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Hey Psych2Goers The words we hear and tell ourselves can affect our self-esteem,
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Hey Psych2Goers The words we hear and tell ourselves can affect our self-esteem,
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deeply
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Sometimes without us even realizing it
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Toxic phrases are more than just words They have a profound impact on our mental health They can sow seeds of doubt,
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trigger feelings of inadequacy Trap you in a cycle of negative thinking and even contribute to conditions like depression and anxiety Additionally,
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these negative comments can have a subtle effect,
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making you withdraw from social interactions and opportunities.
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So, do you find yourself feeling down without knowing the reason why?
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Could it be the words you tell yourself or hear every day?
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Let's find out.
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You're just lucky.
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Hearing, you're just lucky, or you must be lucky,
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can feel like a slap in the face.
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It can make you feel like your success happened by chance and not because of your hard work.
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This can hurt your self-esteem because it suggests that you didn't really earn your achievements.
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Imagine preparing really hard for an interview and getting the job,
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but someone says you just got lucky.
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It feels unfair, right?
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It takes away the credit you deserve and makes you feel like your efforts don't matter.
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Which can diminish your sense of accomplishment and make you doubt your abilities
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Here's the thing people don't always see the effort you put in what matters is your recognition
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Instead of letting this comment bother you remind yourself.
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I worked hard for this, and I deserve it.
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Celebrate your achievements, and acknowledge your efforts.
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This will boost your self-belief,
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motivation, and determination for future success.
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Why can't you be more like.. someone else?
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Comparison is the thief of joy.
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It makes you focus on what you lack instead of appreciating what you have.
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This can make you feel inferior,
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inadequate, and unworthy, leading to self-doubt and a loss of confidence.
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Instead of trying to be someone else,
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focus on being the best version of yourself.
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You are not meant to be a carbon copy of someone else.
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You are a unique individual with your own strengths, weaknesses, and quirks.
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Focus on what you do well and what makes you special.
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Get goals based on your interests and skills.
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And when you catch yourself comparing,
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list three things you're proud of,
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or three things you've done well.
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This keeps your focus on your own growth.
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Your worth isn't based on comparisons.
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Your unique story and qualities are what make you special.
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Subscribe for more.
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Are you really gonna wear that?
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This question might seem simple,
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but it carries a judgmental underdone.
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It subtly suggests your choice is wrong or inadequate,
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makes you doubt your judgment,
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and feel self-conscious about your appearance.
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Although this question may come from someone intending to offer help,
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over time, it can reduce your confidence and make you second-guess your own decisions.
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When you hear this, trust your instincts, style, and decisions.
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Instead of letting this phrase make you doubt yourself,
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affirm your choice by saying,
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I like my style, and I feel good about it.
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This helps you stay confident and true to your unique preferences.
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You'll never find someone who loves you.
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Phrases like this make you feel unworthy of love.
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People who say this often want to control you,
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making you believe no one else will love you,
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so you stay with them even if they treat you badly.
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Sometimes these thoughts come from our own insecurities,
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especially when we feel down.
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Hearing or thinking this phrase makes you focus on what you think is wrong with you,
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instead of what's good about you.
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It damages your confidence and self-worth,
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leading you to doubt that you deserve a loving relationship.
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Remember, everyone deserves love, including you.
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You don't need to be perfect to be loved.
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The right person will love you as you are and help you grow.
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Remind yourself, I am worth loving and will find someone who values me.
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Or, I'm focusing on loving myself and the right relationship will come.
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This helps protect your self-esteem and believe that you're deserving a loving relationship.
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Don't be so dramatic.
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This phrase damages self-esteem by dismissing and invalidating your emotions.
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It suggests that your feelings are exaggerated or unwarranted,
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making you doubt the validity of your emotional responses.
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Over time, hearing this phrase can affect your ability to express yourself openly and authentically.
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It may lead you to feel ashamed or embarrassed for having strong emotions,
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which undermines your self-confidence and self-worth.
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However, it's important to recognize that it's okay to feel deeply.
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Your emotions are valid and important.
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Instead of internalizing this criticism,
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remind yourself that my feelings matter and I have the right to express them.
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This affirmation helps you acknowledge and honor your emotions, ultimately protecting your self-esteem.
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We've seen how words can deeply affect our self-esteem.
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So let's be kind in how we speak to ourselves and those around us.
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Let's use our words to uplift one another,
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not bring each other down.
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And remember you have the power to protect your self-esteem.
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What if we all made a pact to replace toxic phrases with encouraging ones?
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Imagine the boost in confidence we'd all feel.
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Maybe start today by identifying those negative thoughts and turning them into positive affirmations.
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These little changes can make a big difference.
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After all, we all deserve to be happy and live our best lives.
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Are you struggling with low self-esteem?
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Therapy can be a great way to get support and build your confidence.
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What's a toxic phrase you've struggled with?
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Share it and let's support each other in the comments.
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Curious about more toxic statements?
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Check out our video, 4 Toxic Quotes You Should Never Follow.

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