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what is the best age to get married do some age
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groups have a higher divorce rate is age really a factor let's break this down
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hi i'm dr wendy walsh for local now
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and i'm here for you most of my work centers around relationships the science of love
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so i read statistics all day long we do know
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that the age of first -time marriage has been going up
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in america right now it's the age of 28 for men
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and the age of 26 for women
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if i had to pick a perfect age to get married i would say wait until at least you're 25
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when your prefrontal cortex is fully developed in fact research shows
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that there's a magic number to prevent divorce and it's the age of 23.
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if you get married younger than 23 you have the highest divorce rate.
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It's something like 90%.
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But I think more important than an age is how well do you know yourself?
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How well established are you with your education and career plans, no matter your gender?
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And how well have you assessed a potential mate?
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So think of those things as being really important as much as age.
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Now let's talk about the fact that people are getting married at every age across the lifespan.
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One trend that I've noticed, no science here, but I've noticed it, is that people tend to couple up and get married at two important times of their life, either in their late 20s,
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early 30s, when it's about child rearing, right?
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Because what's a relationship?
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It's an exchange of care.
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And that care may be financial care, sexual care, let's see, domestic care, child care, emotional care, intellectual care,
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and you really need a lot of care for each other when you're raising small children.
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The other time I notice a lot of marriages happening is over the age of 50.
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It's almost like our bodies start to decline and we need that care again.
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We need the emotional support and we need the physical care.
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No matter what age you are, I do want you to ask yourself how important marriage is to you and why you need to do it.
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If you're doing it for your parents, maybe not a good idea.
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If you're doing it because you really believe in the teachings of your religion and so does your partner, maybe a good reason.
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If you're doing it because you want to make sure that you have a financially stable household to raise kids in, another good reason.
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But if you're doing it because you're excited and aroused by a new partner, mm -mm, don't do it.
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If you're doing it because you're being pressured by anybody, including the person you're about to marry, mm -mm, don't do it.
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You know, it's okay to actually not marry in America too.
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That option's there for some people.
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What can I say?
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Finally, my last bit of advice is do not marry anybody that you have not had an argument with.
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You need to see their conflict style
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and you need to see how they make repair because the road to intimacy is one paved with ruptures followed by repairs.
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It's during that repair process where you say, I'm sorry, I see you, forgive me, I understand that you really grow emotional intimacy.
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And the research says, emotional intimacy is the glue that keeps couples together for a long time.
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I'm Dr. Wendy Walsh.
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Thanks for watching here on Local Now.
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You can find me anywhere on my social media.
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That's at Dr. Wendy Walsh.
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See you next time.
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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon
Cette leçon d’expression orale de niveau B2 s’appuie sur la vidéo « What's the Best Age to Get Married? ». Les mots qui reviennent le plus souvent : married, emotional, intimacy, wendy, walsh. Cette vidéo contient 46 phrases et 604 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 3:35. Le locuteur parle à un rythme naturel d’environ 168 mots par minute, proche d’une conversation courante. 89 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais, le vocabulaire est donc facile à suivre.
Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo
Les 15 mots les plus avancés de la vidéo, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| repair verbe | /ˈɹiːpɛɚ/ | réparer |
| marry verbe | /ˈmæɹi/ | se marier, épouser |
| divorce nom | /dɪˈvɔːs/ | divorce |
| intimacy nom | /ˈɪn.tɪ.mə.si/ | intimité |
| stable nom | /ˈsteɪ.bəl/ | étable, écurie |
| household adjectif | /ˈhaʊshoʊld/ | domestique |
| establish verbe | /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ/ | affermir, instaurer |
| decline verbe | /dɪˈklaɪn/ | décliner, péricliter |
| intellectual adjectif | /ˌɪntəˈlɛkt͡ʃʊəl/ | intellectuel |
| forgive verbe | /fɚˈɡɪv/ | pardonner |
| assess verbe | /əˈsɛs/ | estimer, évaluer |
| financially adverbe | financièrement, pécuniairement | |
| glue nom | /ɡlu/ | colle |
| cortex nom | /ˈkɔɹtɛks/ | cortex |
| arouse verbe | /əˈɹaʊz/ | émoustiller, exciter |
Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez
| Mot | Sens |
|---|---|
| go up verbe | monter, s'élever |
La grammaire de cette vidéo
Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :
| Structure | Dans la vidéo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenant | I've noticed · have not had |
| Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait | is fully developed · being pressured |
Prononciation à surveiller
Le locuteur utilise 18 contractions et formes réduites, comme you're, I'm, don't. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.
- Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: intimacy /ˈɪn.tɪ.mə.si/, intellectual /ˌɪntəˈlɛkt͡ʃʊəl/
Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :
- /tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: intellectual /ˌɪntəˈlɛkt͡ʃʊəl/, rupture /ˈɹʌpt͡ʃɚ/
- /r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: repair /ˈɹiːpɛɚ/, marry /ˈmæɹi/, cortex /ˈkɔɹtɛks/, arouse /əˈɹaʊz/, prefrontal /pɹiːˈfɹʌn.təl/
Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo
- Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
- Commencez à la vitesse 0,75×, répétez phrase par phrase, puis revenez à la vitesse normale quand cela devient facile.
- Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme repair, marry, divorce.
Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?
Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.