Shadowing Practice: Know Yourself and You Stop Needing Approval | Know Thyself #shorts - Learn English Speaking with Video

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And here's the most important thing.
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If you know yourself, if you know your intentions, you don't care what other people think.
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It's only when you're not comfortable in your own skin that you're looking for validation outside of you.
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I don't need to explain myself to anybody.
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I know exactly who I am.
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So I don't spend any time trying to change what people think about me, because I know I can't anyway.
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Learning how to be yourself in every room you walk in, that is a skill, and that is what gives you peace.
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And when you stop seeking validation from other people because you know yourself, holy cat, you're untouchable.

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This speaking lesson is built on the video “Know Yourself and You Stop Needing Approval”. This video has 8 sentences and 113 words to shadow. The speech runs for 0:37. The speaker talks fast, about 183 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds.

Key vocabulary in this video

12 words from the video worth learning, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
validation noun/ˌvæl.əˈdeɪ.ʃən/The act of validating something.
skill noun/skɪl/A capacity to do something well; a technique, an ability, usually acquired or learned, as opposed to abilities that are regarded as innate.
intentions noun/ɪnˈtɛnʃənz/Desire to court, marry, date, woo or sleep with someone.
untouchable noun/ʌnˈtʌtʃəbəl/A criminal who is so well-connected that they cannot be harmed.
comfortable adjective/ˈkʌm(p)f.tə.bəl/Providing physical comfort and ease; agreeable.
seek verb/ˈsiːk/To try to find; to look for; to search for.
anybody/ˈɛn.i.bə.di/Any one out of an indefinite number of persons; anyone; any person.
spend verb/spɪnd/To pay out (money).
anyway adverb/ˈɛniweɪ/Regardless; anyhow.
skin noun/skɪn/The outer protective layer of the body of any animal, including of a human.
explain verb/ɪkˈspleɪn/To make plain, manifest, or intelligible; to clear of obscurity; to illustrate the meaning of.
holy adjective/ˈhoʊli/Dedicated to a religious purpose or a god.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Superlatives the -est / the most … — the top or bottom of a groupthe most important
Verb + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — verbs that are followed by the -ing formstop seeking
Present continuous am/is/are + -ing — something happening right now or around nowyou're looking
Obligation: must / have to / need to saying that something is necessaryneed to explain

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 7 contractions and reduced forms, such as don't, you're, can't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The “sh” and “zh” sounds: validation /ˌvæl.əˈdeɪ.ʃən/, intentions /ɪnˈtɛnʃənz/
  • Long words — get the stress right: validation /ˌvæl.əˈdeɪ.ʃən/, untouchable /ʌnˈtʌtʃəbəl/, anybody /ˈɛn.i.bə.di/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like validation, skill, intentions.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

Shadowing technique: read the full step-by-step guide →