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hello everyone thank you for opening this video my name is sevara

and thank you for again watching this video

and in this video i'm gonna talk about something that's been bothering me for a while

to give some context i'm from a very conservative religious family i grew up in uzbekistan

and i have very religious and traditional parents

so right now i am studying in united states this is my second year i'm studying neuroscience before

that i moved to hong kong to do my high school

and now i'm here in america so i've been outside of my home for a

while for more like than four years yeah

this is going to be my fourth year i'm going to my fifth year

and i left home when i was 17

so i've been living abroad since i'm i turned 17 right now i'm 20 like i left

when i was 16 so that that's not important

but what I'm saying is I kind of spend my teenage years like my growing up abroad

so I was exposed to so many cultures people and so many different ideologies

so for me I kind of lost the communication with my parents it became really hard to understand each other

and actually like understand each other's points understand where we're coming from i mean

i do understand their point i i know my culture i know traditions i know everything well

so it's not hard for me to understand them like i get their point

i truly like understand everything why they say those things why they make those comments why they're mad at me

and everything but i feel like they don't understand me um

because i've been exposed to such big culture and everything

and it's so hard for me to be the same to be

the same i used to be before i moved abroad and the main issue i'm facing right now is um

i'm losing connection i'm losing communication with my parents

because they don't want to talk to me unless i behave the way

they want me to behave they don't want to talk to me unless i

possess myself the way they want me to possess unless i dress the way

they want me to dress unless i speak the way

i talk to people the way like the people they want me to talk to

they're against my social media they against um all my goals and everything in my career

um they just want me to marry to us big guy

and just like have

that happy wife whatever life very traditional usbic family that's what they want for me

but i realize i don't want that kind of life

if i just imagine myself being a housewife

or just living in a very traditional usbic setting

that drains me a lot i don't want

that kind of life for myself i've seen

that kind of life in my family members uh my friends

and everyone and then i realized i don't want

that kind of life um that's not why i've been studying abroad

that's not why i've been getting those experiences like getting internship

and working hard um trying to work and study and do all

that visa stuff and everything i i haven't been doing all those things just to end up with

that uzbek man and sitting at home

and just you know like being no one in society not contributing to the community the way

i want to contribute

so that's the reason why i've been struggling to explain those things to my parents

and i just gave up

when i was in hong kong

i got full like scholarship whatever to study my housing my food everything tuition was covered i got a scholarship

and but still my parents would send me some pocket money right to some like expenses

and stuff so i'm super grateful for that um

and then they would always like let's say help me

if i need to do my visa fees and everything

so they kind of supported me a lot

and then once i came to united states

i started working from my first semester i was working at the call center i was doing my best

and this year i've been working as teacher assistant for lab

and everything so by

when i came to university

i told my parents thank you i don't want your money anymore

i'm just gonna um like earn myself i'll do my best

so it's not like hard for you guys

because i also have a sister she's going to university

so you better like help her because she needs money for tuition everything

so i kind of promised myself that i'm not gonna ask any money from them i'm gonna be financially independent everything

because i realized that in my culture money i don't know

if it's just my culture but i realized money comes with power

so if they're giving you money

that means you have to listen to what they're saying

if they're um funding you

that means you gotta do what they're telling you that's what i see as like money relationship in my country

and i realize it's really really toxic because if i have a kid

and then my kid let's say doesn't want to listen to me doesn't want to live the way

i want to live i don't know

if it's gonna be fair to just cut them off to just cut the money from them

or whatever and if i see them struggling

that doesn't mean i'm just gonna like let them struggle just

because they're not dressing the way i want to i want them to dress

or like they're not doing what I want them to do I just feel like as a parent

it's not fair for your kid to do that

and so what happened to me is I stopped getting money from them

and I just thought I want to work myself it was my choice whatever

and then once I started working once I started making money

and everything I realized I want to have social media

I used to have social media before I used to have instagram

and everything you can see my videos from the past

but then whenever i would post something whenever i just post the video

or like whatever like outfit anything i would get

so much like hate from my family from my relatives from my parents

they would just tell me delete this post you're wearing like this

that you're wearing too short too exposed whatever

but you can go to my instagram i don't think i dress

that exposed or whatever for like for like some standards

i think i dress pretty modestly i think i i dress the way i want to dress and

i respect my body i like my body

and i know my limits i know what i can't pose

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and what i can't post but i just felt like everything

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that i was posting was too much regulated everything

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that i was trying to share was going over some control

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and that made me so annoyed

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because whenever i want to i wanted to post something

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i wanted to share something i needed to think twice i needed to wait everything

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and think oh okay is my mom gonna like this post is my mom gonna be mad at me

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if i post in this outfit whatever and that just gave me

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so much stress and i remember once

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when i was in hong kong i was doing hiking

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so i was wearing like leggings right and then i posted picture from hiking

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and the week after i had my finals i was doing ib i had finals

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and while i was doing my finals my mom was calling me every day

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and yelling at me just

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because i posted picture in leggings hiking she was yelling at me

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she was like saying everything she can possibly negatively whatever um and

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that just made me realize she doesn't care about my mental whatever state

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she doesn't care about how i feel

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she doesn't feel about she doesn't care about how i want to express myself the only thing

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she cares is what other people think about me

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and the only thing she cares is her reputation um and

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that says a lot about a lot of people in my country a lot of parents in my country

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because they don't care about their kid they don't care

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they don't care about happiness of their kid the only thing they care is the reputation the other people's opinion

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and just that big like nice picture of themselves in the society

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after that i so then i went home whatever i came back to university now and

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i just always had the fear that

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if i am gonna live the way i want to live

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they just gonna stop talking to me they're just gonna cut me off whatever

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and then i realized so what so what if even even

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if that happens to me if i'm happy that's what matters

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so one thing i don't understand in my culture is why

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love like let's say love from your parents is equal to listening to them

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why helping your kid means they have to listen to you

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like what kind of conditional love is that what kind of care is that what kind of

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i don't know like love whatever it is when if your kid doesn't listen to you if they don't

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say the things they the way you want them to say they don't dress the way you want them to dress

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you just kind of cut them off just because you care about other people's opinion

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then is that even love does that mean you even like your kid does

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that mean you actually even care about your kid i don't think so i don't think you actually like your kid

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i i just don't get that mentality and then whenever let's say i'm struggling whatever

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let's say i want to ask my parents for help the first thing i hear is

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okay we're gonna help you but you gotta leave this way we're gonna help you

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but you're gonna

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and deliver your social media i don't get

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it what kind of conditions are these things i just don't get it

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but then i'm really grateful i'm really thankful for myself

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that i had the courage to stand up for myself i had the courage to continue

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and keep going even though it's hard um i'm just

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so grateful for myself even right now it's not easy it's so hard

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because i have to plan everything i have to try i have to travel myself i have to think about

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when am i gonna stay for breaks and everything but i realized

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when you trust yourself

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when you go the way you want to go god is gonna send

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you people they're gonna take care of you other than your family

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you're always gonna have people around

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you who are willing to help you who are willing to support

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you just don't be scared don't be scared to take

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that first step don't be scared to stand up for yourself to live the life you want to live

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because right now let's say you just listen to them you just do whatever they make you do whatever

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and then at the end you're unhappy let's say you're 50

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and you live such unhappy life and then you can't just go to your parents

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because they're gonna be dead like what are you gonna say you're gonna say oh i fucked up my life

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because of you no that's gonna be your responsibility you fucked up

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because you didn't trust in yourself you gave up you just like followed whatever they told you i understand

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that like you guys might be in different state than i am right now um i think the biggest thing

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that changed my life that gave me that freedom or

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they gave me the confidence to stand for myself uh was

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me moving abroad was me pursuing education abroad was me trying to build my life far away from my family

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because i always had that like feeling even when i was at home

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that i don't want to live this kind of life i was observing people i was observing my family relatives

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and i realized i don't want to live this kind of life

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this is not what i want for myself so from

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that part from

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that like time i was trying to look for opportunities i was trying to apply do it whatever

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and i did it i wouldn't say i fully did it i wouldn't say

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i'm like super rich whatever like successful i'm struggling but right now i feel

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freedom to do whatever i want to do i feel freedom to say no to say

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that um i'm not gonna live the way you want me to live

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and you can manipulate me you can control me okay

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you can cut the money off you can just not help me at all

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you can just not talk to me but i

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but i'm okay i'm gonna survive i can work i have people around me

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and if you abandon me i don't care even

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if you're my parent because you prioritizing other people's opinion other people's kind of like view of you

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about your kid's life about your kid's happiness about your kid's um well -being

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if you're doing that to me that means you don't like me that means your love is conditional

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because from their perspective it's me abandoning them uh for my life it's like me abandoning them

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because i want to live the life i'm in my way

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because i want to dress the way i want to dress

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because i want to date whoever i want to date

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so that's for them is me abandoning them no my love

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my love is not equal to listening to you um my

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love is not equal to making my choices my decisions based

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on your uh view of world right like i still love my parents i actually i'm

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so grateful for them i i want to contribute to them

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i want to like do everything they want like in their lives right

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i just want to help them i want to give back

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but they don't want

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it for them me giving them back is not something financial like love whatever attention

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it's me listening to them is giving back to them you know what i'm saying

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so for them they're gonna be happiest they're be whatever like calm

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if i contribute to them by living my life the way they want me to live

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That's like happiness for them.

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Even though I don't do anything for them.

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Even though if I don't take care of them financially.

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Whatever, they don't care. That means they...

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Does that mean that they just wanted like copy of them?

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They just wanted someone who's gonna just listen to them.

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Do whatever they tell.

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Whatever. And then...

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I don't know.

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It's just so confusing to me.

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But for now, I'm just sharing my journey.

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Whatever.

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I'm just so happy that...

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i realized

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that i don't have to i don't know keep fighting

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i don't i'm not even fighting right now i'm just like i'm doing whatever

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i want to do i'm living the life my life the way i want to live

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and if they don't accept it i don't care because

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when i'm 50 when i'm 40 i don't want to sit

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and cry and regret that

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when i was 20 i listened to my parents

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i did my made my decisions based what they wanted me to do yeah

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i hope you guys like this video sorry

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if i made mistakes whatever i just wanted to share my journey um yeah

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and i'm gonna go and have lunch with my friends bye

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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה

שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “How I changed after moving abroad at a young age?”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: whatever, parent, dress. בסרטון הזה יש 227 משפטים ו-2706 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 16:08. הדובר מדבר בקצב טבעי של כ-168 מילים בדקה, קרוב לשיחה יומיומית. 85% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.

אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה

12 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:

מילה	הגייה	משמעות
abandon פועל	/əˈbæn.dən/	נטש, זנח
yell פועל	/jɛl/	צָרַח
behave פועל	/bɪˈheɪv/	הִתְנַהֵג
visa שם עצם	/ˈviːzə/	וִיזָה, אֲשֵׁרָה
scholarship שם עצם	/ˈskɑːləɹʃɪp/	מִלְגָּה
housewife שם עצם	/ˈhaʊs.waɪf/	עֲקֶרֶת בַּיִת
internship שם עצם	/ˈɪntɜːnʃɪp/	התמחות
confuse פועל	/kənˈfjuːz/	בלבל
thankful שם תואר	/ˈθæŋkfəl/	אסיר תודה
distress שם עצם	/dɪˈstɹɛs/	מוּעָקָה
ideology שם עצם	/aɪ.diˈɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/	אִידֵאוֹלוֹגִיָה
drain שם עצם	/dɹiːn/	נִקּוּז, אגן נקוז

Phrasal verbs שתשמעו

מילה	משמעות
give up פועל	וִתֵּר
grow up פועל	גָּדַל

משפטים שכדאי לחזור עליהם

משפטים קצרים ושלמים מהסרטון שאפשר להשתמש בהם בשיחה יומיומית:

Even though I don't do anything for them.
It's just so confusing to me.
I'm just so happy that...

דקדוק בסרטון הזה

המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:

מבנה	בסרטון
הווה מושלם ממושך (Present perfect continuous) have/has been + -ing — פעולה שהתחילה בעבר ועדיין נמשכת עכשיו	that's been bothering · i've been living · i've been studying
“Used to” used to + verb — הרגל או מצב שהיה נכון בעבר וכבר לא קיים	used to be · used to have
הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו	i've been · i've been exposed · i've seen
סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה	was exposed · i've been exposed · was covered

הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה

הדובר משתמש ב-156 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו don't, I'm, gonna. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.

הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: conditional /kənˈdɪʃ.ə.nəl/, tuition /tjuːˈɪʃən/, scholarship /ˈskɑːləɹʃɪp/, internship /ˈɪntɜːnʃɪp/
מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: conditional /kənˈdɪʃ.ə.nəl/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/, mentality /mɛnˈtæləti/, ideology /aɪ.diˈɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/

צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:

/æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: abandon /əˈbæn.dən/, unhappy /ʌnˈhæpi/, mentality /mɛnˈtæləti/, thankful /ˈθæŋkfəl/
/r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: scholarship /ˈskɑːləɹʃɪp/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, regulate /ˈɹɛɡ.jə.leɪt/, distress /dɪˈstɹɛs/, drain /dɹiːn/
עיצור קולי בסוף מילה — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ בלי להפוך אותם לאטומים: expose /ɪkˈspoʊz/, behave /bɪˈheɪv/, observe /əbˈzɜːv/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, confuse /kənˈfjuːz/

איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה

הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו abandon, yell, behave.

מהי טכניקת השאדואינג?

שאדואינג היא טכניקת למידת שפה מבוססת מדע שפותחה במקור להכשרת מתורגמנים מקצועיים ופופולרית על ידי הפוליגלוט ד"ר אלכסנדר ארגואלס. השיטה פשוטה אך עוצמתית: אתה מקשיב לאודיו באנגלית ילידית וחוזר עליו בקול רם מיד — כמו צל העוקב אחרי הדובר עם עיכוב של 1–2 שניות בלבד. בניגוד להאזנה פסיבית או תרגילי דקדוק, שאדואינג מכריח את המוח והשרירים בפה לעבד ולשחזר דפוסי דיבור אמיתיים בו זמנית. מחקרים מראים שזה משפר משמעותית את דיוק ההגייה, האינטונציה, הקצב, הדיבור המחובר, הבנת השמיעה ושטף הדיבור — מה שהופך אותו לאחת השיטות היעילות ביותר להכנה לIELTS Speaking ולתקשורת באנגלית בעולם האמיתי.

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