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listen if i'm being very honest there's not a lot of people
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that will make it in life and
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if i can go even further it is not even five percent of people
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that will make it in life there's only this one percent of people
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that will make it that will become successful and
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that will realize their purpose success doesn't always mean monetarily
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because people always equate money with success and i don't think that's real success
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if you want to be truly successful it's not about getting
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those scars it's not about getting the material wealth it's about fulfilling your soul
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and what fulfilling my soul
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and your soul looks like can be very different you have to become
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so serious about your goals
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and working towards them otherwise you will spend your whole life
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watching other people accomplish their goals you will always be a side character in someone else's main character
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and you don't want to do
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that your life is about you you are there first you cannot live a fulfilled
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and happy life if you're constantly putting other people in front of you
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and if you're constantly worrying more about them than you're worrying about yourself.
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In this video, I will show you how you can realize that potential in yourself and how you can believe in yourself.
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The one thing that differentiates the non-successful from the successful people is the successful ones believe in themselves.
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And even if they're delusional about it, because a lot of people who watch them say, you're not all that, you're not that great, but they believe they are.
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And they truly are delusional in that.
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And because they are delusional in that and they follow that path, they get
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towards the highest places
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and you're on the sideline you can join them you can join successful people once you just realize that
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if they could do it i could do it as well
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and welcome back to my channel okay let's get into it first things first stop reacting to life
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and start acting what do i mean by this i see a lot of people
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that never get anywhere or never accomplish anything they're always reacting to life
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so they won't really have goals they just do things for example you just go to your job every day
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and you just plug into that system but what are you actually doing is
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that fulfilling you somehow is
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that fulfilling your soul are you on the sideline working towards something
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that you think is a purpose or you want to create something
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that will be big or are you just every day going to work doing the same routine
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and you never feel like you're alive same way with relationships
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i see a lot of people even around me they get into relationships
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but they have no future plans
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when i asked him like why do you get into these relationships they're like oh
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but it doesn't matter it's just like good for me now this
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and that but it has been good for you for the past nine years
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and it hasn't gotten you anywhere so when are we all gonna start acting
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and be like listen this is my goal i want to
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have a family i want to have marriage okay let's start dating for
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that potential and then say no to everything that isn't bad
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if you have a certain lifestyle in your mind
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and you have a certain vision for yourself why would you say yes to anything
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that is not bad It is oftentimes with men, they will say yes to women and just settle down with a woman, but they don't like the woman and then they cheat on her
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and they continuously live unhappy because now they have to live in a lie.
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But why did you say yes though?
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You can go for the person you want if you have that belief in yourself.
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If you put yourself in a position where you match with the vibe of that person, you can get that person.
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You don't have to make another person miserable because you feel like, oh, this is the only thing I could get and then now I'm just gonna live my life lying and cheating.
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Ever since we were young, we were always taught to just follow the system, not really believe in themselves.
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Because who benefits you believing in yourself?
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It doesn't benefit the higher ups.
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It will never benefit them.
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You know, if I was a dictator or if I want to empower, I would never tell you any of these things because I want you guys to stay small.
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But start thinking bigger.
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Open your mind.
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The minute you open your mind and you're receptive to other ideas, to other perceptions in life is when your life
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and soul will expand our soul wants to expand guys our
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soul doesn't want to stay stuck we're not meant to stay stuck the universe is
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so big and we are the universe the universe is constantly expanding
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so our soul needs to expand
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and we expand through creation first thing i want you to
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do is write down like okay what are my goals why
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am i in this relationship what am i getting here is
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this fulfilling me is my soul fulfilled no okay what what
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can i do next how can i get out of this okay start thinking like
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that next job is this job fulfilling me am i just
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doing this job to make money to invest in something else
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that i will fulfill me that i feel good about
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or am i just doing this job
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so i can wait until i have my pension
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and then just die
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because that's a miserable life guys way of reacting to life is you're waiting for someone to come
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and save you you're waiting for to meet the person at the right time
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and that's whatever i'm just waiting waiting uh-uh
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if you don't put yourself in that position
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because i talk about manifestation a lot but i've always put myself in positions where i could receive the manifestation.
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If I was just sitting in my room all day doing nothing, not working on myself, not working towards my YouTube channel, towards my career, I would also not have all the things that I have.
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I put in the work, yeah?
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And you guys need to put in the work as well.
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No one is going to save you.
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No one has to save you.
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You have to take that responsibility over your life.
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Every time you're waiting for someone else to come
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and be your knight to shine armor
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and be your savior is every single time you give your power away you have all that power i'm not special
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any of the people around me
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that have made it any of these celebrities any of these
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people are not special are not special these are people
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that work delusional towards something because they believed in themselves even
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if no one believes in you you have to believe in
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yourself parents didn't believe me oh my teachers no one believed in me no one believed in me even
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when i started my youtube channel i ever said delete it
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delete it oh i'll kill you i'll do this this and
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that i said no because i would rather die than not fulfill my purpose
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and this is why i am where i am
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and i'm unstoppable another thing is a successful a confident person is someone
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that sets a goal for themselves and does not stop at nothing to achieve
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that okay that is when you will become the most confident
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that is when you will become the most successful
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when i say i am going to do something you best
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believe everyone around me knows liz is going to do that
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and no one can stop her it can be the biggest mistake i ever made until i made
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that mistake and i made the decision to make that mistake
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so i always listen to myself first i will listen to other people's advice oh this is dangerous
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and i will take it in and
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if they're right i will follow the advice
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but oftentimes who is the end decision maker i am i will
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and when i say that this is what i will accomplish or this is where I will be here.
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I will stop at nothing.
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People can tell me hundreds of times, Liz, you will not make it.
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Liz, you will not do it.
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This and that.
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I will be there.
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I will be there and I will show everyone every single day that they will never stop my blessings.
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How you become confident because what do you have to be confident about right now?
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What do you have?
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Did you do something?
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Did you accomplish something?
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Do you even work out, go to the gym?
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If you tell yourself, oh my God, I'm going to get this body and I'm five years still, you're still saying, I'm going to get this.
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How can you trust yourself?
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Because you're lying to yourself day in, day out, you're promising yourself things, but you don't accomplish it.
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Honey, start small, but do something.
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Start small, but do something.
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Work towards something and you will start to believe in yourself.
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When you prove to yourself
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that you can do a small thing watch how you will feel
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when you accomplish something big no one will be able to say anything to you
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because your confidence is fueled from your own inner belief instead of external validation you should realize
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that we are all creators that is our natural state
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if you look at children they're constantly creating a child when
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when he falls off his bike he doesn't stop riding the bike
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because he thinks oh my god no i felt that's it no he continues trying again trying again a child
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when he's walking he doesn't stop walking
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because he fell one time no he continues
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because children have no shame they haven't been taught all this
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trauma shame uh bullying abuse they're still pure they just came to this earth
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but this is our natural state guys we just have to come back to our natural state
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which is being childlike which is believing in yourself like a child believes in themselves
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which is creating like a child creates Get children for inspiration.
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Look at the way they act.
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They don't hang on to things.
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They go from one thing to another.
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They have this project, that project, and they move on.
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They don't attach themselves to things easily.
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They move on.
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This is how we have to be in order to be happy in life.
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You have to be able to move on.
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You're still crying about the relationship that ended five years ago.
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Honey, why are you still there?
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Why are you crying over something that happened five years ago?
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you're denying yourself of today's blessings because you're so stuck in a past
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that doesn't exist you're denying yourself of today's blessings because you're
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so stuck in a future that you want but you're unable to create
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because you don't appreciate the present what is there to create
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everything you can create everything this this universe is huge big
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we're abundant guys we're abundant you can create books you can
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create poetry you can create music you can create youtube videos
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uh you can create cooking cooking ukrainian food creating a family
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it doesn't have to be crazy big it doesn't have to
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be something where millions of people will watch it has to
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be something where your soul feels like i want to get up in the morning
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if your soul feels like i want to get up in the morning
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because i get to go to the gym or i get to study
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because these are all privileges okay these are all privileges i
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know there's a lot of people in the hospital right now wishing they were just healthy
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and we don't see these things as privileges until it's taken
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from us we don't see our blessing until it's taken from us
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so every day when you say like oh i have to study no i get to study there's
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so many children students out there that wish they could study there's
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so many women out there that don't get the opportunity to study
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so don't be ungrateful that's
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that what you want is what you can do what your soul wants is what you can do
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and are capable of look i don't want to be a chef i've never been interested in being a chef
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but i know there's someone out there that's their only dream
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to be a chef why it's what their soul wants to do it's how their soul wants to create
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and that is for them i love making advice videos i love making these videos
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but this is not for everyone not everyone loves to do this this is a task for them.
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Why?
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My soul is different.
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This gives me purpose in life.
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When I wake up and I think I can at least help one person rethink their life, I can at least help one person just have a new perception in life,
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that is what I do it for.
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For me, money is just a side quest of me living my purpose.
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Money will come anyways because I'm an abundant soul and I do things from my heart.
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When you do something and you create things from your heart, money will follow anyways.
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It's an energy, anything you want to do, anything your soul feels like, oh my god, I wish I had this, or anything you are jealous of from other people,
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whether it's luxury and all these things, because it's not about the luxury, maybe it's about the freedom, maybe you want money because you want freedom to go wherever you want,
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to be able to not have financial stress, because financial stress is a huge issue, guys, not bad for wanting those things, but just think that if you want that,
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just know that you're able to attract
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that once you put your heart into something into creating something
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into this world like whether it's a business whatever you will create
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that can help other people is something
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that god will bless you with with money our soul is
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so smart and our soul knows things before we even realize
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and oftentimes even in my life
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when something happens i'm like oh my god i got a sign
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because this person said this to me before or i saw this dream
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and i'm like my soul was already guiding me why did i doubt myself even
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when i was growing up i used to constantly tell my
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mom like i i don't want to do a normal job i want to help people
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and my mom used to obviously like liz help yourself what
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are you talking about you know it doesn't make sense
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and to me it also didn't make sense but when i started my youtube channel and i don't have a fancy equipment.
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I don't have anything like script or anything.
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I'm just talking from my heart right now.
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Millions of people found it useful and I helped millions of people with just talking from my heart.
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So my soul already knew what I was meant to create.
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I just couldn't figure it out or put it into words.
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Your soul is gravitating towards something, whether it's art, photography, sports, whatever it is follow it your soul sometimes knows already
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because your higher self knows where you're meant to go
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and what is for your highest good also understand
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that your addictions are excessive energy looking to create see
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when you don't have purpose in life or
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when you are not creating anything or you're not striving towards anything
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or living towards anything what will happen is your body will become depressed
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or it looks for a way to get the energy out of you
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now what a lot of people that do is like they start drinking
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or they get like different addictions even sex addictions
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because they think like okay like what else am i supposed to do with all this excess energy
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but what your soul is trying to tell you is it
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wants to have purpose in life whatever you're fighting for whatever you're passionate about it wants to show
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that and it wants to birth that into earth for example
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when i have my binge eating addiction
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or my eating disorder i was constantly eating eating trying to suppress all my emotions
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but what's actually happening is my emotions wanted to show it wanted to come out
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but i was suppressing them with food
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because i was like at least i won't feel anything
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but the minute i started to feel is the minute i started to become more
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and more successful because i could use my emotions
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and transmute it into something that was my youtube channel
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and then another thing is transmute your pain
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and your emotions into power the biggest artists they create their biggest masterpieces
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because they were sad because because they felt angry
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because they wanted to take revenge on someone that's
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when they create the biggest books the biggest songs the biggest poetry footballers for example they'll perform their best
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when they feel a very strong emotion you see even
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when i started this youtube channel my main motivator was anger
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and anger and sadness and i wanted someone to understand how what they did to me was
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so wrong and i was like i'm gonna show you
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that i'm i'm gonna be the biggest one i can be
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anger of the abuse of all these things fueled me to make videos
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and to show other people that are in the same situation
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that if you believe in yourself you can get out of this If you believe in yourself and you take action.
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And one thing, don't divert from your goal.
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One thing I have never ever done is set a goal and then do something else.
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No. I always know where I'm going and I always know
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that what people can come with me or what people I shouldn't associate with
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if there's a goal that I want to go to.
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Today I am as powerful as I am because I use my anger and I use it for the greater good.
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I use it to help people.
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I didn't go abuse people.
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I could have done so many bad things with my life and I chose the other direction.
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You have this anger when you have all these things like I want to talk to abused children.
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Abused children please listen to me.
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You know how much knowledge you have?
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You know how much people knowledge you have naturally because of what you have been through?
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If you write a book or if you write a blog
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or whatever talk to people about what to look out for and narcissistic parents or narcissistic mothers or all these things, you know how well that will do?
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You know how much you can take all of that abuse
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and put it into something so that your abuser can see that he will never ever have control over you again?
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But get rid of that fear.
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Don't fear the person.
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You know what an abuser lives off, whether it's a partner, whether it's a parent, whoever, they live off of your fear.
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Once you stop fearing them is when they will leave you alone
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because there's no benefit anymore your fearful energy is what they're
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craving you know one time i was talking to a friend of mine
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and she was crying to me and she said liz i i feel
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so alone in this world i feel so bad this and that
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and i told her i looked at her said you know
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what maybe put a video out there make a video
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because maybe in your loneliness other people can relate
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because other people feel as alone as you not everyone has to have it together some people want you something
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that can sit with them and that can understand their emotions
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and that can say hey it's okay there is no advice for you
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but it's okay some people need people like that so
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if you are someone like that create that be there for people
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if you have been bullied right now start using all of
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that suppressed anger that you have and resentment
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and use it to become the biggest best thing this world has ever seen make your bullies watch you
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and be embarrassed that they even talk to you that way
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or even treated you
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that way i'm not good at it is a lame excuse i wasn't good
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when i started uh when i started youtube i wasn't good
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if you go look at my first video and
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if you go look at the way i speak now it's
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completely different i'm much more advanced even in my knowledge
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but does that mean
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that i didn't have to upload my first video yeah i did i did
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and still till this day people go back to that first video
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and tell them a lot no one is good at anything
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when they first start out we learn during the way
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but the people that take that risk to just start out
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and not be embarrassed to look like a fool
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because who are you embarrassed of you look at anyone
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that is like a celebrity or whatever they're not perfect at what they're doing at all
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but they're doing it that's different they're doing it
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and you're not doing anything so if you're not doing anything
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because you're scared to fail or to look embarrassing
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or whatever in front of people then you live a life like
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that okay you have to start somewhere creation is not meant to be perfect creation is meant to be something
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that fulfills your soul if you create life if you're a mother
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and you have a child you won't be a perfect mother you haven't done this before
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so you have trials and errors but does that mean
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that what you created wasn't perfect no it means that it's still perfect to you
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because it was your creation and it came through your vessel
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so be proud of
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that whenever you start you will get good at it whilst you're doing it
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and that's how everyone does it guys all the business people
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i know everyone they don't know what they're talking about in
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the beginning they they're figuring it out on their own whilst they're working with other people
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and then you learn and you learn and then you become the person
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that is successful but people don't see all the work
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that you put in before and before
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and they don't see it they only see the pretty picture in front
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but I'm here to tell you that I failed many more times than I've succeeded
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and I've learned from my struggle more than I will ever
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learn from my success another thing your struggle is your biggest
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teacher how do we learn how do we learn what we don't want to appreciate in relationships
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or what we don't want or do want through bad relationships through making those mistakes
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how do we learn what kind of job we want to do
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or we don't want to do through having a job
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that we didn't like or having experiences at work
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that we didn't like through all of these bad things
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that we demonize we become a person that is a higher version of ourselves
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if i look today at what taught me the most
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and where do i get my knowledge from it's from my struggle i just went to study psychology
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and that's it and that's how i give people advice it wouldn't be the same energy
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because i genuinely feel what people feel that are watching me
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so i have that ability to feel other people
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because i was in their shoes and i got out of it
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so i'm speaking from personal experience be grateful for your struggles
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and take your lessons and move them into success things either you will create it
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or someone else will do see these ideas whatever idea you get in your mind
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or whatever they need to come to earth now
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if you're not going to do it someone else will do it
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and then you're going to sit there thinking oh my god
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that was my idea i wanted to do it honey the universe god gave you the idea
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but you didn't take it
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so whoever takes it next is for done to birth to
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earth okay i'm telling you you do not want to be the person
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that is left on the sideline watching everyone else live a happy purposeful life you don't want to be
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that person believe me when you lived a life without purpose
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when you lived a life
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that you feel like you only live for other people i promise you
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when you're 80 years old tomorrow you're gonna regret your life
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so either you take action now
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or you live your whole life in regret also another excuse
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i hear from a lot of people is like oh yeah
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but this it already exists why would i do it this
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and that it doesn't exist with your energy though it exists with someone else's energy
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because yeah everything exists you know this exists right here this exists people have it everywhere
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but maybe someone else makes it in a way
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that they want to make it and people love that one more
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or also want to buy that one my youtube videos how many are there now online
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so many of them same same thing same
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but guys those other people are more relatable for other people
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so their energy is also needed for other people not everyone wants to watch me
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and i don't want everyone to watch me either you know i respect
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that people find more even
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if it's let's say the same people say the same word the same advice
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but someone might just find meaning and what
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that other person said over what i said
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and i respect it okay whatever needs to be created comes
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through your vessel comes through your energy your energy is powerful just
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because it's already out there it's not out there with your energy
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so you can still create magic but the magic only comes
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when you start believing in yourself and you start believing
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that you're capable and you start unbelieving all those belief systems
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that people parents all these people have put in your head
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because that's not the truth often i hear things of like
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oh she's you stupid oh what she's saying is just like whatever regular advice isn't
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that yeah but that's to you though people
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that are in such a bad state the only thing they need to hear is it's gonna be okay
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and that can change their life
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that one sentence don't underestimate the power of words just
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because it's regular and you already have this knowledge yeah honey get off your big throne
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and let other people that don't have that knowledge listen to it
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because that's what they need don't think that you're above people
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because you're not you're absolutely not be humble
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but know your worth other thing for creation solitude is important the way i create the best is
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when i'm on my own because i tend to really
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when i'm with other people pour a lot of energy into them Even with my husband, like when he needs to work, he's like, Liz, I need to be alone.
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And I'm like, yeah, I also need to be alone because I need to work.
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So a lot of times it's good to retreat back to yourself and to have a conversation with yourself.
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Write things down, guys.
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Write down, for example, if you have someone that you admire, okay?
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Let's say an idol.
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You admire, you look up them write down three things
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that you admire about them
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because those three things you can mention about what you admire about them is inside of you
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because otherwise you would not be able to notice these things
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so notice all inspiration look for clues look for anything like for example one time in a video
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that i don't really listen to music and i don't
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but like if i listen let's say i I put on a song and that's more an emotional song.
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I can really work well from that because I work from emotion.
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So I listen to it and it can give me a little inspiration.
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Now, do I listen to it all the time to a point where I just become depressed?
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No, and don't do that.
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But sometimes certain songs can bring an inspiration in your head and you feel like, oh my God, I can work like this now or I can do this.
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So ask people around you what they would pay for you to do.
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ask them ask your mother ask like your father ask your
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sister siblings friends whatever ask them like what am i good at what do you think i'm good at
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and you would pay for me to do
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so guys have conversations with people around you
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and notice what they're telling you like i've had conversations with
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people in my life where oftentimes the conversation ended up being something like oh you should really give advice
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or i remember one time i was talking to a neighbor
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and she's like you should really do something with communication
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because the way you talk is just so inspiring
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and this is like way before I started my youtube channel
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so a lot of people were constantly telling me that
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but that's how the universe
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and God works they will say things to you through other
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people listen to them notice these things live life as
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if everything is a sign I would much rather live life as
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if everything is a sign than the opposite because life becomes magical
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when you think that things are a sign
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or you're like oh my god they said this oh I saw this already on this billboard
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that must have meant this oh I saw these angel numbers whatever even
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if you don't really believe in them it's fun it's fun for me
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when I I'm having a bad day
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but then I see 11 11 on my phone I'm like
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oh my god I'm gonna have something great happen to me it's
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so much fun blah blah something good is happening
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and then something good happens just because I kind of manifested for myself
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because I believe that 11-11 is something good will happen.
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Write down your visions and ideas.
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When you have an idea, write it down.
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Maybe you don't want to create it right now, but you can come back to it later and work on it, okay?
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Write down visions you have for the future.
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I start writing things down as if they already happened.
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When I wrote down twice about a partner that I wanted to attract and as if they're already with me, and it's funny because in my previous relationship,
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I didn't write down this is my husband.
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I didn't because I didn't want to marry.
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So I wrote it down as if I had a relationship and then I attracted my previous relationship.
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And then now when I when I try to manifest a husband is
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when I actually got married and I wrote it down as if it had already happened.
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So start writing things down as if they already happened, because now you're giving your subconscious a goal.
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Your subconscious knows where are we going to?
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It's not magic.
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It's not magic.
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It's just simply now you have a goal and then you put yourself in a position to receive that goal.
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Also, look for a muse, someone that you find so inspiring,
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someone that you can create so much from because you are really just inspired by them.
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For example, for me, my muse is my mother.
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I don't think I've ever seen in my environment such a strong woman
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that has endured so much and that can still be here now
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and she's still laughing she's very childlike and she's a very happy woman still
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that gives me strength that gives me confidence
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that whatever you go through you can always get out on the better end of the stick
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and my sister is my muse I find her extremely beautiful
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I find her outworldly like ever since I was young I
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looked at her I was like I don't feel like this is even a human
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so I look at her and she inspires me.
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Look for these people in your life.
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Who is your muse?
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Who inspires you?
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Who do you want to create around?
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What can you create around these muses?
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Looking at art pieces, going to nature, walking around.
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Look at the beauty on this earth.
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God blessed this earth with so much beauty.
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And I think that if you really look at it, you can create that beauty as well.
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And you can be maybe someone that people look at and be like, wow, that is my example wow that is my muse
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and also understand the art of letting go i was talking with my sister about this actually
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that i have a very peaceful relationship with dying now
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because i think when my time is meant to come i will return home
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and i think it's peaceful
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because i don't see myself as a human i see myself
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as a soul in a human body living a human experience
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but i don't think this is my home
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and i don't feel like i am at home so
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when i am meant to go home
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and leave this earth then i will do
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that with a lot of um happiness
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but whilst i am here i want to fulfill my mission i want to fulfill my purpose
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and i want to live and i'm grateful to live
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but i think that that plays in into letting go i think we come to earth
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and we realize that we are not meant to attach to anything
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because god made us understand that nothing on this earth belongs to us
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because we won't take anything with us so you have to have
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that detachment and you have to be okay with letting go
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because we constantly let go we let go of our childhood
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version of ourselves we let go of our teenage version of ourselves our adult
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and we become old constantly let go of ourselves
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and people around us because we are constantly changing never has anything ever stayed just the same
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so So don't hang on to things that don't serve you anymore because now you're the one keeping yourself in that prison.
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Maybe at the time someone mistreated you, maybe they didn't treat you well, they bullied you and they kept you in that small mind.
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But when you're out of it, don't abuse yourself because other people abused you.
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Don't become your biggest enemy now your inner child wants to feel safe
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and and your inner child needs to feel safe around your adult version
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because they didn't get the treatment that they deserved last
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but not least time will pass regardless whether you live a purposeful life
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and you live a life where you are fulfilled
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or you don't time will pass
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and time passes i want you to really really look at yourself
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and be like if I am 10 years from now
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or even five years from now still in this position am I going to be happy is this my happiness
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and if that's a yes I'm so happy for you but
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if that's a no I want you to know
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that I believe in you you can accomplish anything you set your mind to
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but I need you to start believing in yourself first I
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cannot do it for you you can watch my videos you can take advice
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but you have to apply it i cannot come do
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that for you already watching these videos you already wanting a sign you trying to get out
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so that means you're capable of getting out i love you guys
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and i'm proud of you
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and whatever you set your mind to you will accomplish in this lifetime
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and in any lifetime i love you guys so much thank you so much for watching
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and yeah I hope this helped and I hope to see you in the next video bye

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