تدريب Shadowing: I Was Losing Myself | Tom Holland - تعلم التحدث بالإنجليزية عبر الفيديو
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I was in New York
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and I was having a really hard time with the job just because of how taxing it was, the emotional capacity that I was having to get to every day
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and I decided to delete my Instagram because I just felt like I was
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so addicted to this kind of false version of my life that it was just taking over.
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I would be on set working, I'd come and sit in my chair and just scroll, scroll, scroll, scroll, scroll and it was, it was becoming a problem.
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I was just obsessed with it
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and i was obsessed to find out what people were saying and how people what they thought about me
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so i decided to make an announcement which unfortunately we have to do
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and say that i'm taking a break from social media
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and i try to position myself
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and say like i'm taking a break from social media
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because i feel like my mental health will benefit from it
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and the thing that really upset me is the press ran with
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that and they tried to make out that i was having this mental breakdown
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if i was having a mental breakdown that's not for you
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to report on they they took the story in the wrong direction
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and they tried they painted again this negative light on mental
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health rather than saying oh he's doing it it's okay
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that he's doing it
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so we should all feel okay to do it too they
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were saying oh look he's not the perfect happy -go -lucky
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kid you think he is he's having a nervous breakdown in
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new york like the the message of our show is
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that asking for help should be something that we celebrate yeah if you're struggling if you need help
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if you feel bad and you wake up and
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and you go to a friend a therapist a teacher an employee
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or a colleague and say i'm really struggling i need some help
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that should be something
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that we give you a pat on the back like i would love to help you
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that i'm delighted
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that you asked me yeah it doesn't have to be a professional yeah i go to my friends a lot
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and and you know some friends are better than others in certain situations i've got some friends
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that are very much like pull your socks up
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and get on with it and then other friends who are like come here
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and have a cry on my shoulder but like it it varies
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so i i just really hope
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that that's what the show could do is sort of paint
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this positive picture of asking for help is something to be proud of well that's a great message
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and and i think we all we all need to hear it
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and i want to go back a little bit
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because you decided to take a break from acting it's only a break from acting
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because i'm an actor yeah it's not like the acting itself i just have been
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so lucky that in my life i've been working
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so much i just wanted to take a break i just wanted to be in one place for a
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while i wanted to be with my friends be with my family move into my house
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so it wasn't necessarily oh my god i need to have a break from acting
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because it's too much i just needed to have a break from traveling
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and working and and also i've done so much of my growing up on the road
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I needed to do a lot of growing up at home paying my water bill paying my
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Council tax and sorting out my bins and all
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that sort of stuff that they don't teach you at school Which I think there should be a lesson.
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I think there should be a lesson at school.
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It's called life which is like laundry basic cooking like I Didn't realize you have to pay for your water.
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I just thought that was a luxury of living in England Yeah, it comes out the sky and then it comes out your tap.
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I was so behind on my water bill.
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I didn't realize
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i'm up to date now don't worry
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so yeah i just wanted to take this break
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and it's a shame again talking about the press
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and how they can spin things and
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that they kind of ran with this idea
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that yes the show did break me and yes it was difficult
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but i could have gone back to work i was always
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planning on taking this break after this job i've definitely walked away from a lot
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and i think had i not walked away from certain situations let's just put it at
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that i would be a very different person today i've been
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really good at keeping in touch with my friends keeping my
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family close listening to the lessons not getting caught up in
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the hollywood hype like i really am a massive fan of making movies
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but i really do not like hollywood it is not for me
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that the business really scares me i understand that i'm a part of
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that business and i enjoy my kind of interactions with it but
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that said i am always looking for ways to kind of
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remove myself from it to kind of just live as normal a life as possible
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but yeah i definitely think it has been an ongoing thought
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which is don't lose yourself i've seen so many people come before me
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and lose themselves and i've had friends that i've grown up with
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that aren't friends of mine anymore because they've lost themselves to this business
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and i just am really really keen to focus on what makes me happy
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which is my family it's my friends it's my carpentry my golf um the charity
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that my mum runs like that is the stuff
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that makes me really happy and that's the stuff
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that i should protect my relationship is the thing
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that i keep most sacred i don't talk about it i
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try my best to keep it as private as possible we both feel very strongly
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that that is the healthiest way for us to move on as a couple
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so i do try to keep as removed from it as
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possible like you'll never see me at an award show that I don't have to be at.
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I'm never going to a red carpet event
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that i'm not in the film of you know i don't want the attention when i don't need it
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i love the spotlight i love the pressure
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that comes with it there's a quote from billy jean king
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that's on the um stand at her stadium in new york that says pressure is a privilege
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and that is so true like oh my god feeling pressure on a daily basis in the capacity
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that we feel is such a privilege i love feeling pressure
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i feel like i thrive under pressure the best golf i've ever played in my life is
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when there are cameras around and people are watching i just think
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that that is a real amazing thing to be able to experience
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so i enjoy it while i can and then
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when it becomes a bit much i kind of become a bit of a recluse
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and i disappear i come back to kingston i play golf i play tennis i hang out with my friends
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and my family do the pub quiz and all
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that sort of stuff yeah um so yeah
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so it is something i actively try to do as i
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get older it only gets easier yeah one of the things
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that you mentioned recently was that you gave up drinking about a year
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and a half ago yes
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and you said it was the hardest thing you ever did yes
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and I wanted to know what was
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so hard about it for you why was it
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so hard it's interesting I didn't one day wake up
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and say I'm giving up drinking I just like many Brits
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had had a very very boozy December Christmas time I was on vacation I was drinking a lot
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and I've always been able to drink a lot I think I get my genes from my mum's side in
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that thing like I can I can drink
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and I decided to just give up for January I just wanted to do dry January
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and all I could think about was having a drink it's
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all I could think about I was waking up thinking about it I was checking the clock when's it 12
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and it just really scared me I just was like wow
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maybe maybe i have a little bit of an alcohol thing
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so i sort of decided to punish myself
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and say i'll do february as well and do two months off
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if i can do two months off then i can prove
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to myself i don't have a problem two months go by
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and i was still really struggling i felt like i couldn't
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be social i felt like i couldn't go to the pub
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and have a lime soda i couldn't go out for dinner i was really really struggling
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and i started to really worry that maybe i had an alcohol problem
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so I decided that I would wait until my birthday
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which is June 1st I said to myself
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if I can do six months without alcohol then I can prove to myself
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that I don't have a problem
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and by the time I had got to June 1st I
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was the happiest I've ever been in my life I could sleep better I could handle problems better things
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that would go wrong on set
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that would normally set me off i could take in my stride i had
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so much such better mental clarity i felt healthier i felt fitter
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and i just sort of said to myself like why why am i enslaved to this drink why am i
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so obsessed by the idea of having this drink
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and i would look back and recognize
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that i would go to events for for work
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and you know i can't enjoy myself until i've had a few beers
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and i just felt
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so much pressure i'm happy to say like i was definitely addicted to alcohol not shying away from
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that at all anyone
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that has a beer every day it's probably got a little bit of a problem
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but yeah you're right i would drink and drink and drink
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and drink and then you would just reach
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that moment where you're like wow i shouldn't have had
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that last beer and you wake up the next day
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and you have a terrible headache and you're suffering i bought one of those rings
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that will tell you about your sleep yeah or a ring yeah
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and it was amazing
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because i couldn't sleep i was like why can't sleep i'm
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working 14 hours a day i'm doing two hours in the gym i'm eating really healthily
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and i can't sleep what's wrong with me i bought this ring
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and it was booze it just it was completely affecting my sleep
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and since i've given it up i can sleep anywhere you
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know it's also interesting as well going on nights out
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and having a great time as the sober person
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and then getting to
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that point in the night where people start you know spitting in your ear
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and everyone's i love you man i love you
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so much you're like yeah brilliant i love you too i'll see you tomorrow i'm going to bed
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but i love being
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that person now i love seeing my friends on the golf
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course at 8 a .m in the morning feeling fresh
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and ready to go and they're sort of crawling out their car
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and so yeah
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so i i am over the moon to be sober i
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love it i really ask myself like why do you drink why are you drinking
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and a lot of the time my answer would be to feel more comfortable in the social environment yeah
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and i just put myself in those environments
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and just would force myself to be there i'd force myself to hang out
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and and go to a club or go to a bar go to a dinner
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but then after a
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while i sort of was like mate you've got to pull your socks up here
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and you can't just live in your house all the time you've got to go out
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and enjoy yourself and and if you're only enjoying yourself
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because you're drinking then you really do have a problem
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but i think it's different for everyone i had a great support system jack is one of my best mates
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and we travel all over the world he doesn't drink and doing it with him was it was a really
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helpful experience for me my brother is always on the road with me he was very supportive
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and yeah i just really set my mind to it i
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was like i really want to do this i want to prove to myself i can do it yeah
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and then once i'd felt the health benefits
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and started really feeling like my full self yeah it's like oh my god this is this is the best
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but do you not drink i haven't drank for 17 years
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no way congratulations that's amazing amazing yeah it's incredible wow
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so one the best feelings in the world i was really lucky
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that like my life changed slowly i started when i was really young
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and then i had about 10 years before the spider -man
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thing happened the spider -man of it all was the
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that was the big turning point of where like everything changed
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and i was lucky
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that i had those formative years to sort of grow up
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make mistakes learn about set life learn about the world of movie making
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and then spider -man happened but it definitely was a steep learning curve for sure especially
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when i was like really young maybe i was even 19
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when i was shooting civil war
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and you know i was a die hard well i am
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a die hard fan of the studio i felt like i sort of won some competition
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and was allowed to like be on set for the day
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but then when i had to take my mark
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and do my scene with downey it was a really overwhelming experience
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and i'm very grateful to Downey because when I did my audition, my audition was like eight pages of dialogue.
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It was a long scene.
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I was told by my agents to learn the lines exactly.
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And that was kind of like a bit of advice, but also because I'd been really lazy earlier in self -tapes
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and I would rewrite things and change it so it fit my mouth better.
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But they said, in this instance, you have to learn it perfectly.
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And then when we did my first take with Downey, he just started improvising and changing everything in the script
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which kind of gave me license to kind of follow him
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so in that scene i just kind of followed his lead
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and we improvised and we did a bunch of stuff
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and i thought after that audition i was like oh i've definitely got this like
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that went so well but what he did which is
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so great and so sweet is
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when i got to set my scene had been cut down
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significantly from what i'd done in the audition to now a page
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and a half or maybe even two pages
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and we start shooting the scene and down he piped up
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and was like where's all the kids lines gone
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and the russo sort of said well look you know this
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is already a 140 page script like we can't um spend too much time on this
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and down he was the one
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that was like no no you're going to want to spend
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some time on this like let's shoot the whole thing from the audition you can always cut it
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but you'd want to have it and they used all of it yeah
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so i owe that to him that's cool
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and i think that's really cool and i'd love to one day do
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that if i'd be lucky enough to somehow bring miles morales into my spider -man universe
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and into the mcu i'd love to to do for a young kid what downy did for me
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when i signed my contract
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for spider -man one i signed a six picture deal i
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was 18 years old i was more excited than i'd ever been about anything ever
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and for the last 10 years i have been at the beck
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and call of marvel and sony and proudly
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so it's been the best experience of my life i'm now at a juncture where
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i can say no and now that i've been afforded
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that power i am struggling to figure out what is the right thing to do the learning curve
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that i'm on right now is dealing with
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that new sense of power making sure that i don't abuse it
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but making sure that i do the best thing for me
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rather than for the studio
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and really the best thing for the character i don't want
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to make another movie for the sake of making it
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but i want to do it for the right reasons and now i am
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navigating and figuring out what having that kind of power means
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and that responsibility yeah and i'm by no means complaining it's a wonderful place to be
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but it is something that keeps me up at night
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and i'm constantly thinking of like is this the right thing
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to do am i going to do justice to the character
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am i going to do justice to the fans i definitely
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don't want to just make a movie for the sake of it
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because that's not what spider -man represents i owe everything to the fans of of marvel
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and and myself they've been so kind
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and generous to me like after civil war came out i
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felt like civil war was my audition to the world like i'd gotten the part of spider -man
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i did the film with the russo brothers and that came out
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and that to me felt like my will you embrace me as spider -man
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and they did and i'm so grateful that they did
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المفردات وملاحظات التحدث لهذا الدرس
يحتوي هذا الفيديو على 262 جملة و3140 كلمة للتدرب على الترديد. مدة الكلام 14:40. يتكلم المتحدث بسرعة، نحو 214 كلمة في الدقيقة، لذا ستسمع كثيرًا من وصل الكلمات واختزال الأصوات. 84% من الكلمات ضمن أكثر 3,000 كلمة شيوعًا في الإنجليزية، ويُستحسن مراجعة الباقي قبل البدء.
أهم المفردات في هذا الفيديو
15 كلمة من الفيديو تستحق التعلّم، مع النطق والمعنى:
| الكلمة | النطق | المعنى |
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| spider اسم | /ˈspaɪ̯dɚ/ | عَنْكَبُوت, شَبَث |
| audition اسم | /ɑˈdɪʃən/ | تَجْرِبة أَدَاء |
| scroll اسم | /skɹoʊl/ | طُومَار |
| lesson اسم | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | دَرْس, حِصَّة |
| sake اسم | /ˈseɪ̯k/ | غاية, غَرَض |
| script اسم | /skɹɪpt/ | كِتَابَة |
| grateful صفة | /ˈɡɹeɪtf(ə)l/ | مُمْتَنّ, شَاكِر |
| privilege اسم | /ˈpɹɪv.(ɪ.)lɪd͡ʒ/ | اِمْتِيَاز |
| curve اسم | /kɚv/ | منحنى |
| scare فعل | /skɛɚ/ | أَفْزَعَ |
| sober صفة | /ˈsoʊ.bɚ/ | صَاحٍ |
| addict اسم | /ˈæd.ɪkt/ | مُدْمِن, مُدْمِنَة |
| sock اسم | /sɑk/ | جَوْرَب |
| necessarily ظرف | /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/ | حَتْماً |
| charity اسم | /ˈtʃæɹɪti/ | مُنَظَّمَة خَيْرِيَّة |
الأفعال المركبة التي ستسمعها
| الكلمة | النطق | المعنى |
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| come out فعل | /ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/ | خَرَجَ, غَادَرَ |
| wake up فعل | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | صَحَا, اِسْتَيْقَظَ |
| give up فعل | تَنَازَلَ, تَخَلَّى | |
| go out فعل | خَرَجَ | |
| grow up فعل | كَبُرَ, ْنَشَأ | |
| look back فعل | اِلْتَفَتَ, اِسْتَدَارَ |
القواعد في هذا الفيديو
أكثر التراكيب التي يستخدمها المتحدث، مع العبارات نفسها من الفيديو:
| التركيب | في الفيديو |
|---|---|
| المضارع التام have/has + اسم المفعول — حدث ماضٍ ما زال له أثر الآن | have been · i've done · i've definitely walked |
| المبني للمجهول be + اسم المفعول — التركيز على ما يحدث لا على من يفعله | was just obsessed · was obsessed · was definitely addicted |
| جمل الوصل who / which + جملة — معلومة إضافية عن شخص أو شيء | friends who are · life which is · did which is |
نطق يحتاج إلى انتباه
يستخدم المتحدث 93 من الصيغ المختصرة، مثل I'm, I've, don't. انطقها بصيغتها القصيرة كما تسمعها.
- أصوات “th”: therapist /ˈθɛɹəpɪst/, thrive /θɹajv/
- أصوات “sh” و“zh”: audition /ɑˈdɪʃən/, congratulations /kənˌɡɹæt͡ʃəˈleɪʃ(ə)nz/, vacation /veɪˈkeɪ.ʃən/, luxury /ˈlʌk.ʃə.ɹi/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/
- الكلمات الطويلة — انتبه لموضع النبر: necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, congratulations /kənˌɡɹæt͡ʃəˈleɪʃ(ə)nz/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/
كيف تتدرب بهذا الفيديو
- استمع إلى الفيديو كاملًا مرة واحدة دون أن تتكلم، ودوّن الكلمات التي لا تعرفها.
- ابدأ بسرعة 0.75×، وردّد جملة جملة، ثم عُد إلى السرعة العادية عندما يصبح الأمر سهلًا.
- سجّل صوتك وقارنه بالأصل، مع الانتباه إلى كلمات مثل spider, audition, scroll.
ما هي تقنية التظليل الصوتي؟
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