Shadowing Practice: Feeling insecure about money ๐Ÿ’” | Dose of Society - Learn English Speaking with Video

ื‘ื—ืจ ืžืฆื‘ ืชืจื’ื•ืœ

ื›ืœ ืžืฆื‘ ืคื•ืชื— ื—ื“ืจ ืชืจื’ื•ืœ ื‘ืžืกืš ืžืœื.

20 ืžืฉืคื˜ื™ื
ืื ื”ืžืฉืคื˜ื™ื ืงืฆืจื™ื ืื• ืืจื•ื›ื™ื ืžื“ื™, ืœื—ืฅ ืขืœ ืขืจื•ืš ื›ื“ื™ ืœื”ืชืื™ื ืื•ืชื.
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What is your biggest insecurity?
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Never having enough money.
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Just got engaged to my fiance, so you know, there's a whole bunch of different expenses coming up.
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Did you discuss finances with your fiance prior to getting engaged?
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Of course, got to.
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We've been together for seven going on eight years now.
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We started dating our high school homecoming together our senior year.
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So I think there was nothing that we didn't talk about before getting engaged, which I think every couple should do.
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Not being able to go and do all the lavish things.
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How has that affected your relationship?
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I don't think it's affected our relationship in a negative way.
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It's just a realization that, you know, once you graduate out of high school and college, you just can't have it all.
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It just kind of realigns your priorities and makes you kind of sit back and think about, like, what you truly want out of life,
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what's most important to you.
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How are you able to maintain grounded in a society of pressures?
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When you have the level of relationship, it kind of insulates you away from feelings of desires,
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I guess, because you have each other through thick and thin you see the parts that actually really matter.
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You got what you need and everything else that comes is just a privilege.
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Can I have your name and where you're from?
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Yes, my name is Derek and I'm from Harlem.

ื”ื•ืจื“ ืืคืœื™ืงืฆื™ื”

ื›ืœ ืžื” ืฉืืชื” ืฆืจื™ืš ื›ื“ื™ ืœื“ื‘ืจ ื‘ืฉื˜ืฃ

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This speaking lesson is built on the video โ€œFeeling insecure about money ๐Ÿ’”โ€. This video has 20 sentences and 244 words to shadow. The speech runs for 1:08. The speaker talks fast, about 216 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds. 87% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English, so the vocabulary is easy to follow. 5 of its 20 sentences are questions, so it is good practice for question intonation and short answers.

Key vocabulary in this video

13 words from the video worth learning, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
engage verb/ษชnหˆษกeษชdอกส’/To engross or hold the attention of; to keep busy or occupied.
thin adjective/หˆฮธษชn/Having little thickness or extent from one surface to its opposite.
thick adjective/ฮธษชk/Relatively great in extent from one surface to the opposite in its smallest solid dimension.
priority noun/pษนaษชหˆษ’ษนษชti/An item's relative importance.
expense noun/ษชkหˆspษ›ns/A spending or consuming, often a disbursement of funds.
privilege noun/หˆpษนษชv.(ษช.)lษชdอกส’/A particular benefit, advantage, or favor; a right or immunity enjoyed by some but not others; a prerogative, preferential treatment.
realization noun/หŒษนษชษ™.laษชหˆzeษช.สƒษ™n/An act of figuring out or becoming aware.
insecurity nounA lack of security; uncertainty.
homecoming noun/หˆhoสŠmหŒkสŒmษชล‹/The act or event of returning home.
fiancรฉ noun/fiหˆษ‘nseษช/A man who is engaged to be married; the man to whom one is engaged; an intended.
insulate verb/หˆษชnsสŠleษชt/To separate, detach, or isolate.
lavish adjective/หˆlรฆvษชสƒ/Expending or bestowing profusely; profuse; prodigal.
realign verb/หŒษนiหjษ™หˆlaษชn/To bring back into alignment.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

WordMeaning
come up verbTo emerge or become known, especially unexpectedly.
sit back verbTo recline while still in a seated position, with one's back on the frame of the seat.

Sentences worth repeating

Short, complete lines from the video that you can reuse in everyday conversation:

  • What is your biggest insecurity?
  • Did you discuss finances with your fiance prior to getting engaged?
  • How has that affected your relationship?
  • How are you able to maintain grounded in a society of pressures?
  • Can I have your name and where you're from?

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 6 contractions and reduced forms, such as can't, didn't, don't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The โ€œthโ€ sounds: thin /หˆฮธษชn/, thick /ฮธษชk/
  • The โ€œshโ€ and โ€œzhโ€ sounds: realization /หŒษนษชษ™.laษชหˆzeษช.สƒษ™n/, lavish /หˆlรฆvษชสƒ/
  • Long words โ€” get the stress right: priority /pษนaษชหˆษ’ษนษชti/, realization /หŒษนษชษ™.laษชหˆzeษช.สƒษ™n/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75ร— speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like engage, thin, thick.

ืžื”ื™ ื˜ื›ื ื™ืงืช ื”ืฉืื“ื•ืื™ื ื’?

ืฉืื“ื•ืื™ื ื’ ื”ื™ื ื˜ื›ื ื™ืงืช ืœืžื™ื“ืช ืฉืคื” ืžื‘ื•ืกืกืช ืžื“ืข ืฉืคื•ืชื—ื” ื‘ืžืงื•ืจ ืœื”ื›ืฉืจืช ืžืชื•ืจื’ืžื ื™ื ืžืงืฆื•ืขื™ื™ื ื•ืคื•ืคื•ืœืจื™ืช ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ ื”ืคื•ืœื™ื’ืœื•ื˜ ื“"ืจ ืืœื›ืกื ื“ืจ ืืจื’ื•ืืœืก. ื”ืฉื™ื˜ื” ืคืฉื•ื˜ื” ืืš ืขื•ืฆืžืชื™ืช: ืืชื” ืžืงืฉื™ื‘ ืœืื•ื“ื™ื• ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ื™ืœื™ื“ื™ืช ื•ื—ื•ื–ืจ ืขืœื™ื• ื‘ืงื•ืœ ืจื ืžื™ื“ โ€” ื›ืžื• ืฆืœ ื”ืขื•ืงื‘ ืื—ืจื™ ื”ื“ื•ื‘ืจ ืขื ืขื™ื›ื•ื‘ ืฉืœ 1โ€“2 ืฉื ื™ื•ืช ื‘ืœื‘ื“. ื‘ื ื™ื’ื•ื“ ืœื”ืื–ื ื” ืคืกื™ื‘ื™ืช ืื• ืชืจื’ื™ืœื™ ื“ืงื“ื•ืง, ืฉืื“ื•ืื™ื ื’ ืžื›ืจื™ื— ืืช ื”ืžื•ื— ื•ื”ืฉืจื™ืจื™ื ื‘ืคื” ืœืขื‘ื“ ื•ืœืฉื—ื–ืจ ื“ืคื•ืกื™ ื“ื™ื‘ื•ืจ ืืžื™ืชื™ื™ื ื‘ื• ื–ืžื ื™ืช. ืžื—ืงืจื™ื ืžืจืื™ื ืฉื–ื” ืžืฉืคืจ ืžืฉืžืขื•ืชื™ืช ืืช ื“ื™ื•ืง ื”ื”ื’ื™ื™ื”, ื”ืื™ื ื˜ื•ื ืฆื™ื”, ื”ืงืฆื‘, ื”ื“ื™ื‘ื•ืจ ื”ืžื—ื•ื‘ืจ, ื”ื‘ื ืช ื”ืฉืžื™ืขื” ื•ืฉื˜ืฃ ื”ื“ื™ื‘ื•ืจ โ€” ืžื” ืฉื”ื•ืคืš ืื•ืชื• ืœืื—ืช ื”ืฉื™ื˜ื•ืช ื”ื™ืขื™ืœื•ืช ื‘ื™ื•ืชืจ ืœื”ื›ื ื” ืœIELTS Speaking ื•ืœืชืงืฉื•ืจืช ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ื‘ืขื•ืœื ื”ืืžื™ืชื™.

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