शैडोइंग अभ्यास: How to Talk About Emotions in English - Spoken English Lesson - वीडियो के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें
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Hi, I’m Liam.
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Welcome to Oxford Online English!
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In this lesson, you can learn to talk about different emotions in English.
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You’ll see how to talk about positive and negative feelings, about strong emotions and low-level emotions in different ways.
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This lesson has four parts.
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In each part, you’ll learn five to six words related to two different main emotions, like anger, fear or happiness.
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Ready? Let’s start!
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You look pleased!
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What’s going on?
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I finally passed my driving test!
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I’m so happy!
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Wow! Congratulations!
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Thanks… It was my sixth attempt!
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Sixth? Yeah.
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I was really stressed beforehand.
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I’ve been feeling nervous for days, and I haven’t been sleeping well, but in the end it went well.
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That sounds stressful.
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What made you so scared?
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I mean, it’s not the end of the world to fail your driving test.
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I don’t know.
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I just built it up in my head, and it became this huge thing.
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I honestly can’t remember feeling so worried about anything in my life before.
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You must be relieved to get it over with.
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For sure. If I’d failed again, I think I’d have just given up.
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Well, no need to think about that now!
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Look at six words to describe feelings which you heard in the dialogue.
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First, a question: three of these words relate to feeling .
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Which three?
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‘Nervous’, ‘worried’ and ‘scared’ are all feelings of fear.
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Do you know how they’re different?
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‘Nervous’ and ‘worried’ are both low-level fear.
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‘Scared’ describes a more intense feeling.
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To describe extreme levels of fear, for example if you’re in a life-threatening situation, you could use adjectives like ‘terrified’ or ‘petrified’.
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What about the other three adjectives – ‘pleased’, ‘stressed’ and ‘relieved’?
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One is different from the other two – which one?
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‘Stressed’ is different, because it’s an unpleasant emotion.
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‘Pleased’ is similar to ‘happy’, but ‘pleased’ is a reaction to a situation.
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What does this mean?
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In English, there are many pairs of words with a similar meaning, but one is used to describe a general state, while the other is used to describe a reaction to a specific situation.
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‘Happy’ and ‘pleased’ are an example of this.
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So, you can be ‘happy’ generally, or for long periods of time.
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You could say: ‘She was happy throughout her retirement.’ However, ‘pleased’ can’t be used like this.
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You feel pleased at one specific time.
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For example: ‘I was pleased with how my painting turned out.’ Here, you could also use ‘happy’.
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‘Happy’ can replace ‘pleased’, but not the other way round.
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There are other pairs like this; for example: ‘sad - upset’ or ‘angry - cross’.
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The first word has a general meaning, and the second describes your reaction to something specific.
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Finally, what about ‘relieved’?
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What does that mean?
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You feel relieved when you’re free from pressure or stress.
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If you have a problem, and the problem is solved, you might feel relieved.
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Or, if you have an exam, and you think you might fail, you’ll feel relieved when you pass.
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Let’s look at our next section.
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In this section, we have a challenge for you.
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You’ll hear a dialogue, as usual.
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There are six words relating to emotions in the dialogue.
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Listen and try to write them down.
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How’s work going?
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Urgh… Don’t ask.
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Going well, then?
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Don’t even joke about it.
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I feel miserable.
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I dread going in every morning, and every day feels like an eternity.
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Yeah, you seem a bit down.
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But, a couple of months ago you said things were going OK?
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They were. Or, I thought they were.
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That’s the problem – I’m so mixed up!
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Working in the fashion industry was always my dream, and I worked so hard to get an opportunity.
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But then, reality started to bite.
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What do you think went wrong?
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I’m supposed to be an event manager, but they don’t actually let me make any decisions.
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I spend all day doing menial work.
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We had a team meeting last week, and they asked me to go out and get coffee!
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I felt so humiliated.
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So, what are you going to do?
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You can’t stay there, surely… I don’t know.
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I’m torn. On the one hand, you’re right – I can’t stay there.
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But on the other hand, what am I going to do?
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I was out of work for three months, and I need the money right now.
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It’s a tricky situation.
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The worst thing is that it’s affecting everything else in my life, too.
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I don’t go out or do anything after work or at weekends.
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I just feel kind of apathetic; I don’t have the energy to go anywhere.
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Well, I don’t know, but it doesn’t sound like you can go on like this.
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Did you get the six words?
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If you want, you can go back and listen again.
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Here are the six words you heard.
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These words relate to feelings of sadness, shame and confusion.
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Can you put the words into three groups?
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‘Miserable’ and ‘down’ are both feelings of sadness.
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‘Miserable’ is a strong word, which describes a deep unhappiness.
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‘Down’ is often used when you’re going through a difficult time in your life, and you feel unhappy generally.
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‘Apathetic’ is also a feeling of sadness, although it’s a little different.
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If you feel apathetic, you don’t care about anything or have any interest in things.
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Feeling apathetic means you don’t have much energy, and it’s difficult to motivate yourself to do anything.
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Be careful not to mix up ‘apathetic’ and ‘pathetic’ – they sound similar, but the meanings are not related.
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Next, ‘mixed up’ and ‘torn’ are both feelings of confusion.
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They both mean that you’re caught between different possibilities, and you don’t know what to do.
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To remember the word ‘torn’, think about the verb ‘tear’.
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If you tear a piece of paper, you rip it into pieces.
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If you feel ‘torn’, it’s as if you’re being pulled in two different directions.
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‘Humiliated’ is a strong form of ‘embarrassed’, meaning a deep feeling of shame.
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It has a strong meaning, so you wouldn’t use it often.
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Any plans for this weekend?
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No, not really.
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I had something, but it didn’t work out.
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‘Something?’ Well… I’m a little embarrassed to say… OK, fine, I had a blind date arranged.
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Nothing wrong with that!
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But now it’s not happening?
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No, I cancelled it.
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I was feeling quite anxious.
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I’ve never been on a blind date, and I imagine it would be really awkward, so I called it off.
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Sure, I guess it could be, but it could be fun, too.
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I think you should go!
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It’s normal to feel apprehensive before you go on a first date.
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You shouldn’t let it stop you.
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Hmm… Too late now, though.
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I already cancelled it.
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Now I'm kind of regretting it.
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Well, maybe you can still make it happen.
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Why not make a call?
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Ehh… I can’t.
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I feel guilty for cancelling.
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You can’t win, it seems!
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You heard five words related to feelings.
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Can you remember them?
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Try to complete the words!
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Pause the video if you want more time.
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Remember that you can also go back and review the dialogue if you want to.
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Ready? Let’s see the answers.
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These words relate to shame and nervousness.
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Can you put them into two groups?
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‘Anxious’ and ‘apprehensive’ describe fear.
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Like the words ‘nervous’ and ‘worried’, which you saw earlier, they express a low-level fear, like you might feel before a first date or an important exam.
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‘Awkward’, ‘embarrassed’ and ‘guilty’ relate to shame, but they don’t have the same meaning.
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Could you explain the difference between them?
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‘Awkward’ means you feel socially uncomfortable.
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For example, if you’re trying to start a conversation with someone, but you don’t know what to say, you might feel awkward.
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‘Embarrassed’ is the feeling when you blush – your face turns red.
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You feel ‘guilty’ when you think you’ve done something bad.
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For example, imagine that your friend asks you for some help, and you say: “Sorry, I can’t, I’m too busy.” Later, you learn that your friend really needed help; you might feel guilty for not helping.
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Let’s look at the last section.
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Whoa, where are you going?
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I’m going to walk into his office and tell him exactly what I think of him.
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That’s not a good idea.
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I know you’re annoyed… Annoyed?
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I’m seething!
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I’m fed up with this place.
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Let him sack me if he wants.
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Let’s just take a minute.
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Why don’t you tell me what happened?
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What happened?
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This isn’t something new.
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I’ve been overwhelmed for weeks.
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I ask for help, and he doesn’t even answer my emails or my messages.
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He’s supposed to be in charge of this department, and he’s not even doing his job.
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Sure, I can understand that you’re frustrated, but… It’s more than that.
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He still hasn’t bought the design software we need.
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The deadline is next week.
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I’ve never seen such incompetence.
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Look, I would be upset too, in your position, but getting into a shouting match with him is not going to solve anything.
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How about this: we go and have a cup of tea for ten minutes, and then you decide what to do?
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If you still want to march into his office and scream at him, I won’t stop you, but just take ten minutes with me first.
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OK, fine. Here, you heard six words related to anger, frustration or sadness.
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Here’s a question: what does ‘frustration’ mean?
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Frustration is a kind of anger, but it relates to situations where you can’t get what you want.
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For example, imagine you have to catch a train, and you’re late.
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You’re driving to the station, and someone in front of you is driving slowly.
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You can’t overtake, so you’re stuck driving behind them.
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You might feel frustrated in this situation.
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Apart from ‘frustrated’, you heard these words in the dialogue.
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Do you know which emotions these words express?
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And, could you explain their meanings in detail?
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Think about it, and pause the video if you need some help!
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‘Annoyed’ and ‘seething’ both express anger, but at different levels.
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‘Annoyed’ is a low-level anger.
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For example, if you have some mosquito bites, and they’re itchy, you might feel a little annoyed, but you wouldn’t – probably – be fully angry.
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You could also say ‘irritated’, which has the same meaning.
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‘Seething’ means extremely angry.
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You could also say ‘furious’, which is similar.
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‘Fed up’ expresses frustration.
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If you’re fed up with something, a bad situation has gone on for a long time, and you can’t take it any more.
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For example, if your neighbour plays loud music one evening, you might be annoyed, but maybe it wouldn’t be a big problem.
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However, if your neighbour plays loud music evening, you’ll feel angry and frustrated, and after a few days you’ll probably feel fed up; you’ve had enough of the situation and you cannot take any more.
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‘Overwhelmed’ is hard to classify.
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Overwhelmed means something like ‘defeated’ or ‘buried’.
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If you’re overwhelmed, you have so many problems and negative feelings that you can’t cope any more.
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In the dialogue, we were talking about work, but you can be overwhelmed with other emotions and situations, too.
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For example, you can be overwhelmed with anger, overwhelmed with sadness, overwhelmed with stress, and so on.
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It can even, sometimes, be positive; for example you can be overwhelmed with happiness.
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In this case, it means that you’re so happy that you don’t know what to do with yourself.
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Finally, ‘upset’ is a feeling of sadness in response to a specific situation.
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If something bad happens to you, or someone says something unpleasant to you, you might feel upset.
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We’ve mentioned many different words to describe feelings in this video, but there are also many that we didn’t talk about.
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Can you think of any?
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Share your ideas in the comments!
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Thanks for watching!
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See you next time!
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