Shadowing Practice: How to make someone obsessed with you - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Okay, so the other day I got a question on Snapchat and someone asked me like,
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Hey Liz, how do I make this guy obsessed with me?
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And then I was like, you know what?
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I'm gonna make a YouTube video about this because the goal shouldn't be that this guy is obsessed with you.
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The goal should be that you are obsessed with yourself.
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When you are obsessed with yourself,
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other people naturally become obsessed with you.
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It is how it is.
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The thing here is you can't make people obsessed with you.
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The only way people become obsessed with you is because they see that you are investing time in yourself.
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They see that you're investing money in yourself.
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They see that you are loving yourself.
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And because people lack that, people lack self-love.
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People lack that confidence in themselves.
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So when they look at you,
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they want to be around you.
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They want to be with you or be you.
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Because you are what they don't have.
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If you really want to know how to make people obsessed with you,
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it's all about you.
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It's about you, honey, about no one else.
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Like the minute people see that you are going after your passions,
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that you are taking care of yourself,
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that you are literally leveling up in every area of your life,
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that's the minute that people will gravitate towards you.
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That's the minute that people on a higher vibration will also gravitate towards you.
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You cannot attract high vibrating people when you're vibrating low.
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It's not even about your circumstances,
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you know, maybe you are at a lower position than that person,
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but your vibration is high.
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You're positive.
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You're visualizing things for yourself.
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Then you're also vibing high and then you can attract those high vibrational people.
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But if you're negative, if you're in a poor state of mind and you think,
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oh, nothing is working out for me.
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I can't have that.
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That's for lucky people.
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That's for people that can have it, blah, blah, blah.
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You will also not attract that.
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So first of all, you need to get that mindset right.
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You wanna be someone that people are obsessed with.
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Why would they be obsessed with you?
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If you're constantly sitting in your bedroom,
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being sad all day, listening to sad music,
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watching sad shows, then you're like,
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oh, people should be obsessed.
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Obsessed with what?
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With what, honey?
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What is there to be obsessed about?
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See, once you get that clear vision of yourself, right?
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That vision of what you feel like, you know what?
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If I was this kind of person of myself,
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I would be so obsessed with myself.
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If you get that clear vision,
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like what does she do?
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How does she act?
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Where does she go?
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Does she go to the gym or does she not go to the gym?
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What does she eat?
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How is her hairstyle?
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What clothes does she wear?
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How does she act?
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Who does she hang around with?
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Once you get that clear vision in your head and you start behaving like this person,
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even though you're not there yet,
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that's when you will attract the people that will help you get to
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that level and the people
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that will be quote-unquote obsessed with you the thing is once you are
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so invested in yourself and once you are
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so focused on your passions your goals and yourself
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and you're doing the things that you love
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so much i promise you you you don't even want people to be obsessed with you you don't need
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that you literally start to become like i really love life
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and i love myself you see this one like uh women
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or men they go through a breakup
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and they start like changing their lifestyle they start going to
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the gym they start looking better they start feeling better they
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make new friends then you see all of a sudden these people they don't care about their ex anymore
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and they're like you know what i don't even want them anymore
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because the person that we actually want is ourselves
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so it's all about energy right like for example a girl
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that walks into a room and is not caring about who she's gonna impress but she just cares about,
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oh, I'm going to have a lovely time with my friends.
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Those are the most attractive people.
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They are vibrating on a confident level.
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Their energy is confident.
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They're just there to be happy, have a great time.
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And you will see that most people will go to her instead of other people
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that are desperate
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and looking around like oh my god i hope someone likes
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me no the key to all your dreams the key to everything you want is you
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and once you start realizing this the faster you realize this
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the faster your life will start to fall into place i
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don't go into places thinking oh my god i hope they
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will like me whatever i don't care i don't care i
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like myself everywhere i walk into i like myself you have
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to be happy to get up in the morning like you have to find something
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that fulfills you like whether it's a passion whatever for me
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it's obviously like content it's like making youtube videos these type of stuff
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that fulfills me that makes me happy
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or waking up in the morning going to the gym making sure i look good like anything
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that makes me look good makes me happier makes me money
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that makes me happy that gives me passion for life
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so you have to find that as well because
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when you have no passions
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when you have nothing to literally get up for in the
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morning obviously you will not be attracted to attractive to other people
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if you want other people to be obsessed with you then
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they should think oh my god like i want to be a part of her life her life seems
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so much fun she seems
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so happy i want to be happy too like i want to get close to her
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so i can experience experience whatever she's experiencing
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but my love i promise you you being sad all day
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you not doing anything will not make anyone want to be a part of your life
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or want to be with you attracted to you obsessed with you it will not happen
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so honey what you should do now okay what we're gonna
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do you're gonna focus on becoming physically more attractive like whatever
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that is for you like literally think about okay what would
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the best version of me look like like think about
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that what is her best like hair color what is like
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how does her face look like what is it you know how does her body look look at the things
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that you can't change second we need to get that mind right
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so we need to get some therapy we need to start journaling whatever you need to do to get
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that mind right and to get that confidence up
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because that's all all a mental thing being hot is a mentality third we start looking for an activity
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that makes us want to get up in the morning you
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know like okay for example you go to work you hate
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your job whatever you can't fix it blah blah after your
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job what do you do what do you do for fun
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huh what do you do something like what is fun for you maybe you join a sport
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and you like that sport and then also
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that sport will help you to get your dream body
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so like oh my god that is two uh stones
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or something in one i don't know what
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that means then my baby girl we also start listening to affirmations
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that every day say oh my god you're beautiful you're attractive
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everyone wants you blah blah blah you start listening to these things we start rewiring our minds.
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And you also make sure you have a community.
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You have friends that uplift you,
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that make you feel better about yourself.
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You go out with them and then you go out to actually have fun.
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Go out to have fun.
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Don't go out to impress people.
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Don't go out to find someone.
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Go out to have fun.
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And then you will see everyone will radiate towards you because your energy is different.
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If you guys start to understand that everything in life is about energy,
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I'm telling you, your life will completely change.
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And then, my love, at the end,
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the guy will be sending me a message asking me,
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hi, Liz, how do I make this girl obsessed with me?
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Because he can see, oh my God,
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this girl is literally so confident.
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She's looking so amazing.
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She literally is living the best life ever.
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I want to be a part of that.
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I want her.
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I want her and I will do everything i can to get her
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so yeah my love this is my answer to your question i hope you liked it
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and i love you guys i love you guys so much
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and yeah i see you in the next video love you bye
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “How to make someone obsessed with you”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: obsessed, blah, whatever. בסרטון הזה יש 161 משפטים ו-1568 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 7:57. הדובר מדבר מהר, כ-197 מילים בדקה, אז צפו לצלילים מחוברים ומקוצרים. 90% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית, כך שקל לעקוב אחרי אוצר המילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
9 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| vibration שם עצם | /vaɪˈbɹeɪʃən/ | תנודה, ריטוט |
| fulfill פועל | /fʊlˈfɪl/ | קִיֵּם |
| affirmation שם עצם | /æfɝˈmeɪʃn/ | חיווי, הצהרה |
| hairstyle שם עצם | תסרוקת \ תִּסְרֹקֶת | |
| radiate פועל | /ˈɹeɪdieɪt/ | קָרַן |
| unquote | סוף ציטוט | |
| circumstance שם עצם | /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/ | נסיבות |
| behave פועל | /bɪˈheɪv/ | הִתְנַהֵג |
| cloth שם עצם | /klɒθ/ | בַּד |
משפטים שכדאי לחזור עליהם
משפטים קצרים ושלמים מהסרטון שאפשר להשתמש בהם בשיחה יומיומית:
- They see that you're investing money in yourself.
- Because you are what they don't have.
- It's about you, honey, about no one else.
- You're visualizing things for yourself.
- Why would they be obsessed with you?
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
|---|---|
| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | be obsessed · should be obsessed · will not be attracted |
| משפטי זיקה (Relative clauses) who / which + clause — מידע נוסף על אדם או דבר | people that can · people that will |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-41 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו you're, don't, can't. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: vibration /vaɪˈbɹeɪʃən/, affirmation /æfɝˈmeɪʃn/, visualize /ˈvɪʒuəˌlaɪz/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: gravitate /ˈɡɹævɪteɪt/, affirmation /æfɝˈmeɪʃn/, circumstance /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/, mentality /mɛnˈtæləti/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: vibrate /ˈvaɪ.bɹeɪt/, gravitate /ˈɡɹævɪteɪt/, vibration /vaɪˈbɹeɪʃən/, impress /ɪmˈpɹɛs/, radiate /ˈɹeɪdieɪt/
- עיצור קולי בסוף מילה — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ בלי להפוך אותם לאטומים: visualize /ˈvɪʒuəˌlaɪz/, vibe /vaɪb/, behave /bɪˈheɪv/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו vibration, fulfill, affirmation.
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