쉐도잉 연습: Anger - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기

레슨 만드는 중...
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- Whoa, hey man, what's wrong?
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- I'm mad because I...
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I really want to watch anime.
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- Oh I got you man.
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Just go to crunchyroll.com/domics for a 14-day free trial of premium and watch all the anime you'd like.
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- This sounds like a sponsorship.
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- It is! Anger management has always been one of those things that I constantly try to work on.
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Not that I have a serious issue with anger, but as much as I like to believe I portray this Chill..
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Persona. I have to admit I sometimes have a short temper, especially when people turn on their hazard lights and think they can just stop and text ANY WHERE THEY WANT - Wait a minute, Dom.
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Half your videos are rants. You're always angry.
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- Yea... I guess you have a point.
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But maybe if people weren't so DUM- So, I try to play this little game with myself to try and minimize the anger frequency.
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The rules are simple.
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If I get mad, I lose.
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That's it. If I depend on anger to get through a situation, I lose.
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If I raise my voice a few decibels higher than it needs to be, I lose.
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If I'm about to reply to a dumb comment, I lose.
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Because I already let them get to me.
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Their comment was rhetorical and I have to realize that I don't have to defend myself with everyone.
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Sometimes to win is to walk away.
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What I've realized through all of my life experiences is that nothing good has ever come from reacting with anger.
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Someone accidentally spills your water: Oh, well. Accidents happen.
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What's done is done.
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If they apologize and your reply is, "Sorry isn't gonna dry my pants!" Well neither is being angry, so calm the f*ck down.
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Of course. everyone's entitled to feeling mad and/or offended by things, but to act upon that anger and seeking destruction leads to no benefits.
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Even if acting with anger seemed like it solved the issue at hand, I realized it would have been handled better without it.
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A great Philosopher named Jommus Animatus once said....
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- I got mad a lot when I was younger. I always ended up breaking stuff.
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So I was like, "Nah... Being mad is expensive." It's not worth.
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- And I agree. Being mad is costly.
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Not just for the things you may have physically broken in a fit of rage, but other consequences like broken relationships.
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Also, being angry is honestly mentally taxing.
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You ever just been angry for so long that you get tired of being angry?
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Like that one time, you're eating out with some friends And there's supposed to be one takoyaki per person.
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But for some reason that douchebag Alex, who's not even your friend, just someone else's plus one, Eats TWO!
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And you just think to yourself, "I hate this person now." And every time you see Alex after that, you just wanna feed him a takoyaki and punch him in the gut so he can throw it up and eat it again, Since he likes eating things twice so much.
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But after a while, holding a grudge just isn't worth it.
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You gain nothing from this anger.
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You're never gonna get the Takoyaki back.
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So you let it go.
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With the realization that being angry is just not worth your energy.
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And that there are people out there, that just don't know how to do simple division.
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- Did-- did Alex take your takoyaki?
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- No. A few years ago, some friends and I attended a convention and shared an Airbnb together.
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There was a party on one of the nights but most of us skipped out because we'd rather stay back and play Smash and Mafia.
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Jomm, Phil and Stacy decided to go.
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Stacy was a girl that kind of...
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self-invited herself to stay with us.
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Not a terrible person, but not the best either.
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Hours passed and it was getting pretty late into the night when Jomm and Phil finally returned at like, 4:00 a.m.
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- Oh, hey. How's the party?
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- Man! F*ck Stacy!
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- Oh my god...!
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And Phil went off! We were all surprised because we've never seen Phil angry before.
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Not "we've never seen him this angry." No, we've never actually seen him angry, period.
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It was like watching someone lick their elbow.
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Not impossible, just...
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"Wow, that exceeded my expectations." Phil is this hard-working animator and overall chill and sweet dude.
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Who always carries a smile on his face and could cure diseases with his cheerfulness.
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Pretty much a monk.
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And for someone like him?
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Phil?! To be pissed off?!
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Boi! You must have f*cked up pretty bad.
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Apparently, early into the party, Stacey left all of her stuff with Phil for him to watch for a bit.
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Her purse, phone, everything.
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But then, never came back.
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Disappeared without telling anyone.
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So they left the party and pretty much spent the whole night looking for her.
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Can't contact her without her phone, and she probably wouldn't know her way back to the house without it either.
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I think they eventually found someone who said that she was with a friend the whole time.
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So, they returned to the house, having wasted their whole night.
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Should've played smash.
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She then showed up at the house in the morning, unscathed.
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Perfectly fine.
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No explanation either, just acted like nothing happened.
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But we'll never forget how scary it was to see Phil mad.
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Because a few years later, I then had my own "Phil moment".
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One time some friends and I went to visit another friend a few cities away for a couple of days.
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We'll call him "Adam".
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I brought my tablet and work with me because I had a deadline the next day, but knew I'd still get to enjoy the trip once I was done.
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Plus, I was the only one with a car.
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So we get there, chill around and talk for a bit.
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Didn't have anything else planned except going out for dinner later.
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So I decided to get some work done until then.
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Dinner time comes and I'm almost done my work.
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Just got to get through that last stretch.
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But a break was much needed.
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We all go outside to my car and Adam calls shotgun And sits in the front because he knows the area and how to get to the restaurant.
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Makes perfect sense for him to be there.
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But our other friend at the time, We'll call her "Ellen," somehow gets offended by this because she sat in the front the whole three-hour drive there so she could play her music, And felt entitled to a permanent shotgun status for the duration of the trip.
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She makes a fuss, demands her seat, and gets denied.
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And for a young adult, you'd think she'd realize, "Hmm?
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Maybe this isn't worth being mad about--" NOPE!
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She returns to the house and sits down on the front porch in protest.
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And I'm anxiously sitting there because I was starving, I was looking forward to some good food, and then looking forward to finish my work because the sooner I did, the sooner I could relax, and enjoy the trip.
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But this INFANT, is preventing our night from progressing.
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Everyone else makes their attempt to convince her to come back and just get in so we could eat.
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And I'm just trying to contain my stress and anger because if I had to be the one to convince her to stop being a piece of sh*t, I would not be able to do it calmly.
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Honestly, it felt like 20 minutes went by before Adam decides to be the bigger person and give up his seat.
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Ellen comes prancing back like a princess, and happily takes her seat in the front.
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And that kind of bipolar attitude really set me off.
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But, I didn't blow up.
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I just turned my head, looked at her, and said in a dead and monotone voice, "You just wasted all of our time.
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That did not need to happen." But I could tell everyone heard it as if I said, "If we were stranded on an island, I would not hesitate to build a raft out of your limbs." The car ride was silent.
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Dinner was awkward.
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I never yelled or did anything violent, but my friends told me that they have never seen me that angry before.
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I emanated so much dark energy that you could suffocate in it.
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And that's why you should avoid being angry.
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Because on the rare occasion that you do.
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It's much more effective.
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- - Hey, man, you're still upset?
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Namely One Punch Man and Attack on Titan.
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And if you missed last season Promised Neverland and Mob Psycho Season 2 was definitely a must watch.
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But if there are any other shows you guys recommend, please let me know in the comments.
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Always on the lookout for a spicy anime to watch!
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Enjoy!

맥락 및 배경

이 비디오에서는 화남의 감정과 그것을 관리하는 방법에 대해 다루고 있습니다. 화가 나더라도 긍정적인 태도를 유지하려고 애쓰는 화자의 경험을 통해 감정을 조절하는 것이 중요함을 강조합니다. 많은 사람들이 짧은 순간의 분노로 인해 소중한 것을 잃게 되는 경험을 공유하며, 화를 내는 것이 얼마나 비용이 많이 드는지 설명하고 있습니다. 이러한 화자는 자신의 경험을 통해, 화를 내는 것이 어떤 결과를 초래하는지에 대한 이야기를 나누고 있습니다.

일상 대화를 위한 5가지 주요 표현

  • I'm mad because I... - "나는 ... 때문에 화가 나." 이 표현은 자신의 감정을 솔직하게 드러내는 데 유용합니다.
  • Calm down. - "진정해." 감정을 진정시키고 싶을 때 사용할 수 있는 간단한 표현입니다.
  • It's not worth it. - "그럴 가치가 없어." 어떤 일을 놓고 고민할 때, 상처받은 감정을 표현하는 데 사용할 수 있습니다.
  • Accidents happen. - "사고는 일어날 수 있어." 실수나 사고에 대해 관대함을 나타낼 때 좋은 표현입니다.
  • Let it go. - "놓아줘." 과거의 감정을 털어버릴 필요성을 설명하는 데 적합합니다.

단계별 그림자 말하기 가이드

이 영상의 내용을 효과적으로 습득하기 위해 그림자 말하기(shadow speech) 기법을 활용할 수 있습니다. 다음 단계에 따라 연습해 보세요:

  1. 비디오 감상: 비디오를 처음부터 끝까지 시청하세요. 말의 속도와 억양을 잘 들어보세요.
  2. 첫 번째 반복: 간단한 문장이나 표현을 정리하고, 반복해서 따라 해보세요. 예를 들어, "I'm mad because I..."라는 표현에서 시작합니다.
  3. 의미 분석: 각 문장이 담고 있는 감정이나 뜻을 생각해 보세요. 왜 화자가 그렇게 느끼는지 이해하는 것이 중요합니다.
  4. 둘째 반복: 화자의 목소리와 억양을 최대한 비슷하게 따라 해보세요. shadow speak 기법을 통해 말의 리듬을 맞추는 것이 핵심입니다.
  5. 응용 연습: 자신만의 상황에서 화자의 표현들을 사용해 보세요. 예를 들어 친구와의 대화에서 감정을 공유하는 상황을 만들어 해보세요.

위의 과정을 통해 IELTS 스피킹뿐만 아니라 일상 대화에서도 자신감을 얻을 수 있습니다. shadowspeaks 기법을 통해 더 자연스럽고 유창하게 영어를 구사해 보세요.

쉐도잉이란? 영어 실력을 빠르게 키우는 과학적 방법

쉐도잉(Shadowing)은 원래 전문 통역사 훈련을 위해 개발된 언어 학습 기법으로, 다언어 학자인 Dr. Alexander Arguelles에 의해 대중화된 방법입니다. 핵심 원리는 간단하지만 매우 강력합니다: 원어민의 영어를 들으면서 1~2초의 짧은 지연으로 즉시 소리 내어 따라 말하는 것——마치 '그림자(shadow)'처럼 화자를 따라가는 것입니다. 문법 공부나 수동적인 청취와 달리, 쉐도잉은 뇌와 입 근육이 동시에 실시간으로 영어를 처리하고 재현하도록 훈련합니다. 연구에 따르면 이 방법은 발음 정확도, 억양, 리듬, 연음, 청취력, 말하기 유창성을 크게 향상시킵니다. IELTS 스피킹 준비와 자연스러운 영어 소통을 원하는 분들에게 특히 효과적입니다.