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Hey everyone, today we're talking about praying for your future spouse.
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What's that about?
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Should you do it?
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Why or why not?
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Hey, we're Jackie and Bobby Angel with Ascension Presents.
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So, praying for your future spouse.
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Well, St. Paul, I think he would say you should.
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It says in Philippians, in chapter 4, verse 6, It says, have no anxiety about anything, but in everything, everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving,
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let your requests be made known to God and the peace of God, which passes all understanding will keep your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
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You know, some people are like, oh, praying for your future spouse is ridiculous or it makes me anxious or whatever.
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Like I shouldn't be thinking about the future.
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It's like, listen, if you're going to talk about this with anybody else, then you absolutely should be talking about it with God because prayer is just conversation with God.
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So first of all, God is outside of time.
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So if you are called to marriage, he knows who your future spouse is.
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So of course, yes, pray for your future spouse.
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But also if this gives you anxiety, thinking about the future, I think prayer is, again, you're communicating this with God, whatever is on your heart,
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whether you are anxious about it, whether you are excited about it, whether you're feeling lonely, all of that should be given to God in prayer.
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Everything.
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And I would say too that just as we would pray for our health or our finances or our our job, you know, our future, we should also then give the other person
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that we're going to be aligned with to God in prayer.
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That they're being formed, that they're being a whole person, that they're being blessed in whatever they're going through,
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wherever they are, whenever we will get to be with them and unite.
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You know, there's no church document on soulmates.
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Like, we don't subscribe to, like, the uber romantic Hollywood idea of a soulmate, but nor is it just a cold detachment either.
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God is guiding all things.
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God has his providential hand in our lives, you know, in the mystery of how that aligns with our free will, that we are deciding our lives here.
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But God absolutely has a hand and cares who we marry, who we end up with, because that's going to affect generations upon generations.
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Part of prayer is a detachment.
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It's really saying, God, I trust you.
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I trust you with my future.
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I trust you in your plans.
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It's a detachment.
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It's learning how to be detached from the world.
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We have these desires, which are good.
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A lot of people desire marriage and family to have kids and that's beautiful, but you know what?
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We're not guaranteed any of those.
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You guys, we're not even guaranteed tomorrow.
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Everything in prayer, it should be, we offer to God and we say, God, I'm all yours.
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I belong to you and I want what you want.
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Even that modern obsession we have with romance and marriage and we turn it into an idol, like that's going to satisfy the aches of our hearts.
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That's going to, I ride off into the sunset on my wedding day and then it's eternal bliss.
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It's like, no. But I mean, yes, of course, with you, honey.
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Yes, always, of course.
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It's really a call again, Jesus, I trust in you, I place this in your hands.
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Help me not to make this marriage into an idol.
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Help me not to make this other person into an idol.
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I'll be happy when this happens.
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Like, God wants us to live in the here and now, whatever may come, if we're blessed with a long life or we're not.
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So that could be journaling for them, that could be doing a rosary for them daily, that could be just, again, quiet prayer.
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If this is an exercise you're brushing aside, like, oh, this is dumb, this is stupid.
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What's going on there?
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Is it that I don't really trust in God, that God cares enough?
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So I don't really think he cares about my happiness or the well-being of my life?
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Or maybe you don't think God wants you to be happier at all.
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Yeah, maybe that's going on.
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Maybe, you know, for my own experience, it could be like you're too attached to your lust.
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I'm too attached to the way I'm living because to give that up to God, to give my romantic life to God would mean I have to surrender it.
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And if that's something that I'm, no, no, that's mine.
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Like, I'll give you some other things, God, but not this thing over here.
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It could be a sign of, the flippancy could be a sign of, well, I don't want God to take over this part, which is really like, this is where he needs to come in
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and clean house and rearrange some stuff in my life right now.
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Both of us, before we got married, we both knew that God was the one, like God was the one who satisfied every part of our hearts.
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We weren't looking for each other to do that.
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We both are in love with each other and love each other, but our whole goal in our marriage is to get each
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other to heaven to get each other closer to god really that's that's the goal of our marriage
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and so we are not god we don't idolize each other um he is my best friend
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but at the same time it's like we both know
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that god is the one who's going to satisfy our hearts
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and that when you pray again draw near to it says i think it's james draw near to god
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and he will draw near to you i'm just going to leave you again with a scripture verse
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if you have struggles with you know the future
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and discernment write this down philippians chapter 4 verse 6 to 7 have no anxiety about anything
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but in everything by prayer
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and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to god
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and the peace of god which passes all understanding will keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
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That's the goal.
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The goal of prayer for anything is to keep your heart
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and mind in Christ Jesus and to really say with your future, your vocation, Jesus, I trust in you.
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Whatever you were calling me to do, whatever it is, if it's for a spouse and family, if it's to give myself fully to you, Jesus, I trust in you.
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Thanks for watching.
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AI TelaffuzHer cümleyi puanla
IPA AlıştırmasıHer sesi ustalaştır
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları

Bu B1 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “How to Pray for Your Future Spouse” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: prayer, trust, spouse, marriage, Jesus. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 81 cümle ve 1139 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 5:39 sürüyor. Konuşmacı hızlı konuşuyor, dakikada yaklaşık 202 kelime; bu yüzden birbirine bağlanan ve zayıflayan sesler duyacaksınız. Kelimelerin %86’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.

Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler

Videodaki en ileri düzey 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:

KelimeTelaffuzAnlam
spouse isim/spaʊ̯s/eş
idol isim/ˈaɪ.dl̩/put
satisfy fiil/ˈsætɪsfaɪ/tatmin etmek, yetmek
verse isim/ˈvɝs/ayet
soulmate isimruhsal eş, ruh ikizi
supplication isim/sʌplɪˈkeɪʃən/dua
align fiil/əˈlaɪn/hizalanmak, hizaya geçmek
anxious sıfat/ˈæŋkʃəs/endişeli, kaygılı
idolize fiil/ˈaɪdəlaɪz/idolleştirmek, ilahlaştırmak
rosary isim/ˈɹoʊzəɹi/tespih
scripture isim/ˈskɹɪpt͡ʃɚ/yazı
bliss isim/blɪs/mutluluk, huzur
unite fiil/juˈnaɪt/birleştirmek
obsession isim/əbˈsɛʃən/saplantı, takıntı
subscribe fiil/səbˈskɹaɪb/abone olmak

Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller

KelimeAnlam
check out fiilgözden geçirmek

Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler

Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:

  • Should you do it?
  • You know, there's no church document on soulmates.
  • We're not guaranteed any of those.
  • You guys, we're not even guaranteed tomorrow.
  • I'll be happy when this happens.

Bu videodaki dil bilgisi

Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:

YapıVideoda
Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemlibe made · are called · should be given
İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgidesires, which are · part, which is · one who satisfied
“should” ile tavsiye should + fiil — yapılması iyi olanı söylemekShould you do · shouldn't be · should be
Past continuous was/were + -ing — geçmişte bir anda sürmekte olan bir eylemweren't looking · were calling

Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar

Konuşmacı we're, don't, I'm gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 31 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.

  • “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: supplication /sʌplɪˈkeɪʃən/, anxious /ˈæŋkʃəs/, providential /pɹɒvɪˈdɛnʃl̩/, vocation /vəʊˈkeɪʃən/, obsession /əbˈsɛʃən/
  • Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: supplication /sʌplɪˈkeɪʃən/, communicate /kəˈmjuːnɪkeɪt/

Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:

  • Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: spouse /spaʊ̯s/, bless /blɛs/, flippancy /ˈflɪ.pɛn.si/, providential /pɹɒvɪˈdɛnʃl̩/, scripture /ˈskɹɪpt͡ʃɚ/
  • /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: detachment /dɪˈtæt͡ʃmənt/, satisfy /ˈsætɪsfaɪ/, attach /əˈtæt͡ʃ/, thanksgiving /ˌθæŋksˈɡɪv.ɪŋ/, anxious /ˈæŋkʃəs/

Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır

  1. Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
  2. 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
  3. Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; spouse, idol, satisfy gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.

Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?

Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.

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