쉐도잉 연습: Is Having Children Selfish? | Would You Rather - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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I'm a single mum.
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Well you've done something really horrible though.
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You've dragged someone and forced them into a position they didn't want to be in.
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No one ever asked to be born.
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I feel like you're on another planet.
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Having children is obviously such a joy and a great thing in life.
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It's a natural feeling as a woman.
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We all have that maternal instinct as well.
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My view on biological children, I don't think people should have them.
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I'm going to have to stop here and just ask you why.
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No one ever asks to be born.
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When you give birth, you're choosing to do something to someone else.
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You're creating them.
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They never ask for it.
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You know, you can't get consent from someone to bring them into the world.
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But it is a natural process.
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But just because something's natural doesn't mean it's right.
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There are many things that happen in nature which we would say that's bad, like malaria, you know, animals rape each other, things like this.
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If you look at any other situation in our daily lives where we would talk about consent should not act
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if you can't get consent from someone.
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I'm a single mum and I have a son who's nine years old
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and just before I turned 20 I decided
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that I was going to be a surrogate and I was UK's youngest surrogate to triplets.
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I can totally understand that people have this biological drive.
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Nothing's stopping me like I could do it.
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Well actually I had a vasectomy two weeks ago
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so there is something stopping me there was nothing okay
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there was nothing there was nothing stopping me what made you make
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that decision so young because i know already
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that i'm not going at the age of 23
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i did not know half of what i know
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now the feelings change i'm sure you're not the same i'm definitely not the same person
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that i was when i was 19 to experience like pregnancy i can't even put into words how
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that feels like it's a feeling
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that you've never ever felt before like i don't know it kind of saddens me to know
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that you'll never experience that all of
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that to me just sounds like an ego trip you've brought someone into existence
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and it's made you feel all these things yeah that's good for you
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but we can't see other people as a means to our own ends okay
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i'm just gonna say it how it is i feel like you're on another planet i can understand now
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that bringing someone into the world just for my selfish desires is not a good reason to do it
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when you do create someone you're bringing them into a world where you you know
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that there are loads of bad things
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that could happen to them they could be hit by a car
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and live with lasting pain they could get cancer very early on fall victim to sex trafficking all things like this
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do you think that your selfish desire to have that kid is worth it if they live a life like that
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that's a bit crazy like why are you always picking up the negative in this sit
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because that's all i'm hearing you say is so this could happen
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that could happen so i'm sure you've had a bad experience
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or event some point in your life up until now most people have whether it's a bad memory
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or you've lost someone or whatever the case is you learn to deal
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and cope you learn you learn to mitigate the bad things
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that happen to you but no one can just live their life but
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but bringing someone into existence well you've done something really horrible there you've dragged someone
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and forced them into a position they didn't want to be in
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and those bad things are happening to them and you've done
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that biologically your gene pool that will end with you
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so what's bad about that just how do you feel just knowing
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that yeah fine good i'm not opening the door to any more bad things happening to people
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it just literally makes no sense i mean most people
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that i interact with have um the same view as you
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so like you've never met anyone who thinks my way
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and literally everyone i meet thinks your way are you a lonely child no no no
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i have a sister no did you have a good childhood
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like yeah yeah yeah everyone thinks anyone who has this view no not not even
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that if you had a good childhood then you know what it feels like to experience joy and memories.
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Yeah, as someone who exists, but if I was never born, I would have never have missed that.
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So what would you say to me if I was the one that was looking for a surrogate?
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Well, I would think you shouldn't.
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And I would say, like, if you want to have a child and raise them, adopt.
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I've had debates with many people, but that was something else.
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I just feel more sad for him, really, that just at a young age, he's made such a life -changing decision.
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Just frustrated with all the negativity about why you shouldn't have children and not the positive side of what you should enjoy.
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I'd rather have kids.
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100 % life is here to be lived and I can't wait to have more children.
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We don't agree but I enjoyed it.
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I do understand where people are coming from.
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This is a topic where I'm so often confronted by the opposing view
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that if I would have heard anything by now that would make me change my mind, I think I would have heard it.
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I would rather have no biological children, but I'm perfectly up for adopting someone.
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이 말하기 레슨은 영상 “Is Having Children Selfish?”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: happen, view, experience. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 80개와 단어 986개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 5:04입니다. 화자는 분당 약 195단어로 빠르게 말하므로 연음과 약하게 발음되는 소리가 많습니다. 단어의 86%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속합니다. 나머지는 연습 전에 미리 확인해 두세요.
이 영상의 핵심 어휘
영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 13개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| consent 동사 | /kənˈsɛnt/ | 승낙하다, 동의하다 |
| biological 형용사 | /ˌbaɪ.əˈlɑ.d͡ʒɪ.kəl/ | 생물학의 |
| horrible 형용사 | /ˈhɔɹ.ɪ.bəl/ | 끔찍하다 |
| drag 동사 | /dɹæɡ/ | 끌다 |
| adopt 동사 | /əˈdɑpt/ | 입양하다 |
| selfish 형용사 | /ˈsɛlf.ɪʃ/ | 이기적(利己的)이다, 자기 본위(自己本位)의 |
| topic 명사 | /ˈtɑpɪk/ | 화제, 주제 |
| gene 명사 | /d͡ʒiːn/ | 유전자 |
| pregnancy 명사 | /ˈpɹɛɡnənsi/ | 임신 |
| lonely 형용사 | /ˈloʊnli/ | 외롭다, 고독하다 |
| instinct 명사 | /ˈɪn.stɪŋkt/ | 본능 |
| malaria 명사 | /məˈlɛəɹi.ə/ | 말라리아, 학질 |
| sadden 동사 | /ˈsædən/ | 슬프게 하다 |
영상에 나오는 구동사
| 단어 | 뜻 |
|---|---|
| pick up 동사 | 줍다 |
따라 말해 볼 만한 문장
영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:
- I feel like you're on another planet.
- Nothing's stopping me like I could do it.
- We don't agree but I enjoyed it.
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | you've done · You've dragged · you've never ever felt |
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | be born · could be hit · was never born |
| 관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보 | anyone who thinks · anyone who has · someone who exists |
| “should” 조언 should + 동사 — 하는 것이 좋은 일을 말할 때 | should have · should not act · shouldn't have |
주의할 발음
화자는 I'm, you've, you're 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 45번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: biological /ˌbaɪ.əˈlɑ.d͡ʒɪ.kəl/, malaria /məˈlɛəɹi.ə/, negativity /ˌnɛɡ.əˈtɪ.vɪ.ti/, vasectomy /vəˈsɛktəmi/
한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:
- /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: selfish /ˈsɛlf.ɪʃ/, confront /kənˈfɹʌnt/, frustrate /ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/
- /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: negativity /ˌnɛɡ.əˈtɪ.vɪ.ti/, vasectomy /vəˈsɛktəmi/
- /r/과 /l/ 구별하기: horrible /ˈhɔɹ.ɪ.bəl/, malaria /məˈlɛəɹi.ə/, triplet /ˈtɹɪplət/
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- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
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- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, consent, biological, horrible 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
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