Shadowing Practice: Why It Sucks to Be a Ghost Bride (in Ming Dynasty) - Learn English Speaking with Video
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You're born in 16th century China, in a small village that smells of wet soil and wood smoke.
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You are the first daughter of a rice farmer.
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Your first impression of father is his laugh, a loud and easy laugh that comforts you.
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You spend your first years playing in the house with your father's laugh in the background.
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When you turn three, your playground now includes the rice paddies in Village Square.
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children.
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By the time you turn five, you already have siblings.
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Sisters who beg your mom to tell stories while she braids your hair
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and brothers that steal your food when no one is watching.
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Your family is comfortable, not wealthy, but you don't lack.
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You are 13 when the red dresses start appearing.
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You watch girls your age disappear into bridal sedans and emerge as wives.
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You also watch them leave their fathers homes and you feel envious.
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Not in a bad way.
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You just want the same and you want the story that comes after.
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After all, getting married is a woman's greatest achievement in your village.
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Sometimes you joke with your mother about what your husband will look like.
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Tall and kind, you decide.
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You tell her that he'll have a good family, a warm house, and a laugh like your father's.
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Your mother keeps braiding and smiles.
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A year later, a woman arrives at your door.
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She's elegantly dressed with jade earrings and a silk scarf.
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After complimenting you on your beauty, she and your father disappear inside for an hour.
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her give your father a pouch of coins.
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That night, your father calls you.
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When you meet him, You see your mother sitting beside him.
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He tells you that woman from earlier is a matchmaker
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that she came regarding your marriage He asks
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if you are willing to marry the son of a wealthy
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merchant from a neighboring town You say yes before he finishes
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the sentence you're surprised he asked at all You're already imagining
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your red dress as you run to tell your siblings the good news
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You don't look at your mother's face if you had looked carefully You would have seen a tear rolling down.
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By the end of the week, you've told everyone.
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Your friends first, then the neighbors.
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You even tell the woman who sells vegetables at the market.
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You also wonder why a wealthy merchant's son would fancy a rice farmer's daughter.
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With no clear answer, you tell yourself that your ancestors were responsible, and your beauty sealed it.
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Still, every time you tell someone, your mother warns you not to.
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She warns you with a face that says, Don't say too much.
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Don't boast.
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Wait until it is official.
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You do not wait.
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You cannot.
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At the same time, your preparations begin.
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New clothes appear, fabrics your family would not normally spend money on.
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Your mother spends her evening sewing things she wants you to have.
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When things are less busy, she always holds you for an embrace.
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Still, she always releases you before you can read her face.
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You interpret all of it as emotion appropriate to a daughter leaving home.
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Parents feel things at these moments.
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Everyone knows this: you interpret everything through the only story you know.
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The one where the red dress is the ending and the ending is good.
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Your mother finishes the last of the sewing a month after you agreed.
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She folds everything carefully as she hands each cloth to you.
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A week after all preparations are done, The sedan arrives, and as you look at it, you know that your life is about to change forever.
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The sedan moves the next day.
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You sit in it for hours as you journey through mountain roads that get narrower the further you go.
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You watch the landscape change through the curtain gap.
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The rice paddies give way to pine forests.
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The pine forests give way to something older.
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Villages you don't recognize.
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you're finally there.
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Your sedan has arrived at a village with stone buildings.
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You look at them, and you realize that they're older than anything in your town.
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The rooftops are also curved in a style you haven't seen.
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As your sedan passes through, you notice that the people avoid your procession.
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You look at their eyes and think it's because they fear your in -laws.
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But when you exchange eye contact with a woman, All you see is pity.
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You wonder why.
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But the sound of the sedan stopping brings you back to your senses.
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In front of the sedan is a big house.
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You see a family waiting at its gate.
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You see an old man, and from his dressing, you know he's the merchant.
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your father -in -law next to him is a woman your mother -in -law
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You watch her cross the courtyard and take both your hands before you have fully stepped out of the sedan.
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Looking at her face, You notice she's weeping.
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You think of it as tears of joy.
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It seems everyone has been weeping for joy these past months.
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You're soon taken to your room.
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It's beautiful.
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In it, there are red curtains.
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There are also red lanterns strung from the ceiling and there's even a red bedding folded with precision on the sleeping mat.
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Everything is in the color of celebration.
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You move around the room touching things the curtain fabric the
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lacquered table edge You feel something almost like relief unclenching in your chest
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Then you see the altar it sits across the room like it has always been there
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and There's a painting at the center.
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It's that of a young man.
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handsome, serious -eyed.
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You also see incense burning in a ceramic holder, fruit arranged in careful formation, and below all of that, is paper money.
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Paper shoes, paper clothing folded into neat squares.
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You know what paper offerings are for.
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Every child in China knows that you burn paper for the dead.
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You look at the painting.
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You look at the offerings.
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You assume the man must be their most illustrious ancestor.
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He was probably the one that started the merchant trade of this family.
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You believe his altar here is for the ancestor to watch and judge the latest addition to their family.
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At that same moment, Your mother -in -law walks in.
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You ask when you will meet your husband.
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She smiles and says, "Sundir." very soon.
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That night, you cannot sleep.
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You need your mother's voice, your father's laugh, anything familiar to feel comfortable in an unfamiliar place.
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So you move through the dark corridor toward the room where your parents were given quarters for the night.
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Light comes from under a door at the end of the hall.
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Voices.
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You move closer.
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The door is open just enough.
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Your father sits across from the merchant.
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The matchmaker stands silently behind, hands folded.
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Your father's posture is wrong.
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Too small.
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Too careful.
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The posture of a man who is aware of what he owes and to whom.
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You hear the merchant's voice first.
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I miss my son.
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than your fathers.
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She is a good girl.
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She will not complain.
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I know my daughter.
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A pouch of coins moves from the merchant's hand to your father's, heavier than the first Much heavier Your father's fingers close around it without hesitation.
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For some reason, the action makes you step back as a floorboard creaks beneath your foot.
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Immediately, you turn, walk quickly, and then run back to your room.
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For the next few days, your hands do not stop shaking.
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Your mother asks why.
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You tell her that it's excitement.
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She believes you.
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You don't.
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For some reason, you get a bad feeling about the wedding.
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So you start praying to your ancestors.
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You even pray to the ancestors in your room.
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you beg them to watch over your wedding.
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On the day of your wedding, you're dressed by two servants.
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Your mother is present.
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She keeps complimenting your red dress.
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But she looks sad.
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This time it's obvious.
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You tell her not to worry about you, that your husband will take care of you.
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You also promise to visit often and you make her promise to visit when you have a child.
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She bursts into tears and starts to mutter, I'm sorry.
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You wonder why?
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She seems to want to say something, but your father walks in at that moment.
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He pulls her away and says she's emotional about your wedding, that she'll be alright.
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You feel that something's off.
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But today's your big day, so you don't ponder for long.
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You're soon led to the ancestral hall.
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It is enormous.
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In it, there are hundreds of wooden tablets lining every wall from floor to ceiling.
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Generations of strangers watching you with judgmental eyes.
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Your family is there.
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Your in -laws too.
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The merchant, his wife, and your husband's younger brother.
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You met him the day before when he came to give his congratulations.
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You do not like him much.
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His stare makes you uncomfortable.
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You catch his eye, and he's still staring.
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So you avoid his eyes and scan the room for your husband.
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That's when you see it.
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The altar at the center of the hall.
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The altar holds two chairs, two cups of wine, two red candles tied together with string.
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And then you see it.
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In one chair sits a paper effigy.
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life -sized dressed in wedding robes, face painted white with red lips curved into a permanent smile, and pinned to its chest,
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the painting from your room.
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the young man with the serious eyes.
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It is at that moment everything finally makes sense.
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The money changing hands.
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Your mother's face.
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The altar in your room.
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and the words you hear that day.
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You understand what's happening.
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Your parents have made you a ghost bride.
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An ancient tradition where girls are married to the dead.
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You've heard about it before, a tradition performed to ensure that individuals who die unmarried are not lonely in the afterlife
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and don't become restless spirits you just never thought you'd become
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one the sound of the whole doors being shut jolt you back to your senses You look at your parents.
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You see your mother sobbing and your father nodding slowly.
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his eyes tell you Just comply.
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It's at that moment you notice your mother -in -law at your side.
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She holds your hand tightly as if to prevent you from running as she pulls and guides you to the altar.
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A priest is already there.
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From that moment on, your body moves on autopilot.
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Your mind is no longer here.
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Instead, it has traveled back home to when you played around with your siblings.
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At the same time, You do the marriage rites.
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Bowing three times.
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Drinking from the cup.
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You are also crying.
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You are not sure when that started.
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After the rites, the wedding priest places a cold iron ring on your finger.
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It tightens the moment it touches your skin.
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A small contraction, like a decision being made by someone other than you.
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Around you, your new and old family weep.
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You see joy, grief and relief, all wearing the same face.
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Then, the temperature drops.
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Not gradually, all at once.
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The candles bend sideways without wind and straighten again.
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You feel something invisible settle into the empty chair beside you.
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So you look at the effigy with its permanent smile and paper hands folded neatly in its paper lap.
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You look at the ring on your finger and realize that you are already married.
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You wake up the next morning in the red room.
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For one breath.
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You forget where you are.
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Then you see the altar.
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The painting.
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The incense already burning.
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It seems someone else lit it before sunrise.
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But not anymore.
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Because from now on, that someone will be you.
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This is what a ghost marriage is for.
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In your culture, death is not an ending.
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It is a relocation.
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The dead move to the underworld, a mirror of the living world, where they still need food, shelter, and family.
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An unmarried man who dies has no wife to tend to spirit, no descendants to burn offerings.
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No anchor.
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he becomes a hungry ghost.
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Restless, angry, dangerous to the family he left behind.
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And the only solution they can think of is a wife.
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Your father saw their solution as an opportunity to save a wealthy family from a restless spirit
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while securing his own family's future with the coins.
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And because of this decision, your mornings now belong to the dead.
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Three years pass as you turn 17.
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Your days have blurred into a routine where you rise before the household.
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Light the incense.
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Bow three times to the painting of a man that'll never know you.
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You have been bowing to him for years.
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and you still do not know what his voice sounded like.
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You do not know if he was kind.
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You do not know if he would have made a good husband.
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After bowing, you go to the kitchen and begin the day.
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You cook.
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You clean.
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Your mother -in -law watches everything with sharp eyes and sharper silences.
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She is not cruel.
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She has just lost her son and replaced him with a ritual in a Masid disguised as a wife.
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That's it.
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Your treatment is no different from a maid.
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You learn the correct temperature for the morning tea.
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You learn which tasks belong to which hour.
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You learn that correction will be delivered in front of servants.
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They do not love you.
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They don't care for you.
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They only care that you take care of their son's altar while alive, and his soul in death.
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After all, you're legally his widow.
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which means you are legally theirs.
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You cannot leave.
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You cannot remarry.
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Your body must remain chaste because you belong to a dead man's memory.
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Life goes on as you turn 18.
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You have been a widow for the last four years.
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Your husband's younger brother has been watching you the whole time.
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You still remember his eyes at the wedding.
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That kind that doesn't look away when caught.
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You thought it was rudeness.
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You already know it wasn't.
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He's in his 20s.
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He moves to the house with the ease of a man who has always owned it.
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Well, He'll own it soon.
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The merchant is old, and the grief of losing his eldest son is killing him slowly.
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You never asked how your husband died either.
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You do not care, because right now your focus is on avoiding his brother.
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Your brother -in -law finds reasons to be in rooms you were in.
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you avoid him.
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You become skilled at knowing which corridor he is in before you enter it.
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You even develop a sense for his footsteps.
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Then one day, the merchant and his wife visit a neighboring town.
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The house is quiet in the specific way of a house that has been emptied of its authority.
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You are in your room, mending cloth.
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When the door opens without a knock, he stands in the doorway.
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That look again.
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You ask what he needs.
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He does not answer.
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You move to leave, but he's larger than even the doorway.
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Then he grabs you.
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You try to struggle, but it's futile.
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What happens next is witnessed only by the painting of a dead man on an altar.
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Time passes, and he leaves you lying on the mat.
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You look at the ceiling and tell yourself it will not happen again.
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It does.
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You try to confide in your mother -in -law but she waves her complaints away.
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You realize that the family knows.
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You can see it in the way conversations stop when you enter a room.
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in the way the servants look at the floor when you pass.
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It seems like they have made a collective decision not to involve themselves.
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So every night he visits You cry.
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You have no husband to appeal to.
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No parents who will come.
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Your father with your mother's permission has exchanged you for coins.
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All you can gain comfort from is a cold iron ring
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and the photograph of a man who never knew you existed Years pass.
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Not quickly.
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Not slowly.
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Just fast and slow enough that you've almost forgotten you once had a life that didn't revolve around a dead man.
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You are 25 when your hair starts to show its first grey threats.
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Women in your village went grey at 40.
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You know why.
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You just can't change it.
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By the time you are 30, the cold iron ring already sits differently on your finger.
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Not tighter.
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looser.
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Your hands have thinned over the years due to too much stress and work.
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The merchant and his wife pass away during this time.
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A day after the funeral, Your brother -in -law informs you that you'll now start burning incense for all three altars: your husband and his parents.
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You refuse.
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He just starves you till you cave.
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Now you spend your mornings tending the altar of a man you never met.
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You bow to his paintings every morning.
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You burn his incense.
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You maintain his honor.
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Then you repeat the same for his parents.
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He does not know.
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He is never known.
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And he'll never know.
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You are 32 when your body begins its quiet refusal of this life.
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A cough, that winter that does not leave.
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a tiredness that lives in the bone rather than the muscle.
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The kind of tired that sleep does not fix.
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You know what it means.
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Still, you continue inhaling incense smoke and bowing.
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You do this for as long as your body will allow.
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until the day it doesn't.
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One day, your brother -in -law receives news that you haven't lit the incense for his parents' altar yet.
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He rushes to your room to punish you.
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When he enters, He sees it.
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your gaunt figure sleeping peacefully.
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No breath.
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No pulse.
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Just a body in a red room with the red curtains and the red lanterns.
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The only witness to your death is the painting on the altar across from you.
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You're mourned appropriately.
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Ironically, your treatment and death far surpasses whatever care you were afforded alive.
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your tablet is prepared by the family scribe.
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He writes your name beneath your husband's and then carries it to the altar as he places it beside his.
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two tablets.
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side by side.
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together forever in the genealogy of a family that was never yours.
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You spent your entire life performing the role of his wife.
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without once meeting him.
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And now in death, you finally join him.
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You have always belonged to him.
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And now, you will always belong to him.
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That's what the tablet is for.
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Somewhere in a village not far from here, a family has a son who died too young.
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The matchmaker is already on her way.
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She's older now.
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She still wears jade earrings and silk scarves.
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She knows exactly which fathers to visit first.
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She knows which ones have daughters they cannot afford to keep.
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She knows how heavy to make the first pouch of coins.
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She has done this before.
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She will do this again.
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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson
This B2 speaking lesson is built on the video “Why It Sucks to Be a Ghost Bride”. The speaker keeps coming back to these words: altar, mother, father. This video has 352 sentences and 3221 words to shadow. The speech runs for 20:43. The speaker talks at a natural 156 words per minute, close to everyday conversation. 84% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English; the rest is worth studying before you start.
Key vocabulary in this video
The 15 most advanced words in the video, with pronunciation and meaning:
| Word | Pronunciation | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| altar noun | /ˈɔl.tɚ/ | A table or similar flat-topped structure used for religious rites. |
| merchant noun | /ˈmɝt͡ʃənt/ | A person who traffics in commodities for profit. |
| incense noun | /ˈɪnsɛns/ | Biotic material that releases fragrant smoke when burnt, often used in religious rites or for aesthetic reasons. |
| sedan noun | /səˈdæn/ | An enclosed windowed chair suitable for a single occupant, carried by at least two porters, in equal numbers in front and behind, using wooden rails that… |
| ancestor noun | /ˈæn.sɛs.tɚ/ | One from whom a person is descended, whether on the father's or mother's side, at any distance of time; a progenitor; a forefather; a forebear. |
| coin noun | /ˈkoɪ̯n/ | A piece of currency, usually metallic and in the shape of a disc, but sometimes polygonal, or with a hole in the middle. |
| curtain noun | /ˈkɜɹt(ə)n/ | A piece of cloth covering a window, bed, etc. to offer privacy and keep out light. |
| tablet noun | /ˈtæblət/ | A slab of clay, stone or wood used for inscription. |
| fold verb | /ˈfəʊld/ | To bend (any thin material, such as paper) over so that it comes in contact with itself. |
| matchmaker noun | /ˈmæt͡ʃˌmeɪkɚ/ | Someone who finds suitable dates or marriage partners for other people. |
| pouch noun | /paʊt͡ʃ/ | A small bag usually closed with a drawstring. |
| restless adjective | /ˈɹɛstlɪs/ | Not allowing or affording rest. |
| sibling noun | /ˈsɪb.lɪŋ/ | A person who shares a parent; one's brother or sister who one shares a parent with. |
| servant noun | /ˈsɝvənt/ | One who is hired to perform regular household or other duties, and receives compensation. As opposed to a slave. |
| ceiling noun | /ˈsilɪŋ/ | The overhead closure of a room. |
Phrasal verbs you will hear
| Word | Pronunciation | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| leave behind verb | To abandon. | |
| look away verb | To ignore something; to pretend not to have seen or noticed something; to avoid dealing with something. | |
| move around verb | To relocate to new homes repeatedly; to not live in any one place for long. | |
| pass away verb | To die. | |
| pass through verb | To go through, to travel through, to transit or lie across a place or from one place to another. | |
| roll down verb | Synonym of wind down. | |
| step back verb | /stɛp ˈbæk/ | To stop what one is doing and evaluate the current situation. |
| wake up verb | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | To stop sleeping; to awake. |
Sentences worth repeating
Short, complete lines from the video that you can reuse in everyday conversation:
- By the end of the week, you've told everyone.
- You're soon taken to your room.
- Your father's posture is wrong.
- You hear the merchant's voice first.
- You tell her that it's excitement.
Grammar in this video
The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:
| Structure | In the video |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — an action that started earlier and is still going on | has been weeping · have been bowing · has been watching |
| Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters now | you've told · has arrived · haven't seen |
| Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does it | are done · are also curved · were given |
| Relative clauses who / which + clause — extra information about a person or thing | woman who sells · man who is · man who dies |
Pronunciation to watch
The speaker uses 37 contractions and reduced forms, such as don't, you're, he'll. Say them the short way, as you hear them.
- The “th” sounds: cloth /klɒθ/, theirs /ðɛɚz/
- The “sh” and “zh” sounds: punish /ˈpʌnɪʃ/, correction /kəˈɹɛkʃən/, precision /pɹɪˈsɪʒ.ən/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/
- Long words — get the stress right: invisible /ɪnˈvɪzəb(ə)l/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/
How to practise with this video
- Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
- Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
- Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like altar, merchant, incense.
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