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Bad Choices Dear Dr. Tracy, I am a 33-year-old divorced woman with four kids.
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I was married for 12 years and have been divorced for approximately three years.
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I met my new boyfriend during my divorce.
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We hit it off and have been together ever since.
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He is a 44-year-old divorced man.
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When I met him, he had been divorced for two years.
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Well, I met his ex-wife, and she seemed to be an okay person.
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What I found out three months into my relationship with him was that he was fooling around with his ex-wife again, who also at this time had a boyfriend of her own.
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I figured that since I did not have a committed relationship with him, I had no place to say anything.
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The problem is, it continued further into our relationship, up to the point when I found out I was pregnant.
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At the same time, I found out that he and his ex-wife planned to go to his family reunion together.
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Of course, before all of this, I drove by his house one night and saw her car parked outside his home.
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The excuse I got after all of this was that they were considering getting back together.
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I thought it was very funny that as soon as she met me, she found interest in him again.
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I guess my issue is the fact that I'm now still in this relationship.
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I have brought a child into this nonsense, and I hate the fact that he keeps in contact with her.
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My boyfriend has taken responsibility for her son from a previous relationship.
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His excuse for having so much contact with his ex-wife is because of that boy.
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I know this is not true, but I have no real proof otherwise.
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I have also dealt with him taking women to hotels, and my gut tells me it was her.
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But he promises it was not her.
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I have tried to get over all the cheating.
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I know that she is very close to his family, and I also know that his family does not like me, because I stand up for myself.
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I guess the bottom line is knowing how much contact his ex-wife has with him
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and the fact that he knows that I can't stand her.
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Am I in a weird relationship with the man that wants to have his cake and eat it too?
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Or am I being paranoid and need to just trust him when he says he does not want her?
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I have never had so much animosity towards two people in my life.
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I do love this man, but I feel like I have put myself back in an unhealthy relationship with a man
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that is trying to lie to me.
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To be totally honest, now that I have his child, I even hate the fact that he helps her son.
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She never has to ask for anything regarding that boy, but I have to constantly remind him when our son needs something.
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He does it for the other boy without thinking, but my son is a second thought.
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Even when I have said, look at your son, he is in dire need.
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I was married to a cheating man and hooked up with another cheating man.
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I wonder if it's just my bad choices in men.
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Bad Choices Dear Dr. Tracy, I am a 33-year-old divorced woman with four kids.
38
I was married for 12 years and have been divorced for approximately three years.
39
I met my new boyfriend during my divorce.
40
We hit it off and have been together ever since.
41
He is a 44-year-old divorced man.
42
When I met him, he had been divorced for two years.
43
Well, I met his ex-wife, and she seemed to be an okay person.
44
What I found out three months into my relationship with him was that he was fooling around with his ex-wife again, who also at this time had a boyfriend of her own.
45
I figured that since I did not have a committed relationship with him, I had no place to say anything.
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The problem is, it continued further into our relationship, up to the point when I found out I was pregnant.
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At the same time, I found out that he and his ex-wife planned to go to his family reunion together.
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Of course, before all of this, I drove by his house one night and saw her car parked outside his home.
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The excuse I got after all of this was that they were considering getting back together.
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I thought it was very funny that as soon as she met me, she found interest in him again.
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I guess my issue is the fact that I'm now still in this relationship.
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I have brought a child into this nonsense, and I hate the fact that he keeps in contact with her.
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My boyfriend has taken responsibility for her son from a previous relationship.
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His excuse for having so much contact with his ex-wife is because of that boy.
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I know this is not true, but I have no real proof otherwise.
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I have also dealt with him taking women to hotels, and my gut tells me it was her.
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But he promises it was not her.
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I have tried to get over all the cheating.
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I know that she is very close to his family, and I also know that his family does not like me, because I stand up for myself.
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I guess the bottom line is knowing how much contact his ex-wife has with him
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and the fact that he knows that I can't stand her.
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Am I in a weird relationship with a man that wants to have his cake and eat it too?
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Or am I being paranoid and need to just trust him when he says he does not want her?
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I have never had so much animosity towards two people in my life.
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I do love this man, but I feel like I have put myself back in an unhealthy relationship
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with a man that is trying to lie to me.
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To be totally honest, now that I have his child, I even hate the fact that he helps her son.
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She never has to ask for anything regarding that boy, but I have to constantly remind him when our son needs something.
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He does it for the other boy without thinking, but my son is a second thought.
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Even when I have said, look at your son, he is in dire need.
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I was married to a cheating man and hooked up with another cheating man.
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I wonder if it's just my bad choices in men.
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Bad Choices Dear Dr. Tracy, I am a 33-year-old divorced woman with four kids.
74
I was married for 12 years and have been divorced for approximately three years.
75
I met my new boyfriend during my divorce.
76
We hit it off and have been together ever since.
77
He is a 44-year-old divorced man.
78
When I met him, he had been divorced for two years.
79
Well, I met his ex-wife, and she seemed to be an okay person.
80
What I found out three months into my relationship with him was that he was fooling around with his ex-wife again, who also at this time had a boyfriend of her own.
81
I figured that since I did not have a committed relationship with him, I had no place to say anything.
82
The problem is, it continued further into our relationship, up to the point when I found out I was pregnant.
83
At the same time, I found out that he and his ex-wife planned to go to his family reunion together.
84
Of course, before all of this, I drove by his house one night and saw her car parked outside his home.
85
The excuse I got after all of this was that they were considering getting back together.
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I thought it was very funny that as soon as she met me, she found interest in him again.
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I guess my issue is the fact that I'm now still in this relationship.
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I have brought a child into this nonsense, and I hate the fact that he keeps in contact with her.
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My boyfriend has taken responsibility for her son from a previous relationship.
90
His excuse for having so much contact with his ex-wife is because of that boy.
91
I know this is not true, but I have no real proof otherwise.
92
I have also dealt with him taking women to hotels, and my gut tells me it was her.
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But he promises it was not her.
94
I have tried to get over all the cheating.
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I know that she is very close to his family
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and I also know that his family does not like me because I stand up for myself.
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I guess the bottom line is knowing how much contact his ex-wife has with him
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and the fact that he knows that I can't stand her.
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Am I in a weird relationship with the man that wants to have his cake and eat it too?
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Or am I being paranoid and need to just trust him when he says he does not want her.
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I have never had so much animosity towards two people in my life.
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I do love this man, but I feel like I have put myself back in an unhealthy relationship with a man
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that is trying to lie to me.
104
To be totally honest, now that I have his child, I even hate the fact that he helps her son.
105
She never has to ask for anything regarding that boy, but I have to constantly remind him when our son needs something.
106
He does it for the other boy without thinking, but my son is a second thought, even when I have said, Look at your son.
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He is in dire need.
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I was married to a cheating man and hooked up with another cheating man.
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I wonder if it's just my bad choices in men.
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Bad Choices Dear Dr. Tracy, I am a 33-year-old divorced woman with four kids.
111
I was married for 12 years and have been divorced for approximately three years.
112
I met my new boyfriend during my divorce.
113
We hit it off and have been together ever since.
114
He is a 44-year-old divorced man.
115
When I met him, he had been divorced for two years.
116
Well, I met his ex-wife, and she seemed to be an okay person.
117
What I found out three months into my relationship with him was that he was fooling around with his ex-wife again, who also at this time had a boyfriend of her own.
118
I figured that since I did not have a committed relationship with him, I had no place to say anything.
119
The problem is, it continued further into our relationship, up to the point when I found out I was pregnant.
120
At the same time, I found out that he and his ex-wife planned to go to his family reunion together.
121
Of course, before all of this, I drove by his house one night and saw her car parked outside his home.
122
The excuse I got after all of this was that they were considering getting back together.
123
I thought it was very funny that as soon as she met me, she found interest in him again.
124
I guess my issue is the fact that I am now still in this relationship.
125
I have brought a child into this nonsense, and I hate the fact that he keeps in contact with her.
126
My boyfriend has taken responsibility for her son from a previous relationship.
127
His excuse for having so much contact with his ex-wife is because of that boy.
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I know this is not true, but I have no real proof otherwise.
129
I have also dealt with him taking women to hotels, and my gut tells me it was her.
130
But he promises it was not her.
131
I have tried to get over all the cheating.
132
I know that she is very close to his family, and I also know that his family does not like me because I stand up for myself.
133
I guess the bottom line is knowing how much contact his ex-wife has with him
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and the fact that he knows that I can't stand her.
135
Am I in a weird relationship with the man that wants to have his cake and eat it too?
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Or am I being paranoid and need to just trust him when he says he does not want her.
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I have never had so much animosity towards two people in my life.
138
I do love this man, but I feel like I have put myself back in an unhealthy relationship with a man
139
that is trying to lie to me.
140
To be totally honest, now that I have his child, I even hate the fact that he helps her son.
141
She never has to ask for anything regarding that boy, but I have to constantly remind him when our son needs something.
142
He does it for the other boy without thinking, but my son is a second thought, even when I have said, look at your son, he is in dire need.
143
I was married to a cheating man and hooked up with another cheating man.
144
I wonder if it's just my bad choices in men.
145
Bad Choices Dear Dr. Tracy, I am a 33-year-old divorced woman with four kids.
146
I was married for 12 years and have been divorced for approximately 3 years.
147
I met my new boyfriend during my divorce.
148
We hit it off and have been together ever since.
149
He is a 44-year-old divorced man.
150
When I met him, he had been divorced for 2 years.
151
Well, I met his ex-wife and she seemed to be an okay person.
152
What I found out 3 months into my relationship with him was that he was fooling around with his ex-wife again, who also at this time had a boyfriend of her own.
153
I figured that since I did not have a committed relationship with him, I had no place to say anything.
154
The problem is, it continued further into our relationship, up to the point when I found out I was pregnant.
155
At the same time, I found out that he and his ex-wife planned to go to his family reunion together.
156
Of course, before all of this, I drove by his house one night and saw her car parked outside his home.
157
The excuse I got after all of this was that they were considering getting back together.
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I thought it was very funny that as soon as she met me, she found interest in him again.
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I guess my issue is the fact that I'm now still in this relationship.
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I have brought a child into this nonsense, and I hate the fact that he keeps in contact with her.
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My boyfriend has taken responsibility for her son from a previous relationship.
162
His excuse for having so much contact with his ex-wife is because of that boy.
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I know this is not true, but I have no real proof otherwise.
164
I have also dealt with him taking women to hotels, and my gut tells me it was her.
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But he promises it was not her.
166
I have tried to get over all the cheating.
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I know that she is very close to his family, and I also know that his family does not like me because I stand up for myself.
168
I guess the bottom line is knowing how much contact his ex-wife has with him
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and the fact that he knows that I can't stand her.
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Am I in a weird relationship with the man that wants to have his cake and eat it too?
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Or am I being paranoid and need to just trust him when he says he does not want her?
172
I have never had so much animosity towards two people in my life.
173
I do love this man, but I feel like I have put myself back in an unhealthy relationship with a man
174
that is trying to lie to me.
175
To be totally honest, now that I have his child, I even hate the fact that he helps her son.
176
She never has to ask for anything regarding that boy, but I have to constantly remind him when our son needs something.
177
He does it for the other boy without thinking, but my son is a second thought, even when I have said, look at your son, he is in dire need.
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I was married to a cheating man and hooked up with another cheating man.
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I wonder if it's just my bad choices in men.

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  • bad choices - 나쁜 선택
  • commitment - 헌신, 약속
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  • trust - 신뢰
  • cheating - 배신
  • contact - 연락
  • responsibility - 책임

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