Shadowing Practice: 4 things you should never speak with others | Buddhism In English - Learn English Speaking with YouTube

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namo buddhaya welcome and welcome back to another video today i want to talk about something
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namo buddhaya welcome and welcome back to another video today i want to talk about something
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really important for all of our lives especially in these days
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and that is the things
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that we should not speak with others according to buddha's teachings now at first you might be thinking well
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i'm not a buddhist
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so why should i care about these things here's the thing
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these principles can be applied to anyone's life regardless of their religion or belief system so that is why
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these speeches are called for unwholesome speeches that is what buddha said about these speeches
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four unwholesome speeches
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so without any further ado let's dive in first of all
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we have lying now buddha said stay away from lying now i know we all have said white lies here
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and there in all of our lives right
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but whether it is a white lie whether it is a black lie gray lie
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or a red lie no matter what the lie is lying itself can be
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so harmful for all of our lives why is that
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when you lie it destroys your trust
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when you lie it destroys your character right so that is why it is very important to have trust between people.
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In our daily relationships between people,
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the most important component of a happy relationship is the trust.
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So that is why Buddha said, live a truthful life.
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And it is very important to have that transparency
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and honesty in our relationships so the first thing
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that we have to stay away from is lying
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and next we have divisive speech what do you mean by
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divisive speech divisive speech is all about creating drama between people
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or creating conflicts between people using your words right it can be gossiping
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or it can be talking behind someone's back right
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i must say that when you talk these words or
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when you use this divisive speech it is not a good thing for your life
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and and also it is not a good thing for other people's relationships
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so buddha said do not use this divisive speech do not break the relationships between people using your words
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most of the time we use the divisive speech out of jealousy or out of anger so that is why
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it's very important to stay away from divisive speech.
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And the third one is Buddha said,
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stay away from harsh speech.
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Now, when someone is calling you or when someone is treating you with rude words,
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how do you feel?
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Now we all have been in this receiving end of such speeches, no?
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How did you feel?
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We felt sad, we felt depressed,
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we felt down about ourselves.
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So that is why Buddha said,
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do not use your words to put someone down, right?
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Do not use your words out of anger.
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This is all about criticizing and name calling and putting someone else down with your words, right?
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So Buddha said, stay away from harsh speech.
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And finally, Buddha said, stay away from idle chatter.
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What do you mean by idle chatter?
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Idle chatter is all about speaking meaningless or useless things, right?
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Now, that doesn't say that we cannot have a small chat or a fun talk with people.
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We can do that, but we have to know where our limit is in our speech, right?
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We have to set the boundaries in our speech, right?
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We have to know where our speech become unproductive, right?
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When you use these words,
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when you use your words in a meaningful way,
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you can create a positive life and you can create a positive emotions
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or positive positive feelings in others lives too right
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so these are the four unwholesome speeches that we have to stay away from
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that our great teacher supreme buddha taught us according to the buddha's teachings right so why all these things matter?
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Why these unwholesome speeches matter in our life?
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Well, Buddha said, the words that we speak can create either positive or negative karma in our life.
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Do not think lightly about this karma, right?
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You have to be very careful about the karma.
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So the intention behind your words really matters in your life.
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And that is why we have to use our words
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wisely because it can make a huge impact in our lives as well as in others lives too.
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So words that we speak are like a knife, right?
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You can use the knife to cut something useful, right?
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And also you can use the knife to kill someone else.
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So let's use our words to create a better life for ourselves and for others.
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So thank you for tuning in.
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I hope you got some food for thought for your life.
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So until next time, I wish you all,
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may all of you be well and happy and may all of you live in peace forever.
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Namo Buddhaya.

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About This Lesson

In this lesson, we will explore the important concepts of communication as taught by Buddha, focusing on four types of speech that should be avoided. Whether you are practicing English for personal or professional reasons, understanding these principles can enhance your relationships and improve your communication skills. By reflecting on the implications of lying, divisive speech, harsh speech, and idle chatter, you'll have valuable insights to incorporate into your everyday conversations. This lesson is perfect for anyone looking to learn English with YouTube while gaining knowledge about mindful speaking practices.

Key Vocabulary & Phrases

  • Lying: Making false statements; dishonesty.
  • Divisive speech: Language that creates conflict or separates people.
  • Harsh speech: Words that are rude or hurtful to others.
  • Idle chatter: Conversations that lack meaning or purpose.
  • Trust: A foundation of honesty in relationships.
  • Transparency: Openness and clarity in communication.

Practice Tips

When using the shadowing technique with this video, it's essential to pay attention to the speaker's tone and pacing. The content is delivered with clarity and thoughtfulness, making it suitable for shadowing practice. Aim to mimic the speaker's intonation and rhythm as closely as possible, as this will help reinforce proper pronunciation and natural speech patterns.

To get the most out of your practice, consider the following tips:

  • Start by listening to a small segment of the video. Pause after each sentence and repeat it out loud.
  • Focus on understanding the context behind the vocabulary—how does it relate to communication in your own life?
  • Use this shadowing site to track your progress. Each time you practice, record yourself and listen back to evaluate improvements.
  • Repeat sessions as necessary, gradually increasing the length of the segments you practice until you can confidently shadow the entire video.

By integrating these techniques, you'll not only develop your English-speaking skills but also become more mindful of the words you choose, promoting better relationships and clear communication.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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