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what is the best age to get married do some age

groups have a higher divorce rate is age really a factor let's break this down

hi i'm dr wendy walsh for local now

and i'm here for you most of my work centers around relationships the science of love

so i read statistics all day long we do know

that the age of first -time marriage has been going up

in america right now it's the age of 28 for men

and the age of 26 for women

if i had to pick a perfect age to get married i would say wait until at least you're 25

when your prefrontal cortex is fully developed in fact research shows

that there's a magic number to prevent divorce and it's the age of 23.

if you get married younger than 23 you have the highest divorce rate.

It's something like 90%.

But I think more important than an age is how well do you know yourself?

How well established are you with your education and career plans, no matter your gender?

And how well have you assessed a potential mate?

So think of those things as being really important as much as age.

Now let's talk about the fact that people are getting married at every age across the lifespan.

One trend that I've noticed, no science here, but I've noticed it, is that people tend to couple up and get married at two important times of their life, either in their late 20s,

early 30s, when it's about child rearing, right?

Because what's a relationship?

It's an exchange of care.

And that care may be financial care, sexual care, let's see, domestic care, child care, emotional care, intellectual care,

and you really need a lot of care for each other when you're raising small children.

The other time I notice a lot of marriages happening is over the age of 50.

It's almost like our bodies start to decline and we need that care again.

We need the emotional support and we need the physical care.

No matter what age you are, I do want you to ask yourself how important marriage is to you and why you need to do it.

If you're doing it for your parents, maybe not a good idea.

If you're doing it because you really believe in the teachings of your religion and so does your partner, maybe a good reason.

If you're doing it because you want to make sure that you have a financially stable household to raise kids in, another good reason.

But if you're doing it because you're excited and aroused by a new partner, mm -mm, don't do it.

If you're doing it because you're being pressured by anybody, including the person you're about to marry, mm -mm, don't do it.

You know, it's okay to actually not marry in America too.

That option's there for some people.

What can I say?

Finally, my last bit of advice is do not marry anybody that you have not had an argument with.

You need to see their conflict style

and you need to see how they make repair because the road to intimacy is one paved with ruptures followed by repairs.

It's during that repair process where you say, I'm sorry, I see you, forgive me, I understand that you really grow emotional intimacy.

And the research says, emotional intimacy is the glue that keeps couples together for a long time.

I'm Dr. Wendy Walsh.

Thanks for watching here on Local Now.

You can find me anywhere on my social media.

That's at Dr. Wendy Walsh.

See you next time.

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本课的词汇与口语要点

这节 B2 级别的口语课以视频“What's the Best Age to Get Married?”为素材。视频中反复出现的词有：married, emotional, intimacy, wendy, walsh。这段视频共有 46 个句子、604 个单词可供跟读。讲话部分时长为 3:35。说话人语速自然，每分钟约 168 个词，接近日常对话。 89% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，词汇容易理解。

视频中的重点词汇

视频中最难的 15 个单词，附发音和释义：

单词	发音	释义
repair 动词	/ˈɹiːpɛɚ/	修理
marry 动词	/ˈmæɹi/	結婚 /结婚, 嫁
divorce 名词	/dɪˈvɔːs/	離婚 /离婚
intimacy 名词	/ˈɪn.tɪ.mə.si/	親密 /亲密, 親近 /亲近
stable 名词	/ˈsteɪ.bəl/	馬厩, 馬棚 /马棚
establish 动词	/ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ/	確定 /确定
decline 动词	/dɪˈklaɪn/	惡化 /恶化
intellectual 形容词	/ˌɪntəˈlɛkt͡ʃʊəl/	智力的, 思想的
forgive 动词	/fɚˈɡɪv/	原諒 /原谅, 寬恕 /宽恕
financially 副词		財政上地 /财政上地
glue 名词	/ɡlu/	膠水 /胶水, 膠 /胶
cortex 名词	/ˈkɔɹtɛks/	皮质
lifespan 名词	/ˈlaɪf.spæn/	壽命 /寿命
pave 动词	/peɪv/	鋪砌 /铺砌
rupture 名词	/ˈɹʌpt͡ʃɚ/	破裂

视频中出现的短语动词

单词	释义
go up 动词	上昇 /上升, 上去

视频中的语法

说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：

结构	视频中的用法
现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事	I've noticed · have not had
被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的	is fully developed · being pressured

需要注意的发音

说话人用了 18 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 you're, I'm, don't。请按听到的简短形式来说。

长单词——注意重音位置: intimacy /ˈɪn.tɪ.mə.si/, intellectual /ˌɪntəˈlɛkt͡ʃʊəl/

中文母语者容易读错的音：

/v/ — 不要读成 /w/，上齿轻触下唇: divorce /dɪˈvɔːs/, forgive /fɚˈɡɪv/, pave /peɪv/
词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: divorce /dɪˈvɔːs/, household /ˈhaʊshoʊld/, establish /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ/, forgive /fɚˈɡɪv/, assess /əˈsɛs/
/æ/ — 嘴张大，不要读成 /e/: marry /ˈmæɹi/, establish /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ/, lifespan /ˈlaɪf.spæn/

如何用这段视频练习

先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 repair, marry, divorce 这类单词。

什么是跟读法？

跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。

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