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Hello and welcome to a new episode.
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I am Anna and today we talk about a topic that probably everyone of us is the stentary comparison with others.
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When did you last time ask why that life of others is better than your own?
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Hello, Thomas here.
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Anna, this is really a universelle Erfahrung.
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We all know this feeling when we have the impression that others are more successful, happier, or just their life better in the grip.
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Exactly.
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And the interesting thing is that this Vergleich is actually nothing new, right?
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People have always been compared, but somehow the quality of this Vergleich has changed.
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Thomas, can you explain that?
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Absolutely.
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We must first look at the perspective of why we So is
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that Vergleichen is not problematic?
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No, not.
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There is even a psychological theory.
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The Social Comparison Theory.
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The idea is that people have to compare themselves with others, to their own abilities and opinions.
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If I have no objective Maßstäbe, I look at how others do something.
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That sounds pretty.
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But I notice that this is a very negative feeling.
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What is that?
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Here comes the change.
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You have seen your life with people in your direct environment.
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Your neighbors, your colleagues, your friends.
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That were maybe 20, 30 people you personally saw.
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You saw your life with all the high and high.
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With good and bad days.
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And today we compare ourselves with millions of people worldwide.
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That's a huge difference.
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And the worst thing is, we see not the real life of these people, but only the perfect moments.
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The photos, the stories, the beautiful pictures.
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I compare my real life with the highlight reel of others.
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That's the point.
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It's like a normal day with a holiday video.
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Our brain can't really change between real and real.
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That's really a bit of a joke.
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I can say that Instagram only shows the best moments.
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Emotional we are still.
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It is like a film.
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I know that it is not real.
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But my feeling is still reacting.
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And then this idea that everyone else has better.
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Only for me is not going around.
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And this is how to do some psychological problems.
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Many people develop the feeling, never enough to be.
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Not enough, not attractive enough, not happy enough.
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Yes, and then there is a Teufelskreis, right?
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You feel like you are scrolling through social media, you see there more, scheinbar perfect life, you feel like you are still.
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Some people try to present a perfect picture in the world, but the peace is only short, because they are not authentic.
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Right.
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And the social media have not found this problem, but they have it massively stärked.
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Okay, but now the important question.
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What can we do?
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I mean, we can't just stop talking about others.
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That's our nature.
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But it must be a better way.
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The first step is always the Bewusstsein.
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If you feel bad, you feel bad, I'm going to ask you, Vergleiche ich mich gerade?
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Mit wem?
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Und ist dieser Vergleich fair?
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Fair, das ist das Stichwort.
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Die meisten Vergleiche sind ja total unfair.
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Ich vergleiche meinen Anfang mit dem Erfolg eines anderen, der vielleicht schon Jahre an etwas arbeitet.
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Oder ich vergleiche meinen schwierigen Moment mit dem perfekten Moment von jemand anderem.
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Das kann niemals fair sein.
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Genau.
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Der fairste Vergleich ist der mit dir selbst.
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with the person who you were in a year, six months, a month.
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Have you learned something?
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Waste you?
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That's a really important perspective.
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I against my best version, not I against the illusion of someone else.
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What I also helps is this idea with empathy.
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If I see someone, who has a perfect life, I try to show myself.
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This person has problems, fears, bad days.
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Jeder kämpft mit etwas, was ich nicht sehen kann.
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Das nimmt dem Vergleich so viel von seiner emotionalen Kraft.
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Das ist ein sehr guter Punkt.
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Es geht auch darum, die eigenen sozialen Medien bewusst zu gestalten.
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Welchen Accounts folge ich?
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Fühle ich mich danach besser oder schlechter?
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Ja.
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Ich habe vor einiger Zeit angefangen, Accounts zu entfolgen, die mir permanent ein schlechtes Gefühl geben.
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Und ich folge jetzt mehr Menschen, die auch Schwierigkeiten zeigen, die authentisch sind.
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That has really changed something.
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It's like digital hygiene.
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I decide what comes in my mind.
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And then there are other techniques techniques, such as the Führen of a Thankbarkeit-Buch.
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Every day three things to write, for which you are thankful.
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That's so simple, but it works actually.
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I do this for a few months and it's really training the brain from the brain to the focus, from the focus to the focus, to the focus, to the focus.
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Instead of thinking, I don't have enough, I think, look what I have all of them.
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That's a big difference.
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Absolutely.
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What also helps are the pause of social media.
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We talk about it quite often in our videos and I want to do that today a little bit.
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Such small steps are better than nothing and they really work.
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Because they give us a pause, just a chance to come out of all this.
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But of course, that's just a temporary solution, right?
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What it actually takes is the time in which we are not online.
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These moments are allowed to experience a change in perspective.
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It's about understanding that all these relationships often are important.
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What do I actually want?
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Not what Instagram wants, I want.
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Not what my friends want, but I.
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What are my own values?
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What makes me really happy?
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That's the deepest point.
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Self-establishment instead of Fremd-establishment.
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Right.
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And we have to be a bit of a surprise?
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In the moment, when I started to define my own priorities, they have automatically lost the Vergleiche in Bedeutung.
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When I know that for example, tiefe friendships are important as many of the front contacts,
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then it's suddenly egal, how many followers someone else has.
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Because you have a own Maßstab developed.
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Exactly.
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It's a clear way.
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If I know where I am, what is important, then are the other more relevant.
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They are not so close to me.
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That reminds me of a quote, if you don't know where you want, is every way the wrong way.
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Yes.
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And if you know where you want, you can see other ways without feeling you wrong.
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You can say, it's good for this person, but that's not my way.
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That's a big difference to this feeling of why I don't have it, why I'm not so.
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But how do you get to this inner clarity?
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That's almost philosophically.
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It's philosophically.
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And I think that's something that is in our world verloren.
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We don't take any time to think about it anymore.
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I mean, when are we still sitting there and thinking about it?
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Oh no Handy, oh no music, oh no Ablenkung?
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Langeweile is so seldom, but in the same time are the important thoughts.
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The stentive comparison is also a form of a link.
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It is a link of ourselves.
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Instead of me with myself, with my fears, my real goals, I scroll through the lives of others.
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It's easier to compare others than to know them.
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But it's nowhere to go.
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And the paradox is, the more we are with others, the unsicher we are.
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It's a Teufels-Kreis.
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The solution is not to compare it to not to compare it, that is impossible.
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The solution is to know it so well, that the Vergleiche their power verlieren.
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And how does it make you better?
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In fact, you need to know it for reflection.
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That can be a book, that can be a long walk, a conversation with friends, therapy, meditation, whatever it is.
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But it needs time and still.
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And that's the problem.
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We learned to go with still.
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So if we have 5 minutes to do nothing, we can do something to do.
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Because still can be unbeatable.
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But if we are at our own time, if we know where we are and what we want,
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then we can get more decisions that really pass to us.
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We don't have to see what others do because we have our own compass.
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And I think more I think about it and listen to it, I understand that Geduld is just part of this long process.
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The process of knowing that it is really a long journey.
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It is also.
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It is a lifelong journey.
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But the best thing is that with every step is free.
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Free from the other's opinions, free from these of these mistakes, free from the own experiences, free from building your own life.
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And that is what we all want, right?
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that life from someone else to live, but our own life to live.
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That's it.
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And I think that's also for our listeners and listeners, who learn German.
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It's not about how a language is speaking, but about how to find their own voice in German.
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Exactly.
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Everyone has their own way, everyone has their own pace.
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And that's not just okay, that's good.
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Vielfalt is not through copying, but because it's because everyone is authentic.
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So, dear viewers, take time to learn yourself.
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Ask what you really want, not what others expect.
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And have patience with yourself.
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This life is not a sprint, it is a marathon.
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It is not a marathon, it is a journey and everyone can choose his own goal.
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Perfect, thank you for listening.
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And think about that, The most important person you must understand is yourself.
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See you next time.

Về bài học này

Trong bài học này, bạn sẽ khám phá và luyện tập cách so sánh bản thân với người khác, một khía cạnh thường gặp trong cuộc sống hàng ngày. Bạn sẽ được hướng dẫn phân tích cảm xúc và suy nghĩ liên quan đến việc so sánh, từ đó có thể cải thiện khả năng giao tiếp bằng tiếng Anh trong các tình huống đời thực. Thông qua việc học cách diễn đạt và thảo luận về chủ đề này, bạn sẽ phát triển kỹ năng nói và nghe, giúp bạn dần tiến bộ trong việc nói tiếng Anh một cách tự tin hơn.

Từ vựng & Cụm từ chính

  • Vergleich - So sánh
  • erfolgreich - Thành công
  • glücklich - Hạnh phúc
  • objektive Maßstäbe - Tiêu chuẩn khách quan
  • Teufelskreis - Vòng luẩn quẩn
  • authentisch - Đích thực
  • Emotionen - Cảm xúc
  • Highlight-Video - Video nổi bật

Mẹo luyện tập

Để tối đa hóa hiệu quả luyện tập nói tiếng Anh của bạn, hãy thử phương pháp shadowing. Bạn có thể nghe lại đoạn video và bắt chước cách diễn đạt và phát âm của người nói. Hãy chú ý đến tốc độ và ngữ điệu của họ; bạn sẽ nhận thấy rằng khi thực hiện shadowing tiếng anh, việc luyện nói trở nên dễ dàng và tự nhiên hơn. Đặc biệt, hãy chọn những đoạn hội thoại có sắc thái cảm xúc rõ rệt để hiểu sâu hơn về cách biểu đạt cảm xúc trong tiếng Anh.

Khi luyện tập, bạn nên nói theo từng câu một cách chậm rãi và chính xác, sau đó kết hợp với việc nói theo toàn bộ đoạn. Điều này sẽ giúp bạn phát triển phát âm tiếng anh chuẩn và cải thiện khả năng giao tiếp một cách rõ ràng. Bạn có thể sử dụng phần mềm shadowing để ghi âm giọng nói của mình và so sánh với mẫu, từ đó tự điều chỉnh và nâng cao kỹ năng của bản thân.

Hãy kiên nhẫn với bản thân trong quá trình này. Việc so sánh với người khác có thể gây ra áp lực, nhưng hãy nhớ rằng mỗi người có một hành trình riêng. Chỉ cần bạn bước đi từng bước nhỏ, bạn sẽ thấy tiến bộ qua từng ngày!

Phương Pháp Shadowing Là Gì?

Shadowing là kỹ thuật học ngôn ngữ có cơ sở khoa học, ban đầu được phát triển cho chương trình đào tạo phiên dịch viên chuyên nghiệp và được phổ biến rộng rãi bởi nhà đa ngôn ngữ học Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Nguyên lý cốt lõi đơn giản nhưng cực kỳ hiệu quả: bạn nghe tiếng Anh của người bản xứ và lặp lại to ngay lập tức — như một "cái bóng" (shadow) đuổi theo người nói với độ trễ chỉ 1–2 giây. Khác với luyện ngữ pháp hay học từ vựng bị động, Shadowing buộc não bộ và cơ miệng phải đồng thời xử lý và tái tạo ngôn ngữ thực tế. Các nghiên cứu khoa học xác nhận phương pháp này cải thiện đáng kể phát âm, ngữ điệu, nhịp điệu, nối âm, kỹ năng nghe và độ lưu loát khi nói — đặc biệt hiệu quả cho người luyện IELTS Speaking và muốn giao tiếp tiếng Anh tự nhiên như người bản ngữ.