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have you ever told someone about a problem
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and before you even finish speaking they gave you advice you say i had a really bad day
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and they say you should sleep more you talk about a problem at work
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and they say just find another job you tell a friend
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that you feel sad and they say you need to think more positively.
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Sometimes the advice is not wrong.
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It may even be good advice.
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But somehow, you still do not feel better.
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Why?
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Because sometimes we do not want an answer.
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We want someone to listen.
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When a person is having a difficult time, they may need to tell their story before they are ready to think about a solution.
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They may want to feel heard before they want to hear what they should do this is easy to forget
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because giving advice feels useful
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when someone has a problem we want to help we think i know what they should do
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but helping someone is not always about finding the answer quickly
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sometimes the first thing a person needs is simple someone who stays listens and lets them speak
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Imagine that your friend comes home after a difficult day at work.
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They sit down and say, Today was terrible.
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My manager was angry with me.
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And then I made a mistake in front of everyone.
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You immediately say, You should talk to your manager tomorrow.
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And you should be more careful next time.
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Your advice may make sense, but your friend becomes quiet.
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They were not asking what to do yet They were still trying to explain what happened Now,
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imagine a different response You listen and say That sounds really difficult What happened after that?
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Your friend continues talking They tell you more about the day
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After a few minutes They may start to feel calmer Maybe they even find the answer themselves
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This is why listening can be more helpful than advice.
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When we talk about a problem, we often need time to understand our own feelings.
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We may start with anger, then realize we are actually tired or disappointed.
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We may think we are angry with one person, but later understand that something else is bothering us.
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If someone gives us an answer too quickly, we may never have the chance to understand what we really feel.
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Listening gives people that space.
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It does not mean you do nothing.
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You are still helping.
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You are showing the other person that their words matter and that they do not have to solve everything immediately.
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one important thing to remember is that people do not always tell you a problem
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because they want you to solve it sometimes they simply want
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to share it with someone they trust imagine your friend says
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i had a fight with my sister today you may want to say you should call her
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and say sorry
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but maybe your friend only wants to tell you what happened
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maybe they are still angry maybe they are confused maybe they
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do not even know what they want to do yet
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if you give advice too soon they may feel
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that you are not really listening they may think you did
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not understand what i was trying to say a simple question
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can make a big difference you can ask do you want advice
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or do you just want me to listen this small question shows respect it gives the other person a choice
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if they say i just want to talk then you can listen
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if they say yes i need advice then you can share your thoughts you can also ask simple questions
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while they are talking how did
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that make you feel what happened next what do you think
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you want to do these These questions help the person continue without telling them what they must do.
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And sometimes, after talking for a while, they may say, I think I know what I should do now.
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You did not give them the answer.
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You helped them find it themselves.
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That can be much more useful.
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There is another problem with giving advice too quickly.
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Even when we mean well, our advice can sometimes make the other person feel that their problem is simple.
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Imagine someone tells you, I am having a hard time at my new job.
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I feel tired every day.
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If you say, just relax, they may think, if it were that easy, I would already be doing it.
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When we say things like, just leave, just forget about it, or just be positive, we may be trying to help,
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but the word just can make a big problem sound very small.
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We do not know everything the other person is dealing with.
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Maybe leaving the job is not possible.
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Maybe forgetting someone is not easy.
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Maybe being positive is difficult because they are very tired.
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This does not mean advice is bad.
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Good advice can be very helpful when someone is ready for it.
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But advice works better when we understand the problem first.
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Before saying what someone should do, learn more about what they are going through.
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Ask questions.
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Listen to the full story.
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Let them finish.
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Then, if they want your opinion, you can share it carefully.
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You can say, maybe you could try this, instead of, you need to do this.
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There is a big difference.
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One gives a suggestion.
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The other sounds like an order.
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When you speak gently, the other person can think about your idea without feeling that you are judging them.
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So, how can you become a better listener?
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First, let the other person finish speaking.
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Do not prepare your answer while they are still talking.
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Try to understand the story before you decide what you think Second,
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ask simple questions You do not need special questions What happened?
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How do you feel about it?
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And what do you think you want to do?
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Are often enough?
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Third, do not make every problem about your own experience If your friend says,
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I am having a hard time at work You do not always need to say
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that happened to me too sometimes your story can help
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but sometimes the other person simply needs space to talk about their life finally remember
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that listening does not mean you agree with everything they say
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you can listen without judging you can understand someone's feelings without saying
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that every choice they made was right you can be there without trying to control the situation.
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And sometimes, the best thing you can say is very simple.
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I understand. That sounds hard.
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I am here if you want to talk.
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These words may seem small, but they can mean a lot when someone feels alone.
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We often think good help means finding a solution.
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But sometimes good help means helping someone feel less alone while they find their own solution.
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Before you give advice, try to listen.
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Before you tell someone what to do, try to understand what they are feeling.
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You may discover that they do not need an answer yet.
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They may simply need someone who cares enough to stay and hear the whole story.
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And when they are ready for advice, they will be more able to hear it because they know you are not trying to control them.
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You are trying to help.
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Not every Every problem needs a quick answer.
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Some problems need time.
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Some need action.
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And some simply need a good listener first.
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You made it to the end.
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Keep listening, keep speaking, and keep practicing.
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The next time someone tells you about a problem, remember, you do not always need the perfect answer.
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Sometimes you just need to listen.
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Wortschatz und Sprechhinweise zu dieser Lektion
Diese Sprechübung auf Niveau A2 basiert auf dem Video „Before Giving Advice, Learn to Listen“. Diese Wörter kommen am häufigsten vor: advice, listen, answer, simple, happened. Dieses Video enthält 118 Sätze und 1292 Wörter zum Nachsprechen. Der gesprochene Teil dauert 9:13. Der Sprecher spricht gleichmäßig mit etwa 140 Wörtern pro Minute – ein angenehmes Tempo fürs Shadowing. 95 % der Wörter gehören zu den 3.000 häufigsten im Englischen, der Wortschatz ist also leicht zu verfolgen.
Wichtiger Wortschatz in diesem Video
13 lernenswerte Wörter aus dem Video, mit Aussprache und Bedeutung:
| Wort | Aussprache | Bedeutung |
|---|---|---|
| helpful Adjektiv | /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/ | hilfreich, hilfsbereit |
| solve Verb | /sɒlv/ | lösen |
| listener Substantiv | /ˈlɪs(ə)nɚ/ | Zuhörer, Zuhörerin |
| confused Adjektiv | /kənˈfjuːzd/ | verwirrt, durcheinander |
| carefully Adverb | /ˈkɛɹf(ə)li/ | vorsichtig |
| anger Substantiv | /ˈæŋɡə/ | Ärger, Zorn |
| disappointed Adjektiv | /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/ | enttäuscht |
| bother Verb | /ˈbɑðɚ/ | stören, nerven |
| discover Verb | /dɪˈskʌvə/ | entdecken |
| relax Verb | /ɹɪˈlæks/ | lockern, entspannen |
| suggestion Substantiv | /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/ | Vorschlag |
| gently Adverb | /ˈd͡ʒɛntli/ | sanft |
| positively Adverb | /ˈpɑ.zɪ.tɪv.li/ | wohlgestimmt, wohlgesinnt |
Phrasal Verbs, die du hören wirst
| Wort | Bedeutung |
|---|---|
| sit down Verb | sich setzen |
Grammatik in diesem Video
Die Strukturen, die der Sprecher am häufigsten verwendet, mit den genauen Worten aus dem Video:
| Struktur | Im Video |
|---|---|
| Relativsätze who / which + Satz – eine Zusatzinformation über eine Person oder Sache | someone who stays · someone who cares |
| Möglichkeit mit „might / may“ might/may + Verb – etwas ist möglich, aber nicht sicher | may even be · may need · may want |
| Ratschlag mit „should“ should + Verb – sagen, was eine gute Idee ist | should sleep · should do · should talk |
| Verb + -ing enjoy, keep, stop … + -ing – Verben, auf die die -ing-Form folgt | finish speaking · Keep listening |
Aussprache, auf die du achten solltest
- Lange Wörter – auf die Betonung achten: disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/, positively /ˈpɑ.zɪ.tɪv.li/
Laute, die Deutschsprachigen schwerfallen:
- Stimmhafter Auslaut — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ am Wortende nicht verhärten: solve /sɒlv/, confused /kənˈfjuːzd/, disappointed /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnɪd/
- /æ/ — offener als „ä“: anger /ˈæŋɡə/, relax /ɹɪˈlæks/
- /dʒ/ — stimmhaft, nicht „tsch“: suggestion /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/, gently /ˈd͡ʒɛntli/
So übst du mit diesem Video
- Höre dir das ganze Video einmal an, ohne zu sprechen, und notiere die Wörter, die du nicht kennst.
- Sprich Satz für Satz in normaler Geschwindigkeit nach und wiederhole jeden, bis dein Rhythmus zum Sprecher passt.
- Nimm dich auf und vergleiche mit dem Original; achte dabei auf Wörter wie helpful, solve, listener.
Was ist die Shadowing-Technik?
Shadowing ist eine wissenschaftlich fundierte Sprachlerntechnik, die ursprünglich für die professionelle Dolmetscherausbildung entwickelt und durch den Polyglotten Dr. Alexander Arguelles populär gemacht wurde. Die Methode ist einfach aber wirkungsvoll: Du hörst englisches Audio von Muttersprachlern und wiederholst es sofort laut — wie ein Schatten, der dem Sprecher mit nur 1–2 Sekunden Verzögerung folgt. Anders als passives Hören oder Grammatikübungen zwingt Shadowing dein Gehirn und deine Mundmuskulatur, gleichzeitig echte Sprachmuster zu verarbeiten und zu reproduzieren. Studien zeigen, dass es Aussprachegenauigkeit, Intonation, Rhythmus, verbundene Sprache, Hörverständnis und Sprechflüssigkeit signifikant verbessert — was es zu einer der effektivsten Methoden für die IELTS Speaking-Vorbereitung und reale englische Kommunikation macht.