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Okay, so the other day I got a question on Snapchat and someone asked me like,
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Hey Liz, how do I make this guy obsessed with me?
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And then I was like, you know what?
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I'm gonna make a YouTube video about this because the goal shouldn't be that this guy is obsessed with you.
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The goal should be that you are obsessed with yourself.
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When you are obsessed with yourself,
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other people naturally become obsessed with you.
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It is how it is.
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The thing here is you can't make people obsessed with you.
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The only way people become obsessed with you is because they see that you are investing time in yourself.
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They see that you're investing money in yourself.
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They see that you are loving yourself.
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And because people lack that, people lack self-love.
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People lack that confidence in themselves.
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So when they look at you,
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they want to be around you.
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They want to be with you or be you.
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Because you are what they don't have.
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If you really want to know how to make people obsessed with you,
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it's all about you.
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It's about you, honey, about no one else.
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Like the minute people see that you are going after your passions,
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that you are taking care of yourself,
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that you are literally leveling up in every area of your life,
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that's the minute that people will gravitate towards you.
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That's the minute that people on a higher vibration will also gravitate towards you.
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You cannot attract high vibrating people when you're vibrating low.
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It's not even about your circumstances,
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you know, maybe you are at a lower position than that person,
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but your vibration is high.
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You're positive.
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You're visualizing things for yourself.
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Then you're also vibing high and then you can attract those high vibrational people.
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But if you're negative, if you're in a poor state of mind and you think,
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oh, nothing is working out for me.
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I can't have that.
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That's for lucky people.
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That's for people that can have it, blah, blah, blah.
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You will also not attract that.
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So first of all, you need to get that mindset right.
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You wanna be someone that people are obsessed with.
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Why would they be obsessed with you?
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If you're constantly sitting in your bedroom,
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being sad all day, listening to sad music,
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watching sad shows, then you're like,
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oh, people should be obsessed.
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Obsessed with what?
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With what, honey?
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What is there to be obsessed about?
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See, once you get that clear vision of yourself, right?
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That vision of what you feel like, you know what?
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If I was this kind of person of myself,
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I would be so obsessed with myself.
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If you get that clear vision,
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like what does she do?
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How does she act?
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Where does she go?
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Does she go to the gym or does she not go to the gym?
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What does she eat?
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How is her hairstyle?
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What clothes does she wear?
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How does she act?
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Who does she hang around with?
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Once you get that clear vision in your head and you start behaving like this person,
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even though you're not there yet,
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that's when you will attract the people that will help you get to
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that level and the people
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that will be quote-unquote obsessed with you the thing is once you are
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so invested in yourself and once you are
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so focused on your passions your goals and yourself
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and you're doing the things that you love
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so much i promise you you you don't even want people to be obsessed with you you don't need
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that you literally start to become like i really love life
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and i love myself you see this one like uh women
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or men they go through a breakup
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and they start like changing their lifestyle they start going to
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the gym they start looking better they start feeling better they
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make new friends then you see all of a sudden these people they don't care about their ex anymore
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and they're like you know what i don't even want them anymore
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because the person that we actually want is ourselves
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so it's all about energy right like for example a girl
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that walks into a room and is not caring about who she's gonna impress but she just cares about,
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oh, I'm going to have a lovely time with my friends.
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Those are the most attractive people.
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They are vibrating on a confident level.
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Their energy is confident.
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They're just there to be happy, have a great time.
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And you will see that most people will go to her instead of other people
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that are desperate
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and looking around like oh my god i hope someone likes
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me no the key to all your dreams the key to everything you want is you
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and once you start realizing this the faster you realize this
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the faster your life will start to fall into place i
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don't go into places thinking oh my god i hope they
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will like me whatever i don't care i don't care i
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like myself everywhere i walk into i like myself you have
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to be happy to get up in the morning like you have to find something
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that fulfills you like whether it's a passion whatever for me
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it's obviously like content it's like making youtube videos these type of stuff
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that fulfills me that makes me happy
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or waking up in the morning going to the gym making sure i look good like anything
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that makes me look good makes me happier makes me money
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that makes me happy that gives me passion for life
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so you have to find that as well because
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when you have no passions
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when you have nothing to literally get up for in the
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morning obviously you will not be attracted to attractive to other people
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if you want other people to be obsessed with you then
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they should think oh my god like i want to be a part of her life her life seems
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so much fun she seems
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so happy i want to be happy too like i want to get close to her
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so i can experience experience whatever she's experiencing
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but my love i promise you you being sad all day
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you not doing anything will not make anyone want to be a part of your life
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or want to be with you attracted to you obsessed with you it will not happen
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so honey what you should do now okay what we're gonna
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do you're gonna focus on becoming physically more attractive like whatever
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that is for you like literally think about okay what would
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the best version of me look like like think about
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that what is her best like hair color what is like
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how does her face look like what is it you know how does her body look look at the things
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that you can't change second we need to get that mind right
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so we need to get some therapy we need to start journaling whatever you need to do to get
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that mind right and to get that confidence up
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because that's all all a mental thing being hot is a mentality third we start looking for an activity
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that makes us want to get up in the morning you
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know like okay for example you go to work you hate
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your job whatever you can't fix it blah blah after your
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job what do you do what do you do for fun
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huh what do you do something like what is fun for you maybe you join a sport
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and you like that sport and then also
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that sport will help you to get your dream body
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so like oh my god that is two uh stones
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or something in one i don't know what
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that means then my baby girl we also start listening to affirmations
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that every day say oh my god you're beautiful you're attractive
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everyone wants you blah blah blah you start listening to these things we start rewiring our minds.
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And you also make sure you have a community.
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You have friends that uplift you,
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that make you feel better about yourself.
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You go out with them and then you go out to actually have fun.
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Go out to have fun.
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Don't go out to impress people.
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Don't go out to find someone.
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Go out to have fun.
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And then you will see everyone will radiate towards you because your energy is different.
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If you guys start to understand that everything in life is about energy,
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I'm telling you, your life will completely change.
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And then, my love, at the end,
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the guy will be sending me a message asking me,
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hi, Liz, how do I make this girl obsessed with me?
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Because he can see, oh my God,
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this girl is literally so confident.
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She's looking so amazing.
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She literally is living the best life ever.
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I want to be a part of that.
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I want her.
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I want her and I will do everything i can to get her
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so yeah my love this is my answer to your question i hope you liked it
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and i love you guys i love you guys so much
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and yeah i see you in the next video love you bye
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Woordenschat en spreektips bij deze les
Deze spreekles op niveau B2 is gebaseerd op de video “How to make someone obsessed with you”. Deze woorden komen het vaakst terug: obsessed, blah, whatever. Deze video bevat 161 zinnen en 1568 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 7:57. De spreker praat snel, ongeveer 197 woorden per minuut, dus reken op verbonden en ingeslikte klanken. 90% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden, dus de woordenschat is goed te volgen.
Belangrijke woorden in deze video
De 13 moeilijkste woorden uit de video, met uitspraak en betekenis:
| Woord | Uitspraak | Betekenis |
|---|---|---|
| obsess werkwoord | /əbˈsɛs/ | obsederen |
| vibrate werkwoord | /ˈvaɪ.bɹeɪt/ | trillen |
| fulfill werkwoord | /fʊlˈfɪl/ | vervullen |
| impress werkwoord | /ɪmˈpɹɛs/ | imponeren, indruk maken |
| hairstyle zelfstandig naamwoord | kapsel, coiffure | |
| visualize werkwoord | /ˈvɪʒuəˌlaɪz/ | visualiseren |
| breakup zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈbɹeɪk.ʌp/ | relatiebreuk |
| circumstance zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/ | omstandigheid |
| mentality zelfstandig naamwoord | /mɛnˈtæləti/ | mentaliteit |
| mindset zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈmaɪn(d)ˌsɛt/ | mentaliteit, ingelsteldheid |
| vibe zelfstandig naamwoord | /vaɪb/ | vibraties |
| behave werkwoord | /bɪˈheɪv/ | zich gedragen |
| cloth zelfstandig naamwoord | /klɒθ/ | doek, kleed |
Zinnen om te herhalen
Korte, volledige zinnen uit de video die je in alledaagse gesprekken kunt gebruiken:
- They see that you're investing money in yourself.
- Because you are what they don't have.
- It's about you, honey, about no one else.
- You're visualizing things for yourself.
- Why would they be obsessed with you?
Uitspraak om op te letten
De spreker gebruikt 41 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals you're, don't, can't. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.
- De klanken “sh” en “zh”: vibration /vaɪˈbɹeɪʃən/, affirmation /æfɝˈmeɪʃn/, visualize /ˈvɪʒuəˌlaɪz/
Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:
- Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: visualize /ˈvɪʒuəˌlaɪz/, vibe /vaɪb/, behave /bɪˈheɪv/
- /æ/ — opener dan de Nederlandse “e”: gravitate /ˈɡɹævɪteɪt/, affirmation /æfɝˈmeɪʃn/, circumstance /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/, mentality /mɛnˈtæləti/
Zo oefen je met deze video
- Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
- Begin op 0,75× snelheid, spreek zin voor zin na en ga terug naar normale snelheid zodra het makkelijk gaat.
- Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als obsess, vibrate, fulfill.
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