Shadowing Practice: You're about to meet them - Learn English Speaking with Video
Ders oluşturuluyor...
1
This is absolutely about someone that like you have had really difficult time in your dating life.
2
like I just feel that there has been a consistent energy around reflection
3
When it comes to the version of you that had to be a mother, this is specifically for like a feminine energy around mothering a masculine figure.
4
when you are never getting mothered yourself, you're never getting nurtured yourself, So like, I just feel like they're,
5
has been a lot of pain surrounding carrying heavy responsibility, having to figure things out under pressure,
6
with no knowledge, having a no role model, not knowing the right or wrong thing to do, but like having to make the decision anyway.
7
while also maybe getting invalidated, while getting belittled.
8
There's just a lot of emotional patterns here that I think you've experienced in your relationships.
9
and something that is coming out right now about your dating life is that you are being asked to date,
10
for the version of you.
11
that is extremely harmed right now.
12
So the version of you that was in a toxic relationship.
13
the version of you that's always getting invalidated, the version of you that You know, whoever that version is that received all of this trauma,
14
you know, to that endured all of that pain that
15
unconsciously mothered another human being with because they have never been nurtured themselves.
16
Take away the toxic man in that situation, the toxic person in that situation.
17
And if you were her friend, Who are you picking for her?
18
Who are you picking to date for her?
19
because that is going to that Whoever's dating them, that's gonna have to be a strong person because that person is probably really vulnerable,
20
that person's probably really scared, they're probably really traumatized.
21
So like there's something here about when you perceive your dating lens and you are talking to someone,
22
you're meeting someone, or you're creating standards in your head and you're basing it off of what that version of yourself needs.
23
it makes it so much more vulnerable because you really care about this version of yourself.
24
This is a version of you that you want to protect and you just want them to have a safe, happy relationship.
25
person that they just genuinely feel safe and happy and loved with like that is what you want for this person.
26
So this is a choice.
27
that you have.
28
to heal this, to work on this, to change what you attract in your dating life.
29
If you do this, I genuinely think that you will notice
30
that a huge shift in the kind of masculine or the kind of people
31
feminine or masculine whatever are like you're dating because your guides are giving you this perspective So you can move with it.
32
because what you want is that version of you wants a fresh innocent experience.
33
It feels like innocence was taken.
34
it feels like innocence, in love, in compatibility, in openness.
35
It was taken.
36
and replaced with responsibility.
37
so just consistent survival mode in relationships.
38
There's no break.
39
And the kind of people you're attracting are people that are emotionally mature enough to have an equal natural experience.
40
Okay, there's no like perseverance.
41
There's no fighting through that It's just connection.
42
Like, that's literally all it is.
43
So, you are coming out as the Empress.
44
But I do have to say that I think you maybe you're being asked to again,
45
move with more consciousness who you entertain based on the standards for this version of yourself
46
because it feels like for some of you, you might entertain things that you know are not actually giving to you,
47
but because you're alright being in an immersive experience, like you're the kind of person that maybe you would have an intellectual conversation with someone,
48
even if you knew it was going nowhere, and you knew that this person did not meet your standards, If your mind is getting stimulated in the conversation, you're staying.
49
You know, so there's no emotional standard to where your energy is going because you're just enjoying the conversation.
50
So there is definitely a vibe here of like, trying to do that consciously.
51
You know, so don't just entertain every experience because
52
entertain an experience because you think
53
that person would be healthy for this version of you that is still really needing healing right now.
54
And you don't have to do this forever, but right now I think it's very necessary for this like,
55
vulnerable version of you but there is conscious awareness here that your guides want you to have on - Stay safe masculine energy to feel.
56
Oh my god, guys.
57
I'm fucking tripping out right now.
58
Okay, so...
59
I didn't feel like the reading was over.
60
The one card that I had not clarified with The tarot deck is personal choice.
61
Okay, so obviously this is a card representing free will in a lesson.
62
The card, the first card that comes out to clarify it, guys.
63
is literally Passing a test.
64
I want to be queen.
65
33. Sit.
66
Starting your sovereignty, declaring freedom, passing a test.
67
So you have passed the test with something.
68
with maybe you had and maybe you set a standard, maybe you set a boundary, Maybe you, um, experienced again,
69
maybe you resonate with the last video that I posted and you experienced a really
70
toxic conversation that was really triggering and you showed up completely different for yourself.
71
You know, like there's something here that you passed a test So then we have impossible things,
72
working through disbelief, imaginative leaps and fresh perspective and then clock time.
73
So there's something here like There is an experience of people
74
that your guides are giving you that it's going to be different from what it was in the past.
75
This card says it's always tree time.
76
Eternity, Endless Movements, Repetition So this is like something that's happened over and over and over and over again.
77
Reverse, it's not going to happen anymore.
78
something new is happening, something new is being birthed.
79
But in order to get there, you have to follow this path.
80
this path of of like
81
almost representing this past version of yourself in your dating life like dating for this version of yourself that is wounded
82
and scared and just like need someone that's going to be strong and received for them.
83
Like, moving consciously with that version of yourself will bring you to these people.
84
That's what your guides are saying.
85
Like go on this path.
86
Use this perspective.
87
it's really beautiful.
88
Shine bright like a candle, you will make it through this on the bottom of the deck here.
89
And then nonsense.
90
It's time to talk some stents.
91
and then messages from a white rabbit in the reverse position.
92
So it's just about to be 2 :2 :2 on my clock even guys!
93
So whatever you've been going through, you're going to get through this and it feels like you're going to experience something, that gives you a completely new compass.
94
of how you're dating, the kind of people you're attracting, like there are there's new experiences coming your way.
95
Okay, that's kind of the message here is there are new experiences coming your way.
96
and they're ones that you deserve.
97
in a good way.
98
Oh my god, that was literally so beautiful.
99
Guys, I love you so much.
100
I am sending you all a big hug.
101
And if you want to book a Supreme Strawberry Membership down below
102
or if you want to book a personal reading with me the link is also down below
103
other than that i'll see you guys in my next video
✨ Video Öner
B259 cümleler
Mistakes You’ll Make While Falling in Love
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B21
276 cümleler
Signs Your Mother Is A Covert Narcissist & How To Recover
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B22
637 cümleler
Why We Choose the Partners We Choose
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B2273 cümleler
What's the most painful thing you've been told? – A Compilation of Fan Favorites
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B24
271 cümleler
How to Get Over Someone Who Doesn’t Want You Back
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B2444 cümleler
people you should watch out for (how to spot toxic friends)
Business EnglishDaily ConversationUniversity Students
B21
231 cümleler
Jimmy O. Yang is now a Sugar Baby | Guess How Much
Business EnglishDaily ConversationUniversity Students
B2294 cümleler
Why You Feel Lost When Your Life Is Actually Fine
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B22
201 cümleler
How Do You Heal From Trauma? | Unfiltered Stories
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B22
104 cümleler
Luke Chiang on Reframing His Past Relationships
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
B2339 cümleler
mastering self concept: you don't get what you want. you get who you are.
Business EnglishDaily ConversationUniversity Students
B21
70 cümleler
When an Anxious Attachment Dates an Avoidant
Daily ConversationUniversity StudentsWorking Adults
Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “You're about to meet them” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: version, dating, experience, standard, card. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 103 cümle ve 1285 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 8:04 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 159 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %88’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında, bu yüzden kelime dağarcığını takip etmek kolay.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodaki en ileri düzey 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| masculine sıfat | /ˈmæskjələn/ | eril |
| invalidate fiil | /ɪnˈvæl.əˌdeɪt/ | geçersizleştirmek, hükümsüz kılmak |
| innocence isim | /ˈɪnəsn̩s/ | suçsuzluk, masumiyet |
| clarify fiil | /ˈklæɹ.ɪ.faɪ/ | temizlemek |
| feminine sıfat | /ˈfɛmɪnɪn/ | dişil |
| scare fiil | /skɛɚ/ | korkutmak |
| heal fiil | /ˈhiːl/ | iyileştirmek |
| belittle fiil | /bɪˈlɪt.əl/ | küçümsemek |
| perseverance isim | /ˌpɝsəˈvɪɹəns/ | azim, tahammül |
| perceive fiil | /pɚˈsiv/ | algılamak |
| compass isim | /ˈkʌmpəs/ | pusula |
| eternity isim | /əˈtɜɹnəti/ | sonsuzluk |
| sovereignty isim | /ˈsɑv(ə)ɹənti/ | mutlak güç |
| candle isim | /ˈkæn.dəl/ | mum |
| vibe isim | /vaɪb/ | ortam |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| come out fiil | /ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/ | çıkmak |
| show up fiil | ortaya çıkmak | |
| take away fiil | /ˌteɪk əˈweɪ/ | götürmek |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- Who are you picking to date for her?
- I didn't feel like the reading was over.
- That's what your guides are saying.
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | being asked · been nurtured · was taken |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | has been · you've experienced · have never been nurtured |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, they're, don't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 26 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: unconsciously /ˌʌnˈkɑnʃəsli/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, consciousness /ˈkɑnʃəsnəs/, shine /ʃaɪn/, reflection /ɹɪˈflɛkʃən/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: invalidate /ɪnˈvæl.əˌdeɪt/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, imaginative /ɪˈmæd͡ʒɪnətɪv/, perseverance /ˌpɝsəˈvɪɹəns/, unconsciously /ˌʌnˈkɑnʃəsli/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: clarify /ˈklæɹ.ɪ.faɪ/, scare /skɛɚ/, traumatize /ˈtɹɔ.mə.taɪz/, stimulate /ˈstɪm.jəˌleɪt/, trauma /ˈtɹɔm.ə/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: masculine /ˈmæskjələn/, invalidate /ɪnˈvæl.əˌdeɪt/, clarify /ˈklæɹ.ɪ.faɪ/, imaginative /ɪˈmæd͡ʒɪnətɪv/, compatibility /kəmˌpætəˈbɪlɪti/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; masculine, invalidate, innocence gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.