Shadowing Practice: it's okay to be alone while finding yourself. - Learn English Speaking with Video

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And I believe we really do struggle more in our heads than we do in reality.
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My biggest enemy, the biggest enemy I really have is my mind when I'm alone.
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So when I'm alone, I really have this conflict.
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I really have the situations when I'm at war with myself.
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I'm at war with my brain.
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And when my brain sometimes simply is telling me to give up, when my brain sometimes simply is telling me some things it shouldn't tell me.
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And I'm at war with myself and I am the only one who's really capable
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and I'm really the only one who can make it possible
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and who can do something against this war and who can win this war.
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You need to reach that state of mind where you're completely fine with being alone for a specific time.
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Because being alone is nothing bad at all.
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I truly believe that being alone for a specific amount of time is nothing bad at all.
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Even if you're in this kind of isolation, and if you're isolating yourself, do whatever you need to do
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and do whatever you think is good for you to improve yourself
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and to find out what you really want for your life and if that means you're isolating yourself for six months
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then it means that
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and then it's completely okay just make sure you don't lose yourself just make sure
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while you're isolating yourself you're doing the best you can every single day to improve your life,
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to improve your mindset to still show to the people around you
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that you love them that they matter and that they still are important to you.
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There's nothing at all that's wrong with isolating yourself for a specific amount of time
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and when you feel this loneliness be aware
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that this won't be forever use this time to self -reflect
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use this time to find out what you really want in life use this time to improve yourself
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and don't waste your time with people who don't know your
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worth don't waste your time with people who don't want to be part of your life
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but who know exactly where to find you don't don't struggle with
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please stop thinking so much and stop worrying
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so much about things you can't control you can't control everything
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you can't control how people act how people treat you how
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people are behaving around you you can't control the whole world
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and you will never be able at all to control what
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happens the only thing you can do is do the best
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you can every single day is spreading positivity is spreading kindness is spreading good things into this world
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and it will all come back to you it almost works
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like a magnet you can make a big difference on this planet only by existing
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and this is something you really need to understand Because you,
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by existing, by loving people, by doing good things, by being a good person,
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by being kind, by spreading positivity, by spreading kindness, by spreading a lot of positive things,
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spreading humanity, spreading a lot of fun,
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spreading so many good things that it becomes almost impossible to not enjoy life and to not become happy.

What You'll Practice in This Lesson

In this lesson, you'll explore a reflective dialogue about self-discovery and solitude, perfect for building confidence in expressing personal thoughts. You'll practice understanding nuanced emotions, using conversational phrases, and improving your speaking flow—key for language learning. The video's warm, introspective tone makes it ideal for honing pronunciation and fluency through real-life context.

Key Vocabulary & Phrases

  • At war with myself: Struggling internally (e.g., "I’m often at war with myself when making big decisions").
  • Isolating yourself: Choosing to be alone temporarily (e.g., "She’s isolating herself to focus on her goals").
  • Self-reflect: Think deeply about your actions (e.g., "I use weekends to self-reflect on the week").
  • Spreading positivity: Sharing optimistic energy (e.g., "His jokes are great for spreading positivity").
  • Waste your time: Use time unproductively (e.g., "Don’t waste your time on things that stress you out").

Tips for Shadowing & Speaking Practice

The video’s pace is moderate, with pauses that mimic natural speech—perfect for the shadowing technique. Start by listening to short 5-second clips, then repeat immediately, focusing on matching the speaker’s tone (softer when talking about struggle, warmer when discussing growth). Notice how "it’s okay" is stressed to convey reassurance—this is key for pronunciation practice. For longer sections, break the dialogue into chunks about self-conflict or positivity, and practice until your flow feels natural. Remember, the goal is to sound conversational, not perfect. Use this as a chance to experiment with expressing emotion in English—you’ll build both fluency and confidence.

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Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.

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