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So, what do you like in a person?
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Many of us would initially respond with things like, someone tall, or I like green eyes.
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Well, what about those times you look at people you've liked in the past and thought to yourself, but they don't all look alike.
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Or you've encountered someone who seems to be your ideal in every single way on paper, but you meet them and wonder, who are you?
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The answer to that mystery is that attraction is based on three things.
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You consider them approachable, believe in positive factoids about them, and if they make you feel good.
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If the trifecta is incomplete, this could lead to not being attracted to the person, no matter how
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Hollywood -asked that smile is.
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Here are six psychological things that make you less attractive.
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Number one, being sleep -deprived.
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No matter how much caffeine you swill, sleep deprivation takes a toll on everything.
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This could ruin the first impression meeting with someone.
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When you first meet someone, you have a limited amount of information to decide your next steps.
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Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?
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As humans, we rely on sight initially to give us that quick initial assessment.
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So if you show up looking like a haggard potato, your selfie or Instagram buddy potential isn't the only thing that's less than stellar.
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Other attraction factors like the appearance of health and trustworthiness also take a hit.
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Number two, body smell.
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That bio is one thing, and there are plenty of products and methods to avoid it.
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But ever think about a similar body odor?
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This goes deep and comes from your DNA.
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We have something called a major histocompatibility complex, or MHC.
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They're a group of genes that do coating to help out the immune system, and they influence body odor.
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So bathing yourself in cologne doesn't change anything studies have found
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that women were more attracted to men with dissimilar MHCs to their own
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this is hypothesized to encourage gene variability thus a stronger immune system number three excessive focus on appearance hey
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we're all into looking good and feeling good you do you
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and love yourself for it just don't let it go overboard sure initial encounters are are strongly influenced by physical attractiveness, but that's fleeting.
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No matter how much of a hottie they appear to be, if all they care about is their self -image, that becomes a repulsing factor.
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It's true that in the end, we need substance.
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And if all we're getting is air, we're outie.
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Number four, not being humble.
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When you get a win, do you crow that it was all you, that you're just legendary and single -handedly did it all?
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or do you credit those who helped you like friends teachers family
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and maybe even
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that one cashier who would stay five minutes late every shift just to make sure
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you could get some food at the end of the night
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humility also known as a modest view of oneself was found to help not only start
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but maintain romantic relationships with humble partners being scored as more attractive than and arrogant ones.
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So although we like to contribute for the good of the cause, we still wanna be acknowledged for our part,
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whether it be a project or a partnership.
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If that recognition is usurped, where it's only their name on the credit reel, we tend to feel cheated, betrayed, or used.
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Number five, overly smiley or too proud.
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Related to the previous point, this is all about how you hold yourself or appear in pictures.
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If you look pompous, puffed out, and arrogant, or over -smiley, it gives the same vibe as not being humble.
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This type of nonverbal expression implies that perhaps that smile can't be trusted, and that pride may override the well -being of anyone other than themselves.
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And number six, contractive body language.
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Turtles are cute, but it's because they're turtles.
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You're a human.
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Don't try to turtle yourself.
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It was found in a study between several universities
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that people become more attractive when their posture and bodily display are more expansive.
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Like open arms and a non -hunched back.
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It singles welcome.
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The opposite of that, contractual body language, like crossing your arms and legs and hunching over, decreases desirability.
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This is conveying a message of, don't come close, I'm closing myself off from you.
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So if you want to welcome people in, go ahead and put your body into it.
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We used to think attraction equals physical beauty, but we know now that attraction is a complex thing involving the whole person,
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inside and out, flaws and all.
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Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?
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Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?
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We'd love to see you get into some good conversation below.
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And if we could humbly ask for a like, that would be super appreciated it.
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Thanks for watching, and catch you next time!
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Vocabolario e note di pronuncia per questa lezione
Questa lezione di conversazione si basa sul video “6 Psychological Things That make You Less Attractive”. Le parole che ritornano più spesso: attraction, turtle, humble, attractive. Questo video contiene 64 frasi e 839 parole da ripetere con lo shadowing. Il parlato dura 5:00. Chi parla ha un ritmo naturale di circa 168 parole al minuto, vicino a una conversazione quotidiana. Il 84% delle parole rientra nelle 3.000 più comuni dell’inglese; conviene studiare le altre prima di iniziare.
Vocaboli chiave di questo video
15 parole del video che vale la pena imparare, con pronuncia e significato:
| Parola | Pronuncia | Significato |
|---|---|---|
| attraction sostantivo | /əˈtɹækʃn̩/ | attrazione, attrattiva |
| humble aggettivo | /ˈhʌmbəl/ | umile, modesto |
| turtle sostantivo | /ˈtɝtl̩/ | tartaruga, testuggine |
| gene sostantivo | /d͡ʒiːn/ | gene |
| attract verbo | /əˈtɹækt/ | attirare |
| immune aggettivo | /ɪˈmjuːn/ | immune |
| arrogant aggettivo | /ˈæɹəɡənt/ | arrogante |
| partnership sostantivo | /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/ | partenariato |
| strongly avverbio | /ˈstɹɔŋli/ | fortemente, fermamente |
| assessment sostantivo | /əˈsɛsmənt/ | accertamento |
| encourage verbo | /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/ | incoraggiare, raccomandare |
| mystery sostantivo | /ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/ | mistero, arcano |
| bath sostantivo | /bɑːθ/ | bagno, vasca da bagno |
| ideal aggettivo | /aɪˈdi(ə)l/ | ideale |
| romantic aggettivo | /ɹoʊˈmæn(t)ɪk/ | romantico |
I phrasal verb che sentirai
| Parola | Pronuncia | Significato |
|---|---|---|
| go ahead verbo | /ˌɡoʊ əˈhɛd/ | procedere, andare avanti |
| help out verbo | essere d'aiuto |
Frasi da ripetere
Frasi brevi e complete del video che puoi riutilizzare nella conversazione di tutti i giorni:
- Should you get closer or should you back away slowly?
- It's true that in the end, we need substance.
- Which of these things have you noticed in yourself or others?
- Have you tried changing anything and how did it work out?
La grammatica di questo video
Le strutture che chi parla usa di più, con le parole esatte del video:
| Struttura | Nel video |
|---|---|
| Forma passiva be + participio passato — conta ciò che accade, non chi lo fa | is based · being attracted · is hypothesized |
| Present perfect have/has + participio passato — un’azione passata che conta ancora adesso | you've liked · you've encountered · have found |
| Frasi relative who / which + frase — un’informazione in più su una persona o una cosa | someone who seems · those who helped |
| Present continuous am/is/are + -ing — qualcosa che succede adesso o in questo periodo | we're getting · is conveying |
Pronuncia a cui fare attenzione
Chi parla usa 19 contrazioni e forme ridotte, come don't, we're, they're. Pronunciale nella forma breve, così come le senti.
- I suoni “th”: bath /bɑːθ/, hypothesize /haɪˈpɑ.θəˌsaɪz/, trustworthiness /ˈtɹʌst.wɜɹ.ði.nɛs/
- I suoni “sh” e “zh”: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, partnership /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, impression /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/, cashier /kaˈʃɪə/
- Parole lunghe — attenzione all’accento: recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, legendary /ˈlɛd͡ʒ.ənˌdɛɹ.i/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/
I suoni difficili per chi parla italiano:
- /h/ — va soffiata, non è muta: humble /ˈhʌmbəl/, humility /hjuːˈmɪlɪti/, hunch /hʌnt͡ʃ/, haggard /ˈhæɡ.ɚd/, hottie /ˈhɒti/
- Consonante finale — senza aggiungere una vocale dopo: attract /əˈtɹækt/, arrogant /ˈæɹəɡənt/, partnership /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/, assessment /əˈsɛsmənt/, encourage /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/
- /æ/ — più aperta della “e”: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, attract /əˈtɹækt/, arrogant /ˈæɹəɡənt/, romantic /ɹoʊˈmæn(t)ɪk/, caffeine /ˈkæfiːn/
Come esercitarsi con questo video
- Ascolta tutto il video una volta senza parlare e annota le parole che non conosci.
- Inizia a velocità 0,75×, fai shadowing frase per frase e torna alla velocità normale quando diventa facile.
- Registrati e confronta con l’originale, facendo attenzione a parole come attraction, humble, turtle.
Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?
Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.