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So, what do you like in a person?

Many of us would initially respond with things like, someone tall, or I like green eyes.

Well, what about those times you look at people you've liked in the past and thought to yourself, but they don't all look alike.

Or you've encountered someone who seems to be your ideal in every single way on paper, but you meet them and wonder, who are you?

The answer to that mystery is that attraction is based on three things.

You consider them approachable, believe in positive factoids about them, and if they make you feel good.

If the trifecta is incomplete, this could lead to not being attracted to the person, no matter how

Hollywood -asked that smile is.

Here are six psychological things that make you less attractive.

Number one, being sleep -deprived.

No matter how much caffeine you swill, sleep deprivation takes a toll on everything.

This could ruin the first impression meeting with someone.

When you first meet someone, you have a limited amount of information to decide your next steps.

Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?

As humans, we rely on sight initially to give us that quick initial assessment.

So if you show up looking like a haggard potato, your selfie or Instagram buddy potential isn't the only thing that's less than stellar.

Other attraction factors like the appearance of health and trustworthiness also take a hit.

Number two, body smell.

That bio is one thing, and there are plenty of products and methods to avoid it.

But ever think about a similar body odor?

This goes deep and comes from your DNA.

We have something called a major histocompatibility complex, or MHC.

They're a group of genes that do coating to help out the immune system, and they influence body odor.

So bathing yourself in cologne doesn't change anything studies have found

that women were more attracted to men with dissimilar MHCs to their own

this is hypothesized to encourage gene variability thus a stronger immune system number three excessive focus on appearance hey

we're all into looking good and feeling good you do you

and love yourself for it just don't let it go overboard sure initial encounters are are strongly influenced by physical attractiveness, but that's fleeting.

No matter how much of a hottie they appear to be, if all they care about is their self -image, that becomes a repulsing factor.

It's true that in the end, we need substance.

And if all we're getting is air, we're outie.

Number four, not being humble.

When you get a win, do you crow that it was all you, that you're just legendary and single -handedly did it all?

or do you credit those who helped you like friends teachers family

and maybe even

that one cashier who would stay five minutes late every shift just to make sure

you could get some food at the end of the night

humility also known as a modest view of oneself was found to help not only start

but maintain romantic relationships with humble partners being scored as more attractive than and arrogant ones.

So although we like to contribute for the good of the cause, we still wanna be acknowledged for our part,

whether it be a project or a partnership.

If that recognition is usurped, where it's only their name on the credit reel, we tend to feel cheated, betrayed, or used.

Number five, overly smiley or too proud.

Related to the previous point, this is all about how you hold yourself or appear in pictures.

If you look pompous, puffed out, and arrogant, or over -smiley, it gives the same vibe as not being humble.

This type of nonverbal expression implies that perhaps that smile can't be trusted, and that pride may override the well -being of anyone other than themselves.

And number six, contractive body language.

Turtles are cute, but it's because they're turtles.

You're a human.

Don't try to turtle yourself.

It was found in a study between several universities

that people become more attractive when their posture and bodily display are more expansive.

Like open arms and a non -hunched back.

It singles welcome.

The opposite of that, contractual body language, like crossing your arms and legs and hunching over, decreases desirability.

This is conveying a message of, don't come close, I'm closing myself off from you.

So if you want to welcome people in, go ahead and put your body into it.

We used to think attraction equals physical beauty, but we know now that attraction is a complex thing involving the whole person,

inside and out, flaws and all.

Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?

Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?

We'd love to see you get into some good conversation below.

And if we could humbly ask for a like, that would be super appreciated it.

Thanks for watching, and catch you next time!

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Этот урок разговорной практики построен на видео «6 Psychological Things That make You Less Attractive». Чаще всего повторяются слова: attraction, turtle, humble, attractive. В этом видео 64 предложений и 839 слов для шедоуинга. Речь длится 5:00. Говорящий говорит в естественном темпе, около 168 слов в минуту, близком к повседневной речи. 84% слов входят в 3000 самых частых слов английского языка; остальные стоит разобрать перед занятием.

Ключевая лексика этого видео

15 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:

Слово	Произношение	Значение
attraction существительное	/əˈtɹækʃn̩/	привлека́тельность, аттракцио́н
humble прилагательное	/ˈhʌmbəl/	скро́мный, смире́нный
turtle существительное	/ˈtɝtl̩/	черепа́ха, желвь
gene существительное	/d͡ʒiːn/	ген
encounter глагол	/ɪnˈkaʊntɚ/	встре́тить, столкну́ться
attract глагол	/əˈtɹækt/	притя́гивать, притяну́ть
arrogant прилагательное	/ˈæɹəɡənt/	надме́нный, высокоме́рный
partnership существительное	/ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/	партнёрство
recognition существительное	/ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/	узнава́ние, распознава́ние
strongly наречие	/ˈstɹɔŋli/	си́льно
assessment существительное	/əˈsɛsmənt/	оце́нка налогообложе́ния
encourage глагол	/ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/	ободря́ть, обо́дрить
mystery существительное	/ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/	та́йна, зага́дка
bath существительное	/bɑːθ/	ва́нна
ideal прилагательное	/aɪˈdi(ə)l/	идеа́льный

Фразовые глаголы, которые вы услышите

Слово	Произношение	Значение
go ahead глагол	/ˌɡoʊ əˈhɛd/	дава́й, приступа́йте
show up глагол		объявля́ться, объяви́ться
work out глагол	/ˌwɝk ˈaʊt/	рассчи́тывать, рассчита́ть

Фразы, которые стоит повторять

Короткие законченные фразы из видео, которые пригодятся в повседневном разговоре:

Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?
It's true that in the end, we need substance.
Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?
Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?

Грамматика в этом видео

Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:

Конструкция	В видео
Пассивный залог be + причастие прошедшего времени — важно, что происходит, а не кто это делает	is based · being attracted · is hypothesized
Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчас	you've liked · you've encountered · have found
Придаточные определительные who / which + предложение — уточнение о человеке или предмете	someone who seems · those who helped
Present Continuous am/is/are + -ing — то, что происходит сейчас или в эти дни	we're getting · is conveying

Произношение, на которое стоит обратить внимание

Говорящий использует 19 сокращённых и редуцированных форм, например don't, we're, they're. Произносите их коротко, так, как слышите.

Звуки «th»: bath /bɑːθ/, hypothesize /haɪˈpɑ.θəˌsaɪz/, trustworthiness /ˈtɹʌst.wɜɹ.ði.nɛs/
Звуки «sh» и «zh»: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, partnership /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, impression /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/, cashier /kaˈʃɪə/
Длинные слова — следите за ударением: recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, legendary /ˈlɛd͡ʒ.ənˌdɛɹ.i/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/

Звуки, трудные для русскоязычных:

/w/ — губы округлены, это не /v/: swill /swɪl/, trustworthiness /ˈtɹʌst.wɜɹ.ði.nɛs/
/h/ — лёгкий выдох, а не русское «х»: humble /ˈhʌmbəl/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, hunch /hʌnt͡ʃ/, haggard /ˈhæɡ.ɚd/, hottie /ˈhɒti/
Звонкие согласные в конце слова — не оглушайте их: encourage /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/, involve /ɪnˈvɑlv/, acknowledge /əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/, excessive /ɪkˈsɛsɪv/, vibe /vaɪb/

Как заниматься с этим видео

Прослушайте всё видео один раз молча и выпишите незнакомые слова.
Начните со скорости 0,75×, повторяйте предложение за предложением и вернитесь к обычной скорости, когда станет легко.
Запишите себя и сравните с оригиналом, обращая внимание на такие слова, как attraction, humble, turtle.

Что такое техника Shadowing?

Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.

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