Shadowing Practice: When Your Deadbeat Mom Moves Back In | Mom - Learn English Speaking with Video

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Hi, I'm Greg.
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May I take your order?
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Hi, Greg.
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I'm Bonnie, and this is my daughter, Christy.
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Hi.
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She and I haven't spoken in a couple of years, so this is kind of a big moment for us.
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Oh, for God's sake.
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What can you recommend for a mother and daughter who are reconnecting after a long, angry silence?
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Um, pie?
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Mom, please, just order.
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Is the mint tea decaffeinated?
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Yes.
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Do you promise?
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If I have caffeine after two, my sleep is ruined.
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I promise.
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Okay, Greg, but if I wake up in the middle of the night, I'm calling you.
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Well, I'll give you my number.
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Um, and for you, we have a lovely selection of local wines.
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I'll have a bottle of each and a funnel.
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She's kidding.
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We're both in Alcoholics Anonymous.
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Mom, it's Alcoholics Anonymous, not Alcoholics Tell Your Waiter.
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Water is fine.
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Here, take this knife away from me.
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So, when were you going to tell me you quit drinking?
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Well, I was afraid if I'd call you, I'd just start again.
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Not that you care, but I have two years clean and sober myself.
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You're right.
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I don't care.
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Well, regardless, it has really changed my life.
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I have a steady job.
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I exercise.
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I'm in a book club.
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I have become the kind of woman I've always hated.
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It is nice to see you wearing underwear.
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And not on your head.
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Here we go.
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Oh, Greg, honey, can I trouble you for some water without ice?
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Ice isn't good for my digestive system.
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Yeah, of course.
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Really?
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Ice?
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I think your digestive system has seen worse than ice.
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Excuse me?
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Mom, I've watched you lick cocaine crumbs out of a shag carpet.
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It's not a sin to be thrifty, dear.
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Okay, here we go.
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Now, I hope that you're being nice to your mother.
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Go away, Greg.
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Right.
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Whoa, whoa.
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You know, just because you're sober doesn't mean you can't take a Xanax.
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Actually, Mom, it sort of does.
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Really?
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Maybe I don't have two years.
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And I don't need a Xanax.
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I'm doing great.
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Well, that's funny, because your daughter says you're hanging on by your fingernails and sleeping with your boss.
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Wait, when do you talk to Violet?
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We talk all the time.
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And we're Facebook friends.
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I don't want her talking to you.
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Well, she has to talk to somebody.
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She's sexually active, drinking, smoking grass.
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Sound familiar?
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You're making this about me?
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No, it's okay.
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I have come to understand that you were the best daughter you could be.
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My job is to forgive you, which I do.
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Oh, my God.
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You forgive me?
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I've come a long way.
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Excuse me, but if anybody needs to be forgiven, it's you, and I don't, and I never will.
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There's hardly a day I can remember that I didn't come home to an empty house.
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Oh, don't be so dramatic.
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While other mothers were cooking dinner, you were cooking meth.
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Otherwise known as working.
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I don't want you in my life.
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And while you're at it, stay away from my daughter.
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She may need a better role model than me, but it's certainly not you. Is, uh, everything okay?
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My daughter doesn't get me.
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Oh, I'm sorry.
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What time do you get off work?
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I could use a lap to cry on.
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It's not the first time I've done a pregnancy test, Mom.
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Really?
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And why'd you make me read all those instructions?
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Not important?
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Let her rip.
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Can I have some privacy, please?
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Sure.
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Violet, I just want you to know that if it turns out you are pregnant, I will support you no matter what you decide to do.
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Thank you.
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What do you think you're going to do?
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What?
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You know, which way are you leaning?
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I don't know.
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Get out.
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Okay, sorry.
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You know, when I found out I was pregnant with you, home pregnancy tests took about 20 minutes.
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Uh-huh.
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Now it's two minutes.
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That's progress.
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Yay, science.
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I guess.
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I mean, it's good news for you because the nervous waiting time is less.
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Mom, I can't do this if you're talking to me.
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right sure p-shy runs in the family oh sorry oh good girl
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hello hi what's the word she's doing the test now we'll know in a couple minutes wow gulp
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yeah when i was pregnant with you those home kits took like two hours Really?
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It's a long wait in a gas station bathroom.
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Bonnie, is that you?
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Yeah, honey.
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Can you come in? Of course.
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Why does your grandmother get to go in and I don't?
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Because she won't lecture me.
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I don't lecture.
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I share my experiences in the hope that you'll have a better life than I had.
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And frankly, I think you could be a little more grateful.
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Good, I'm coming in.
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What's it say?
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What's it say?
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Nothing yet.
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Oh, God, oh, God.
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I know, it's so exciting.
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I'm glad you're excited.
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I'm scared to death.
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Hey, don't you worry.
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I'm gonna be here for you whenever you need me, 24-7.
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Thanks, Bonnie.
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I'm gonna be here for you, too.
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That's your job, Mom.
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Oh, here we go, showtime.
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Okay.
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Oh.
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You doing all right?
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I don't know.
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Excuse me.
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I can't believe this.
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Hey, you have to take some of the responsibility for this pregnancy.
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Are you kidding?
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We had the talk.
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I told her about abstinence, condoms, everything.
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Did you mention oral sex as a workaround?
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Oh, my God, it is my fault.
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Oh, hi.
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Is Christy here?
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Who might be asking?
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Um, I work with her.
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Oh, you must be her boss.
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I am.
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You leave your wife yet?
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No. Then I have no choice but to inform you that she is out on a date with a wealthy, educated, eligible bachelor who's got a cannon between his legs.
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Your mom's not a fan.
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By focusing on the positive, I attract only the best to my life.
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You're focusing on the positive.
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Oh, my God! Are you okay?
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I think you brought my foot.
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It made me my nose.
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Sorry, sorry.
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Okay, don't move.
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I'm going to call an ambulance.
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No, wait!
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My wife can't know all my fear.
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Okay, well, um, let's get you in the car and I'll take you to the emergency room Oh,
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oh, careful Careful It, uh, hurts pretty bad, huh?
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It's awful Well, then, this probably isn't a great time to say this but,
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um, I don't think we should see each other anymore Wait, you're breaking up with me?
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Why?
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Well, I...
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I found out something about myself tonight.
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Um, I deserve to be in a relationship with a man who I can hit with my car and,
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you know, not feel like I did something wrong.
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Okay.
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Uh, I'm not sure what that means, but...
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What?
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What?
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There's a fork in my ass.
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Knocky-knocky.
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Hi.
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How's your little boss?
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I broke his leg and his nose.
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Admit it.
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It felt pretty good, didn't it?
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No. I don't know.
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A little bit.
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I got you a gift.
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Thanks.
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What's the occasion?
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Well, I know you don't feel ready to date for a while.
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I thought this might put a little spring in your step.
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What is it?
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Thank you You mind finishing the dishes?
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My pleasure I am such a good mother God,
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I hate this part Just be cool I can barely walk with all the crap you've taped to my thighs.
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There's another place to hide it, but you're too dainty.
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I told you that's exit only.
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Next, please.
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No. Welcome back to the United States.
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Is your trip for business or pleasure?
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Pleasure.
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Business.
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The point is we're thrilled to be back.
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God bless America, home of our ancestors And the birthplace of jazz Okay,
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whose bag is this?
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My mom's No, I'm pretty sure that's yours, honey See, it's got your name tag right on it Yeah, but that's not my bag Well,
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it certainly ain't mine, muchacha Well, what do we have here?
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Christine How could you?
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What?
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This is not my bag, and I've never seen that before.
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Oh, sweetheart, did prison teach you nothing?
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I've never been to prison.
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Look, I don't want to tell you how to do your job, but check her thighs.
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Their street value is $80,000.
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Mom!
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What?
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You sold me out to the feds.
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Oh, honey.
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Are you drinking again?
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No, I just dreamt that you and I were smuggling drugs from Mexico, and when it went bad, you made me take the fall.
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Oh, how awful.
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It is.
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You know, when you were a little girl and had a bad dream, I let you crawl in bed with me until you felt safe.
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You did?
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I did But now you're a fully grown crazy person So I'm just gonna hang up Mom?
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Mom?
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Of all the things to yell at my mother for I had to pick the one that didn't happen
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Hi, Mom.
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Hello.
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Thanks for meeting me.
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Oh, sure.
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Um, listen, I want to apologize for yelling at you the other day.
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Mm-hmm.
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That's it?
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That's all you're gonna say?
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Mm-hmm.
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Mm-hmm.
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Anyway, I feel terrible.
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Just terrible?
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What do you mean?
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Well, I would think you'd feel ashamed as well.
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Okay, ashamed.
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Maybe a little dopey.
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Dopey, Doc, and Sneezy.
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Are we good?
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I came in here good.
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Whatever.
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Let's just eat.
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Lunch is on me.
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It's my way of showing I'm letting go of my anger.
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That's very generous of you.
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Of course, if I were flush with cash, I might buy my pregnant daughter new jeans, but you're doing some tough love thing.
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I get it.
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You talked to Violet?
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She tweeted it.
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And did you defend me?
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Nope, I just retweeted and moved on.
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Right there.
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That's where my dream comes from.
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You never, ever have my back.
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You always put your needs ahead of mine.
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Oh, I certainly hope the salmon is more satisfying than your apology.
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Don't growl, sweetheart.
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It's not for your lady night.
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That's my side.
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I'm a guest.
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I don't care.
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Move over.
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How's the train wreck?
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I don't know.
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Point is, we're doing a good deed.
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Assuming she doesn't melt down and try to kill us in our sleep.
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Why would you say that?
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I was kidding.
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Okay.
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Good night.
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Good night.
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Good night.
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You know, if we were roomies, we could do this every night.
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Uh-huh.
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Of course, if I moved in, I'd want to shooj up the place a little.
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What's wrong with it?
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Eh, it likes shooj.
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It's shoojless.
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Well, I think it's homey.
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Yeah, you also think you can catch a man with sweatpants.
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Christy?
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Ugh.
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Come on in.
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Sorry to bother you.
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Oh, no worries.
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What's up?
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I'm not going to be able to sleep until I tell somebody what's really going on.
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Okay.
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I saw a lesbo porn movie start just like this.
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I kind of got bigger problems than I let on.
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Financial problems.
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Ugh.
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No shame in that.
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My car just broke down.
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I can't afford to fix it.
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And I have credit card debt like you wouldn't believe.
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Really?
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How much?
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$19,000.
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You are so cute.
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Try $3.5 million.
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What?
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You know how I told you people trust me with their money?
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Yeah.
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They shouldn't.
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I embezzled from my clients.
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Why?
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What kind of question is that?
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What's the better question?
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How?
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Gotta be good at math and have a face people trust.
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And the dream dies.
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Anyway, the real reason I came here tonight was I think the police might be waiting for me at my house.
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It's all gonna be okay.
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How can you say that?
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Oh, not for you.
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I was kind of saying it to myself.
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What?
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I thought I was in trouble, but listening to you, I realized I have great problems.
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I love them.
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I love my problems.
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You don't?
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Yeah, I'm sorry.
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Tonight's about you.
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I just got excited.
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Go on.
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I don't know what I'm going to do.
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Well, whatever it is, you don't have to go through it alone.
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Thank you.
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Regina, wait.
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Come on.
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Snuggle in.
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Maybe I will.
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Isn't this a surprise?
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Hi, Mom.
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You know Marjorie from the meeting?
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Oh, I do.
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Marjorie?
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Bonnie.
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Would you like to join us?
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I'd like to join you, but I'll make the best of it.
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Marjorie has been giving me some really good relationship advice.
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Is that so?
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Why wouldn't you come to your own mother for that?
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The same reason I don't come to you for advice about beekeeping.
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You know nothing about it.
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For the record, I've had hundreds of successful relationships with men.
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The fact that you don't know what you just said is horrifying.
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What did I say?
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You know, these things aren't always judged on quantity.
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I was with one wonderful man for 30 years.
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And then he left you.
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He died.
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Spin it however you want.
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Marjorie's just trying to help me.
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Oh, I get it.
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You think she's wise because she's old.
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so what's your big advice well i told your daughter who came to me instead of you that
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if she really wants something meaningful with this guy she shouldn't
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have sex with him for at least three months i'm sorry that's not a joke
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No. Oh, come on.
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What if she waits three months and then finds out he can't deliver the goods?
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True intimacy doesn't depend on delivering the goods.
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Oh, Marjorie, you make me sad.
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Well, what does this guy say?
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Is he okay with taking it slow?
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He thinks it's a great idea.
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Flag on the play.
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What?
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Real men don't go slow.
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He's either lying, gay, or he's packing a gherkin.
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It's a little pickle.
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I know what it is!
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Just do yourself a favor.
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If you're going to wait, at least make sure there's something worth waiting for.
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Oh, what's she supposed to do?
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Ask him to whip it out?
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No. Show a little class, Marjorie. Do a drive-by.
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A drive-by?
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A drive-by.
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Or cruise by the general vicinity.
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send your knee on a fact-finding mission.
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Oh, God. Do you believe her?
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It's actually not bad advice.
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My late husband loved me, but, wow, there was not a lot to work with.
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Twerking the kerking.
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I just want to thank both of you for coming over so we can discuss the, uh...
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Child conceived in sin?
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You're right.
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I am the cool parent.
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Luke, did you learn nothing from your father's Bible class?
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I'm sorry, what?
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Bible class?
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Yes.
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Nathan is the head pastor at the Baptist Church in Santa Rosa.
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Oh, that's just hilarious.
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Right?
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I'm so sorry, Viola.
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All right, I just want to say that we've all really come to love your son, and I know that my daughter is crazy about him, so I'm sure there's a happy ending in here somewhere.
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If Viola just gave him a happy ending, we...
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Mom!
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I'm sorry.
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I'm about a quart low on the estrogen.
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You know what I'm talking about, right?
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Look, here's what's going to happen.
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All of this nonsense about these two kids getting married after high school is just that.
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Nonsense.
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It is not going to happen.
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Now, as far as the child is concerned, Luke will provide financial support if, in fact, it turns out to be his.
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What?
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Violet, I got this.
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What?
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We don't know for sure that our son is the only boy your little temptress has been with.
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Okay, buddy.
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Let's get something clear.
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See, I got this.
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Here's all you need to know about this family.
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With every generation, we are getting better.
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That's right.
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So, I may have been a drunken slut.
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She was.
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And my daughter may have been a drunken slut.
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Hang on a second.
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What?
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Never mind.
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Go on.
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But my granddaughter, this tender angel, she was pure as the driven snow until she smoked your son's weed,
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drank his tequila, and then made passionate love with him for about two minutes.
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Am I telling it right, honey?
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Yeah, sort of.
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So don't you take the high road with us, Pastor.
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I know your type.
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I have bedded my share of clergy.
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Mary, Luke, let's go.
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No. I love Violet, and I'm gonna stick by her for as long as she'll have me.
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Get in the car.
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I'll call you later.
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Hey, Pastor?
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I just want you to know, we're gonna raise the baby Jewish. And we're not Jews.
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Shalom, bitch!
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Hi, I'm Bonnie.
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I'm an alcoholic.
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Hi, Bonnie.
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I've been sober for...
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Oh, man, where's my watch?
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Well, not long.
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Anyway, I started drinking when I was 15, 16 years old.
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In the foster care system, getting bounced around from house to house.
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Teenage kids aren't real desirable.
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Especially when they steal your kitchen appliances.
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I met this really cool guy.
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Sold him a microwave at a flea market.
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We fell in love and ran off together.
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Had Christy, and he ran off alone. And I... And, uh...
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I tried to be a good single mom, but as we all know,
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I didn't exactly nail it. But I tried. And I'm still trying.
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but then this morning when I saw the look of disappointment on Christy's face it just
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reminded me of all the times that I let her down
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I gotta fix this I gotta fix this right now wait
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where are you going I gotta apologize to my baby Oh, yeah.
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Oh, damn.
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She took my key. Are we done?
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Can I go home?
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Oh, my halibut's not ready yet?
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Chef Rudy, what is going on?
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People are waiting 45 minutes for their entrees.
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It's cool.
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Is everyone in my life getting loaded?
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What the hell is going on in here?
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Ask Snoop Dogg and Dre.
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You're smoking dope?
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Yeah.
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You want a hit?
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Sure.
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Your halibut will be up in a minute.
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I brought you another glass of wine just for the halibut.
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There's my baby.
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Oh, my God.
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What are you doing here?
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I have been a terrible mother to you.
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Yeah, the worst.
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Why don't we talk about it at home?
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You need to know that I will never let you down again.
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I got it.
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Message received.
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I have to get back to work.
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No, you have worked enough.
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Let me lighten your load.
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It's not a load, Mom.
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It's...
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Hi, I'm Bonnie.
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I'll be your server.
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Why, you folks don't have any bread.
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Why don't I go get you some?
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Mom?
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Mom!
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Oh!
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Son of a bitch!
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This is good weed.
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I couldn't find any bread, so I brought you another candle.
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Come on, Bonnie.
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Time to go home.
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I can't.
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I'm working.
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Mom, please.
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Let's dance.
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You're gonna do fine in jail.
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9.30.
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9.30!
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Roscoe!
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Violet!
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Oh, we're late!
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Come on!
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You guys, wake up!
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Wake up!
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We're late!
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Come on!
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Roscoe!
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Violet!
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Let's go!
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Move!
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Move!
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Move!
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Can I get a little help here?
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I already drove Roscoe to school.
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Croissant?
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I don't have time for a croissant.
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God, Mom, what are you thinking?
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Wait.
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What?
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I took him to school so you could sleep in.
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Oh, did he eat?
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Yep, made him oatmeal.
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He doesn't like oatmeal.
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He likes mine.
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What about his homework?
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Did you check that he did it?
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Because he'll lie right to your face.
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Big smile, cross my heart, hope to die.
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It's creepy.
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I checked his homework, and don't worry, I've already made inquiries about a tutor.
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By the way, I took your car.
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Oh, Mom, I barely have enough gas in there to get to work.
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That's why I took it.
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I filled it up, got it washed, the oil light was on.
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Ugh, it's always on.
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Actually, it goes off when you put oil in it.
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Now sit down.
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I got you a latte at Starbucks.
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Double shot, not fat?
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Yep.
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Thanks.
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Oh, damn, Violet had a doctor's appointment this morning.
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I know.
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I made sure Luke got her there on time.
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She's gained three pounds.
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The baby's the size of an heirloom tomato.
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Okay.
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Good.
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Good.
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So let me understand this.
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You got up at, like, dawn.
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Wash, dressed, and fed Roscoe.
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Took him to school, serviced my car, made sure my daughter got to the obstetrician, and even managed to get me a latte and a croissant?
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It's the least I could do to pay back your generosity.
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Enjoy.
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I'm gonna get started on the laundry.
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Hmm.
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Why is this pissing me off?

Why Practice Speaking with This Video?

This video’s lively, real-world dialogue is perfect for honing your English speaking skills! It captures a tense but humorous reconnection between a mother and daughter, filled with everyday interactions—like ordering food, teasing, and sharing personal stories. Practicing with this conversation helps you master natural, conversational English that you’d use in cafes, family gatherings, or casual chats. Plus, the mix of emotion and humor makes it engaging, so you’ll stay motivated while improving your fluency. It’s a great fit for shadowing practice too—repeat the lines to mimic tone, pace, and expression, and watch your speaking confidence soar!

Grammar & Expressions in Context

Let’s break down key phrases that make this dialogue feel authentic:

  • “I was afraid if I’d call you, I’d just start again.” This uses the past continuous + conditional structure to express a past fear. It’s useful for sharing regrets or past concerns (e.g., “I was worried if I tried, I’d fail”).
  • “It is nice to see you wearing underwear.” The phrase “it is nice to see + [person] + [verb-ing]” is a playful way to comment on someone’s behavior. Swap “wearing underwear” for everyday actions: “It’s nice to see you cooking again!”
  • “Ice isn’t good for my digestive system.” “[X] isn’t good for [body part/system]” is a common way to explain preferences or health habits. Try: “Coffee isn’t good for my sleep” or “Sugar isn’t good for my energy.”

Common Pronunciation Traps

Improve English pronunciation by tackling these tricky words from the video:

  • “Decaffeinated” (dee-KAF-uh-nay-tid): Don’t rush the “kaf” sound—stress the second syllable. Practice saying it slowly: “dee-KAF-uh-nay-tid.”
  • “Digestive” (dye-JES-tiv): The “j” sound is soft, like “jelly.” Avoid pronouncing it as “die-GES-tiv”—focus on “dye-JES-tiv.”
  • “Thrifty” (THRIF-tee): The “th” sound is sharp (like “think”), not “f.” Say “THRIF-tee” to mean “careful with money.”

For extra practice, use a shadowing site or try shadow speech—repeat the lines right after the speakers, matching their rhythm and tone. Tools like shadowspeak make it easy to pause and replay, so you can nail each word. Learning English with videos like this turns practice into a fun activity, and before you know it, you’ll be speaking more naturally than ever!

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Conditional sentences if + clause, will/would + verb — a condition and its resultif I'd call you, I'd just · if I moved in, I'd want
Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters nowhaven't spoken · has really changed · have become
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itis ruined · aren't always judged · is concerned

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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