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I can't help but want to be everything at once.
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I saw this video on Instagram and it said something along the lines of like, I hate that I'll never get to be everything.
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And that hit so hard because it's like...
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for some reason, I want to be so much.
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Not just overall in my lifetime, but right now.
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And it's almost like being young Like there's this thing about age wanting to be young and wanting to, you know, be this person that is capable.
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that is impressive, that is able to do a lot of things who You know, it's not that old.
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And all that is vanity.
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It is.
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I've realized that But I used to be so hung up on that.
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wanting, to be this very successful young person.
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And what is essential to that is the young part.
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It's so weird how How age can get in your head.
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of like this comparison like this person's young this person's old When really, It shouldn't be about age.
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And it should be about maturity.
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Wisdom.
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Growth.
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experience these things.
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And, you know, age doesn't automatically correlate to these things.
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And, you know, in many cases it does.
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But not always.
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and There's so many things that I'm interested in.
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You know, I want to get good at piano.
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I want to read more books.
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I wanna Start getting good at guitar.
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I want to I don't know, I want to build a business.
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I want to build up this channel.
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I want to do calisthenics.
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I want to learn all the languages.
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I want to travel the entire world.
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And it's like, Feeling this, It's...
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It's coming from the sense of like...
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Not having.
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and wanting to like continuously go for it and Also, the sense of comparison, especially with social media,
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like you see people online who are your age or younger than you or slightly older than you or whatever, And they're living these insane lives.
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And obviously, social media isn't an accurate representation.
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or at least not an accurate representation of what everyone's life is like.
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But still, like there's this sense of either like FOMO or desire.
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to experience those things. And...
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Ultimately for me, I don't feel this as much anymore.
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But seeing that that post on Instagram it reminded me of how how I used to feel so often Like...
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I wasn't doing enough.
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And I had to become everything at once I had to Do all this stuff just so I could feel fulfilled.
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or feel worth something. And honestly...
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That's - it's not a good - it's not a good - I don't know.
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Way to think.
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And even now, I still want to be ambitious.
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I still want to do all these things.
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I haven't lost that interest or desire.
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But it's become less about First of all, it's become less about having to do it all now.
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and also has become Less about.. proving something.
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trying to prove something to someone else, or trying to have this certain title.
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or trying to be seen as someone who is young and successful or something like that. And...
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That's great.
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Sounds fun.
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Sounds awesome.
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but also It's not...
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Thank you.
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It's not the thing to chase.
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You don't chase the title.
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or the ideal or that thought of being that thing But it's something that like...
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If you happen to become that, It wasn't from...
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Wanting that identity, but it's from the genuine desire to become something or to learn or that curiosity You know? And...
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What's weird is...
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Even though I'm young It feels like you're running out of time. And that sounds dumb.
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It sounds silly.
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Like, okay, Like from someone's perspective, who's older and who has more life experience, they look at you and think,
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"Okay, you're silly." Like, how could you be worried about running out of time?
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You're so young.
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And I've talked about this before, but still, you feel like this sense...
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of scarcity in your life.
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Like...
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You've been waiting.
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Maybe it's because you're so young.
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that like when you're a kid you're growing up but then once you get to this age
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where you have a shot at doing something interesting or different
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but you haven't done it yet or you're waiting or you're not sure what to do You feel this sense of worry.
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or like you need to rush into something so you can feel like you're fulfilling your life, or you're doing something worthwhile.
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Thank you.
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Maybe that's why maybe that's like the pinpoint feeling because you're at this point where
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where you feel like you should be doing something because you're young but you're not.
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So you feel like You need to...
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Do everything or you feel like you need to like overcompensate
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for past years or past things that you haven't done or that you just want to do.
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and you know, thinking from his perspective of scarcity is not good, you know?
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You want to be...
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Content with what you have and where you are.
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and not too much, not 100 % in the sense that you don't want better, But you can't.
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Get too caught up.
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in the in the idealization of some...
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perfect life.
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or some life that is full of excitement and new experience constantly.
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And really that life doesn't It doesn't really exist.
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At least Not.
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Not forever, you know?
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No life is like that all the time. But...
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It's just interesting.
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I don't think I'm the only one who feels this way.
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You know, like...
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Surely everyone has, at least young people, have this sense of of desire to, you know, Do something.
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You know, be ambitious.
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or try to accomplish something interesting. And there's this...
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Pressure that you feel Because you're young. Because like...
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It's that point where you feel like if you are successful when you're young, that is when it's the most impressive.
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But also, weirdly enough, there shouldn't be pressure.
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Because if you fail when you're young, then that's like...
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literally the best time to fail because you have so much time ahead of you or at least supposedly.
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Of course, we don't really know, how much time we have, but that's also another factor to consider.
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But Wanting to do everything at once, wanting to become everything at once, wanting to, you know, be of skill.
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And You know, having all these desires but not acting on it. is the worst thing.
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And that is what kind of...
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brings upon the negative feeling. Because...
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You want so much.
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out of yourself or out of your life but you don't see it, or you're not trying to get it.
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And It kind of.. creates this cycle of despair.
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where you see what you want But.
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You can't Get yourself.
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to try and get it.
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And because you want so much, you don't end up getting any of it because you spread yourself too thin.
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Or you think about all these things And you end up ultimately not making progress in any of those sections of
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the way I guess you desire your life to be.
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So And I guess what I've learned is more so...
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that first of all, There's time.
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There is time.
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And not everything should or has to be done at once.
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and the timing probably isn't right.
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You know?
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Like for me, I've realized that more and more among God's timing.
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I'm trying to trust in that and see See what that is and tune into that.
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And realizing that certain things will work out better If you don't start now,
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and if you start later.
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And you can't time that But it's just this idea of...
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knowing that certain things that I wanted After time passed, I realized I didn't want it where I realized that starting at that time was probably the better decision.
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or the better outcome.
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And you can't know for sure.
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but it's sort of just this feeling. of...
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of kind of.. comfort in knowing that.
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And that doesn't mean you shouldn't start.
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That doesn't mean you should just continue to wait.
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because you don't know when the perfect time is.
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Right? But...
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It's also like you shouldn't worry.
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so much about the fact that you haven't started So, It's kind of like...
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This weird loop that you have to get yourself out of where You know, you haven't quite started. But...
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The time, there is going to be a time.
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You don't want to wait for that time.
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You don't want to try to predict that time. But you kind of...
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Can't be Trying to force it or wait for it.
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It's weird.
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It's hard to describe.
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But for me, I think I'm in this sort of golden stage of my life. where things...
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They're coming together.
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And It's slow and it's fast.
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And it's everything in between.
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And I just have to really genuinely take it one day at a time.
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because So many things switch just in one day.
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And I don't even remember yesterday.
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What happened yesterday?
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I don't know.
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So much stuff happened today.
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So much stuff happened yesterday.
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I can't recall it.
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And all of it was important, all of it was necessary.
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But Because it was so much, I just have to go right to the next day.
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And there's a lot of things like I didn't do today.
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Like I wanted to read today, but I didn't.
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I probably should have practiced piano more.
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probably should have, you know, done more exercise or something like that, But...
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It's this idea of like, okay, You can organize your time.
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There is enough time. But.
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It's not worth...
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always Thinking, thinking about doing it.
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You know, not worth trying to plan to do it.
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It's like, There's this...
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This is sort of weird.
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kind of kind of block...
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Or you have to...
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You have to find this sort of...
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I don't know if I would call it a balance.
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But you have to find this clarity.
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or this trust There's things that you're doing right now and there's things that you want to do.
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And you can't Try and force everything.
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But you have to.. in some way let it flow.
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and You don't want to forget about it either, because then you'll regret it. But...
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I guess that's where I'm at trying to figure that part out.
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You know?
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juggling, wanting to be everything, Versus realizing I don't have to be.
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And there's enough time to be everything that I want.
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And also, there's enough time to realize that maybe the things that I want to be now
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isn't what I want for the future.
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Of course, I can't predict that.
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But I've realized that That's what happens. So...
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It's more about Like.. you can Be everything you want.
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Really, you can. But...
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It doesn't have to happen all at once.
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And also, You don't...
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It's less about thinking about it.
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It's more just about...
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Seeing what comes to you and flowing with that
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and sometimes it's also like waste the wasted time and all that wasted time is also Kind of...
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makes you...
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there's like this threshold where you can only waste so much time before you just kind of like You know, you slap yourself in the face and you're just like,
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"Okay, I gotta do something." And I think I've passed that point.
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And it's just like building up this...
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this sort of progress of like Continuously starting to work harder and harder and doing more and more.
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and making more and more progress.
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And really, it's an exponential curve.
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you know, At the start, it looks like nothing's happening.
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And towards the end everything increases.
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And That's not always the case, but...
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think for me That's certainly What's happened?
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in many different areas and I don't know what the future holds. But...
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What I can say is...
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I do believe that I can become everything that I want to become. And...
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I don't have to do it all now. But...
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so long as it is in God's will.
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then It will happen.
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Thank you.
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Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan daha az kullanılan 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
- impressive /ɪmˈpɹɛsɪv/ (sıfat) — etkileyici. Making, or tending to make, a positive impression; having power to impress.
- chase /t͡ʃeɪs/ (fiil) — kovalamak, peşinden koşmak. To follow at speed.
- silly /ˈsɪl.i/ (sıfat) — aptal, saf. Laughable or amusing through foolishness or a foolish appearance.
- piano /piˈænɪː/ (isim) — piyano. A percussive keyboard musical instrument, usually ranging over seven octaves, with white and black colored keys, played by pressing these keys, causing hammers…
- predict /pɹɪˈdɪkt/ (fiil) — öngörmek, tahmin etmek. To make a prediction: to forecast, foretell, or estimate a future event on the basis of knowledge and reasoning; to prophesy a future event on the basis of…
- continuously /kənˈtɪnjuəsli/ (zarf) — durmadan. Without pause.
- ambitious /æmˈbɪʃ.əs/ (sıfat) — hırslı, hevesli. Having or showing ambition; wanting a lot of power, honor, respect, superiority, or other distinction.
- guitar /ɡɪˈtɑɹ/ (isim) — gitar. A stringed musical instrument, of European origin, usually with a fretted fingerboard and six strings, played with the fingers or a plectrum (guitar pick).
- rush /ɹʌʃ/ (fiil) — acele etmek, aşıkmak. To hurry; to perform a task with great haste, often not properly or without thinking carefully.
- thin /ˈθɪn/ (sıfat) — ince. Having little thickness or extent from one surface to its opposite.
- skill /skɪl/ (isim) — beceri, maharet. A capacity to do something well; a technique, an ability, usually acquired or learned, as opposed to abilities that are regarded as innate.
- comfort /ˈkʌm.fət/ (isim) — konfor. Contentment, ease.
- insane /ɪnˈseɪn/ (sıfat) — deli. Exhibiting unsoundness or disorder of mind; not sane; utterly mad.
- lifetime /ˈlaɪf.taɪm/ (isim) — ömür, yaşam. The duration of the life of someone or something.
- genuine /ˈd͡ʒɛn.juˌɪn/ (sıfat) — orijinal, gerçek. Belonging to, or proceeding from the original stock; native.
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
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- “th” sesleri: thin /ˈθɪn/, threshold /ˈθɹɛʃ(h)oʊld/, worthwhile /ˌwɜː(ɹ)θˈwaɪl/, calisthenics /ˌkæ.lɪsˈθɛ.nɪks/
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- Normal hızda cümle cümle tekrar edin; ritminiz konuşmacıyla aynı olana kadar her cümleyi yineleyin.
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Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| “Used to” used to + fiil — artık geçerli olmayan eski bir alışkanlık ya da durum | used to be · used to feel |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | I've realized · haven't lost · has become |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | be seen · be done |
| İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgi | someone who is · one who feels |
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