strong fear of being left alone. In certain cases, it can lead to feelings of unreasonable jealously, suspicion, and possessiveness over your friends and romantic partners.
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Four: you're afraid to be vulnerable Do you feel uncomfortable during moments of emotional intimacy and honesty?
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Are you scared of getting close to someone or needing them too much?
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Your deep-seeded fear of abandonment may manifest into a fear of intimacy and emotional vulnerability. You may unconsciously sabotage your relationships by pushing people away just as you start to care for them.
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You may struggle with commitment, and act detached and indifferent when you really do care.
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Five: you look for reasons to leave.
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Do you always look for reasons to leave in fear of getting too attached to someone?
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You hold your loved ones to unrealistically high standards and you only focus on their flaws. You don't give them any room for mistakes. You do this knowing that they're bound to disappoint you. And when they fail to meet your expectations, you use it as an excuse to give up and leave.
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Six: you move on too quickly Do you have difficulty forming meaningful relationships that last because of deep-seeded fear of abandonment?
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When you cycle through relationships one after another and move on too quickly, you're not allowing yourself the time and space to deal with the emotional fallout.
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Instead, you dive into something new and exciting to distract yourself.
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You never want to be alone, because it would force you to confront the personal issues you've been repressing for so long.
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And number 7...
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you cling to unhealthy relationships Do you find yourself gravitating towards all the wrong people?
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Have you stayed with someone knowing they're bad for you?
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The trauma of being abandoned, especially at a young age, can stay with you for a long time.
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And since we're all hard-wired to recreate our early childhood experiences for the comfort and familiarity, your childhood taught you the wrong things about love.
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It's not uncommon for you to be drawn to people who treat you poorly.
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Do you relate to any of the signs mentioned here?
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I know I did...
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Is a fear of abandonment harming your relationships and keeping you from being happy? Let us know in the comments below.
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Về bài học này

Bài học hôm nay sẽ giúp bạn thực hành khả năng nghe và nói tiếng Anh thông qua một video thú vị về những dấu hiệu cho thấy bạn có vấn đề về sự bỏ rơi. Bạn sẽ học cách nhận diện cảm xúc của chính mình và những vấn đề tiềm ẩn có thể ảnh hưởng đến mối quan hệ. Bằng cách lắng nghe và thực hành với video này, bạn không chỉ cải thiện kỹ năng giao tiếp mà còn hiểu rõ hơn về tâm lý của con người.

Từ vựng & Cụm từ chính

  • Abandonment issues: Vấn đề về sự bỏ rơi
  • Fear of abandonment: Nỗi sợ bị bỏ rơi
  • Emotional trauma: Chấn thương cảm xúc
  • People pleaser: Người làm vừa lòng người khác
  • Trust issues: Vấn đề về sự tin tưởng
  • Emotional intimacy: Sự gần gũi về mặt cảm xúc
  • Insecurity: Sự thiếu tự tin
  • Commitment: Cam kết

Mẹo thực hành

Khi thực hành với video này, bạn nên tập trung vào việc shadow speak, nghĩa là lặp lại các câu nói ngay sau khi nghe. Hãy chú ý đến tốc độ và ngữ điệu của người nói để bắt chước cách phát âm và nhấn nhá. Video này có thể có một nhịp độ ổn định nhưng cũng không quá chậm, vì vậy hãy luyện nghe nói qua video nhiều lần để làm quen với âm điệu và cách trình bày. Sử dụng các phần mềm shadowing có sẵn hoặc các shadowing site có thể giúp bạn dễ dàng theo dõi từng từ cũng như ngữ cảnh của nó. Bạn hãy cố gắng lặp lại không chỉ nội dung mà cả cảm xúc mà người nói truyền tải, điều này sẽ cải thiện đáng kể khả năng giao tiếp và hiểu biết của bạn về ngôn ngữ.

Ngữ pháp trong video

Những cấu trúc người nói dùng nhiều nhất, kèm đúng cụm từ trong video:

Cấu trúcTrong video
Câu bị động be + quá khứ phân từ — nhấn vào việc xảy ra, không phải người làmbeing abandoned · you've been hurt · be drawn
Thì hiện tại hoàn thành have/has + quá khứ phân từ — việc đã xảy ra nhưng còn liên quan đến hiện tạihas walked · You've internalized · you've been hurt
Mệnh đề quan hệ who / which + mệnh đề — thêm thông tin về người hoặc vậtone who tries · People who are · people who treat

Phương Pháp Shadowing Là Gì?

Shadowing là kỹ thuật học ngôn ngữ có cơ sở khoa học, ban đầu được phát triển cho chương trình đào tạo phiên dịch viên chuyên nghiệp và được phổ biến rộng rãi bởi nhà đa ngôn ngữ học Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Nguyên lý cốt lõi đơn giản nhưng cực kỳ hiệu quả: bạn nghe tiếng Anh của người bản xứ và lặp lại to ngay lập tức — như một "cái bóng" (shadow) đuổi theo người nói với độ trễ chỉ 1–2 giây. Khác với luyện ngữ pháp hay học từ vựng bị động, Shadowing buộc não bộ và cơ miệng phải đồng thời xử lý và tái tạo ngôn ngữ thực tế. Các nghiên cứu khoa học xác nhận phương pháp này cải thiện đáng kể phát âm, ngữ điệu, nhịp điệu, nối âm, kỹ năng nghe và độ lưu loát khi nói — đặc biệt hiệu quả cho người luyện IELTS Speaking và muốn giao tiếp tiếng Anh tự nhiên như người bản ngữ.

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