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And I think that word honor and respect, probably the last thing I'd say, I think we always say love is respect and based on respect, but...
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I wrote a list of things
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that I tried to be clear with myself about what it is I was really looking for and I really want.
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And one is someone that I can learn from.
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So it's really interesting that you said, learning without teaching, teaching without learning and that kind of reciprocal.
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I really want to be with someone that I can learn from.
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And I hope that, yeah, as you say, has the humility to be willing to learn from me.
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But the other thing is, I think it's why I was so obsessed with the musical Hamilton, why so many people have been.
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But like, maybe this is so funny that we're on the purpose podcast, but like, are you with someone who,
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because obviously what you have with someone is wonderful, right?
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Like what you two share together.
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But if you can be in service of a vision that you both share, or at the very least, are you willing to honour and give dignity to the work of the other person
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and whatever their vision or mission is in this world?
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That to me seems far more sustainable than anything else.
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And so I guess my big hope or wish would be
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that I met someone who feels like what I want to do in the world,
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yes, that I'm important, but they also feel that what I'm here to do is important to them too, and in some way intersects with what they're here to do.
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I couldn't agree more.
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That's exactly what I was going to say. Is it?
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Yeah, I think the word respect and relationships thrown around a lot, but this is the deepest form of respect where there's a famous quote that, I don't know who said it,
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but there's a, and I would, you know, you could take the genders out of it now, but there's a famous quote that says, men marry women hoping they'll never change.
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And women marry men hoping they can change them.
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And to me, wanting someone to never change
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or wanting to be able to change someone are both signs of disrespect
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because I think the greatest respect you can have is to respect what this person values in this moment
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and how that evolves.
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And that's their purpose, their offering, their values.
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And at no point are you trying to change them and i've talked about this often where
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my wife and i i do this exercise with couples
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when i'm working with them but i've also done it in our relationship
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and i ask people to rank their top three priorities in order wow
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and people do it privately and then they share them wow and so generally one person will put themselves first,
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their partner second, and then the kids third.
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And the other person will put the kids first, the partner second, and themselves third.
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And the person who put themselves third is always mad at the person who put themselves first because there's this friction of, well, wait a minute, how can you not put the kids first?
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Well, how can you not put family first or whatever it may be in your given situation?
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And the other person's like, well, if I don't put myself first, then what can I give to you all?
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And that kind of displays this dichotomy
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and this belief we have around love means complete sacrifice
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and love means self-sabotage to some degree or love means putting yourself aside.
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And the reality is actually, no, my goal is to make sure that you live your purpose and greatest vision of yourself.
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Yes.
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And your purpose is to help me do that.
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When we both do that, everything's...
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Then it's poetry.
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And my wife practiced that and she does it naturally.
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And it's hard to do that in a world
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that constantly reminds you both that sometimes the other person isn't where you are.
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Or, you know, the idea of why haven't you had kids yet?
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Or when are you going to be in the same country for longer than a month?
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Or whatever there may be, because it doesn't fit into the norm of what relationships look like.
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And I was thinking about
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that with you as well like you know i know you you talked about getting asked the question
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when are you getting married yeah why aren't you married yet yes
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and there's something every woman's hearing what's your reaction when you hear
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that i'm just so happy not to be divorced yet like
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that sounds like a really negative answer but i just like i think
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that we are we're being pressured and forced into this thing that I believe is a kind of miracle.
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I might never be worthy of it.
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I hope it happens to me, but I don't feel entitled to it.
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It will either be part of my purpose here and my destiny, or it won't.
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And I think the way we treat it as though, well, why haven't you?
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And this is something that has to happen in this certain
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time span
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and at a certain age in this kind of way is like the least romantic thing I can possibly think of.
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Like truly, like if I had tried to get married any point basically before about a year ago,
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it would have been carnage.
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I just didn't know myself well enough yet.
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I didn't have a clear enough idea of what my purpose, my vision, like how I was going to be of service.
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I didn't know where I really felt like I needed to be.
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I think I have some of those answers now.
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So when I meet someone, I can say, hi, I'm Emma.
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This is what I care about.
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This is where the people I love the most live.
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This is where it's meaningful for me to be in the world.
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And then they can decide whether they can see
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that there's a way that I can serve what they're trying to do and they can serve what I'm trying to do.
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But before that, they would have just got a very mixed signal.
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I mean, there's some parts of me that have stayed utterly consistent, but there are some parts that I was really still teasing out and figuring out.
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And I think it's such a violence and it's such a cruelty on people, and especially young people, I think,
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and especially women, to make them feel like they have no worth
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or like they haven't succeeded yet in life
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because they haven't forced to its culmination something that I just don't think can or should ever be forced.
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It's something that, honestly, I feel like I've had to earn, I've had to work for to be in a place where
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I feel like I can look someone in the eye and be able to tell them who I am.
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And to have some idea and it will change and grow of what I want and what I'm here to do, that takes work.
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Like, I have like really sat with myself in a lot of discomfort
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and asked myself a lot of very difficult questions to be at that point.
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It hasn't happened to me yet.
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I do think everyone's worthy of love, but I, like, I, and, and I don't think that's what you're saying either yeah i think
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so i guess maybe like partnership
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or marriage i guess is what we're both saying is like
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almost a different game like it's it's almost a different playing field actually like actually co-joining
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and like properly sharing your life with someone
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and being in partnership with them seems like it's its own thing it is it takes
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so much work and it takes so much adjustment and adapting more than compromising and sacrificing.
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There's so much flexibility, there's so much allowing.
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It's so different at different times.
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Like sometimes patience looks like being by that person's side and saying nothing.
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And sometimes patience means being halfway across the world and not communicating.
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And sometimes patience looks like talking and listening.
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Like, you know, patience doesn't look like one thing over a lifespan.
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And there are parts of my wife that have stayed exactly the same in 12 years, and there are parts that have completely changed.
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and I have a choice every time
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that happens to learn to love the new or not
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and that's a choice I have to make
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and she has to make as well and so there's
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so much constant choosing and constant evolving
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that it's very easy to just yeah it's very easy to
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be like yeah I chose them the day we got married
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and people always ask me I'm like I don't think I even knew who my wife was like now
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when i think about it it's like i loved her
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but i had no idea and
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and that's what it should feel like i don't think
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if i was here to say like yeah the wedding the
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wedding day was one of the best days of my life
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but it's not the day i loved my wife the most yeah because i didn't
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really even know what i was getting myself into that's amazing
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Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| patience isim | /ˈpeɪ̯.ʃəns/ | sabır, faysal |
| partnership isim | /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/ | ortaklık |
| marry fiil | /ˈmæɹi/ | evlenmek, varmak |
| sacrifice isim | /ˈsæk.ɹɪ.faɪs/ | kurban, kurbanlık |
| earn fiil | /ɝn/ | hak etmek |
| rank isim | /ˈɹæŋk/ | satır |
| priority isim | /pɹaɪˈɒɹɪti/ | öncelik |
| poetry isim | /ˈpoʊ.ə.tɹi/ | şiir |
| spin fiil | /spɪn/ | dolanmak, dönmek |
| remind fiil | /ɹəˈmaɪnd/ | hatırlatmak, anımsatmak |
| divorce isim | /dɪˈvɔːs/ | boşanma |
| sustainable sıfat | /səˈsteɪnəbəl/ | surdurulebilir |
| compromise isim | /ˈkɑmpɹəˌmaɪz/ | ödün, taviz |
| podcast isim | /ˈpɑdˌkæst/ | podcast |
| meaningful sıfat | /ˈmiː.nɪŋ.fl̩/ | anlamlı, manalı |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Anlam |
|---|---|
| figure out fiil | açığa çıkarmak |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı I'm, don't, didn't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 42 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: patience /ˈpeɪ̯.ʃəns/, partnership /ˈpɑɹtnɚʃɪp/, friction /ˈfɹɪkʃən/, sabotage /ˈsæb.əˌtɑʒ/, culmination /ˌkʌl.mɪˈneɪ.ʃən/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, priority /pɹaɪˈɒɹɪti/, communicate /kəˈmjuːnɪkeɪt/, sustainable /səˈsteɪnəbəl/, flexibility /ˌflɛksɪˈbɪlɪti/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
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- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; patience, partnership, marry gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | have been · i've talked · i've also done |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | be divorced · being pressured · be forced |
| İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgi | someone who feels · person who put |
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