쉐도잉 연습: English Speaking Practice - Speak with me! (Shadowing Method) - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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Do you want to start thinking in English faster instead of just translating everything in your head?
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In this video, you are going to shout out a real story written the way native English speakers actually talk.
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This helps you connect directly to meaning, so your brain starts processing English faster and more naturally.
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At the same time, you improve your pronunciation, rhythm, listening, and speaking by copying real English.
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So read with me, shadow out loud, and train your brain to think in English.
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This video is part of my 3000 most common English word
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series designed to help you understand up to 95% of spoken English.
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If you want to get the 3000 most common English words PDF, it's in the description.
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Let's get started.
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My brother and sister-in-law planned their baby shower on the same day as my wedding.
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So to start off guys, do you know what a baby shower is?
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Do you know what a baby shower is?
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If you know what it is, let me know in the comments right now.
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So a baby shower is a celebratory party held for parents that are expecting a baby.
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So it's kind of to celebrate the upcoming birth of your child.
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A baby shower.
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So the child isn't born yet, but the woman is pregnant.
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So they celebrate the upcoming birth of that child.
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A baby shower.
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And remember guys to read on the right hand side and shadow me.
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I, 25 male, met my beautiful fiance, 25 female, in September 2024.
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I moved from my state to her state three months after we met so I could be closer to her.
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We got engaged in July 2025, exactly 10 months after we met, and we set the wedding date for March 14th.
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No offense, but you think the women would be the ones bringing all the drama to our wedding, right?
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Not in this case.
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My two older brothers, let's call them Dumb, aka Jay, 36 male, and Dumber,
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aka Pat, 33 male, have brought nothing but drama to my wedding.
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So his brothers are a lot older than him.
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He's 25 and his other siblings are 33 and 36.
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So that's an 8 and 11 year difference.
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I asked both of my brothers to be groomsmen since I was the best man in Pat's wedding
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and also in Jay's wedding.
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They both said yes, and that's where the drama begins.
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A month later, Pat calls me
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and says he won't be able to make it to my wedding
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because his wife is pregnant and her due date is in late April.
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Mind you, my wedding is five to six weeks before her due date, and it's only about a four-hour drive.
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If you want to learn faster and go deeper than the video, then get the workbook on my website, vocaenglish.com.
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The workbook explains everything in greater detail and comes with exercises to help you learn new vocabulary,
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grammar, tenses, sentence patterns, comprehension and real English you can actually use.
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I also have workbooks for past videos so you can keep practicing and improving every lesson.
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Click the link in my description to get the workbooks.
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I brushed it off, congratulated him on the pregnancy and moved on.
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I then asked another friend of mine who's also out of state.
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Let's call him Steve if he would take Pat's place.
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And he said yes.
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Come Black Friday, I decided to rent our suits since that's normally cheaper.
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It was $175 on sale because of Black Friday for the suit, shoes, shirt, belt, and pants.
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Steve and Jay complained that it was too much money, that it was Black Friday, and that since they have kids,
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they wouldn't be able to spend that much on renting a suit.
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They then reached out to me separately and asked if we could buy instead since that would be cheaper.
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So I gave in and the suits, shoes, belts, shirts and pants came out to a total of $250.
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So much for buying being cheaper.
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Fast forward to January, my fiance
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and I decided to have a joint bachelor-bachelorette trip in the
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mountains since we figured it would be more fun with more people.
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The girls would do their own thing during the day, the guys would do their own thing, and we'd all do a group activity together in the evening.
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We decided to do it in January since Jay is an accountant and wouldn't have been able to do it sooner.
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After my fiancé sent out all the details, Jay and Steve declined the invitation to the Batch trip.
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Batch is just short for bachelor.
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The bachelor trip.
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Without my knowledge, my fiance had also included a question in the questionnaire she sent out,
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asking whether the guys would want to save money and share a bed or pay extra to have their own bed.
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Jay and Steve saw this and started complaining behind my back,
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and my brothers and my dad then proceeded to call me gay for asking if the guys wanted to share a bed.
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The batch trip was absolutely incredible and so much fun.
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A couple of weeks after the batch trip, my fiance gets a text from my sister-in-law, Pat's wife.
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She sent us a save the date for her baby shower.
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And wouldn't you know it, the baby shower is on March 14th.
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Yep, the same day as my wedding.
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A week later, they had the absolute audacity to send my fiance an invitation to the baby shower with a message that said, We know y'all are far away,
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but we'd love it if you could come.
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and what, miss our wedding?
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The reason they're having the baby shower on my wedding day, in my opinion, is because my sister-in-law can't stand my family.
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So she chose our wedding day knowing none of my family would be able to attend, meaning only her family would be there.
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If you've seen The Help, my sister-in-law is Hilly Walters.
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Let me know if you guys have seen that movie.
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I personally have not.
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Update.
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A lot of people keep asking about my family and whether Pat is making them choose sides.
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No, my family can't stand Pat and Hilly.
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So even if they try to pull that card, my family would still choose to come to my wedding without a second thought.
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My siblings and my dad will be there.
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My mom will not be attending as she passed away three years ago.
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Now for the part they'd probably prefer I leave out.
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This is not Pat and Hilly's first child.
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This is their third child.
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They already have two daughters and another girl on the way.
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Hilly has had zero complications with any of her pregnancies or deliveries.
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This is not an emergency, not a crisis, and not some tragic circumstance.
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It is a conscious decision to hijack attention.
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And yes, it's exactly as selfish as it sounds.
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And just when you think it can't get any worse, the person who contacted my fiancé was Hilly's best friend.
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For clarity, none of Hilly's friends have any relationship with my fiancé or me.
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My fiancé was intentionally included to make sure we knew that instead of celebrating our wedding, they'd be celebrating themselves.
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This was calculated, unnecessary, and dripping with main character syndrome.
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So no, this isn't a misunderstanding.
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This isn't bad timing.
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This is two people repeatedly showing everyone exactly who they are.
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Update 2.
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I was talking to my dad last night and shockingly the baby shower fiasco came up again.
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It turns out Pat and Hilly went over to my dad's house on Saturday.
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My condolences and he confronted them about why the baby shower was scheduled on my literal wedding day.
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Pat immediately played dumb and claimed he had no idea it was on my wedding day.
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He then proceeded to claim that it was the only day they could host the shower, which is hilarious considering he knew the date when I asked him to be a groomsman.
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And when we got the save the date, Hilly openly admitted she knew it was the same day as our wedding.
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So yeah, that was a lie.
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For some background, because this behavior didn't come out of nowhere.
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Back in August 2025, when I asked Pat and Jay to be my groomsmen, we were on a family vacation.
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Normally, my dad buys the groceries for these trips and doesn't expect anyone to pay him back.
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This time, before we even arrived, Pat and Hilly decided to go rogue, bought groceries for everyone without telling us,
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and then informed us we owed them $70 per person slash couple.
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No discussion, no heads up, just a Venmo request.
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At the time, my fiance and I had just gotten engaged.
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I genuinely couldn't afford it, especially since I had already paid my dad $450 for our share of the Airbnb,
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which is normal in my family, and something we had planned for months in advance.
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What I did not plan for was a surprise $70 grocery bill for food I didn't ask for and didn't know existed.
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However, I refused to pay it considering I couldn't afford it and their lack of communication was not about to cost me $70.
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My refusal apparently caused too much drama, so my dad paid Pat the $70 on our behalf just to make it stop.
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Fast forward to this weekend.
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While visiting my dad, Pat mentioned that his wedding gift to me would be the $70 I never paid him.
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My dad snapped and told him he had already paid it.
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Pat then denied ever receiving the money confidently until Haley finally corrected him and confirmed that yes, my dad did pay him.
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And because why not pile it on, Pat also complained about how expensive our wedding registry is before purchasing the cheapest item on it.
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This is from the same man who proudly put a $70 Yeti cooler on his registry a few years ago.
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So to recap, lies about the date, selective amnesia about money that was already paid,
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and complains about how expensive my wedding registry is.
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I hope you guys are enjoying this shadowing lesson.
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one tip I would like to give you guys is
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if you're watching this on your laptop or the TV or another phone, I would recommend recording yourself reading one of these paragraphs.
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Read it out loud so that you can hear your pronunciation and accent as you watch the video back.
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Then in a few months, once you've practiced your accent and your pronunciation more, you can go back and watch these videos to see how much you have improved.
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So make sure to keep track of your progress by recording yourself talking out loud in English.
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Next story.
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Am I the a-hole for asking my grieving boyfriend to set boundaries with his mom after she wears my bathing suit?
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I, 39 female, was dating Mark, 38 male, for almost five months when his dad sadly passed away from cancer.
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It was awful, obviously.
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His dad was awesome and Mark and he were very close.
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I try to be supportive, respectful, and give him space.
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All of it.
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But here's the thing.
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His mom.
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Before his dad passed, she was already a lot.
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She FaceTimed my boyfriend two to three times a day every single day.
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She showed up unannounced three to four times a week.
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She lives 45 minutes away.
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She did his laundry.
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She cleaned his house.
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She cooked for him.
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She rearranged his furniture.
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She decorated his entire house.
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This man is 38.
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Every weekend she would just appear at his house where I also was
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and sit there bad mouthing his ex for hours in front of me
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which felt less like bonding and more like an audition.
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Look how much I hated the last one.
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Meanwhile she was syrupy sweet to my face in a way that made my skin itch.
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Fast forward, his dad passes away.
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I'm walking on eggshells because grief is brutal and I'm not a monster.
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Then one day, while I'm not there, she goes to his house and wears my bathing suit in the spa.
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Not a random spare, my bathing suit.
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I only found out because she took it home with her to wash it.
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Let me repeat that.
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She drove 45 minutes home with my used bathing suit to wash it, even though she usually does her son's laundry at her place.
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After the bathing suit incident, I stayed quiet because she had just lost her husband.
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I didn't want to be the villain over swimwear.
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The next day, my boyfriend casually told me he was turning his basement into an apartment for his mom
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so she could move in.
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Not a discussion, a decision.
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I took a few days to process everything, then asked to talk, calmly.
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I said I understood she was grieving, but before she moved in, he needed to set boundaries.
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I mentioned how intense things already were and that her wearing my bathing suit without asking made me uncomfortable.
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He got defensive immediately, took her side, and told me to leave.
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Then he gave me the silent treatment for two days.
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After that, he dumped me by text.
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Hold on, hold on, hold on.
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He dumped you by text because you didn't want his crazy mom to move in with you guys.
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I feel like he did you a favor.
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I'm not going to lie.
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Let's continue.
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It hurts, but honestly, if asking for basic boundaries ends a relationship, it probably wasn't much of one to begin with.
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Facts.
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So that's the end of that story.
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And overall, that is kind of insane.
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So I definitely don't think you're in the wrong.
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You are your own person and you're allowed to set boundaries with other people.
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And if they don't respect those boundaries or they cross them, then you can step away or they can break up with you if they don't like that boundary.
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Clearly, your boyfriend did not like that boundary you were setting with him and his mom and he broke up with you.
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I mean, I don't think he did anything wrong either.
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It's his mom.
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So obviously he's going to prioritize her naturally
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but you felt like she was really controlling and she crossed the boundary by wearing your bathing suit, but you didn't want to bring it up because she just lost her husband.
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And honestly, if the relationship is that fragile, that after setting this boundary, he wants to break up with you, then I think that's for the better in all honesty.
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What do you guys think?
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Let me know in the comments.
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And remember, if you want to get the 3000 most common English words PDF to understand up to 95% of spoken English, it's in the description.
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I'll see you guys next video.
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Bye.
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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트
이 B1 수준 말하기 레슨은 영상 “English Speaking Practice - Speak with me!”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: wedding, English, Pat, shower, dad. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 209개와 단어 2619개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 16:18입니다. 화자는 분당 약 161단어로, 일상 대화에 가까운 자연스러운 속도로 말합니다. 단어의 84%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속합니다. 나머지는 연습 전에 미리 확인해 두세요.
이 영상의 핵심 어휘
영상에서 가장 어려운 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| fiancé 명사 | /fiˈɑnseɪ/ | 약혼자 |
| pronunciation 명사 | /pɹəˌnʌn.siˈeɪ.ʃən/ | 발음 |
| workbook 명사 | /ˈwɝk.bʊk/ | 문제집 |
| complain 동사 | /kəmˈpleɪn/ | 불평(不平)하다, 불만(不滿)을 말하다 |
| groomsman 명사 | 들러리 | |
| bachelor 명사 | /ˈbæt͡ʃ.ə.lə(ɹ)/ | 학사 |
| accent 명사 | /ækˈsɛnt/ | 강세, 억양 |
| sibling 명사 | /ˈsɪb.lɪŋ/ | 형제, 형제자매 |
| rhythm 명사 | /ˈɹɪð.əm/ | 리듬 |
| laundry 명사 | /ˈlɔːn.dɹi/ | 세탁, 빨래 |
| invitation 명사 | /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/ | 초대 |
| shoe 명사 | /ˈʃu/ | 신발, 신 |
| amnesia 명사 | /ˌæmˈniʒə/ | 건망증 |
| condolence 명사 | /kənˈdoʊləns/ | 동정 |
| decorate 동사 | /ˈdɛkəɹeɪt/ | 꾸미다 |
영상에 나오는 구동사
| 단어 | 뜻 |
|---|---|
| pass away 동사 | 돌아가시다 |
| come up 동사 | 올라오다 |
| go back 동사 | 돌아가다 |
따라 말해 볼 만한 문장
영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:
- Do you know what a baby shower is?
- I didn't want to be the villain over swimwear.
- I'm not going to lie.
- What do you guys think?
- I'll see you guys next video.
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | have brought · you've seen · have seen |
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | isn't born · was calculated · was scheduled |
| 관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보 | person who contacted · shower, which is · man who proudly |
| 동사 + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — 뒤에 -ing형이 오는 동사 | start thinking · starts processing · keep practicing |
주의할 발음
화자는 didn't, don't, I'm 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 42번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: pronunciation /pɹəˌnʌn.siˈeɪ.ʃən/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, shoe /ˈʃu/, amnesia /ˌæmˈniʒə/, complication /ˌkɑm.pləˈkeɪ.ʃən/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: pronunciation /pɹəˌnʌn.siˈeɪ.ʃən/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, audacity /ɔˈdæ.sɪ.ti/, celebratory /ˈsɛləbɹəˌtɔːɹi/, complication /ˌkɑm.pləˈkeɪ.ʃən/
한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:
- /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: fiancé /fiˈɑnseɪ/, confidently /ˈkɑnfɪdəntli/, fiasco /fiˈæs.koʊ/, fluent /ˈfluənt/, respectful /ɹɪˈspɛkt.fl̩/
- /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: grieve /ɡɹiːv/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, vocabulary /vəˈkæb.jə.lə.ɹi/, villain /ˈvɪl.ən/, selective /səˈlɛktɪv/
- /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: groceries /ˈɡɹoʊ.s(ə.)ɹiz/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, hesitate /ˈhɛz.ə.teɪt/, refusal /ɹɪˈfjuːzl̩/, translate /tɹænzˈleɪt/
이 영상으로 연습하는 방법
- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
- 0.75배속으로 한 문장씩 섀도잉을 시작하고, 익숙해지면 보통 속도로 돌아갑니다.
- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, fiancé, pronunciation, workbook 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
쉐도잉이란? 영어 실력을 빠르게 키우는 과학적 방법
쉐도잉(Shadowing)은 원래 전문 통역사 훈련을 위해 개발된 언어 학습 기법으로, 다언어 학자인 Dr. Alexander Arguelles에 의해 대중화된 방법입니다. 핵심 원리는 간단하지만 매우 강력합니다: 원어민의 영어를 들으면서 1~2초의 짧은 지연으로 즉시 소리 내어 따라 말하는 것——마치 '그림자(shadow)'처럼 화자를 따라가는 것입니다. 문법 공부나 수동적인 청취와 달리, 쉐도잉은 뇌와 입 근육이 동시에 실시간으로 영어를 처리하고 재현하도록 훈련합니다. 연구에 따르면 이 방법은 발음 정확도, 억양, 리듬, 연음, 청취력, 말하기 유창성을 크게 향상시킵니다. IELTS 스피킹 준비와 자연스러운 영어 소통을 원하는 분들에게 특히 효과적입니다.