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So, what do you like in a person?
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Many of us would initially respond with things like, someone tall, or I like green eyes.
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Well, what about those times you look at people you've liked in the past and thought to yourself, but they don't all look alike.
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Or you've encountered someone who seems to be your ideal in every single way on paper, but you meet them and wonder, who are you?
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The answer to that mystery is that attraction is based on three things.
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You consider them approachable, believe in positive factoids about them, and if they make you feel good.
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If the trifecta is incomplete, this could lead to not being attracted to the person, no matter how
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Hollywood -asked that smile is.
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Here are six psychological things that make you less attractive.
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Number one, being sleep -deprived.
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No matter how much caffeine you swill, sleep deprivation takes a toll on everything.
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This could ruin the first impression meeting with someone.
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When you first meet someone, you have a limited amount of information to decide your next steps.
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Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?
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As humans, we rely on sight initially to give us that quick initial assessment.
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So if you show up looking like a haggard potato, your selfie or Instagram buddy potential isn't the only thing that's less than stellar.
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Other attraction factors like the appearance of health and trustworthiness also take a hit.
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Number two, body smell.
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That bio is one thing, and there are plenty of products and methods to avoid it.
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But ever think about a similar body odor?
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This goes deep and comes from your DNA.
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We have something called a major histocompatibility complex, or MHC.
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They're a group of genes that do coating to help out the immune system, and they influence body odor.
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So bathing yourself in cologne doesn't change anything studies have found
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that women were more attracted to men with dissimilar MHCs to their own
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this is hypothesized to encourage gene variability thus a stronger immune system number three excessive focus on appearance hey
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we're all into looking good and feeling good you do you
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and love yourself for it just don't let it go overboard sure initial encounters are are strongly influenced by physical attractiveness, but that's fleeting.
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No matter how much of a hottie they appear to be, if all they care about is their self -image, that becomes a repulsing factor.
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It's true that in the end, we need substance.
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And if all we're getting is air, we're outie.
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Number four, not being humble.
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When you get a win, do you crow that it was all you, that you're just legendary and single -handedly did it all?
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or do you credit those who helped you like friends teachers family
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and maybe even
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that one cashier who would stay five minutes late every shift just to make sure
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you could get some food at the end of the night
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humility also known as a modest view of oneself was found to help not only start
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but maintain romantic relationships with humble partners being scored as more attractive than and arrogant ones.
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So although we like to contribute for the good of the cause, we still wanna be acknowledged for our part,
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whether it be a project or a partnership.
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If that recognition is usurped, where it's only their name on the credit reel, we tend to feel cheated, betrayed, or used.
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Number five, overly smiley or too proud.
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Related to the previous point, this is all about how you hold yourself or appear in pictures.
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If you look pompous, puffed out, and arrogant, or over -smiley, it gives the same vibe as not being humble.
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This type of nonverbal expression implies that perhaps that smile can't be trusted, and that pride may override the well -being of anyone other than themselves.
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And number six, contractive body language.
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Turtles are cute, but it's because they're turtles.
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You're a human.
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Don't try to turtle yourself.
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It was found in a study between several universities
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that people become more attractive when their posture and bodily display are more expansive.
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Like open arms and a non -hunched back.
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It singles welcome.
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The opposite of that, contractual body language, like crossing your arms and legs and hunching over, decreases desirability.
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This is conveying a message of, don't come close, I'm closing myself off from you.
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So if you want to welcome people in, go ahead and put your body into it.
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We used to think attraction equals physical beauty, but we know now that attraction is a complex thing involving the whole person,
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inside and out, flaws and all.
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Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?
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Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?
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We'd love to see you get into some good conversation below.
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And if we could humbly ask for a like, that would be super appreciated it.
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Thanks for watching, and catch you next time!
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu konuşma dersi “6 Psychological Things That make You Less Attractive” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: attraction, turtle, humble, attractive. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 64 cümle ve 839 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 5:00 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 168 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %84’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| attraction isim | /əˈtɹækʃn̩/ | çekim, atraksiyon |
| humble sıfat | /ˈhʌmbəl/ | gösterişsiz, mütevazı |
| turtle isim | /ˈtɝtl̩/ | kaplumbağa, tosbağa |
| gene isim | /d͡ʒiːn/ | gen |
| encounter fiil | /ɪnˈkaʊntɚ/ | rastlamak |
| arrogant sıfat | /ˈæɹəɡənt/ | kibirli, tekebbürlü |
| partnership isim | /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/ | ortaklık |
| recognition isim | /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/ | tanınma |
| encourage fiil | /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/ | teşvik etmek, cesaretlendirmek |
| mystery isim | /ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/ | gizem, esrâr |
| bath isim | /bɑːθ/ | küvet |
| buddy | /ˈbʌdi/ | ahbap |
| coat isim | /ˈkoʊ̯t/ | palto |
| impression isim | /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/ | intiba, tesir |
| fleet isim | /ˈfliːt/ | filo, donanma |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Anlam |
|---|---|
| show up fiil | ortaya çıkmak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?
- It's true that in the end, we need substance.
- Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?
- Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | is based · being attracted · is hypothesized |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | you've liked · you've encountered · have found |
| İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgi | someone who seems · those who helped |
| Present continuous am/is/are + -ing — şu anda ya da bu sıralar olan bir şey | we're getting · is conveying |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı don't, we're, they're gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 19 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: bath /bɑːθ/, hypothesize /haɪˈpɑ.θəˌsaɪz/, trustworthiness /ˈtɹʌst.wɜɹ.ði.nɛs/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, partnership /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, impression /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/, cashier /kaˈʃɪə/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, legendary /ˈlɛd͡ʒ.ənˌdɛɹ.i/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- /w/ — dudaklar yuvarlak, /v/ değil: swill /swɪl/, trustworthiness /ˈtɹʌst.wɜɹ.ði.nɛs/
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: strongly /ˈstɹɔŋli/, fleet /ˈfliːt/, crow /kɹoʊ/, stellar /ˈstɛl.əɹ/, flaw /flɔ/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, attract /əˈtɹækt/, arrogant /ˈæɹəɡənt/, romantic /ɹoʊˈmæn(t)ɪk/, caffeine /ˈkæfiːn/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; attraction, humble, turtle gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
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