Shadowing Practice: The Dark Psychology of Super Rich People - Learn English Speaking with Video

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Imagine I offer you $10 right now, but on one condition, a random person somewhere in the world dies immediately.
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You don't know them and you'll never meet their family.
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Absurd, right?
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You'd instantly say no. It's a ridiculous, terrible offer.
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No sane person trades a human life for 10 bucks.
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Okay, what if I raise it to a million dollars?
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A hundred million?
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Still no?
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I mean, you don't even know this stranger.
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And besides, people die every single day anyway.
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You still won't take it?
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Okay, but what if we change the situation?
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What if your mother is diagnosed with a severe illness
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and she needs an emergency operation that costs $2 million or she dies in three days?
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I hand you $100 million.
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It saves your mother's life, guarantees your family will never suffer again and leaves you rich forever.
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All you have to do is press a button and one random stranger in the world passes away quietly.
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Are you still 100 % sure you wouldn't press that button?
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You see, suddenly your mind starts racing.
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You tell yourself, people die every single day anyway.
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You tell yourself, I'm doing this to save my mother.
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Notice what just happened.
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Within 30 seconds, your brain found a way to justify an action that is inherently wrong.
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And this is the first thing you learn in this video.
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Morality is not fixed.
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Morality is shaped by context, environment, and incentive.
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Under the right pressure or with the right reward, you will do things you swore you were incapable of doing.
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When we look at the super rich, we often judge them.
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We look at megacorporations using child labor in developing countries or polluting rivers, and we feel disgusted.
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We hear about billionaires involved in horrific scandals, illegal rings, and bizarre urges, and we ask, how could anyone become so evil?
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We love to tell ourselves, if I were rich, I would be different.
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I'd spend my money helping the poor and fixing the world.
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But the truth is much darker.
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You don't know what you would do, because you have never experienced what extreme wealth does to the human brain.
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Science shows that when money reaches a certain level, it physically rewires how you think, feel, and view other human beings.
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This is the dark psychology of the super -rich, and why their unsettling behavior might actually be an inevitable part of human nature.
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In 2012, a researcher named Paul Piff ran a strange experiment.
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His team hid near a busy four -way stop in Berkeley, California.
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They wrote down the make, model, and age of every car that passed.
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Then, they watched how each driver behaved as they drove through.
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After doing this for a while, they found that drivers of flashier, more expensive cars were about four times more likely to cut off other drivers.
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They also had a much higher chance of speeding straight through the crosswalk instead of stopping for someone waiting to cross.
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In one test, almost half of the drivers in the most expensive cars did not even slow down for a pedestrian standing right there.
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In later lab tests, he found that people who saw themselves as upper class were more likely to lie during a negotiation,
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more likely to cheat in a game for a cash prize, and more likely to say cheating at work is sometimes fine.
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The conclusion of Piff's experiment wasn't saying rich people are born bad.
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It was saying something more unsettling.
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Wealth changes behavior in almost anyone because it removes the fear of consequences and makes self -interest feel safe.
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If nothing can touch you, why would you hold back?
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You see, it's not the money itself that changes people.
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It's what the money removes consequences.
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Most people are shaped every day by small consequences.
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If you show up late, you get a warning.
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If you say something rude, someone calls you out.
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If you cut corners at work, your boss notices.
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These small pressures keep adjusting your behavior, whether you notice it or not.
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Extreme wealth removes friction.
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It removes these pressures.
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Lawyers handle the consequences, assistants block bad news, publicists fix mistakes, nobody tell the boss no, people laugh at jokes that aren't funny.
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Every day, in many small ways, the world tells a billionaire you are special and above the rules.
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And this phenomenon helps us understand it better.
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Once a person gets away with something small and nothing bad happens, their brain quietly updates.
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They start to think I was right.
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I am untouchable.
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So next time, they go a little further.
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And then again.
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This is called escalation of impunity.
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It works like addiction, but instead of a drug, the person is addicted to getting away with it things.
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This is a big part of what happened with people like Jeffrey Epstein.
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It wasn't one sudden jump into terrible crime.
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It was years of being surrounded by people who had every reason to look away and a justice system that, for a long time, let him pay to avoid consequences.
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Every time nothing happened, his belief that nothing would ever happen grew stronger.
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Same underlying pattern shows up in cases like Sean Diddy Combs.
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Power, money, and a wall of financially dependent people who settled on staying
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quiet allowed bad behavior to grow for years before it became public.
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These cases aren't really just about sex or about one uniquely evil person.
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They are about what happens
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when a person is placed completely outside the normal system of feedback and consequences that keeps the rest of us in check.
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There's a reason billionaires don't stay satisfied with things that would thrill a normal person.
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It's a psychological phenomenon called hedonic adaptation.
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Your brain is built to get used to good things fast.
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Buy a nice car, it feels amazing for a few weeks, then it's just your car.
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The rich hit this wall faster than anyone because they can buy the amazing experience instantly and repeatedly,
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which burns out the thrill even quicker.
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So the goalposts move.
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A normal vacation stops feeling special.
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A normal party stops feeling exciting.
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The brain, still chasing the same rush of novelty and status it once got from smaller things,
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starts looking for stranger, riskier, and more extreme experiences.
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Those are the only ones left that still feel strong.
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This is the same brain mechanism behind drug tolerance
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when someone uses a drug repeatedly they may need more of
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it to feel the same effect in the same way a
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person may need stronger experiences to feel the same level of excitement
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it's not just a moral failure it's also a biological one
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and it sits on top of unlimited money
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that feeds it a person with an average income who develops this habit will eventually run out of money
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that financial limit may force them to stop and rethink their behavior If you have cravings and don't have money,
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there's simply nothing else you can do but to just adjust and survive.
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A billionaire never hits that wall.
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There's no limit forcing them to stop and reset.
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They have the money to entertain all of their cravings.
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And this is not just a people problem.
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It happens to companies too.
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The same exact psychology shows up in corporations.
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And honestly, it's usually worse there because there's no single villain to blame.
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A company that pollutes a river or uses child labor in a supply chain rarely has one evil mastermind behind it.
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No, it's usually a system that is very difficult to change.
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The CEO at the top hardly goes to the factory.
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He's never on site to see the damage.
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The factory manager was told to hit a number, and it's his job to hit targets.
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The person who set the number never had to look any of the affected children in the eye.
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Every person in the chain can honestly say, I didn't do that, I am not responsible.
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Yet their combined decisions still cause the harmful result.
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When there is enough distance between a decision and its result, the decision stops feeling like a moral choice.
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You lose the opportunity to empathize with the outcomes, and it starts feeling like just a business problem.
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That is why saying I would never do that if I were rich is not as strong as it sounds.
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Most people have never been tested in a situation where they are far removed from the consequences of their decisions.
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You do not truly know how you would behave in that situation until you are actually in it.
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Now, this is the real essence of this video.
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It's a warning about a mechanism that exists in every human brain, yours included.
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The amount of money needed to trigger this shift is different for everyone.
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For some people, it might be 10 million dollars for others it might just be enough status at work
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that people stop giving them honest feedback you know a simple
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promotion the trigger isn't a number on a bank statement it's the removal of consequences
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and honest feedback from your life you don't defend yourself against
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this behavior by willpower no nobody outwills their own brain chemistry forever the real defense,
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the one every psychologist who studies this agrees on, is staying around people who will tell you the truth,
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and staying inside situations that still have real consequences attached to them.
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The people who avoid this trap almost always have one thing in common, someone in their life who is allowed to say,
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no, that's wrong, and who they actually listen to.
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If you have such a system, no matter how much money you have, you never become the monsters you fear to be.
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If you ever find yourself with more power than the people around you, that's the moment to hold on tighter to the people who still call you out.
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It doesn't mean you're a bad person.
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You're simply a human being.
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And this is simply what unchecked power does to human beings, every single time.
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Money and power are not evil, but they are not neutral either.
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They are amplifiers.
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They take whatever is already inside a person and pass it through a megaphone, revealing it on a grand scale,
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and also surround that person with people who are too afraid to disagree.
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So the real question isn't whether super rich people are different from the rest of us.
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It's whether the rest of us would stay the same
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if nobody around us ever had the courage or the safety to say no.
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If you are really interested in learning about money, success, and patterns, check out other videos on my channel.

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This video has 144 sentences and 1785 words to shadow. The speech runs for 11:08. The speaker talks at a natural 160 words per minute, close to everyday conversation. 84% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English; the rest is worth studying before you start.

Key vocabulary in this video

15 words from the video worth learning, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
consequence noun/ˈkɑn.sɪ.kwəns/An effect; something that follows a cause as a result.
billionaire noun/ˌbɪl.jəˈnɛɚ/Somebody whose wealth is at least one billion (10⁹) currency units (usually understood to exclude holders of hyperinflated currencies).
feedback noun/ˈfiːdˌbæk/Critical assessment of a process or activity or of their results.
moral adjective/ˈmoɹəl/Of or relating to principles of right and wrong in behaviour, especially conforming to principles of rectitude.
experiment noun/ɪkˈspɛɹ.ə.mənt/A test under controlled conditions made to either demonstrate a known truth, examine the validity of a hypothesis, or determine the efficacy or likelihood of…
psychology noun/saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/The study of the human mind.
mechanism noun/ˈmɛk.ə.nɪ.zəm/Any mechanical means for the conversion or control of motion, or the transmission or control of power.
trigger noun/ˈtɹɪɡɚ/A finger-operated lever used to fire a gun.
instantly adverb/ˈɪnstəntli/At once; without delay.
repeatedly adverb/ɹɪˈpiːtɪdli/Done several times or in repetition.
quietly adverb/ˈkwaɪ.ɪt.li/Producing little or no noise.
phenomenon noun/fəˈnɒm.ɪ.nən/A thing or being, event or process, perceptible through senses; or a fact or occurrence thereof.
adjust verb/əˈd͡ʒʌst/To modify.
cheat verb/ˈt͡ʃiːt/To violate rules in order to gain, or attempt to gain, advantage from a situation.
behave verb/bɪˈheɪv/To conduct (oneself) well, or in a given way; to conform.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

WordPronunciationMeaning
get away with verbTo get away, or escape, taking (something) with one.
burn out verbTo destroy by fire.
check out verbTo record the departure or withdrawal of someone or something (such as guests, employees, books, etc.).
cut off verb/ˌkʌt ˈɔf/ [ˌkɐɾ ˈɔf]To remove by cutting.
hold back verbTo act with reserve; to contain one's full measure or power.
look away verbTo ignore something; to pretend not to have seen or noticed something; to avoid dealing with something.
pass away verbTo die.
show up verbTo appear, arrive, or attend, especially suddenly or erratically.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Conditional sentences if + clause, will/would + verb — a condition and its resultif I were rich, I would be · If nothing can touch you, why would you
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itis diagnosed · is not fixed · is shaped
Relative clauses who / which + clause — extra information about a person or thingpeople who saw · people who had · people who settled
Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters nowhave never experienced · have never been tested

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 22 contractions and reduced forms, such as don't, aren't, isn't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The “th” sounds: thrill /θɹɪl/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/, rethink /ɹiːˈθɪŋk/
  • The “sh” and “zh” sounds: rush /ɹʌʃ/, promotion /pɹəˈmoʊʃn̩/, conclusion /kənˈkluːʒən/, vacation /veɪˈkeɪ.ʃən/, addiction /əˈdɪkˌʃən/
  • Long words — get the stress right: experiment /ɪkˈspɛɹ.ə.mənt/, psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, mechanism /ˈmɛk.ə.nɪ.zəm/, repeatedly /ɹɪˈpiːtɪdli/, phenomenon /fəˈnɒm.ɪ.nən/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like consequence, billionaire, feedback.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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