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Hey Psych2Goers, welcome back to another video.
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Now, back to the video.
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How attractive do you think you seem to other people?
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Are you insecure about certain parts of yourself?
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Everyone has their own insecurities about themselves, and may fear how it may come off for other people.
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But you never know.
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Those very same qualities in yourself that you're insecure about are traits that some people may actually appreciate and find attractive
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While there's certainly some truth in the saying no one can know you better than you know yourself
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When it comes to attractiveness, sometimes we just can't tell because we're
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so hard on ourselves To help you with that here are eight flaws that actually make you more attractive Number one,
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you're shy Do you speak in a soft voice but prefer to keep quiet most of the time?
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Are you the type to duck your head or fidget when people look at you?
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While you may have a hard time believing this, there are actually a lot of people out there who find shyness an attractive trait to have.
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In a world where sociable, talkative, take-charge types of people are all clamoring to be the center of attention,
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there may be something refreshing about being with someone who likes to listen more than they like to talk.
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After all, shy people are often seen as more mysterious, intriguing, and down to earth compared to others.
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Number 2.
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You're clumsy.
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Another trait that some find surprisingly attractive is clumsiness.
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In fact, psychology says that men, in particular, tend to find clumsiness in women to be attractive, not only because it makes them seem more genuine,
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youthful, and excitable, but also because it makes them feel needed.
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Clumsiness also makes people feel compelled to approach you
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and to help you out
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when you're a rut according to statistics only a small percentage of you who watch our videos are actually subscribed
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so if you haven't
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see do consider subscribing it would help a lot with youtube's
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algorithm in promoting more of our mental health content thanks for
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being here number three you're easily embarrassed do you often get flustered
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when people tease you or get embarrassed when your friends poke fun at you for something Do you tend to blush, squeal, or cover your face when this happens?
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While this may seem like a flaw to some people, being easily embarrassed is quite an attractive trait to others, especially to men.
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Similar to the previous point, people who are easily embarrassed seem more genuine because they don't try to hide their true feelings.
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Number four, you're nerdy.
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Those who get called nerds or geeks often get a bad reputation for or loving something deeply.
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But what's so wrong with that?
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Whether it's comic books, anime, video games, Broadway musicals, or some other obscure interest not a lot of people can relate to.
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Being a nerd isn't something you should be ashamed of In fact, there are some who find nerds attractive for the very same reasons they're criticized for
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They're driven excited and most of all passionate about the things they enjoy Number five,
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you're too honest Do you always say what you mean?
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To those who are tired of listening to everyone telling them
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what they want to hear It can be nice to have someone who always tells the truth no matter what
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Being honest can be a very attractive trait
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Because it means that you're not going to waste their time by beating around the bush
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or by playing mind games with them
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Despite how difficult it may be you are able to just come out and say what they need to hear
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number six you're an oversharer oh I shouldn't have said that sorry.
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I've been talking and sharing so much Does this sound like you?
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Well, the good news is one of the silver linings to being an overshare is
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that it makes you seem more sincere and approachable
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While some may prefer a mystery there are those who like it when someone is an open book
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This may be because your openness creates a comfortable environment for them to open up
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and to share things about themselves They don't usually share it makes it easier for them to develop closeness
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and intimacy in a relationship Number seven, you take things slow.
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Do you always take a long time making decisions because you tend to overthink things and focus on all the details?
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Do you always have a lot going on in your mind?
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You're probably a deep thinker and the type who likes to observe the situation before forming an opinion.
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Unlike those who are always craving excitement or chasing one thrill after the other in their lives,
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you appreciate and savor the peace and quiet in your life and prefer to take your time with things.
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And to people who feel the same way, this can be a very appealing quality to have.
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And number eight, you crave support.
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As humans, it's normal to crave affection from others.
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Though it's true that sometimes people who openly desire warmth, sympathy, and encouragement from others can be a bit off-putting at times,
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especially when they seem too needy or desperate.
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There is something nice about being with someone who makes you feel needed.
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Whether it's kind words, sweet gestures, thoughtful gifts, or simply time and attention.
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Having a partner who wants and asks for support can be a very attractive quality.
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About This Lesson
In this lesson, you’ll practice understanding and using conversational English while exploring a relatable topic: how perceived "flaws" can be attractive. You’ll focus on natural speech patterns, including pacing, intonation, and casual phrasing, which are key for English speaking practice and even IELTS speaking practice. The video’s friendly, conversational tone makes it ideal for honing your ability to follow and replicate everyday dialogue.
Key Vocabulary & Phrases
- Clamoring: Competing noisily to be noticed (e.g., "Sociable types are always clamoring for attention").
- Intriguing: Fascinating or mysterious (e.g., "Shy people often seem more intriguing").
- Compelled: Forced or strongly motivated to do something (e.g., "Clumsiness can make others feel compelled to help").
- Oversharer: Someone who shares too much personal information (e.g., "Being an oversharer has unexpected upsides").
- Beating around the bush: Avoiding direct talk (e.g., "Honest people don’t beat around the bush").
Practice Tips
To master the video’s tone and improve your pronunciation, try shadow speak (repeating lines immediately after the speaker). The video’s moderate speed—common in casual conversations—lets you focus on matching intonation, especially in phrases like "you never know" or "what’s so wrong with that?" Pause and replay sections where the speaker emphasizes words (e.g., "genuine," "passionate") to mimic stress patterns, a crucial skill for clear communication. For shadowspeaks practice, break longer sentences into chunks: "While you may have a hard time believing this / there are actually a lot of people / who find shyness attractive." This helps with pacing and fluency, both essential for improving English pronunciation and sounding natural in real-life interactions.
Grammar in this video
The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:
| Structure | In the video |
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| Relative clauses who / which + clause — extra information about a person or thing | someone who likes · people who are · Those who get |
| Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does it | are often seen · are actually subscribed · are added |
What is the Shadowing Technique?
Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.