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So let's say there are two people, right?

One becomes very memorable and seductive in one room.

And the other person is also, let's say it's social, it's great, but other person becomes instantly forgettable.

What is the difference between people who are remembered and people who get forgotten in a day?

Well, I'd go around this question from a different angle.

So seduction is a game where you're trying to make the other person think about you when you're not there, right?

So if there's a woman and you're out on a date and she goes home and she's thinking about you, you've seduced her.

If she goes home and she's kind of thinking, about you a little bit

but she's also thinking about other people her job you haven't really succeeded

so the game is to make people think about you

when you are not there in front of them right

so i wrote a whole book about that

and what you need to do yeah

but you need to create a little bit of mystery about yourself like you said something that's kind of provocative

that they don't quite understand and it makes them go home they think about you what did you mean

You have qualities that I had a chapter in seduction called mixed signals, sending mixed signals.

You appear to be something very strong, but you send a sign of there's something else going on inside of you that's quite different, right?

So you're a man, you feel very, you come across as very masculine and strong,

but you send a signal that there's something about you that's almost feminine where you're, you're aesthetic.

You're interested in flowers or whatever.

The woman goes home, goes, hmm, what an interesting character.

I've never met anybody like that.

He's very masculine, but he has this other side to him.

You know, so she's thinking about you.

So if you don't, if you're just trying to be yourself, if you don't understand the game, if you don't put any effort into it,

people won't remember anything about you.

They'll only remember you when you're there in front of them.

But when you leave the room, when they're not there, forget it.

And that's the whole game is making them think about you when you're not there.

Give me one more example.

I love this.

How to make people think about you when you're not in the room.

Well, I mean, as I said, these are all things in the art of seduction.

So when I first met the woman that I'm with now, a while ago, right before I wrote

The Art of Seduction, we had gone on a date, but nothing really came of it.

Okay.

And so I didn't know if she was interested in me.

My birthday was coming up.

And I happen to have at that time.

I still do.

I had a lot of female friends who are very beautiful, right?

And I was going to have a birthday party at this restaurant

and there would be four or five of these very beautiful women there.

I very clearly invited her to come to this party afterwards, you know, when we were having dessert and everything.

So she would see me surrounded by attractive women who were interested in me, right?

So knowing that somebody that is attracted to other people is very seductive,

particularly to women who can be very competitive that way, but it works with men as well.

So the sense that nobody desires you, that nobody, you never had a girlfriend, women really aren't interested in you,

makes the other person wonder.

But if they see you surrounded by other people who are attractive

and know that you

that there are other people interested in you it makes them interested in you as well

and then they will go home and they will think about you

because they will be competitive

so human desire is very much viral we want what other people have

if you pass by a restaurant you want to have dinner and it looks good but there's nobody in the restaurant?

I don't know.

But the food's good, but you don't want to go in there.

You pass by this other restaurant, which might have mediocre food, but it's 20 people are in there.

They're all laughing.

They're drinking every great time.

I'll go in there, right?

Because other people are enjoying it and our desire is viral.

It's contagious.

So if you make.. other people feel like you are desired by others they will go home

and they will be thinking about you

because they're competitive they're going to want to be one of those people

that desire you as well see that's true

but somebody who's not desired at all someone who is not in demand is not it doesn't look like that man

or a woman is being desired by anyone how can they manufacture this how can they actually do this

because their first problem is that nobody's interested in them how

Or can they make other people look attractive?

I can't make somebody like that into a great seducer.

You have to work at it.

So it's not like people are born great at this game, right?

The man I mentioned in Paris, it wasn't that, okay, he was handsome, I grant you that.

But he had been working on it for a long time.

He understood the psychology of it.

So you have to, if you understand the psychology of it, you're going to go, all right,

I have to find people have to I have to get people interested in me right

I have to get women looking at me what is the qualities

that I can have that will do

that right you have to put some effort in do you have to work on it too

so nobody is born with you know all these women coming to them

and looking attractive you work at it you I built those friendships over years

because I happen to like women and I was a rake back then, but it took work.

It took effort.

It took effort to be desired by other people, right?

You have to have some skills with words and language.

Women are very susceptible to words.

When they hear somebody talking well, who's funny, who's witty, who's good with compliments, et cetera, it has a very seductive power.

True.

Men, Then their weakness is the visuals, is the looks, is the physical aspect of the woman, right?

So you have to be aware of the psychology of what's going on

and play to those things and build up those qualities in yourself.

You're not born that way.

I can't take somebody who feels like they're a loser, that nobody likes them.

I can't instantly turn them around.

They have to work at it, right?

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and I've helped people before who've been in that situation

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and slowly we build up confidence we get rid of the insecurities step by step

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if you're that person that you mentioned

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if you start getting rid of your insecurities if you do things

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that will make you confident

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and sometimes you can fake a little bit of confidence you will start attracting interest you will start attracting people

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and then you will build some momentum and then the things

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that I'm talking about about creating triangles of desire will start to be powerful and effective, right?

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Cette leçon d’expression orale s’appuie sur la vidéo « How to Become Someone People Never Forget ». Les mots qui reviennent le plus souvent : interested, desire, somebody, nobody, thinking. Cette vidéo contient 110 phrases et 1302 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 7:55. Le locuteur parle à un rythme naturel d’environ 165 mots par minute, proche d’une conversation courante. 90 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais, le vocabulaire est donc facile à suivre.

Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo

15 mots de la vidéo à retenir, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :

Mot	Prononciation	Sens
psychology nom	/saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/	psychologie
attract verbe	/əˈtɹækt/	attirer
instantly adverbe	/ˈɪnstəntli/	instantanément
surround verbe	/səˈɹaʊnd/	entourer, cerner
masculine adjectif	/ˈmæskjələn/	masculin
mystery nom	/ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/	mystère
afterwards adverbe	/ˈæf.tɚ.wɚdz/	après, ultérieurement
flower nom	/ˈfloʊɚ/	fleur
skill nom	/skɪl/	habileté, compétence
aspect nom	/ˈæspɛkt/	aspect
friendship nom	/ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/	amitié
angle nom	/ˈæŋ.ɡəl/	angle
invite verbe	/ɪnˈvaɪt/	inviter, convier
clip nom	/klɪp/	pince
handsome adjectif	/ˈhæn.səm/	beau

Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez

Mot	Sens
build up verbe	s'accumuler, s'entasser
come across verbe	avoir l'air de
come up verbe	se montrer, sortir du bois

Des phrases à répéter

Des phrases courtes et complètes de la vidéo, à réutiliser dans la conversation de tous les jours :

You're interested in flowers or whatever.
I've never met anybody like that.
You know, so she's thinking about you.
I'll go in there, right?
You're not born that way.

La grammaire de cette vidéo

Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :

Structure	Dans la vidéo
Propositions relatives who / which + proposition — une précision sur une personne ou une chose	people who are · friends who are · women who were
Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait	are remembered · is attracted · are desired
Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenant	you've seduced · haven't really succeeded · I've never met

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Le locuteur utilise 44 contractions et formes réduites, comme you're, don't, they're. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.

Les sons « sh » et « zh »: friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, informational /ˌɪnfəˈmeɪʃənəl/
Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, momentum /ˌmə(ʊ)ˈmɛntəm/, mediocre /ˌmidiˈoʊkəɹ/, informational /ˌɪnfəˈmeɪʃənəl/, provocative /pɹəˈvɒk.ə.tɪv/

Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :

/tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, contagious /kənˈteɪ.d͡ʒəs/
/r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: attract /əˈtɹækt/, viral /ˈvaɪɹəl/, surround /səˈɹaʊnd/, mystery /ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/

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