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You can't create a life you love by shaming yourself into becoming someone else.
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I used to live that way in the past and let me tell you, it didn't feel great.
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The thing is, most of us weren't really taught how to build a life we love.
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We were taught how to be productive, how to be impressive, how to be busy.
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But not how to feel grounded, aligned and connected to the life we're actually living.
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So today, I'm going to show you what actually creates a life you love.
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Before we start, I want to make a quick announcement and share something I've been working on for the last few months.
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If you're someone who always tries so hard, if you're tired of feeling behind, or if you want to design your life from a place of self -love,
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The first 50 members can join at a special price.
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All the information is going to be linked in the description below.
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Alright, so the first component of creating a life you love is realizing
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that you can approach goal -setting and change in from two different places.
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Carrot vs. Stick.
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The first place is what we call the stick approach, trying to improve your life by beating yourself up.
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You don't like something about yourself, you shame yourself into changing it.
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You push harder and harder because you feel like you're constantly not enough.
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And honestly, this is the approach most of us grew up with.
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This is how I used to view self -improvement for myself.
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And yes, you can build habits and achieve goals this way.
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rely on your willpower and then burn yourself out and do this all over again and you can still get results.
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That's why a lot of us do it.
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But the thing is with this approach nothing ever feels good enough
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and often you end up achieving goals that lead you somewhere you never really wanted to go.
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And now let's look at the second approach, something that is extremely foreign to most of us
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look at it is it's when you love yourself enough
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to change when you build goals from compassion not shame
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when you show up for your habits
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because they support what you like doing right now
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and who you want to become this is the approach
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that i want you to keep in mind
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while creating a life you love showing up not
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because i hate who i am but
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because i love myself enough to commit to the life i want to build because real lasting change constantly,
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when you stop nitpicking yourself and start supporting yourself no matter what.
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And this is what I want you to think about more.
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How can you approach designing your life from this carrot perspective, not this stick approach?
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And for me, a big part of all of that is learning on purpose and protecting my energy.
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And that's exactly where today's sponsor Cognify AI comes in.
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Cognify is an actually remember what you learn and organize everything so you're not feeling overwhelmed.
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Here's how I've been using it recently.
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I can drop the key ideas into Cognify as notes.
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It doesn't just store them, it helps you remember them up to 4x deeper with smart note -taking
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and 7x deeper when you use their assessments and quizzes.
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So it's not passive, it's active learning that sticks.
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I use Cognify's projects and notes so everything is in one place.
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Ideas, research, scripts, to -dos.
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They have a focus mode that breaks your day into manageable chunks
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so you're not trying to be on for 10 hours straight.
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It helps you get into deep work without burning out.
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And what I like most is that Cognify is not about outsourcing your entire brain to AI.
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actually want to think.
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It challenges you, it helps you, without making you outsource absolutely everything.
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I honestly think having a tool like this makes the whole process of learning new things feel
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so much more intentional and less chaotic.
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If you want to try it, you can use my code CognifyVeronica or click the link in the description.
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That gives you two months of Cognify Pro to really test it out and see if it fits into your routine.
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Alrighty, so the next part of more play into your life.
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For a very long time in my self -improvement and productivity journey, I treated myself as a robot.
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I have to do this, I It has to be done, no questions asked.
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And if something wasn't contributing to my productivity, I deemed it as useless.
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Like, why should I spend my time on it if it's not connected to my productivity journey?
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But the thing is, play, while being non -productive, is actually extremely important for us.
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It's not just optional, it's a biological need.
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Our brains are literally wired guide to finding the right habits or the right goals for you.
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And here I really like asking myself this question.
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If no one was watching, what would I actually want?
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I put two things on my 2025 vision board that were connected to doing something that I deeply loved.
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The first one is my handstand journey.
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So learning a handstand.
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That has been a very big goal for me in 2025 and I'm few seconds,
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the goal was to just have fun and obviously learn proper alignment because I didn't want to hurt myself.
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I thought setting a goal like learning handstands was a little bit silly.
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Like, I'm not a kid anymore.
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Like, why do I even want to do it?
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But again, does it even matter to have a logical reason why you want to do something
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if it makes you reconnect with your inner child,
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after you allow yourself to try things that seem silly at first.
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And so the second thing on my vision board
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that has been connected to me doing something for me was doing a yoga teacher training.
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Without looking at everyone else and thinking what do they want to do or maybe I'm gonna be like them, can I do it?
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What do I want to do?
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It doesn't matter what all of those other people are doing
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training and getting my certificate has been one of the biggest decisions in 2025
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and also like one of the most me decisions ever.
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During that training, I was able to tap more into my nerd energy.
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Something that I honestly really missed.
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I really missed being a student, a person who's learning something new, taking tests and taking exams.
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Now let's talk about this one exercise, has been extremely helpful when it comes to creating a life I love.
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So one of the biggest misconceptions I see online right now is that you're constantly becoming.
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You're always focused on building this best or better version of yourself.
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Like you're never being yourself in the moment.
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You're never enough as you are right now.
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You're always upgrading.
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You're always four.
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This is why we get stuck living in the future, because we realize that our present lives are imperfect, but they aren't supposed to be.
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So I read this book recently, it's called Designing Your Life.
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I did like it, even though some of the parts felt a little bit dry to me.
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That is why I would highly recommend the workbook from this book.
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This workbook is truly, truly your life, there is an amazing quote that I really like
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and I literally want to save it and like print it out and have it everywhere in my room.
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It's rare that people sail beautifully straight through their beautiful lives, always looking beautiful.
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I honestly love this quote because usually that's not what we see, right?
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On the surface, on social media,
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we think that everything and if it's not perfect, then you're failing.
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Something is wrong with you.
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If I were to choose one specific exercise from this workbook, I think it would be the good time journal.
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Because it helps you focus on your life right now.
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It helps you understand your energy and how to protect it best.
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Here it gives you a lot of examples of how to do it and what all of these little meters mean.
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Yes, you have to do it for around a month.
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This is very, very important.
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You have to log in all of your activities, everything that you do, all of the things that you spend your time on.
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So basically, you have your engagement meter, if your engagement was low or high, maybe you were in the state of flow,
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and also your energy, like whether you felt energized or drained.
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And I promise you, if you do this exercise consistently for three weeks, you will know
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have before because you can only manage your energy in effective ways
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when you look for patterns and this exercise helps you look for patterns one thing
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that wasn't obvious for me at all at the very beginning
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when i just started doing this exercise is that when i work
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if i can see my phone somewhere next to you know
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my space my computer like even like you know my side vision if i can Like any little work task I do,
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I'm always tempted to check my phone.
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And so now all I do is I just leave my phone in another room
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or I hide it somewhere so that I can't see it.
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So that visually it's not somewhere around me.
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Because a life you love is built on awareness.
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And awareness comes when you pay attention to yourself.
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So now finally let's look at these top three areas.
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a life I love or not quite and I need to change something about them.
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The first area is my relationship to myself.
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We've already mentioned the treating yourself with a carrot or a stick and I have to mention here, carrots do include boundaries too.
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Sometimes we all need to set some boundaries to protect ourselves and it doesn't always feel great in the moment.
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Setting boundaries
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area is my relationship with people around me my communication skills
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again my boundaries am I able to express myself in a
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kind way am I surrounding myself with people who uplift me who share my values
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and the final big area is how I approach goal setting
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because honestly your goals can be small they can be silly
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but they are still enough you should still set those goals if they feel like they're deeply truly yours
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They don't need to look impressive to everyone else it feels
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so much better to achieve goals
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that actually mean something to me than to spend months
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or years chasing goals that were never mine to begin with
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because you don't create a life you love by becoming someone
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new every single month you create a life you love by finally falling in love with who you already are
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so guys i think it's going to be it for today's video if you liked it Your likes,
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your comments, all of that means so, so much to me.
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One important thing that I always talk about in my YouTube videos is therapy
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and how much it has helped me become more connected to myself.
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So if you want to see my four biggest lessons, what 150 hours of therapy have taught me so far, make sure to check out this video right here.
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Just click right here and I'll see you there.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “How to Create a Life You Love” videosuna dayanıyor. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 153 cümle ve 1949 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 12:34 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 155 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %88’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında, bu yüzden kelime dağarcığını takip etmek kolay.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodaki en ileri düzey 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| carrot isim | /ˈkæɹət/ | havuç |
| handstand isim | /ˈhændˌstænd/ | amut |
| imperfect sıfat | /ɪmˈpɜː(ɹ)fɪkt/ | kusurlu, noksan |
| uplift fiil | /ʌpˈlɪft/ | yükseltmek |
| align fiil | /əˈlaɪn/ | hizalanmak, hizaya geçmek |
| chunk isim | /t͡ʃʌŋk/ | parça |
| chaotic sıfat | /keɪˈɑtɪk/ | altüst |
| intentional sıfat | /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/ | kasıtlı, istemli |
| metre isim | /ˈmiːtəɹ/ | metre |
| quiz isim | /kwɪz/ | bilgi yarışması |
| optional sıfat | /ˈɑp.ʃə.nəl/ | ihtiyari, isteğe bağlı |
| compassion isim | /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/ | şefkat |
| sail isim | /seɪl/ | yelken |
| passive sıfat | /ˈpæs.ɪv/ | edilgen, pasif |
| drain isim | /dɹiːn/ | gider, yağmur gideri |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Anlam |
|---|---|
| burn out fiil | sönmek |
| check out fiil | gözden geçirmek |
| show up fiil | ortaya çıkmak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- That's why a lot of us do it.
- Here's how I've been using it recently.
- If no one was watching, what would I actually want?
- What do I want to do?
- You're never enough as you are right now.
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — önceden başlayıp hâlâ süren bir eylem | I've been working · I've been using |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | I've just launched · has been · has been connected |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | weren't really taught · were taught · be linked |
| İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgi | someone who always · people who uplift |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, I'm, doesn't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 39 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: misconception /ˌmɪs.kənˈsɛp.ʃən/, intentional /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/, optional /ˈɑp.ʃə.nəl/, compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: productivity /ˌpɹɒdʌkˈtɪvəti/, manageable /ˈmænəd͡ʒəb(ə)l/, misconception /ˌmɪs.kənˈsɛp.ʃən/, visually /ˈvɪzju.əli/, intentional /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- /w/ — dudaklar yuvarlak, /v/ değil: workbook /ˈwɝk.bʊk/, overwhelm /ˌoʊ.vɚˈwɛlm/, willpower /ˈwɪlˌpaʊɚ/, quiz /kwɪz/
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: productivity /ˌpɹɒdʌkˈtɪvəti/, quiz /kwɪz/, beautifully /ˈbju.tɪ.fə.li/, sponsor /ˈspɒn.səː/, drain /dɹiːn/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: carrot /ˈkæɹət/, handstand /ˈhændˌstænd/, manageable /ˈmænəd͡ʒəb(ə)l/, compassion /kəmˈpæʃ.ən/, passive /ˈpæs.ɪv/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; carrot, handstand, imperfect gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
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