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Hello lovely students and welcome back to English with Lucy.
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Today's lesson is all about how to master the art of English conversation.
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It can feel extremely awkward to start conversations in social situations where you don't know anyone
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and it can feel even worse when it's not your mother tongue or your first language.
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To help you out I'm going to give you some of the best conversation starters
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that I use so you can feel confident
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and talk to anyone in any situation important
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if you really want to take the subject seriously don't miss out on the free pdf
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that i've created for today it covers all of the conversation starters
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and explanations plus some other tips that i think you'll find really useful
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if you'd like to download
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So let's start with our first topic, keep it simple.
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If you're someone who typically feels uncomfortable making small talk, feel free to keep things simple.
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You don't need to come up with any out of the box questions, just be yourself.
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A great way to kick off any conversation is with a sincere greeting and introduction.
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For example, Hi, I'm Lucy.
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It's a pleasure to meet you.
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It's simple but effective and it's great for social events where you don't know many people.
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At work you could say, hello, I'm Lucy.
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I just started in the marketing department.
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I just wanted to stop by and introduce myself.
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This is great for when you've started a new position and don't know many of your colleagues yet.
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It shows that you have a genuine interest in meeting the people you might be working with.
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There are many simple questions you could ask to get a
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conversation going after you've introduced yourself like what do you do
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for work have you read any good books lately what have
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you been up to today what's the last show you binged
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you consumed quickly all at once do you have any travel
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plans coming up now obviously it's important to be aware of
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the situation don't just randomly throw out these questions read the room
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and make sure you're listening to what other people are saying so that you can ask appropriate at the right time.
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Next point.
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If you're ready to branch out from some of the more simple conversation starters,
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one of the best things that you can do to instantly strike up conversation is to give a genuine compliment.
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Compliments help make a person feel appreciated and seen, and they are great for instantly making a good impression and building rapport.
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And it doesn't need to be some over the top compliment
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or one that has the potential to make the other person feel awkward.
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Just give a genuine compliment and flash a bright, cheerful smile, not a crazy one.
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The beauty of this technique is that it works in basically any scenario, whether you're at a party or in a job interview.
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At a party or another social gathering, you could say something like, I love how you've decorated your house, it feels so cozy.
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Or, I'm obsessed with your earrings.
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Or, wow, your shoes are gorgeous, where'd you get them?
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Asking a question at the end helps to keep the conversation flowing.
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At the office, you could say something along the lines of, Your work always shows so much attention to detail,
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how do you do it? or that was a really great question you brought up in the meeting today.
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If you're at a conference or a networking event, you could say, you have an excellent way with words.
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It was a pleasure to hear you speak.
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Practice giving heartfelt compliments and see how many new friends you instantly make.
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Next point, when in doubt, talk about food.
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This one might seem odd, but if you have doubts about what to say in a social setting, just talk about food or drinks.
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Think about it.
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Everyone has to eat or drink.
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And so it's something common that we all share
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and the beauty of this topic is
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that it works in nearly all situations at a party where did you get
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that drink it looks amazing or you have to try the spinach dip it's delicious
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definitely my favorite so far
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or have you tried any of the appetizers any recommendations i tend to hold pretty strong opinions about food so
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if someone were to ask me some of these we would
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talk all night now let's say you're in a more professional setting you could ask something like
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do you have a go-to spot to grab a coffee around here?
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Or, hi, I'm Lucy, today's my first day, and I was wondering if you have any recommendations of where to get a quick bite to eat.
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Just then I introduced myself and brought up food, the perfect conversation starter.
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Now you could even use this food idea on a first date.
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If there's a bit of a dull moment during the conversation, you could say something like, so I'm a bit of a foodie.
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How about you?
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Do you have a favourite type of cuisine or any must try restaurants in town.
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I know, I asked quite a few questions, but one of them is sure to get the conversation flowing again.
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I also shared a little piece of personal information about myself there, which brings us to our next topic.
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Make it personal.
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If you want to connect with people, you need to speak from a place of authenticity.
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And you can do this by sharing something interesting about yourself, like telling a little anecdote or even cracking a few jokes, maybe a few self-deprecating ones.
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A Brit's favourite weapon.
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If you're interested in British humour, I made a video all about it, and I've linked it down below.
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Yikes, I can't believe how underdressed I am for this event.
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A comment like this can break the ice, show you're quite humble, but you don't necessarily have to go down that route.
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Anecdotes are also great, and these are personal stories or experiences
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that can add depth and relatability to a conversation and bonus points if they're funny.
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Here are some examples of some types of anecdotes you could share.
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Speaking of hiking, I went hiking near here last weekend and the views were incredible.
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Where do you usually go?
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Or you mentioned you tried making Gordon Ramsay's scrambled eggs.
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Me too, and they came out terribly, but I'm eager to try them again.
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Do you have any tips?
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Notice that I'm providing some personal insight, but I'm also asking questions, showing my conversation partner that I'm actively listening to what they're saying.
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You should also try to find common ground.
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What shared interests do you have?
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Do you work in the same field?
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One of the easiest ways to start a meaningful conversation is to talk about things you have in common, like in the office,
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heard you've just been to costa rica i actually lived there for five years how was it
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or on a plane
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if they want to talk i see you're reading hemingway he's
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my favorite author have you read any of his other books
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or a work event what programs do you recommend for continuing education in software engineering these questions are quite specific
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and require strong observational skills but with practice you'll be having conversations everywhere and that brings us to our next topic
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Asking questions.
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If you haven't been able to tell by now, asking questions is quite important.
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By asking questions, you show the speaker that you're genuinely interested in what they're saying.
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It's important to ask open questions that can't be answered with a yes or a no, so that you can then ask follow up questions.
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This will ensure that you have a natural, flowing conversation.
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Here are some different questions for various scenarios.
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For example, at work, what are you working on right now?
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Anything exciting?
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Or what are your plans for for this weekend?
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What's the best part of your job?
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How has AI been impacting your job?
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Dating?
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What helps you relax after a long day?
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What do you do for fun?
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What's your biggest pet peeve?
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What's the craziest thing you've ever done?
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In networking or business conferences, which presentations have you enjoyed so far?
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Why did you sign up for this conference?
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If you had to give a talk here, what would your topic be?
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What other workshops have you attended?
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Any you recommend?
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All of these questions help you come off as being interested in the person you're conversing with, and they have the potential to spark some interesting conversations.
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And this brings me to my last tip of the day, sit back and listen.
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This doesn't require much talking at all.
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One of the biggest misconceptions about conversing is that you need to do all the talking and that's not entirely true.
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In fact, if you go on and on and on, you might end up seeming self-absorbed.
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I've experienced lots of conversations like this at networking events.
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Starting a conversation with a stranger isn't always easy and I understand your worries about
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stumbling over words or dealing with those cringe-worthy, awkward silences, but here's a neat trick to ease the pressure.
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Shift your focus to the other person.
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After breaking the ice, it's all about asking follow-up questions throughout the conversation.
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Trust me, this can lead to more engaging discussions than if you spent the whole time talking about yourself.
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Show genuine interest and curiosity in the other person, make them feel interesting.
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You can ask some of the questions I previously shared with you
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but the key is to listen to the speaker
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so these simple skills can work wonders
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and soon enough you'll be making meaningful connections with people
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and the more you practice the better you'll get at it
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give it a shot put yourself in some uncomfortable situations
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and who knows you might make some great new friends along
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the way i've met some of my best friends by pushing myself out of my comfort zone right
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that brings us to the end of today's lesson don't forget to download the free PDF.
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The link is in the description box.
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We've got all of the tips plus some extra information I think you'll find really useful.
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If you want to take an English course with me, we have our 12 week B1,
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I'm extremely biased, but they are truly wonderful.
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If you'd like to learn more, visit EnglishwithLucy.com and I'll see you in my next lesson.
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Thank you.
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