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I have done nofap for 1 ,228 days straight, meaning that I've been clean from PMO for three years.
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On YouTube, there are usually two types of nofap videos.
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The first type is that nofap gave me godlike powers, women chase me now, and everything is perfect.
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The second type is that nofap is nonsense, it does nothing, and you should just enjoy and live life.
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I want to answer a very simple question.
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Is nofap actually worth it, or is it just hype?
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This video could technically be one sentence long because the answer is this.
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Of course it is worth it to stop locking yourself in a room, watching people do it on a screen,
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and beating your meat like you're a little monkey in a lab.
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But I don't just want to make a video where I yell NoFap good and corn is bad for 10 minutes straight.
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I want to give you a realistic picture of what actually changes when you do NoFap.
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What gets better, what doesn't, and what you should honestly expect when you do this for yourself.
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But before we go deeper, I need to give you a little bit of context
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because where you come from with this behavior matters a lot for what will happen when you stop.
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My own story with PMO was heavy.
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I was doing it multiple times a day, every single day for 10 plus years.
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But the most important part is this.
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I was still functional.
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I studied, I worked, I had friends, I had relationships.
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I trained hard and I pushed myself in different areas of life.
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But at the same time, it did take a toll.
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I had mood swings.
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I had a low sense of social anxiety.
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I was more impulsive than I should have been and I had a problem with delaying gratification.
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My baseline patience was overall lower and I made some poor decisions that were clearly influenced by the addiction.
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So even though I had some bad attributes, I did have good ones too.
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Both things were true at the same time.
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And that matters because NoFap doesn't affect everyone the same way.
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How powerful it feels when you stop depends on how you were using, how long you were using, and who you already were underneath it all.
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If you used PMO occasionally, then stopping will still help.
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But it might not feel as life -changing if you used heavily like I did.
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Stopping can feel like removing a weight you didn't even realize you were carrying.
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That brings me to part one, PMO is a limiter.
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PMO is a hyper -stimulating activity.
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Over time, it will desensitize you to normal life.
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This is common knowledge.
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Things that should feel engaging starts feeling dull.
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And also, things that require effort starts feeling harder than they should.
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Hard work feels harder, delaying gratification feels harder, and even conversations are affected because it becomes harder to stay present,
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to listen attentively, and just stay patient in the conversation.
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And the reason for that is because your nervous system is used now to constant stimulation.
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But here's a very important part.
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You can still be competent.
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You can still succeed.
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You can still excel in certain areas of life, even while heavily addicted.
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And the way I see it is that it's possible to run a marathon while being a chain smoker,
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but it would be easier if you weren't.
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In other words, PMO limits your potential.
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Example from my life is that I used to be a sponsored bodybuilder.
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I trained really hard.
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I had discipline in that domain and I looked the part.
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But where PMO limited me was in what I didn't do.
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At the time, the fitness YouTube space was just starting to explode.
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I was aware of the opportunity.
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I had the knowledge.
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I had the physique.
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But I didn't dare to put myself in front of the camera and start something of my own.
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And every time I even had the thought of starting and pushing myself outside of this comfort zone,
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my system would just reject it because I was already satisfied, I was already getting my stimulation,
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and I simply didn't have the mental mindfulness to navigate past that limitation.
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So, yeah, I didn't start that channel, not because I lacked the ability to, but because my behavior was quietly taxing my confidence, presence, and consistency.
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And just a quick side note.
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If you've been struggling to quit PMO, I've made an app and a website that can help you with that.
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Check the link in the description below.
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Now, part two, NoFap is an enhancer.
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This is where most people get it wrong.
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NoFap is not a magical cure that installs charisma, confidence, discipline, and purpose in you.
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If you're someone who's severely socially anxious, then NoFap won't turn you into a chad that demands respect every time he walks into a room.
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What NoFap actually does is to remove the limiter.
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It opens the gates.
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And removing the limiter doesn't mean that nothing happens.
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It means that whatever was already there can finally express itself.
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If you already had the capacity to speak well, then you will speak way better.
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If you already trained hard, then you will train harder.
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If you already had ambition, then you will feel it more clearly.
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And even if you were just decent at something.. then NoFap will still enhance that.
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NoFap doesn't give you new traits.
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It enhances the ones you're willing to use.
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And this is where responsibility comes in.
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You are still the one that needs to take action.
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You don't go from having no direction in life to now working on your life's mission just because you stopped PMOing.
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What NoFap does is to clear the fog.
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It removes the mental noise, the distractions, and the internal friction.
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You start seeing things more clearly, but clarity without action, it does nothing.
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Your feet still has to move towards the goal.
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That means that NoFap can open the door to massive self -improvement, but you still have to be the one who takes action.
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When you stop frying your brain and leaking your attention everywhere, you create space to become more mindful, more reflective, and more intentional.
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You might realize that you want better social skills you might realize
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that you want better structure in life and you might realize
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that you want to aim higher and if you choose to act on
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that then nofap will enhance that process
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but i can't emphasize this enough walking the path is still your responsibility
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and this is where most people fall short they expect that
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because they're doing nofap seam retention holding streaks
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that things will just magically start to happen for them
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i once had a guy ask me on what day will i start making more money
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and I was like bro what you don't magically double your income
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because you hit day 90 you have to take action towards
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it early in my journey I once had an important work presentation I thought
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that since I was on a long streak
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that I would automatically be more charismatic and confident I wasn't I face planted that presentation
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because I simply wasn't prepared properly on the other hand
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there has been times where I had binged relapsed the day before
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but since I had prepared and taken action the presentation went very well.
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Now mind you that it would have went better
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if I were clean on the streak but this goes to show you the power of action.
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That's the entire point.
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Stopping PMO removes the thing that is limiting you.
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Taking action with the clarity and energy you regain is what actually changes your life significantly.
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If you expect the streak itself to build your life for you you'll be disappointed.
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That's the honest truth about NoFap in my experience.
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So was NoFap worth it?
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For me, absolutely yes.
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Not because it magically fixed my life,
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but because it removed the thing that was quietly holding me back from using the strengths that I already have,
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and it allowed me to enhance those and also pursue new attributes and strengths.
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So I would advise everyone to go on this journey.
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There are deeper spiritual, philosophical, and even practical advantages to this practice, but I'll save those for another video.
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Either way guys, take care and I'll see you in the next one.

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Vocaboli chiave di questo video

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ParolaPronunciaSignificato
streak sostantivo/stɹiːk/striatura, striscia
enhance verbo/ɪnˈhæns/accrescere, intensificare
delay sostantivo/dɪˈleɪ̯/ritardo
discipline sostantivo/ˈdɪsəplɪn/disciplina
clarity sostantivo/ˈklæɹ.ɪ.ti/chiarezza
attribute sostantivo/ˈæt.ɹɪˌbjut/attributo, caratteristica
stimulation sostantivo/stɪm.jʊˈleɪ.ʃən/stimolazione
practical aggettivo/ˈpɹæk.tɪ.kəl/pratico
gate sostantivo/ˈɡeɪ̯t/cancello
anxiety sostantivo/æŋˈzaɪ.əti/ansia, ansietà
chase verbo/t͡ʃeɪs/inseguire, cacciare
mood sostantivo/muːd/umore, cattivo umore
disappointed aggettivo/ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/deluso
skill sostantivo/skɪl/abilità, capacità
comfort sostantivo/ˈkʌm.fət/agio, comodità

Pronuncia a cui fare attenzione

Chi parla usa 27 contrazioni e forme ridotte, come didn't, doesn't, don't. Pronunciale nella forma breve, così come le senti.

  • I suoni “th”: marathon /ˈmæɹəθən/, underneath /ˌʌndɚˈniθ/
  • I suoni “sh” e “zh”: presentation /ˌpɹɛzn̩ˈteɪʃn̩/, stimulation /stɪm.jʊˈleɪ.ʃən/, occasionally /əˈkeɪʒənəli/, patience /ˈpeɪ̯.ʃəns/, addiction /əˈdɪkˌʃən/
  • Parole lunghe — attenzione all’accento: stimulation /stɪm.jʊˈleɪ.ʃən/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/, occasionally /əˈkeɪʒənəli/, technically /ˈtɛk.nɪˌkəl.i/

I suoni difficili per chi parla italiano:

  • /h/ — va soffiata, non è muta: enhance /ɪnˈhæns/, hype /haɪp/, enhancer /ɪnˈhænsɚ/
  • Consonante finale — senza aggiungere una vocale dopo: streak /stɹiːk/, enhance /ɪnˈhæns/, attribute /ˈæt.ɹɪˌbjut/, gate /ˈɡeɪ̯t/, chase /t͡ʃeɪs/
  • /æ/ — più aperta della “e”: enhance /ɪnˈhæns/, clarity /ˈklæɹ.ɪ.ti/, attribute /ˈæt.ɹɪˌbjut/, practical /ˈpɹæk.tɪ.kəl/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/

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