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Hello everyone!
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Welcome to our podcast.
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My name is Anna.
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Today I am here with my friend Mark.
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We talk about easy topics in English.
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This podcast is for people who are learning English.
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We speak slowly and use simple words.
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Today's topic is very interesting.
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We talk about wasting time.
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What does that mean?
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When you do something but it is not useful or important.
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You are wasting time.
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I think everyone does this sometimes.
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I do it too.
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So Mark, are you ready to start?
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Hi Anna.
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Hi everyone.
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Yes, I am very ready.
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Thank you for the nice introduction.
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I am Mark.
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I am happy to be here today.
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This topic is fun because everyone can understand it.
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We all waste time sometimes.
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It is a normal part of life.
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Some people waste a lot of time, some people waste a little time.
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But nobody is perfect.
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I think we can learn a lot from pocking about this.
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So, Anna, let's begin.
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This will be a great conversation.
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I'm excited.
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So, Mark, what does wasting time mean to you?
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Can you explain it in simple words?
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For me, wasting time means doing something that has no result.
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For example, I sit and look at my phone for one hour.
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After that, I do not feel good.
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I did not learn anything.
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I did not do any work.
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I just looked at videos and pictures.
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That is wasting time for me.
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Sometimes I feel a little sad after doing that, but I still do it.
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I think it is very easy to waste time.
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What do you think?
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That is a great example, Anna.
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I agree with you.
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For me, wasting time means spending time on things that are not important right now.
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For example, I sometimes watch TV for three or four hours.
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I am not tired.
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I do not need rest.
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I just sit and watch.
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After that, I remember my homework or my work and I feel worried.
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I think, oh no, I need to do that.
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It's a bad feeling.
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But in the moment, watching TV feels easy and nice, so it is hard to stop.
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I think that is why people waste time.
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Mark, do you think wasting time is always bad?
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I sometimes think a little rest is not bad.
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For example, when I am very tired, I sit and do nothing for 30 minutes.
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Is that wasting time?
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I'm not sure.
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Maybe sometimes we need to rest.
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We need to stop doing work.
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Our brain needs a break.
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So maybe sometimes doing nothing is okay.
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But if I rest for four hours and I am not tired, that is different.
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That is a problem.
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What do you think?
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Is all wasting time bad?
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That is a really good question, Anna.
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I think it depends.
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If you are tired and you rest, that is not wasting time.
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That is important for your body and your mind.
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But if you are not tired and you still do nothing, that is different.
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You feel bored.
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You feel empty.
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That is wasting time.
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I also think it depends on the person.
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Some people need more rest.
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Some people need less.
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So I don't think all wasting time is bad, but too much is a problem.
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We need a balance.
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What are the most common ways people waste time?
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I have a few ideas.
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First, social media.
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I spend so much time on social media every day.
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I look at pictures, I read short messages, I watch short videos.
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Hours can pass very fast.
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Second, I sometimes talk too much with friends about nothing important.
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We talk and talk and nothing happens.
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Third, I sometimes change my plans many times.
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I think, I will do this later, and later never comes.
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Do you have more examples?
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Yes, I have more examples.
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First, I sometimes spend a lot of time looking for something.
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I look for my keys, my phone, my book.
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I waste 20 minutes every day just looking for things.
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That is very frustrating.
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Second, I sometimes start a task but stop many times.
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I go to the kitchen, I check my phone, I look outside.
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This is called procrastination.
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It means you delay doing something.
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Third, I watch videos online.
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I want to watch one video, but then another video starts, and another.
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Suddenly, two hours are gone.
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It's a big problem.
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I think social media is a very big reason why people waste time.
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Do you use social media a lot?
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I use it every day.
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In the morning, I check my phone before I get up.
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I look at messages, I look at pictures.
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30 minutes pass before I even stand up from my bed.
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That is not good.
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I start my day already behind.
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I think this is very common now.
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Many people do this.
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Phones are everywhere.
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It is very easy to pick up your phone and start scrolling.
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Scrolling means looking through many things quickly.
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Yes, Anna, I do the same thing.
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In the morning, my phone is next to my bed.
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I hear a sound and I immediately pick it up.
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I check messages, news, and social media.
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Before I know it, it is late.
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I did not eat breakfast.
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I did not exercise.
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I did not prepare for work.
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The phone took all my morning time.
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I think phones are wonderful things.
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They help us with many things, but they can also steal our time.
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I use the word steal because we do not notice it happening.
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The time disappears quietly.
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Let's talk about procrastination.
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That word is a little difficult.
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But the meaning is simple.
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Procrastination means you delay doing something.
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You need to do a task, but you say, I will do it later.
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And later becomes tomorrow.
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And tomorrow becomes next week.
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Do you procrastinate, Mark?
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I procrastinate a lot.
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I have a list of things to do, but I look at my list and I feel tired just reading it.
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So I close it and do something easy instead.
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I think many people know this feeling.
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Yes, I know that feeling very well, Anna.
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I procrastinate most with difficult tasks.
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If something is easy, I do it fast.
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But if something is hard, I delay it.
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I think, I need to prepare first.
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But preparing takes forever.
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I clean my desk, I make coffee, I organize my papers.
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After all that, I am tired and it is time to sleep.
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The hard task is still not done.
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Procrastination is tricky because you feel busy.
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You do small things, but the important thing never gets done.
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Why do people procrastinate?
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I think one reason is fear.
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We are afraid to start something because it might be hard, or we are afraid to fail.
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If I do not start, I cannot fail.
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That sounds silly, but I think it is true.
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Another reason is we do not know where to begin.
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A big task is scary.
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We look at it, and it feels impossible.
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So we do nothing.
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Also, some people do not have energy.
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They are tired and cannot think clearly.
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So they delay things until they feel better.
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But that feeling does not always come.
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I agree.
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There is a big reason.
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Another reason is that our brains like easy things.
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Doing a difficult task requires a lot of thinking.
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Watching a video is easy.
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Our brain says choose the easy thing, and we do.
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Also, I think some people do not see the result of their work right away.
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If you work hard today, you might see the result next week or next month.
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That feels far away, but a fun video gives you a good feeling right now, so we choose the video.
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It's about immediate and delayed satisfaction.
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Let's talk about a funny kind of wasting time.
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It is called busy but not productive.
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This means you look very busy.
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You move fast, you write things, you make calls.
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But at the end of the day, nothing important is done.
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I do this sometimes too.
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I am busy all day, But then I ask myself, what did I do today?
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And the answer is not clear.
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I did many small things.
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I answered emails.
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I organized files.
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But the big important task?
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I did not touch it.
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Does this happen to you?
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Oh yes, this happens to me often.
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I call it feeling busy.
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I have a full day, I am always doing something.
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But in the evening, I look at my important tasks.
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They are all still there waiting.
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I spent all my time on small things.
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Like I spent 30 minutes choosing what music to listen to while working.
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I never even started working.
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Or I spent one hour organizing my email folders, but I did not reply to the important emails.
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It's a trap.
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You feel productive, but you are actually avoiding real work.
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I want to talk about watching TV and movies.
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This is another big way people waste time.
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I love movies.
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I really do.
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Sometimes I watch one movie, and then another movie starts, and I think, just a few more minutes.
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But a few minutes becomes two more hours.
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Suddenly it is midnight, I have work tomorrow, I feel tired, but I watched so much.
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I think this is a very common experience.
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Apps are very good at keeping us watching.
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They always show us the next episode automatically.
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It is very clever but also dangerous for our time.
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Yes, streaming is a big problem for my free time too.
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I sit down on a Sunday afternoon to watch one episode of a show.
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The episode is 50 minutes.
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Then the next one starts automatically and I do not press stop.
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Three episodes later it is evening.
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I had plans.
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I wanted to cook, clean, and call my friend.
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I did none of those things.
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The TV took my whole afternoon.
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And the funny thing is, I don't even remember the first episode clearly.
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I was half watching, half thinking about other things.
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So I did not even enjoy it fully.
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What about sleeping too much?
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Is that wasting time?
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I think sometimes people sleep too much when they feel bored or sad.
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Sleeping is healthy and important.
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Adults need around 7 or 8 hours of sleep.
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But if you sleep 10 or 12 hours, because you do not want to do anything, that might be wasting time.
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I sometimes sleep too much on weekends.
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I wake up at noon, half the day is gone.
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I feel heavy and slow, but then I feel bad because the day is short now.
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Have you experienced sleeping too much?
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Yes, I sleep too much sometimes.
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Usually on weekends or holidays.
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I go to bed late, then I sleep until very late in the morning.
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I wake up and it is already afternoon.
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I feel confused.
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My body feels strange.
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This is sometimes called oversleeping.
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It does not feel good.
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I am slower for the rest of the day.
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Also, I think I sleep too much when I do not have a plan.
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If I know what I will do in the morning, I wake up more easily.
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But with no plan, I just stay in bed.
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A plan helps.
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Let's talk about shopping, especially online shopping.
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Do you waste time shopping?
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I do.
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I open a shopping website.
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I want to buy one thing, but I look at so many other things.
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I add things to my cart, I look at prices, I read reviews.
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Two hours later, I bought nothing, or I bought something I do not need.
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Online shopping is very easy and very distracting.
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I sometimes go to buy shoes, and then I look at bags, clothes, and kitchen tools.
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None of these things were on my list.
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Have you done this?
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Yes.
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Online shopping is a big time trap.
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I open a website to buy a book, I look at the book, then I see other people also bought this.
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I look at those things, then I see a sale, I check the sale items, then I get distracted by a different category.
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Before I know it, I spent two hours browsing and bought nothing.
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Sometimes I add many things to my cart, and then delete everything because I feel guilty.
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All that time was wasted.
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I think online stores are designed to keep us there as
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long as possible." I think one reason we waste time is that we do not have a clear plan for our day.
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When I have a plan, I do more things.
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I know what to do first, second, third.
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But when I have no plan, I feel lost.
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I go from one thing to another.
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I start something, stop, start something else.
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At the end of the day, nothing is finished.
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A plan does not need to be perfect or complicated.
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Even a simple list of three or four tasks is helpful.
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Do you make plans for your day?
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I try to make plans.
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Sometimes I am good at this.
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I write my tasks the night before.
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In the morning, I look at my list and I start.
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On those days, I feel very good.
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I finish my work and I have free time in the evening.
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But sometimes I do not make a plan.
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Those days are usually messy.
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I wake up and I do not know what to do first.
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I check my phone.
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I make coffee slowly.
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I think about what to do.
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Time passes.
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I get stressed.
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Planning is simple, but it makes a big difference.
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Let's talk about meetings.
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Do you think meetings waste time?
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I think some meetings are very important, but some meetings are long and unnecessary.
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I have been in meetings where we talk for one hour but nothing is decided.
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We discuss the same point again and again.
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People repeat what others already said.
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At the end, we agree to have another meeting.
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I think this is a big problem in many offices and schools.
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A good meeting is short and has a clear goal.
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A bad meeting has no direction.
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What is your experience with meetings?
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I agree completely.
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I think many meetings are too long.
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Sometimes a simple email can replace a one-hour meeting.
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But people prefer to meet and talk.
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I understand that face-to-face communication is important, but not every problem needs a meeting.
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I have attended meetings where I did not need to be there.
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My part was five minutes, but I stayed for the whole hour.
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That is 60 minutes of my life that I did not use well.
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The best meetings are short, clear, and end with a decision or action.
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I think everyone should learn how to have shorter meetings.
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Now let's talk about something positive.
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How can we stop wasting time?
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One thing I try to do is put my phone in another room when I am working.
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If my phone is next to me, I always want to check it.
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But if it is in the bedroom and I am in the kitchen working, I do not go to get it every five minutes.
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Out of sight, out of mind.
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This phrase means if you cannot see something, you think about it less.
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It really helps me focus.
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Another thing I do is set a timer.
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I work for 25 minutes without stopping.
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Then I rest for five minutes.
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Those are great tips, Anna.
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I do some of these too.
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Another thing that helps me is starting with the most difficult task first.
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In the morning, my energy is high.
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My brain works well.
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So I do the hard thing first.
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After that, everything else feels easy.
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If I do easy things first, I get tired.
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Then the hard task feels even harder.
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I also try to keep my workspace clean.
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A messy desk distracts me.
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I see things and I start thinking about them instead of working.
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So I clean my desk before I start.
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Small habits can help a lot.
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I want to talk about the concept of time blindness.
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This means some people do not feel time passing.
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They do not notice that an hour has passed.
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It feels like 10 minutes.
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I think I have this sometimes.
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I start reading and suddenly two hours are gone.
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I did not notice.
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I think people who have ADHD often experience this.
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ADHD is when it is hard to focus and control attention.
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But even without ADHD, many people do not notice time passing.
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This is why timers and alarms are very helpful.
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They tell you when time is up.
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That is very interesting, Anna.
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I think I have time blindness too sometimes, especially when I'm doing something I enjoy.
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Time flies.
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But when I do something boring, every minute feels long.
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This is normal.
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Our brain experiences time differently based on what we're doing.
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I think the problem comes when we are doing something fun but unproductive, like playing games or watching videos.
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Time flies and we do not notice.
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Then we feel shocked.
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It is already evening, but I just sat down.
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Having alarms or timers is a simple and helpful solution.
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Let me talk about something called decision fatigue.
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Every day we make many, many decisions.
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What to eat, what to wear, what to do first.
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All these decisions take mental energy.
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After many decisions, our brain gets tired.
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Then we make bad decisions.
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Or we make no decision and we just do nothing.
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I think this is one reason why people waste time in the afternoon or evening.
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They used all their energy on decisions during the day, so later they cannot think well.
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To fix this, some people make small decisions automatic, like eating the same breakfast every day.
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That is a really interesting idea, Anna.
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I think decision fatigue is real.
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I notice it on busy days.
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In the morning, I'm sharp and focused, but after lunch, I feel slow.
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Small things feel hard.
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I cannot decide what to do next, so I just sit and look at my phone.
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I think making some decisions in advance is smart.
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Like planning meals for the week, or choosing clothes the night before.
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These small actions save mental energy.
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Then you can use that energy for important things later.
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Our brain has a limit, and we should use it wisely.
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Do you think boredom causes people to waste time?
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I think yes.
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When I am bored, I pick up my phone immediately.
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I scroll through social media without a real reason.
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I am not looking for anything specific.
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I just feel empty, and I want something to fill that feeling.
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Boredom is very uncomfortable.
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People do not like to feel bored, so they reach for easy entertainment.
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But I also read that boredom can be good sometimes.
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When we are bored, we can be creative.
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Our brain looks for something interesting.
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This can lead to new ideas.
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I agree.
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Boredom and wasting time are connected.
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When I am bored, I often do unproductive things.
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I eat snacks I do not need.
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I watch videos I do not really want to watch.
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I just want to feel something.
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But I have also experienced what you described.
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Sometimes when I am bored and I do not pick up my phone, I start thinking creatively.
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I get ideas.
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I remember things I want to do.
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I make plans.
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So boredom is not always bad.
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But most people do not let themselves feel bored.
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They immediately fill the silence with phones and screens.
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Let's talk about the difference between rest and wasting time.
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I think this is important.
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Rest is necessary.
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Rest is when you stop working and let your body and mind recover.
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Examples of rest are sleeping, taking a walk, talking with a friend, listening to music.
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Wasting time is different.
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Wasting time gives you no energy.
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After wasting time, you still feel tired, or you feel guilty.
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After real rest, you feel better, you have more energy, you are ready to work again.
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So the question to ask yourself is, do I feel better after this?
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If yes, it was rest.
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If no, it was wasting time.
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That is a very clear explanation, Anna.
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I like that test.
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Do I feel better after this?
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I will use then i think for me a walk outside
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is always real rest i come back with more energy
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and a clearer head
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but watching videos for two hours i feel worse my eyes are tired i feel slow
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and a little sad and i have less time for things i care about
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so the videos were wasting time i also think the intention matters
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if i decide to rest and i watch one movie
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that is planned rest but if i watch four movies and miss my plans, that is wasting time.
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What do you think about video games?
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Are they wasting time?
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I know many people love video games.
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Some people play for fun and relaxation.
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That is fine, I think.
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But some people play for 6, 8, 10 hours a day.
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They skip meals, they do not sleep enough, they ignore their friends and family.
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That seems like a problem.
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But I don't want to judge.
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I think the question is balance.
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Can you play games and still do your important tasks?
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If yes, great.
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If games are taking over your life, that is a problem.
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What do you think, Mark?
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I think video games are like any other activity.
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The amount of time is the key.
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I play games sometimes.
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I enjoy them.
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Games can be creative and fun.
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Some games teach problem solving and strategy.
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But like you said, when gaming takes too much time, it becomes a problem.
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I have friends who play until three or four in the morning.
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They are tired the next day.
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They miss work or school.
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They argue with family about this.
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That is not healthy.
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I think two hours of gaming is fine for most people.
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More than that can become too much depending on the person.
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I want to talk about something that I think is important, comparison and social media.
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When I scroll through social media, I see people's perfect lives.
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Beautiful photos, nice holidays, success stories.
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I start comparing myself to them.
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Why am I not doing that?
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Why do I not have that?
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And I feel bad about my own life.
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This makes me want to scroll more, looking for something to feel better.
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But the feeling doesn't get better.
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It gets worse.
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So I am wasting time and feeling bad.
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It's a double problem.
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Do you compare yourself to others online?
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Yes, I do sometimes.
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It's very natural.
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We see what other people share, and we forget that people only share the best moments.
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Nobody posts a picture when they feel sad or lazy.
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Nobody shows their failures online.
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So social media gives us a false picture of life.
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Everyone looks successful and happy, and we compare our real life to their highlights.
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That's not fair to ourselves.
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I think it is good to take breaks from social media.
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Sometimes I delete the apps for one week.
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I feel much better.
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I have more time, and I stop comparing myself to others.
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Let's talk about the morning.
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How you start your day can decide how you use your time.
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Some people wake up and immediately look at their phone.
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This can cause stress right away.
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You read bad news, you see emails, you start worrying before you even get up.
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This is not a good way to start the day.
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Other people wake up and do something calm first.
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Drink water, stretch, walk outside, eat breakfast slowly.
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This helps the brain start well.
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I am trying to not look at my phone for the first 30 minutes after waking up.
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It is difficult, but helpful.
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I think the morning is very important.
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I used to check my phone immediately.
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My first thought of the day was someone else's message or some news story.
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It put me in a reactive mood.
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I was responding to others before I even thought about my own day.
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Now I try to have a morning routine without my phone.
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I drink water.
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I do some light exercise.
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I eat breakfast.
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I look at my plan for the day.
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After that, I check my phone.
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This small change helped me a lot.
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I feel more in control of my day.
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I waste less time because I start with intention.
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What do successful people say about time?
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I have read some things about this.
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Many successful people protect their time very carefully.
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They say no to things that are not important.
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They do not go to every meeting.
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They do not answer every email immediately.
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They choose what to spend time on.
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I think saying no is a very important skill.
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Many people feel bad saying no. They say yes to everything, and then they have no time for their own goals.
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Learning to say no politely is a big part of managing your time well.
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I am still learning this.
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Yes, saying no is very hard.
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I find it difficult, too.
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I want to be helpful to everyone.
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when someone asks me for something, I usually say yes.
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But then I have too many things to do, and I do not do any of them well.
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I rush, I make mistakes, I feel stressed.
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I have heard that saying no is a form of respect.
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Respect for yourself and for the other person.
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If you say yes but cannot do it well, that is also bad.
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It is better to say no clearly than to say yes and disappoint someone.
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I am practicing this.
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Let's talk about clutter.
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Physical clutter, like a messy room or desk.
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Does a messy environment make you waste time?
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I think yes.
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When my room is messy, I cannot focus.
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I look at the mess and I feel overwhelmed.
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I cannot start working.
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I think I should clean first, but then cleaning takes one hour.
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And after cleaning, I am tired and my work is still not done.
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Also, I waste time looking for things in a messy space.
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Where is my charger?
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Where is my notebook?
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These small searches add up.
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A clean space helps me work faster and better.
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I completely agree.
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A clean space is very important for me, too.
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When my desk is clean, I feel clear.
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My brain is calm.
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I can focus.
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But when there are papers and cups and other things everywhere, my brain feels the same way, messy.
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I read that our environment affects our mood and concentration.
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This makes sense to me.
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I now spend 10 minutes every evening cleaning my desk.
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It takes very little time, but the next morning I start in a good place.
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This small habit saves me time and energy every day.
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The environment around us matters.
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Let's talk about how smartphones changed our relationship with time.
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Before smartphones, people had to wait in lines or on trains with nothing to do.
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They looked out the window.
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They thought.
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They talked to strangers.
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They were bored.
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Now everyone has a phone.
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The moment there's a free second, we look at our phones.
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We never need to be bored or empty.
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But I wonder if we are missing something.
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Time to think.
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Time to be creative.
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Time to notice the world around us.
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Our phones filled all our empty time.
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Maybe some empty time was good for us.
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That is a beautiful and interesting thought, Anna.
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I agree.
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We are never truly bored now.
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And I think this is actually a problem.
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Ideas often come when we are resting or doing nothing.
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Scientists, writers, and artists often talk about this.
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Their best ideas came in the shower, on a walk, or before sleeping.
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These moments of doing nothing are actually important for the brain.
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But now we fill every quiet moment with a phone, so we have fewer moments of real thinking.
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I think we should protect some empty time every day.
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Just sit and think.
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Do nothing digital.
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I want to share a concept called time affluence.
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This means feeling like you have enough time.
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People who feel rich in time are happier.
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They are less stressed.
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They enjoy their activities more.
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But many people feel time poor.
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They always feel busy and rushed.
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Interesting research shows that helping other people can make you feel like you have more time.
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It sounds strange, but when you give your time to others, you feel more in control of your time.
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I think this is because helping others makes us feel effective, and effectiveness makes us feel less rushed.
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That is fascinating.
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I have not heard that before.
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I usually think helping others takes time away from me.
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But you say it actually makes us feel richer in time?
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I want to try that.
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Maybe volunteering or helping a friend with a problem.
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I think it also connects to purpose.
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When we feel our time has meaning, it feels well spent.
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If I help someone and it makes a difference, I do not feel like I wasted those hours.
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Compare that to watching videos for hours.
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I have nothing to show for that time.
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Purpose and meaning make time feel valuable." Let me talk about a practical technique.
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It is called the 2-minute rule.
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The idea is simple.
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If a task takes less than 2 minutes, do it immediately.
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Do not put it on your to-do list, just do it now.
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For example, reply to a short message.
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Put a cup in the dishwasher.
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Write one sentence in your notebook.
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These tiny tasks seem small, but if you delay them, they pile up.
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Then your to-do list is full of tiny tasks, and it feels heavy.
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The two-minute rule keeps small things from becoming big problems.
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I use this, and it really helps.
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I love this rule.
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It is so simple but effective.
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I have started doing this too.
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If I see something that needs a quick action, I do it right away.
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Before, I used to think, I will do that later.
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But later never came.
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The small tasks grew into a big pile.
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Then I felt overwhelmed.
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Now, if I can do something in two minutes, I just do it.
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My life is neater, my to-do list has fewer things, and I feel more in control.
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I think simple strategies like this are the best.
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They don't require big changes, just small adjustments every day.
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Let's talk about what we truly value.
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I think we waste time on things we don't really care about.
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But we say we are too busy for things we love.
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This is a contradiction.
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I say I have no time to read, but I spend two hours on social media.
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not about time, that's about priorities.
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If I really want to read, I can replace 30 minutes of social media with reading.
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The time is there, I just choose to use it differently.
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So maybe the question isn't not, do I have time, but what do I choose to spend my time on?
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That is a very important point, Anna.
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I think this is the heart of the topic.
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We all have the same 24 hours, but we choose how to use them.
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When I say I don't have time, I'm really saying that's not my priority.
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That's honest, but maybe a little uncomfortable, because it makes me responsible.
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I can't blame my schedule.
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I make the choices.
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So if I want to exercise, I need to choose exercise over something else.
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This thinking is empowering, but also challenging.
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It puts control back in our hands.
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And that's a good thing.
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Let's talk about the weekend.
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For many people, the weekend is for rest.
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But sometimes the weekend passes and we feel like we did nothing.
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Sunday evening comes and we think, what happened to Saturday and Sunday?
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We slept late, we watched TV, we ate slowly, we talked a little, but we didn't do the things we planned.
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We wanted to clean the house, call a friend, go outside, or start a hobby.
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And then Monday is here again.
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This disappeared weekend feeling is very common.
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Do you know this feeling?
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Yes, I know this feeling very well.
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I call it Sunday Sadness.
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You feel that the weekend ended before it really began.
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I think the problem is we have no plan.
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We think, I will rest and then do things.
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But rest is comfortable and the things never happen.
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I now try to plan one or two small goals for the weekend.
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Not too many, just one or two.
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Maybe cook a new recipe, or go for a long walk.
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Having one goal makes the weekend feel meaningful, and I still rest.
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But the weekend doesn't disappear completely.
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It has some shape and purpose.
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I want to talk about guilt.
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When we waste time, we often feel guilty.
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We know we should be doing something else.
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And that guilty feeling is not nice.
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But here is something interesting.
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Feeling guilty does not help us stop wasting time.
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It actually makes things worse sometimes.
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When I feel guilty, I feel bad.
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And when I feel bad, I want to feel better.
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So I watch more videos or scroll more.
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The guilt creates more wasting.
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I think a better approach is to notice what happened without judgment.
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Okay, I wasted two hours.
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That is okay.
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What can I do now?
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That is very wise, Anna.
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I think self-compassion is important here.
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If you are always angry at yourself for wasting time, you create stress.
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Stress makes focus harder, and then you waste more time.
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It's a cycle.
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I try to be kind to myself when I waste time.
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I say, everyone does this.
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I can start fresh.
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This is much more helpful than, I'm so lazy I wasted the whole day.
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Negative self-talk does not motivate us.
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It just makes us feel bad.
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Kindness to yourself is not weakness.
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It is a strategy for doing better next time.
698
Let's talk about the role of sleep in wasting time.
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When I do not sleep enough, I waste a lot of time the next day.
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I cannot focus.
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I move slowly.
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I make mistakes.
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I need to read things three times to understand.
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A task that takes 30 minutes when I'm rested takes one hour when I'm tired.
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So poor sleep actually creates wasted time.
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And then I feel bad in the evening and I stay up late, and then I am tired again the next day.
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It's a bad cycle.
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Good sleep is one of the best ways to protect your time.
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It sounds simple, but it is true.
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That is so true.
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Sleep is foundational.
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Everything depends on it.
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When I sleep well, I am fast, clear and energetic.
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I finish things quickly.
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I have time left over.
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But after a bad night, I am slow and distracted.
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I drink too much coffee.
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I sit at my desk, but nothing gets done.
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I look at my phone more.
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I eat more sugar to feel energy.
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All of this is wasting time and also hurting my health.
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I now try to go to sleep at the same time every night.
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This consistency helps my body know when to rest.
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A good sleep schedule is a real time saver.
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Let me share a reflection.
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We talked about many ways people waste time.
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Social media, procrastination, screens, no plans, messy spaces, bad sleep, meetings.
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But I think the biggest reason is disconnection from our own values.
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When we know what we truly want in life, it is easier to say no to distractions.
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When I feel lost or empty, I waste more time.
731
When I have a goal I care about, I waste less time.
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So maybe the deepest solution is not a time management trick.
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It's asking yourself, what do I really want?
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What matters to me?
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And then living in that direction.
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That is beautifully said, Anna.
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I agree deeply.
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Time management systems and apps can help.
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Timers and to-do lists can help.
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But without knowing your why, you will still get lost.
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You will still scroll and procrastinate.
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But if you have a clear reason to use your time well, everything changes.
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You wake up with intention.
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You make choices on purpose.
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You protect your time like something precious, because it is.
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Time is the one thing we cannot get back.
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Every minute spent is gone forever.
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So we should use it in ways that reflect what we truly love and value.
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We are getting close to the end of our podcast today.
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I want to say thank you to everyone who listened.
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I hope this conversation was helpful and easy to understand.
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We talked in simple English, I hope.
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We covered many topics about wasting time, from social media to procrastination, from sleep to values.
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I learned things from this conversation, too.
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Talking with Mark always helps me think better.
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I hope you feel the same.
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Remember, you do not need to be perfect with your time.
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Small improvements are good enough.
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Even using your time a little better each day makes a big difference.
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Thank you, Anna, and thank you to all our listeners.
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I really enjoyed today's conversation.
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It made me think about my own habits.
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I know I waste time, too, but I also know I can do better.
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And hearing Anna's thoughts helped me understand new ideas.
765
I hope you, our listeners, also found something useful.
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Maybe one tip that you can use starting today.
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Remember, time is precious.
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It's the same for everyone.
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Rich or poor, young or old, we all have 24 hours.
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How we use them is up to us.
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Thank you for spending some of your time with us today.
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See you next time.

สถานการณ์ในชีวิตจริง

ในวิดีโอนี้ เราจะได้ยินการสนทนาระหว่าง Anna และ Mark เกี่ยวกับการ "สูญเสียเวลา" ซึ่งเป็นเรื่องที่ทุกคนต้องเผชิญ บ่อยครั้งที่เราใช้เวลาไปกับกิจกรรมที่ไม่ได้ผลหรือไม่มีความสำคัญ เช่น การนั่งดูโทรทัศน์หรือเช็คโซเชียลมีเดียเป็นเวลานาน แม้ว่าเราจะรู้ว่าสิ่งเหล่านี้ไม่ได้ช่วยให้เรารู้สึกดีขึ้น แต่เราก็ยังคงทำมันอยู่ ถ้าคุณเคยมีประสบการณ์เช่นนี้ คุณไม่ได้อยู่คนเดียว!

กลุ่มคำและวลีที่มีประโยชน์

  • สูญเสียเวลา - wasting time
  • ทำอะไรที่ไม่มีผลลัพธ์ - doing something that has no result
  • รู้สึกวิตกกังวล - feel worried
  • ใช้เวลาอย่างไม่มีประโยชน์ - spending time on things that are not important
  • นั่งดูโทรทัศน์ - watch TV

ความท้าทายในการฝึกพูด

ลองทำตามคำแนะนำนี้เพื่อ "ฝึกพูดภาษาอังกฤษ" ด้วยการฟังการสนทนาของ Anna และ Mark อีกครั้ง โดยควรพยายามทำ shadowspeak หรือการพูดตามเสียงของพวกเขา พยายามเลียนแบบการออกเสียงและน้ำเสียงของพวกเขาอย่างใกล้ชิด นี่จะเป็นวิธีที่ดีในการ ปรับปรุงการออกเสียงภาษาอังกฤษ ของคุณ ลองใช้วลีที่ได้เรียนรู้ในบทสนทนา เช่น “สูญเสียเวลา” ในประโยคของคุณเอง และบันทึกเสียงของคุณเพื่อเปรียบเทียบกับตัวอย่างในวิดีโอ การฝึกแบบนี้จะช่วยให้คุณมั่นใจมากขึ้นในการใช้ภาษาอังกฤษในชีวิตประจำวัน!

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Shadowing เป็นเทคนิคการเรียนรู้ภาษาที่ได้รับการรับรองทางวิทยาศาสตร์ พัฒนาขึ้นสำหรับการฝึกนักแปลมืออาชีพ วิธีการนี้เรียบง่ายแต่ทรงพลัง: คุณฟังเสียงภาษาอังกฤษจากเจ้าของภาษาและพูดตามทันที — เหมือนเงาที่ตามผู้พูดด้วยช่วงเวลาห่าง 1-2 วินาที การวิจัยแสดงว่าเทคนิคนี้ปรับปรุงความแม่นยำในการออกเสียง ทำนองเสียง จังหวะ การเชื่อมเสียง การฟังเข้าใจ และความคล่องแคล่วในการพูดได้อย่างมีนัยสำคัญ

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