Shadowing Practice: English Podcast For Easy English Conversation | Talking About Choices | Daily Life English - Learn English Speaking with Video

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English Goal Podcast.
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Listen, learn, and speak English with confidence.
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Hey, English learners.
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Welcome back to the English Goal Podcast, your cozy place to learn simple English through real-life conversations,
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useful vocabulary, and gentle motivation.
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I'm Rachel.
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And I'm Kevin.
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Kevin, can I ask you something?
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Hmm, I feel like I already know the answer.
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Really?
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It's going to be one of those questions.
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The kind that sounds simple, but completely changes the conversation.
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Maybe.
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Here's the question.
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What do you think is the most important relationship in your life?
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Easy.
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My family.
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Good answer.
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Anyone else?
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My closest friends.
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Hopefully my future wife one day.
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That's a nice answer.
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Those relationships are all incredibly important.
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But I think there's one relationship that's even more important.
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Really? Which one?
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The relationship you have with yourself.
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Wow, I wasn't expecting that.
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Most people don't.
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Honestly, I don't think I've ever thought about having a relationship with myself.
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And yet, it's the one relationship you'll have every single day for the rest of your life.
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That's actually kind of amazing.
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Think about it.
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You wake up with yourself.
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You spend every day with yourself.
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You hear your own thoughts more than anyone else's.
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That's true.
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I never get a day off from my own brain.
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None of us do.
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You know, we spend so much time trying to improve our relationships with other people.
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Exactly.
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We learn how to communicate better, how to become a better friend, a better partner, a better colleague.
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But nobody really teaches us how to build a better relationship with ourselves.
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That's exactly what we're talking about today.
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Because the way you treat yourself changes everything.
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And don't worry.
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This is a B1, B2 level episode.
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If you're an intermediate learner, this episode is perfect for you.
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And if you're a strong A1 or A2 learner, don't worry.
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You can still enjoy today's conversation.
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You don't need to understand every word.
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Just relax, listen, and enjoy the journey.
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Maybe you're having your morning coffee.
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Maybe you're walking outside.
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Maybe you're driving home from work, or maybe today has been a difficult day.
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Whatever your day has been like, we are really happy you're here.
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So, let's talk about the relationship that could change your entire life.
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Kevin, how many conversations do you think you have every day?
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Oh, quite a lot.
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At work, with friends, with family.
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Those are the conversations you can hear, but what about the conversations inside your own mind?
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I don't know.
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Probably hundreds.
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Actually, psychologists often say we have thousands of thoughts every single day, and many of them are conversations with ourselves.
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Wow.
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That's a little scary.
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Why?
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Because now I'm wondering, what exactly am I saying to myself?
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That's the important question, because whether you realize it or not, you're always talking to yourself.
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Hmm.
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Sometimes I encourage myself.
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Sometimes I don't.
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Let's think about a normal day.
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Imagine you make a small mistake at work.
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What's the first thing you tell yourself?
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Honestly?
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Probably, that was stupid.
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I should have known better.
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Really?
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Yeah.
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I can be pretty hard on myself.
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Now imagine your best friend made exactly the same mistake.
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Would you say, that was stupid?
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Never.
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Why not?
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Because… that would be cruel.
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I'd probably say, don't worry.
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Everyone makes mistakes.
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You'll do better next time.
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Interesting.
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So you're patient with your friends, but not with yourself.
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I never noticed that.
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Most people don't.
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It's strange.
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I would never speak to someone I love the way I sometimes speak to myself.
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Exactly.
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And that's where our relationship with ourselves begins.
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With the words we choose.
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with the words we choose.
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Yes, because words matter, especially the words you repeat every single day.
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Rachel, can I ask you something? Of course.
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This conversation is making me think.
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That's always a good sign.
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What if someone talked to me the way I sometimes talk to myself?
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Hmm, that's a powerful question.
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What do you think?
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Honestly, I probably wouldn't want to spend time with that person.
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Really?
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Yeah.
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Imagine hearing, you'll never be good enough.
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You always mess things up.
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You're not smart enough.
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Every single day.
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That sounds exhausting.
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It really does.
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Now let me ask you an even bigger question.
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Would you be friends with yourself?
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Wow.
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I've never thought about it like that.
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Take your time.
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There's no right or wrong answer.
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I think sometimes yes, sometimes no. Why sometimes no?
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Because I'm impatient.
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I expect too much from myself.
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I notice my mistakes much more than my progress.
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I think many people do exactly the same thing.
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You know what's strange?
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What?
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When a friend succeeds, I'm genuinely happy.
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When they fail, I encourage them.
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When they struggle, I listen.
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That's what good friends do.
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But when it's me, the rules change.
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Exactly.
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Suddenly, you're expected to be perfect.
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Which is impossible.
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Exactly.
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Imagine this.
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Your best friend says, I've been learning English for six months, but I'm still making mistakes.
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What would you say?
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I'd say that's completely normal.
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Making mistakes means you're learning keep going now imagine you're talking
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to yourself you make the same mistake what do you say
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um usually I say I should know this already see the
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difference yeah I'm much kinder to everyone else here's something I've
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learned the relationship you have with yourself is built through tiny
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moments what do you mean keeping promises to yourself speaking kindly to yourself forgiving yourself when you make mistakes,
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celebrating small wins, trusting yourself.
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So self-respect isn't one big decision?
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No, it's hundreds of small decisions.
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Keeping promises.
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I like that.
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It's important.
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Imagine your friend promises to meet you every Saturday.
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Then they cancel again and again and again.
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Would you trust them?
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Probably not.
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Now think about yourself.
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How many promises have you made to yourself?
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I'll start tomorrow.
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I'll exercise.
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I'll study English.
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I'll go to bed earlier.
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Ouch.
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Too many.
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And when we repeatedly break promises to ourselves, we slowly lose trust in ourselves.
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Wow.
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I never connected those two things.
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Here's the good news.
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Trust can be rebuilt.
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How?
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Start small.
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Don't promise yourself two hours of English every day.
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Promise yourself ten minutes, then keep that promise.
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Kind of like Kaizen.
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Exactly.
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Small actions, repeated consistently.
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So every time I keep a promise to myself, I'm strengthening our relationship?
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Exactly.
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Just like any other relationship, trust grows through consistency.
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You know, I think there's something else that's important.
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What's that?
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Sometimes the hardest person to forgive is ourselves.
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I think that's exactly what we should talk about next.
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Rachel, I think there's something else that's important.
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What's that?
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Sometimes the hardest person to forgive is ourselves.
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I think that's true for a lot of people.
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Why do we do that?
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Because we remember our mistakes more clearly than anyone else does.
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That's true.
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I still remember embarrassing moments from years ago.
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Me too.
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Sometimes I'll suddenly remember something awkward I said five years ago.
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Exactly.
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And then you think, why did I say that?
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Yes.
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Meanwhile, everyone else has probably forgotten.
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Or maybe they never noticed.
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Exactly.
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Kevin, can I ask you something?
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Go ahead.
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Have you ever made a mistake that taught you something valuable?
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Oh, many times.
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Probably more than my successes did.
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Really?
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Absolutely.
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Every mistake forced me to slow down, to learn, to improve.
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Honestly.
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That's interesting.
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So your mistakes helped you grow.
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Yes.
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I just wish I realized that sooner.
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I think many people believe they have to erase their mistakes.
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Instead of learning from them.
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Exactly.
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Think about a child learning to walk.
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Do parents say, you fell down, that's it, walking isn't for you?
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Of course not.
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They encourage them.
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Every fall is part of learning.
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So why do adults expect themselves to succeed without falling?
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That's the question.
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You know, I think we confuse mistakes with identity.
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What do you mean?
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Instead of saying, I made a mistake, we say, I am a failure.
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Wow, that's such an important difference.
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One describes what happened.
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The other describes who you think you are.
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Wow, that's such an important difference.
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One describes what happened.
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The other describes who you think you are.
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Exactly.
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And those are not the same thing.
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Here's something I'd like every listener to remember.
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Your mistakes are chapters in your story.
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They're not the title of your story.
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Rachel, that's beautiful.
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Thank you.
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I'm writing that one down.
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Think about someone you admire.
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Okay.
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Do you think they've never failed?
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Of course they have.
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Probably many times.
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Exactly.
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The difference is, they didn't let one mistake decide their future.
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Hmm.
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That's encouraging.
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Can I tell you something I've been trying lately? Of course.
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Whenever I make a mistake, I stop asking, why am I like this?
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Instead, I ask, what can I learn from this?
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I love that.
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Because one question creates shame, the other creates growth.
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Exactly.
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The mistake is the same, only the question changes.
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You know, forgiving yourself doesn't mean pretending nothing happened.
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No?
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No. It means saying, yes, I made a mistake, I'll learn from it, and I'll keep going.
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I like that.
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It's honest but hopeful.
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Exactly.
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That's what a healthy relationship with yourself looks like.
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Kevin, I think I'm finally understanding today's message.
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What's that?
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Relationship with yourself isn't built on perfection.
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It's built on patience, trust, kindness, and forgiveness.
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Kevin, I couldn't have said it better myself.
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You know, if we spend our whole lives with ourselves, maybe we should become someone we actually enjoy spending time with.
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I think that's one of the wisest things you've said today.
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Only today?
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Let's not get carried away.
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Fair enough.
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And before we finish, I think it's time for my favorite part.
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I knew that was coming. Of course.
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Let's explore some useful vocabulary.
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All right, my friend.
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Before we go, let's explore some useful vocabulary.
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My favorite part.
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Really?
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Absolutely, because this is where big words become friendly.
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I love that.
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Okay, our first word today is...
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self-talk.
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Ooh, that's a really interesting one.
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It is.
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Self-talk means the conversations you have with yourself, the voice inside your mind.
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So when I say, I can do this, or I'm going to keep trying, that's self-talk.
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Exactly.
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And when you say, I'm terrible, I'll never improve.
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That's self-talk, too.
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Wow.
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I never realized how powerful those little conversations are.
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They're powerful because you hear them every single day.
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Our next word is encouragement.
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Oh, I love this word.
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Everyone needs a little encouragement.
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Exactly.
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Encouragement means giving someone confidence, hope, or support.
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Usually, we encourage our friends, our family, our children.
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But today's episode reminds us to encourage ourselves, too.
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Instead of saying, I'll never learn English, I can say, I'm improving a little every day.
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Perfect example.
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That's encouragement.
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Our third word is self-respect.
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Hmm.
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This might be my favorite word today.
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Really?
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Why?
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Because before today, I thought self-respect was something you either had or you didn't. And now?
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Now, I think you build it every time you keep a promise to yourself, every time you choose to be honest,
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every time you treat yourself with kindness.
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Beautifully said.
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Self-respect means valuing yourself and treating yourself with dignity.
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I like that.
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It's something we practice, not something we wait for.
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And our final word today, compassion.
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Oh, wow.
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I love this word.
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Me too.
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Compassion means showing kindness and understanding when someone is suffering.
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Usually, we show compassion to other people.
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Exactly.
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But today, we talked about self-compassion, showing yourself the same patience, the same kindness, and the same understanding.
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You know, that sounds simple, but I think it's one of the hardest things to do.
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It is, but it's worth practicing, because the relationship you have with yourself affects every other relationship in your life.
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Wow, that's definitely my favorite lesson today.
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before we finish I'd like to leave you with one question
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if you spent one whole day with yourself as another person would you enjoy their company
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if the answer is yes that's wonderful and
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if the answer is no don't be discouraged
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because relationships can grow they can heal they can become stronger
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including the relationship you have with yourself start with one kind
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thought one kept promise one small act of self-respect little by
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little day by day you'll become someone you trust respect
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and genuinely enjoy spending time with I'm Kevin and I'm Rachel
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and you've been listening to the English goal podcast thank you
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for spending part of your day with us keep learning keep growing
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and And don't forget to be kind to the person you spend the most time with, yourself.
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And remember, your English goal and your life goal are both closer than you think.
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We'll see you in the next episode.

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