Pratica di Shadowing: HOW TO MAKE ANYONE WANT YOU - Impara a parlare inglese con i video

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So I woke up today.

I had a fever I can't keep any food down.

It's awful So this is me just like being sick

and it's so funny because i'm filming this video How to make someone chase you

or whatever I end up titling this video and I look like this.

Like that is so funny to me.

It's not about the appearance, it's about the message.

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How to be attractive and how to make someone obsessed with you.

Maybe you have a crush on someone or it's just someone in your life that you want.

You want the energy dynamic to change.

You want them to chase you and want you and think about you.

Here is how to make somebody obsessed with you.

Are you ready?

You can't.

No, I'm just kidding.

I didn't entirely clickbait you, okay?

Me filming this pep talk on a Friday night because I have no plans because I'm sick.

taking my panadol is truly iconic like I really do love

you guys I would prefer to be here spending time with you guys

so if you like today's video please give it a like

because I'm actually really going through it all

right okay you might have a crush an ex I don't

know I don't care who it is somebody in your life and you want the energy to change.

You want them to obsess over you.

That's why you've clicked on today's video.

I wanna start off by saying,

I don't wanna give you guys false hope.

I don't believe that just because you want somebody,

it means that they should come and chase you.

Sometimes you might not even realize this,

but you just want your ego stroked and you can't even see

that this person is not even all that and you can actually do better.

So I want to start off by saying before we get

into all my tips on how to make somebody obsessed with you,

I want to start off by saying if you're not getting a response, move on.

There are 8 billion people in this world and a lot of them would be thrilled to get to know you.

You're perfect.

You just need to give them time to find you

and in the meantime you've got to work on yourself and become the best and baddest version of yourself.

I don't care if you're a guy,

a girl, everyone's welcome on this channel, okay?

When I say baddest, it's for the guys too.

It's for anyone, okay?

I want you to have a positive attitude about life.

I want you to understand you are so lucky.

You know, even I need to remind myself of this sometimes.

We are so lucky.

We have so many things to be excited about.

There is a whole world out there for you to explore.

You have been put here for a reason.

Do you understand me?

You've been put here for a reason.

Everything is happening the way it's supposed to And we get hurt

and we feel sad and we feel low

But you can't always feel good and happy

and incredible It's a balance of both Chasing implies

that one party is moving away from the other Having a person chase you isn't necessarily something

that will lead into a healthy relationship You want someone who feels the same about you

that you feel about them But one thing I will say is there definitely are ways

that you can make a person so attracted to you that even if they weren't really paying any attention to you,

it's like, I didn't even notice this, but they are fine.

You know what I mean?

Like you can change the dynamic for sure.

But my point is starting this off,

like I don't want you to entirely change the way someone feels about you if they don't realize your value.

That is embarrassing.

There are 8 billion people in this world.

I do not condone that.

But it's okay to have a little crush

and to want to learn how to be more attractive how

to make people you know feel drawn to you how to

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make people obsessed with you that's what we're here for i'm not here to have you chasing somebody

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that isn't even all

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that you just want your ego stroked that's not what we

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do out here okay we're on the road to being more

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attractive independent confident all the best things okay thank you number

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one stop chasing them stop pursuing them to chase is to pursue literally i believe there is

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something in the universe where like

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that person can actually feel how much energy you are sending them

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if you're constantly texting them watching their stories straight away asking them what they're doing replying to them

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so quickly doing the most for them they can feel

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that they know they know

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that you'll do anything for them do you understand me they know

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and of course they like that why would they feel

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that sense of urgency to lock things in with you

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and to like choose you to be the number one person that they spend the most time with,

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if they know that you're pursuing them and you're obsessed with them,

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they might think, oh, maybe I'll explore my other options because I know I have this person here.

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Do not be so available.

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You want this person to feel that sense of urgency,

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that fire under their ass that like this person here,

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aka you, this is an amazing person and I'm going to miss out on this amazing chance.

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I really got to bag them up.

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I got to seal the deal.

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No one is ever going to feel that way about a person that is literally pursuing them.

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Do you understand what I'm saying?

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Like, girl, I have things to do.

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I'm not out here being boy crazy.

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I've got a whole career.

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I've got things to do.

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I've got a bucket list.

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And chasing after you is not going to have anything ticked off on my bucket list.

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Do you understand me? Be unavailable.

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Do you know that you have an entire life here in front of you?

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You should be focusing on your health.

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okay sign up to a gym do classes go to yoga whatever i don't care start doing it

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because that will make you busy and a little bit more unavailable

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and being unavailable is attractive

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because it's like oh you are the chosen one i am choosing to spend time with you

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and i'm busy do you know people find that so attractive

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when you're busy and you've got so much on that's

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so attractive because it's like if they turn around and leave you you're fine Cricket's for them.

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You've got so much to do.

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You've got all these friends

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and all these things you want to do in a whole career And you love to work out.

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That's attractive Someone attractive fills their time with things to do.

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They've got hobbies.

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They work out They have a career.

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They have goals as hard as this one is don't spend 24 7 with someone,

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you know, it feels so good when you know

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that someone has a crush on you I'll tell you i'll just be completely honest

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and tell you if someone had a crush on me and they were out here like buying me flowers,

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buying me food, taking me on dates,

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doing everything for me, and I don't even really like them like that.

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It feels good to be chosen and to be wanted

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and for someone to constantly give you compliments and tell you

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that you're amazing and that they want you so bad and blah blah blah,

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like that's amazing, okay?

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But is that amazing for you that wants this person?

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Absolutely not.

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Let them miss you.

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Let them be jealous.

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Do you know what I learned?

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And I actually learned this by accident

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because I started off my current relationship in a long distance relationship we lived in different cities.

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I found this out unwillingly.

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I didn't even know this, right?

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Because I was never the type of person that ever thought I will be in a long distance relationship.

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I never thought that would be me.

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When you miss somebody, no one in the world compares to them.

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It's the best feeling.

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So let them miss you.

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Even if you live in the same city, let them miss you.

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Like I was saying before,

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go work out, have hobbies, have different friends.

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Don't do everything with this person.

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Like have some strength.

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Let them miss you.

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Let them be jealous girl

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Think of me as a peacock and when I have my makeup done

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and my hair is like in a fresh blowout and I look amazing Maybe I post a cute Instagram story,

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whatever it is Maybe I go out and they see me

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that is like my peacock feathers coming out and I feel like a bad Bitch,

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do you understand?

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I feel so good and it's sort of like yeah Do you see this?

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Like, I look amazing.

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Obviously not right now.

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Now I'm giving bummy.

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I'm giving sick.

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Listen, if you can't love me at this,

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then you can't love me at this.

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But anyway, make yourself look good, okay?

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Smell good, look good.

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Take care of yourself.

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Post some hot photos.

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Post a hot story.

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I don't know, whatever it is, I don't care.

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Maybe social media is not your thing and you don't like taking photos.

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Okay, be seen by this person that you want obsessing over you and look hot and be confident.

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I don't care

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if you don't believe it start believing it hope okay start

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looking in the mirror maybe you don't like every single thing about yourself

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but don't focus on those things there are things you do

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like about yourself there's things I don't like about myself

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but I don't focus on those things what's the point I'm

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not gonna be here forever my life is short I'm not

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gonna sit here looking in the mirror crying about things

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that i can't change and then the things that i can change

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that i don't like i will change you understand what i'm

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saying i get my nails done i do all these little things

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and all my appointments i better myself i get my hair

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done i love you know to play around with my fashion etc the things

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that you can change change them and the things

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that you can't stop like stop sitting around feeling sorry for yourself

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and thinking that you're mid if you think

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that way other people would think that way too if you believe that other people will believe that

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Like that's literally how it works.

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You know how I said make them jealous?

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Too many people throw themselves all in for somebody that they want.

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They give them everything.

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It's like, here, have all of me.

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These are all of my eggs and I'm putting them in your basket.

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Bitch, ew.

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Let's take those eggs back.

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Don't tell this person that they're the only one on your roster.

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You don't know that you're the only one on their roster.

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Don't tell this person that you're so desperate and that they've saved your life and having them around has,

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you know, it's made everything better for you.

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even if it has you do not say

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that until you're like locked in in a serious relationship it's

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settled in this phase where you're trying to make somebody value you

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and want you and obsess over you if you go ahead

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and tell them everything and you're just so open about the fact

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that like you want them so bad it'll push them away

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and i know that's annoying it's annoying to hear that

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but it's the truth

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if you believe you're a catch you're worthy you're one of a kind then they will believe it too.

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Strive to be strong and independent and not just for somebody else,

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but for yourself too.

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It is so attractive to be like that.

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It's a win-win situation because if you don't attract this person,

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but you are in that energy of like,

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I am me and I love me and I'm waiting for the person that loves me too,

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because I'm worthy of that person entering my life, somebody will.

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And it might be better than this person that rejects you.

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I've been rejected before.

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wow i feel really sorry for them no

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but i've actually genuinely been rejected before i'm a human being there's a lot of people

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that do not find me attractive or don't think i'm funny

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or don't want me in their life i can't relate um

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and that's okay they're allowed to feel

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that way i don't need eight billion people to want me like i just want

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that one beautiful incredible relationship i want that one person

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that values me and it takes one out of eight billion and that person's out there and they're waiting to find you.

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If you have a life that you love,

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people will naturally obsess over you, okay?

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Anyway, I know that was a bit of a short video,

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but guys, I am not feeling well.

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So I'm gonna go watch a movie,

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just chill out, edit this video so it can go up in time for you guys.

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But yeah, I hope that you guys like this video.

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I'm sorry that it was a little bit short,

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but I hope that you liked it.

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I love you guys so much.

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I will see you guys in my next video.

Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?

Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.

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