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one of the things that i've realized is that people that are self-reflective
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that rely on cerebral horsepower that pay attention
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that think in a detailed way the more nuanced
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that you're thinking is the fewer people are going to be like you
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which makes you feel more alone how do you think people can overcome this
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well i would say that hasn't been my experience exactly
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because as i started to make my thoughts more public they seem to appeal to more
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and more people and so i don't know if that's a threshold phenomena
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because maybe it is you know as you start to become specialized as a scientist
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in some sense your vision narrows
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and narrows although it gets more high resolution at the level
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that you're operating
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but you kind of pass through a needle let's say out
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the other side where the thing you're studying starts to become everything again
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and so maybe that's maybe that's that developmental progression further more yeah specialization and then generalization again yeah
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yeah i think that you might be right there the deeper into the breach thing the show
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that i went to go and see you do in Manchester in 2017 or 18, someone asked a question about the depth of my consciousness causes me to suffer.
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And you said you take more of the thing
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that poisons you until you turn it into a tonic that girdles the world around you.
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And I think that this is something you see here as well, that when you start to think differently, when you start to consider the way that you're living your life in a more detailed,
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higher resolution, more unique, more nuanced way, you will probably receive pushback, especially, you know, speaking from personal experience,
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the normal working class towns, people born, live, die in these places.
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It's insular.
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There isn't a huge culture of, especially in the UK, tall poppy syndrome is a huge problem.
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The biggest difference that I've noticed actually between American people
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and English people is that American children are told that they can be anything that they want to be.
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They're told that they have blue sky vision, they can achieve whatever they want.
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And that gives them a lot of confidence.
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When us Brits, stuffy, stiff-up-a-lipped Brits, see Americans on TV, it sounds like everyone's had media training because everybody's just so enthused about whatever it is,
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even if it's an 18-car pileup.
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And then the equivalent in the UK is that deviating from the norm is very, very, very quickly mocked.
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There's a lot of that in Canada too.
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Tall poppy syndrome.
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It's a big deal.
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now the japanese have that saying too except it's the nail
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that sticks up above all the rest is the first one to be struck down by the hammer
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and there's some truth in that too there's some truth in
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that but some and all are very different words
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when you roll the clock forward what you end up with is american children
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that then become adults who look around at the world and say well hang on, this wasn't what I was promised.
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I was told that I could be anything that I wanted to be.
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I was told that I could have anything that I wanted to have.
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There's a difference between you can earn everything that is earnable and you deserve everything there is.
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So that message can become what you say.
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It can become misinterpreted in a narcissistic manner.
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And I think that has happened to some degree, especially as people have had fewer and fewer children.
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And Jonathan Haidt and Luke Yenoff talk about the coddling of the American mind,
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and they think about that in large part as a consequence of an ideological transformation.
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And some of that's true, but it's also useful to look at more fundamental phenomena.
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People have children when they're a lot older.
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They have way fewer children.
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They have way more resources when they have children on average.
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You know, if you're one kid of eight, you're pretty much battling it out for attention, for a very finite amount of parental attention with a lot of intense competition.
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And the probability that you're going to come out of
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that entitled and narcissistic is pretty damn low because your siblings will definitely punish you for that.
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But if you're the only child, especially of older parents who are also more conservative
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because of their age and also less willing to take chances with you because there's only one of you
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and then you have a lot of resources at your disposal well that's a whole different
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that's a whole different developmental milieu and we have no idea what the consequences of
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that are but the idea that children in
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that circumstance are more likely to be over protected and dependent
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and structured it's like well yeah undoubtedly and you know that
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that would even be an over abundance of parental virtue in some sense right well we just did nothing
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but pay attention to our child okay
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but too much what did you expect it's so strange
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because i'm an only child right
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and all of the well maybe my friends might say differently uh
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but a lot of the commonly held presumptions around only children i just
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and i have a couple of friends who are as well and I don't know whether it's where we're from, that the northeast of the UK is very spit and sawdust, it's salt of the earth people,
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it's, you know, grab your bootstraps and your boots and start pulling.
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And I just haven't seen that.
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What is it through your clinical practice?
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This might not be a primarily working class phenomena, you know, the coddled mind phenomena.
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That could easily be a middle class, an upper phenomena.
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Is there something, was there a common trend or from your reading, have you found that only children tend to be one way or another?
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No, no. So you just get huge variants in them as well?
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I don't know the answer to that at the level of individual psychological data.
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There might be a literature, I'm not aware of it.
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For me, that was more a response to Height's book on the coddled mind.
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I thought, okay, fair enough.
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Coddling of the American mind.
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What's driving this?
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It's not just ideas.
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It's a huge demographic switch.
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It's a huge transformation in the way we raise children.
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We're 10 years older when we have our children now.
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That's a lot older.
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You know, when you're 18 and you have a kid, you're still a kid.
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And there's some wildness that's perhaps not so good about that.
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But there's also perhaps a higher proclivity to go off and live your own life.
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And then, you know, how much should your children be left on their own?
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The answer is as much as they can tolerate.
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And how much is that?
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Well, you find out with each child, but it's certainly possible to not deprive your child enough.
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What's happening, people?
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Peace.
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영상에서 가장 어려운 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| phenomenon 명사 | /fəˈnɒm.ɪ.nən/ | 현상 |
| nuance 명사 | /ˈnjuː.ɑːns/ | 뉘앙스 |
| poppy 명사 | /ˈpɑpi/ | 양귀비 |
| consequence 명사 | /ˈkɑn.sɪ.kwəns/ | 결과 |
| horsepower 명사 | /ˈhɔɹsˌpaʊɚ/ | 마력 |
| insular 형용사 | /ˈɪnsəlɚ/ | 섬의 |
| milieu 명사 | /mɪlˈju/ | 사회환경 |
| stuffy 형용사 | /ˈstʌfi/ | 답답하다 |
| wildness 명사 | /ˈwaɪld.nəs/ | 야성 |
| sibling 명사 | /ˈsɪb.lɪŋ/ | 형제, 형제자매 |
| circumstance 명사 | /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/ | 상황 |
| ideological 형용사 | /ˌaɪ.di.əˈlɑ.d͡ʒɪ.kəl/ | 이데올로기에 관한 |
| variant 명사 | /ˈvæɹi.ənt/ | 변체, 변종 |
| tolerate 동사 | /ˈtɑ.lə.ɹeɪt/ | 참는다 |
| spit 동사 | /spɪt/ | 침을뱉다, 뱉다 |
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | are told · be struck · was promised |
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | i've realized · hasn't been · I've noticed |
주의할 발음
화자는 you're, don't, I'm 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 26번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “th” 소리: enthuse /ɛnˈθjuːz/, threshold /ˈθɹɛʃ(h)oʊld/, northeast /noːˈθɪjst/
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: presumption /pɹɪˈzʌmp.ʃən/, specialization [ˌspɛʃəlaɪ̯ˈzeɪ̯ʃn̩], specialize /ˈspɛʃəˌlaɪz/, progression /pɹəˈɡɹɛʃən/, punish /ˈpʌnɪʃ/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: phenomenon /fəˈnɒm.ɪ.nən/, narcissistic /ˌnɑɹ.sɪˈsɪs.tɪk/, developmental /dɪˌvɛləpˈmɛntəl/, misinterpret /ˌmɪs.ɪnˈtɜː.pɹɪt/, proclivity /pɹəʊˈklɪvɪti/
한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:
- /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: phenomenon /fəˈnɒm.ɪ.nən/, stuffy /ˈstʌfi/, reflective /ɹɪˈflɛktɪv/, finite /ˈfaɪ.naɪt/, stiff /stɪf/
- /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: developmental /dɪˌvɛləpˈmɛntəl/, deprive /dɪˈpɹaɪv/, deviate /ˈdiː.vi.eɪt/, proclivity /pɹəʊˈklɪvɪti/, reflective /ɹɪˈflɛktɪv/
- /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: enthuse /ɛnˈθjuːz/, presumption /pɹɪˈzʌmp.ʃən/, specialization [ˌspɛʃəlaɪ̯ˈzeɪ̯ʃn̩], specialize /ˈspɛʃəˌlaɪz/, disposal /dɪsˈpoʊ.zəl/
이 영상으로 연습하는 방법
- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
- 0.75배속으로 한 문장씩 섀도잉을 시작하고, 익숙해지면 보통 속도로 돌아갑니다.
- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, phenomenon, nuance, poppy 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
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